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Ms. Undecided

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Does anyone experience this?
« on: August 17, 2017, 09:46:15 am »
Hi mga sis.
Alam ko marami na nakaranas nito sa inyo, yung meron kayong long time relationship (MAy iba po nga 10 years) tapos naghiwalay tapos nakahanap ng bago then ilang months palang yung bago nila yun na yung napangasawa nila. hehe. Are you getting my point? hehe.

May kakilala kasi akong ganun, 5 years sila ng bf niya tas naghiwalay sila kasi nagloko si guy, as in kahit sobrang mahal ni girl si guy, hindi na niya binalikan kahit na parang naging stalker na si guy sa kanya. For her daw kasi, one is enough. Umiyak nga siya nun samin, nagwawala pa siya sa bahay ng friend namin. Tapos after 3 months ata yun nagkaroon siya ng bagong bf then after another 5 months, na-preggy siya then after a year kinasal na sila at happy family na sila :)

Minsan nga naiisip ko, ako din kaya maging ganun? May bf ako for almost 4 years, mahal ko super but I don't see myself na magkakatuluyan kami in the future. Ewan ko kung bakit. Siguro dati oo, pero ngayon parang hindi na. ugh well, lumayo na sa topic hehe.

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Re: Does anyone experience this?
« Reply #1 on: August 17, 2017, 10:43:25 am »
Personally wala akong kilala, pero diba si Jolina Magdangal 10 years sila ng ex nya? Then hindi nya din yun nakatuluyan. After that nagkabf sya tapos yun na pinakasalan nya.

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« Reply #2 on: August 17, 2017, 01:53:58 pm »
Ako 7yrs kami ng first bf ko then naghiwalay kami. I got pregnant dun sa sumunod ko na bf but nagseparate ways while planning the wedding. Then si first bf got married din agad after namin maghiwalay pero nagkahiwalay din sila ng wife niya.

Another friend din  matagal sila ng bf niya, 5yrs sila nung maghiwalay pero ngayon si girl ikakasal na dun sa new bf niya ng ilang months pa lang. Well ganun ata talaga. Si Vic and Pia G parang ganun din di ba? Ang tagal nila pero parang after a few months si Pia biglang ikinasal na.
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Re: Does anyone experience this?
« Reply #3 on: August 17, 2017, 01:59:25 pm »
yung ex ko mahigit 10 years kami pero nauwi din sa wala kasi nasilaw sa pera  ;D

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Re: Does anyone experience this?
« Reply #4 on: August 17, 2017, 02:15:15 pm »
Ako 7yrs kami ng first bf ko then naghiwalay kami. I got pregnant dun sa sumunod ko na bf but nagseparate ways while planning the wedding. Then si first bf got married din agad after namin maghiwalay pero nagkahiwalay din sila ng wife niya.

Another friend din  matagal sila ng bf niya, 5yrs sila nung maghiwalay pero ngayon si girl ikakasal na dun sa new bf niya ng ilang months pa lang. Well ganun ata talaga. Si Vic and Pia G parang ganun din di ba? Ang tagal nila pero parang after a few months si Pia biglang ikinasal na.


True sis, sabi nga nila, wala sa tagal yan, nasa pinagsamahan. hehe
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Re: Does anyone experience this?
« Reply #5 on: August 17, 2017, 02:21:54 pm »
Hindi ako pero may mga kilala akong ganyan kaya para sa akin eh normal lang yung ganun hehe. Yung pagpapakasal kasi, hindi yan sa gaano katagal magkasama at nasa maturity at readiness nung babae at lalaki na maging mag-asawa sila.

I don't see myself na magkakatuluyan kami in the future. Ewan ko kung bakit. Siguro dati oo, pero ngayon parang hindi na.

Bakit di mo pa hiwalayan sis kung di mo naman nakikita future sa kanya? Sayang yung oras na sana nakahanap kayo pareho ng para sa inyo.

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« Reply #6 on: August 17, 2017, 02:56:06 pm »
^ Di ko alam sis. Para kasing di ko kaya eh. Saka sa ngayon di pa siya ideal man for marriage (Well. Masyado pa maaga for this) Sobrang maluho siya. Kaya naman niya na I guess kahit papano eh support yung sarili niya. Napagtapos niya kapatid niya (Tulong sila ng mama niya) Pero kasi kahit may pera pa siya, sige yung luho niya sa mama niya, hingi dito, hingi dun. Saka super salungat talaga kami sa mga bagay-bagay. Ma-authority din siya, panganay kasi. Kaya madalas kami magtalo kasi ma-authority din ako. Hindi ko alam talaga. Naguguluhan din ako.
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Re: Does anyone experience this?
« Reply #7 on: August 17, 2017, 03:36:02 pm »
I read somewhere that you can have the longest relationship with a guy but if he doesn't feel ready to settle with you, he will not settle with you. In most cases its true..

I had a 5 year live-in relationship then we broke up over petty stuff. Last I heard about him was he had a baby dun sa GF na sumunod sakin. di pa daw sila married but the points is he "settled" down with the new one. He is 35 after all..

No hard feelings, it happens. We will all find someone who is ready to settle with us in God's timing :)
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« Reply #8 on: August 17, 2017, 09:29:09 pm »
Hello Sisses! :)
Last time lang e naisip ko tong topic na to :D Sounds familiar yung situation. Sobrang common kasi para sakin.

