I know of this case kakaiba Yung story - 10yo boy learned na May kapatid sya sa labas. When his mom passed away, his dad brought him to live with him, Younger step brother and the ?kalaguyo? (mom ng half bro nya). He made life difficult for them kasi galit sya at May kabit dad nya.
Years passed, Tsaka nya nalaman na Mom pala nya yung kabit. It just so happened that nauna nabuntis Mom nya while kasal na dad nya without kids yet.
Sometimes dahil sinungaling na Kasi talaga yung cheater to begin with, they can twist the story making the kids think may kapatid sila sa labas Pero in reality, baka possible din na Yung mga anak na sinabihan ang anak sa labas.
Should the husband tell his wife and children (who are already working) that he has a child from another woman?
Bakit hindi?
Kahit nangyari pa yun before marriage, he owes his family the truth.
I would like to know the opinions of wives who were at the receiving end of this news. How did it turn out? Are you still together? Is your relationship stronger now? Or are you separated?
I must say I tried to make the marriage work. Pero not enough effort on his part. So for my sake and my kids, ako na umalis. And it?s the best decision I made. Talagang di kaya bilhin ng pera ang peace of mind and happiness. Mas tahimik at masaya kami without my ex.
Additional question: If you were the close friend of the husband who had an affair and the husband requested you not to tell his family about the affair (and the child) because it would destroy his family, what would you do? Assume that you interact with the husband's family once in a blue moon.
As the close friend, I will tell the Husband to be man enough to admit his mistakes and be honest to his family. Even if it means the destruction of his family. And if willing naman sya ituwid ang tama, then prove that to his family.
Tsaka I won?t associate myself na to him, bale maging ex-close friend nako. Ang Hirap kaya humarap sa original family if you know may kabit or anak sa labas na di alam ng original family. Walang Hya din kasi Yung Husband, if he is a real friend, he won?t subject his close friend in a very awkward position.
Siguro ngayong single pa kasi ako, my mindset was why would I settle for less with someone na may sabit right?
That?s good. But it doesn?t mean walang sabit before marriage eh Di magkakasabit during marriage. So choose wisely yes. But there are still some men na Puedeng May anak na before getting married, but honest and responsible enough to man up his past mistake.
But, if we were married and nun ko lang nalaman, then I've got no choice but acceptance right.
Depends, nalaman mo na May anak sya sa pagkabinata, nung kasal na kayo?
Or may naanakan sya while you?re married na?
Both instances are totally wrong and as women, I believe we always have choices. We don?t just accept crap from cheaters and liars. We need to respect ourselves for others to respect us. If tatanggap lang tayo ng ganyan situation, Sino nalang magtanggol satin, lalo pa sa mga anak natin?
Same with the relationship between my parents (both senior citizens) Kung kelan tumanda saka pa andami nilang teledrama 
Case ng friend ko, her parents are in their 70s na. She discovered only this year that her dad has a second family. and masaklap her dad has 3 kids with the second family, and the eldest is ka age lang ng eldest nya!! That means, his dad was in his 60s when the affair started. Her mom was mad, Everyday complaining daw. Pero since May edad na, di nya mahiwalayan - ito yung Di ko ma-gets. Worse, her dad is already retired but seems she needs to help her half siblings.... ?!?!!!