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Isusumbong mo ba?
« on: June 26, 2018, 09:29:30 pm »
girls...what if someone used your name aka falsification of document, isusumbong mo ba?

my mother's name was used by her sister without consent when she worked abroad. later niya na lang nalaman when someone na pinagkautangan ng sister niya e pinuntahan siya sa work. the man was an influential man,  he has the power to get rid of anyone who comes out of his way.  buti na lang my mom was able to prove na she never worked abroad because all these times she worked for the government. and the judge na naaassign sa kaso even proved na one time, my mom visited him because my mom was inspecting one of his businesses.  she has saved her sister's life sa pangyayaring but heck, we never get any "thank you".

in fact, the sister would accuse my mom na kinuha daw pera niya para ipagpatayo ng bahay namin. noong time kasi na yun, nasa samin yung anak ng sister nya. kami nagalaga. yes, the sis would give money every month pero heller, 2 years lang kaya yun and what do you expect from a DH? modesty aside, we live in a good subd. our house is quite big and we have been raised with both our wants and needs being provided. the sister would accuse na it's because of her money kaya maganda buhay namin.

weird. kahit siguro yung lupa ng subdivision is not enough sa sweldo niya for 2 years. my mother has a stable work sa government and my father came from a good family. he was helping sa rice field ng family nila. naawa nga ako kay papa since the sister would say na palamunin siya when in fact, all these years, i am provided well by my father's side. the luho that we have all came from my father's side, specially from my lola.

all these years, my mother instructed me to keep quiet and respect the sister pa din. i did. my mother even provided tuition for her sister's son. dont get me wrong, we love her son as our own brother. kaso napaka inggrata lang ang dating. my mom would say na away nila yun so huwag ako makikiaalam and she would say the humble is always rewarded. true enough, i was able to provide a good life for my family din. i was able to acquire my own car and house at a young age.so what we have was never because of the sister's salary as a domestic helper. 

now, the sister is now trying to accuse my mother again of something na hindi naman totoo. and I could no longer take it. gusto ko isumbong siya sa DFA kasi sobra na. hindi ko na kaya. i was never the one who could watch an injury and just let it slip.

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Re: Isusumbong mo ba?
« Reply #1 on: June 26, 2018, 10:50:28 pm »
Unfortunately, kung ang mom mo mismo ang nagsabi na wag ka makialam then your hands are tied. Unless her life will be in danger, miron ka lang for now. Ang hirap sa pakiramdam talaga ng ganyan but your mom has to deal with the problem herself.
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Re: Isusumbong mo ba?
« Reply #2 on: June 27, 2018, 01:29:41 am »
Siguro sis kung puro salita lang dedmahin mo na lang muna, hayaan mo muna sila. Kasi mas gumugulo kapag may nakikisali sa gusot. Check mo nalang mom mo from time to time to make sure lang na di siya naaapektuhan sa accusations ng aunt mo.

Pero yung paggamit sa name ng mom mo medyo grave yun ah. I am hoping na hindi sa passport ng aunt mo ginamit ang name ng mom mo.
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Re: Isusumbong mo ba?
« Reply #3 on: June 28, 2018, 03:18:29 pm »
yes sa passport, which is why hindi siya makalabas labas ng bansa for fear na baka kung ano pa ginagawa ng tita ko dun,  at siya yung magbayad.

nagusap kami yesterday ng mom ko and decided that we will take this as the last straw. kapag may ginawa pa next time, diretso na kami sa DFA.

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Re: Isusumbong mo ba?
« Reply #4 on: June 28, 2018, 04:50:03 pm »
^Wala bang plan to go out of the country ang mom mo let?s say magbakasyon? Di kaya siya magkaproblema sa pagkuha ng passport? Kasi most likely birth certificate ng mom mo ang gamit ng Aunt mo. Di ako nanunulsol ah pero sa akin ibang usapan yung name ko na ang gamitin.

May naalala ako, napanood ko ito sa tv a long long time ago. Lumapit siya sa isang tv program (di ko matandaan title). Kwento niya nakikitira daw siya sa bahay ng kuya at hipag niya. Ang hipag niya nagJa-Japan daw. Tapos umuwi daw hipag niya from Japan may kasamang Hapon at hindi dun sa bahay nila natutulog kundi sa hotel daw. Ang pakilala sa kanila sa Hapon mga kamag-anak. Nung minsan daw naglilinis siya ng bahay may nakita siyang brown envelope at binuksan niya. Una niya nakita birth certificate niya sumunod na papel marriage contract niya at ng Hapon. So wala siyang kaalam-alam na ikinasal na pala siya sa Hapon. Bale ang hipag niya pala ginamit ang name niya para makasal sa Hapon. Kaya nagrereklamo siya.
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Re: Isusumbong mo ba?
« Reply #5 on: June 28, 2018, 08:53:23 pm »
Agree ako TS. Hindi puede name ng mom mo magamit for legal docs. Ibang implication kasi nyan is puede nya Ma Access din bank accounts, SSS ng mom mo and other important matters kasi Pag pakita lang nya passport nya, yun na proof w ID na sya iyon.

I think need nyo ng proof na ginawa nya iyan and file a complaint. Para naka file. Otherwise later Mas mahirap mag complain or Baka mahirapan kayo if she claims any assets under your mom?s name.

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Re: Isusumbong mo ba?
« Reply #6 on: June 28, 2018, 09:03:42 pm »
^Agree. Ako pagnawalan ng id nagpapa-blotter pa ako sa barangay na nawala ang id ko. Baka kasi magamit sa hindi magandang gawain atleast may record na pwedeng balikan na nawala id ko.
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Re: Isusumbong mo ba?
« Reply #7 on: July 01, 2018, 09:52:46 am »
If i were your mom, i will not tolerate it. Aware ang mom mo that your sister used your mom's name. parang Ito ba yung tinatawag sa batas na negligence or bad faith kasi my knowledge yung mom mo so if ever may mangyari your mom might be held liable also?

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Re: Isusumbong mo ba?
« Reply #8 on: July 01, 2018, 11:01:53 am »
The fact na matagal ng alam ng mother mo ang ginawa ng tita mo and she didn't take any actions baka mahirapan sya i-defend ang sarili nya should she decide to make sumbong.
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Re: Isusumbong mo ba?
« Reply #9 on: July 25, 2018, 03:41:51 pm »
hello mga sis..okay na.

we went to the authority na. :)

 


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