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barbramae

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Re: to all civil married, may plan pa rin ba kayo ni hubby magpakasal sa church?
« Reply #240 on: December 20, 2019, 01:18:56 pm »
Buhayin ko lang ang thread na ito. Share ko lang. Hehe. :)

My bf and I are planning to have our civil wedding on February 2020. Mejo minadali kasi I'm already pregnant pero we are discussing to have our church wedding on 2021 after ma-expire contract niya abroad. I am actually feeling quite worried kasi feeling ko, may chances na hindi matuloy yung 2021 church wedding plan namin kasi we are also planning to have our own house and siyempre education ni baby. I am still positive ng konti na sana matuloy, kasi I also want to have a church blessing sa wedding ko. Feeling ko kasi iba yung feeling if you're married sa church. Iniisip ko na nga kung makalimutan niya, pwede ko kaya i-follow up? haha.. Or baka naman I'm too demanding. Or pwede rin na hindi ko pa masyado naffeel yung talagang priority ko kasi wala pa si baby. Baka paglumabas na si baby, hindi ko na rin maisip. I am just hoping for the best and to everyone here na gusto rin magka-Church wedding in the future. :-*

Hello sis. Share ko lang sayo [textspeak!] samen hehe
Me and my ex-bf (hubby na kasi haha) got married July 27, 2017. 3 months pregnant na ako dun. pero prior to that nung naging kami, usapang kasal na agad. I'm 7 years older than him kasi and I said na pagmag-bf ako, un na ang aasawahin ko. Naging kami Jan 2017, he officially proposed Mar 2017, namanhikan ng April 2017, nalaman buntis na ako ng July 2017 (planned din nito kasi I have PCOS so we wanted to try as early as possible, jusko magtrenta na ako noh). We decided to get married civilly due to ff reasons:
1. mabilisan -- driver ng mayor nila ang father nia = connections sa munisipyo
2. he's below 25years old so need magsign ng parents nia sa marriage license
3. budget - he's family is not well off so kami gagastos, sila magaasikaso ng reception sakanila. yun ang participation ng family nia.
4. we promised my parents we'll get married sa church right after ko manganak

and sooooo feb 2018 nanganak ako. come July 27, 2019 on our 2nd year anniversary, we got married sa church :)

super simple wedding. nasa 80k lang gastos. nagshare pa dun ang father ko. we wanted wedding rites lang sana pero my father requested for a complete wedding mass, with church flowers and entourage kasi unica hija ako. once lang daw nia ako mahahatid sa altar.

ang sa akin lang sis, I really wanted the church blessing. iba pa din kasi pag may blessing ng church di ba. plus you can have church wedding na 50k budget lang. just really have to plan kung ano ang needs at wants lang.


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Re: to all civil married, may plan pa rin ba kayo ni hubby magpakasal sa church?
« Reply #241 on: December 20, 2019, 01:39:26 pm »
Sis 50k na church weeding? As in may entourage and all na yon? Pinag iisipan rin namin ito.

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Sis 50k na church weeding? As in may entourage and all na yon? Pinag iisipan rin namin ito.

yes, kaya yun sis. you just need to choose kung ano ang wants and needs, kung ano ang importante na meron at [textspeak!] pwedeng wala na.

key is sa bisita talaga since reception ang pinakamagastos dahil per head ang bayad.

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Iniisip ko din ito pangarap ko beach wedding tipo less than 100 guest lang.. yun lang di ito priority namin.

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Kami ni husbandry kinasal sa civil noong umaga tapos noong hapon sa church naman.... galing no?  hehe

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We got married civilly and via church ceremony within the same year. We celebrate 2 anniversaries. Haha. Kailangan kasi namin makasal agad (not preggy that time btw but we wanted to get married ASAP) kaya nag civil kami, then nung okay na lahat ng planning nag church naman kami.

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Hello sis. Share ko lang sayo [textspeak!] samen hehe
Me and my ex-bf (hubby na kasi haha) got married July 27, 2017. 3 months pregnant na ako dun. pero prior to that nung naging kami, usapang kasal na agad. I'm 7 years older than him kasi and I said na pagmag-bf ako, un na ang aasawahin ko. Naging kami Jan 2017, he officially proposed Mar 2017, namanhikan ng April 2017, nalaman buntis na ako ng July 2017 (planned din nito kasi I have PCOS so we wanted to try as early as possible, jusko magtrenta na ako noh). We decided to get married civilly due to ff reasons:
1. mabilisan -- driver ng mayor nila ang father nia = connections sa munisipyo
2. he's below 25years old so need magsign ng parents nia sa marriage license
3. budget - he's family is not well off so kami gagastos, sila magaasikaso ng reception sakanila. yun ang participation ng family nia.
4. we promised my parents we'll get married sa church right after ko manganak

and sooooo feb 2018 nanganak ako. come July 27, 2019 on our 2nd year anniversary, we got married sa church :)

super simple wedding. nasa 80k lang gastos. nagshare pa dun ang father ko. we wanted wedding rites lang sana pero my father requested for a complete wedding mass, with church flowers and entourage kasi unica hija ako. once lang daw nia ako mahahatid sa altar.

ang sa akin lang sis, I really wanted the church blessing. iba pa din kasi pag may blessing ng church di ba. plus you can have church wedding na 50k budget lang. just really have to plan kung ano ang needs at wants lang.

yay! So happy for you sis! Napag-usapan naman namin na talagang magChurch wedding din. And siya naman nagbring-up ng topic. Haha! Kame rin plan namin na simple lang, as long as we feel happy naman sa wedding no need na bongga.

 


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