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Officemates/bffs sa office na nanghihimasok sa relationship mo
« on: February 18, 2019, 03:15:39 pm »
Hi, GTs!

My closest friends sa office ay lola/tita levels na. as in 40/50/60. They care for me na para bang bunso akong anak to the point na parang nanghihimasok na sila sa buhay ko, telling me who to add, talk to, gustuhin, sino ang hindi gustuhin. Nung 14, this guy I am talking to, well exclusively dating kami (na hindi nila alam pero alam sa bahay namin), sent me flowers and cake. And BOOM! biglang hindi ako kinausap over that coz the guy is not the guy they want for me. Na hindi sya yung "qualified" o pasok sa standards nila.

I understand na they only want what's best for me. Pero how do you deal with that kind of friends? May naka-experience na ba nito? Na para bang mortal na kasalanan ata ang nagawa ko.

Thanks mga ka-GT!

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Re: Officemates/bffs sa office na nanghihimasok sa relationship mo
« Reply #1 on: February 18, 2019, 03:33:26 pm »
it's your life, you decide kung sino ang may bearing sa buhay mo at wala. ok lang makakuha ng advice from them or treat them as family pero pag nanghihimasok na sa buhay mo, pati sa decisions mo sa buhay, iba na. sakin kasi i do take their advices. nung mga tao na may pakielam sakin pero hindi kasi nila ako pinapakielaman kung ano gagawin ko and hindi rin naman ako nagpapa'pakielam'. i do what i want to do. and if they care enough for you, maski magkamali ka, andyan parin sila for you.


i learned how to spot those who genuinely cares for me and yung mga nandyan lang for chismis o nakikisakay lang. then again, always remember na only those people who has "bearing" in your life matters.


sabi nga sa quote, "Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind" and based from experience, totoo talaga yan.  :)
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Re: Officemates/bffs sa office na nanghihimasok sa relationship mo
« Reply #2 on: February 18, 2019, 03:57:43 pm »
They are just your coworkers kebs na sa kanila. I?m sure you have a life and friends outside work kaya di mo need magpa stress sa mga ganyang tao. Kung ayaw nila di wag hehe

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Re: Officemates/bffs sa office na nanghihimasok sa relationship mo
« Reply #3 on: February 18, 2019, 05:54:24 pm »
Hi sis! Same tayo, may two officemates ako na parang mga nanay ko na pero di sila gaya ng mga officemates mo hehe. Naaalala ko nga nung broken hearted ako, anjan sila nagbibigay ng payo and they always do things na makakapagpasaya sakin habang broken ako :)
Para naman sayo, ignore mo nalang. It?s your life, choice and decision. At the end of the day, ikaw ang makikisama sa taong mapipili mo, hindi sila. Siguro talk to them nalang in a nice way na hindi ka comfortable na dinidiktahan ka nila. Kung magalit sila, just be it. Hindi tunay na kaibigan ang mga taong hindi masaya kung san ka masaya. Goodluck TS :)
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Re: Officemates/bffs sa office na nanghihimasok sa relationship mo
« Reply #4 on: February 19, 2019, 02:35:14 am »
Yung saken naman dati, may nirereto pa nga na kaofficemate namin na may crush sa akin na cute din naman.
Kahit alam nila na may bf na ako at kilala pa nila ha. Lol. Nakiki-ride on lang ako pero siempre i didnt take it seriously.

Ikaw din, hayaan mo sila. Buhay mo yan, you can continue to talk to them pa rin naman about other things.
And are you sure its really because of that? Baka naman may mga kanya kanya din silang ibang problema at iniisip kaya hindi ka kinakausap.

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Re: Officemates/bffs sa office na nanghihimasok sa relationship mo
« Reply #5 on: February 19, 2019, 05:01:00 am »
Kung di ka na pinapansin wag mo na din pansinin. Sa usapang puso pwede lang sila magpayo pero di sila pwede manghimasok.
If a girl understands your b******t, stick through your mistakes, smiles even when you've done nothing for her , it's obvious she's a keeper. But it's also obVious that you don't deserve her...

