Falling in love is like standing on the edge of a cliff. You don't exactly know just how far you're going to fall unless you jump. It's because of this uncertainty that you tend to second-guess yourself. But what if someone has already told you just how high the cliff is? Would you still jump?

GIRLTalker mimiku found herself in the exact same cliff. After years of not finding love, she finally met someone who was recently single, but perhaps a little too ready to mingle. Friends warned her that this guy was a player. What's a girl to do?

Read more about her love problem and some of our GIRLTalkers' own responses in our newest weekly feature. If you have your own advice to give or experience to share, don't hesitate to leave a comment as well!