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Re: Officemates/bffs sa office na nanghihimasok sa relationship mo
« Reply #6 on: February 19, 2019, 09:12:46 am »
^ mga sis, thank you sa inyo. I opened up to one of them, and this Tita totally understands me. Na wag ko daw pakinggan yung tatlo kasi hindi daw ako sasaya kung makikinig ako sa dikta at sinasabi nila. tatanda daw akong dalaga kung hindi ko susundin ang puso ko. hehe. Pareho kayo ng mga payo.

Tapos yung isa, nagmessage sa akin kagabi. Bale yung parang last message nya sa akin is like, huwag na daw namin pag-usapan yung tungkol doon at para bang ang intindi ko e wag na ako magopen up sa kanya ng about sa lovelife. Kung saan daw ako masaya, gorabels daw. lol

Sa panahon ngayon, hindi ka talaga ina-allow maging masaya ng society e.

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Re: Officemates/bffs sa office na nanghihimasok sa relationship mo
« Reply #7 on: February 19, 2019, 09:31:58 am »

Sa panahon ngayon, hindi ka talaga ina-allow maging masaya ng society e.

Sis, kung magpapadikta ka sa sinasabi ng society, hindi ka talaga magiging masaya kasi hindi rin nakukuntento ang societal norm... Just do you. All the best! :)
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Re: Officemates/bffs sa office na nanghihimasok sa relationship mo
« Reply #8 on: February 19, 2019, 10:19:21 am »
^yes sis. Thank you.  :) Fighting! :D

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Re: Officemates/bffs sa office na nanghihimasok sa relationship mo
« Reply #9 on: February 19, 2019, 11:07:47 am »
dont live your life pleasing other people. do what pleases you and what makes you happy. ganyan ako last year. lagi ko tine-take yung mga advices, in the end ako lang naman yung malungkot, sila, may sarili silang buhay so kung ano man sabihin nila sakin, walang impact sa buhay nila. always live your life for yourself. you know yourself better than anybody else and the only one who will be there for you till the very end is yourself. always follow your heart ♥
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Re: Officemates/bffs sa office na nanghihimasok sa relationship mo
« Reply #10 on: February 19, 2019, 11:15:29 am »
^thank you sis ♥ sabi ko nga, sa tagal din namang hindi ako masaya, baka pwedeng maging masaya naman ako ngayon. na-miss ko kaya maging masaya, well in terms of romantic relationship. hehe

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Re: Officemates/bffs sa office na nanghihimasok sa relationship mo
« Reply #11 on: February 19, 2019, 11:58:02 am »
^hugs sis! wag mo masyado isipin ang romantic relationship. you have to be happy with yourself first then bonus na lang ang partner. and dont overshare kasi nakakasira din sila minsan ng mood, basta you're happy and ang pain naman part ng life kasi dun ka matututo.  :)  ako kasi i believe love will come when you least expect it talaga and alam mong galing kay God kasi everything will come smoothly.


pero try mo din na wag mag-overshare sa mga officemates mo. ganyang-ganyan talaga kasi ako last year e. pero this year i tried keeping all things to myself, pag may prob, kay god ko na lang sinasabi and i always leave it to him. mas masaya ang buhay ko kasi walang may 'kuda' and 'hanash' sa life ko. oo minsan masarap talaga na may makwentuhan pero if ganon lang naman ang reaction nila na imbis ma-lift yung spirit mo, mas nad-down ka, then best talaga na sayo na lang or sa family mo na lang and kay God.  ;)
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Re: Officemates/bffs sa office na nanghihimasok sa relationship mo
« Reply #12 on: February 19, 2019, 01:28:37 pm »
^tama ka dyan sis. Di'ba nga sabi, some people tend to ruin beautiful things. hehe. Hindi ko din nga maintindihan ang iba, masyadong fixated sa buhay ng iba. hehe. at naniniwala din nga ako na love comes when you least expect it. ♥

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Re: Officemates/bffs sa office na nanghihimasok sa relationship mo
« Reply #13 on: July 15, 2019, 04:22:00 pm »
Thanks for asking this I was also looking for the same. Keep posting and help people like me.
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