Personal experience ko, I had a 5-year relationship with a guy, nag-do-do pa kami nun and hindi talaga protected, and never akong nabuntis! Then, we broke up (cause I felt na wala akong future sa kanya, totoo pala yung gigising ka na lang isang araw, ayaw mo na, pero maybe unti unti lang din nawala yung feelings ko)
And then, after him, nagkaron ako ng new bf, after a year and a half of the relationship, napreggy ako! :D
Minsan tuloy naiisip ko, parang talagang hindi siguro kami meant ni ex, hehe

I know naman two couples na same situation nung akin, 10 yrs naman sila both with their ex, pero di din nagkatuluyan, then got married as in after a year lang ng relationship with the new partner! grabe di ba?

sabi nga, wala naman sa tagal yan  ;)

pero minsan mapapaisip ka na lang din, kasi di ba sobrang important yung good foundation for a long-lasting relationship??? ???

ay naku, basta about love nagiging complicated ang lahat  ;D
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Re: Does anyone experience this?
« Reply #9 on: August 17, 2017, 11:01:32 pm »
sabi nga, wala naman sa tagal yan  ;)

pero minsan mapapaisip ka na lang din, kasi di ba sobrang important yung good foundation for a long-lasting relationship??? ???
wala talaga sa tagal yan. Bakit ko ba nakalimutan, yung sister ko na-meet niya sa blind date hubby niya. After almost 2 weeks bigla na lang nagsabi na pakakasal na sila kasi paalis na si guy since tapos na bakasyon dito. Ayaw pumayag ng parents ko kaya sabi niya pag di siya pinayagan tatakas siya. So yun natuloy ang kasal maski madalian prep lang. Sa ngayon 7yrs na silang happily married and base sila abroad. May 2 kids na din sila and nakapagbakasyon na din sa Pinas. Bago nagpakasal sis ko sa hubby niya meron siyang naging bf for almost 3yrs but naghiwalay din. Sabi ng sis ko nagising na lang siya na ayaw niya sa bf niya kasi wala siyang makita na future nila or pagsisikap na humanap ng maayos na work.
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Re: Does anyone experience this?
« Reply #10 on: August 17, 2017, 11:17:51 pm »
7 years kami ng ex ko. Nagbreak, then nakilala ko husband ko. 1 yr 2 mos into dating nagpropose sya. Got married nung 2.5 years na kami, tapos almost 2 years married na kami with 1 baby. Although 2 years naman akong single before ko sya nakilala.

Cousin ko, almost 5 yrs din sya with his ex, then 1 yr lang din sila nung bago nyang gf nagdecide na rin magpakasal.

True naman na hindi nagmamatter ang tagal ng pagsasama. Kaya tingin ko talaga, bukod sa right person, what triggers a man to propose is right timing and circumstance.
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Re: Does anyone experience this?
« Reply #11 on: August 18, 2017, 06:43:40 am »
They said 5 years is long enough to tell if you're going to marry your boyfriend/girlfriend.

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Re: Does anyone experience this?
« Reply #12 on: August 18, 2017, 11:07:12 am »
Hello Sisses! :)
Last time lang e naisip ko tong topic na to :D Sounds familiar yung situation. Sobrang common kasi para sakin.

Personal experience ko, I had a 5-year relationship with a guy, nag-do-do pa kami nun and hindi talaga protected, and never akong nabuntis! Then, we broke up (cause I felt na wala akong future sa kanya, totoo pala yung gigising ka na lang isang araw, ayaw mo na, pero maybe unti unti lang din nawala yung feelings ko)
And then, after him, nagkaron ako ng new bf, after a year and a half of the relationship, napreggy ako! :D
Minsan tuloy naiisip ko, parang talagang hindi siguro kami meant ni ex, hehe

I know naman two couples na same situation nung akin, 10 yrs naman sila both with their ex, pero di din nagkatuluyan, then got married as in after a year lang ng relationship with the new partner! grabe di ba?

sabi nga, wala naman sa tagal yan  ;)

pero minsan mapapaisip ka na lang din, kasi di ba sobrang important yung good foundation for a long-lasting relationship??? ???

ay naku, basta about love nagiging complicated ang lahat  ;D


Same kayo ng friend ko. Nagdo-do din sila nung ex niya na yun ng walang proteksyon pero walang nabuo. Then dun sa bago, kahit anong ingat daw niyan, may nabuo haha. nakakaloka.


Yung ex nga pala niya after niya, nakabuntis din hehe, pero di sineryoso nung guy, sinusupport lang yung baby pero di niya inasawa yung nanay. Feeling namin mahal parin ni guy yung friend nmin eh. Siguro yung friend namin ang the one that got away niya. Sad.
« Last Edit: August 18, 2017, 11:16:19 am by Ms. Undecided »
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Re: Does anyone experience this?
« Reply #13 on: August 20, 2017, 02:14:39 am »

Minsan nga naiisip ko, ako din kaya maging ganun? May bf ako for almost 4 years, mahal ko super but I don't see myself na magkakatuluyan kami in the future. Ewan ko kung bakit. Siguro dati oo, pero ngayon parang hindi na. ugh well, lumayo na sa topic hehe.


So sabi mo sis di mo mahiwalayan bf mo. So are u thinking of meeting others on the side and if ok tsaka mo I-ditch si bf?

Or pag feeling mo maiwan ka na sa byahe tsaka ka nalang bibitaw?
And it is not as if you met someone new after your lousy bf, eh serious na agad and kasal agad.

I still believe na you really have to leave the relationship na alam mong walang future. Because it is only through this na mahahanap mo ang guy for you. But of course it doesn't mean the very next guy na ma meet mo eh pakasalan mo agad. It is just when it feels right, wedding bells can happen sooner. You still need to find the right partner for you. Otherwise, huwag ka nalang papakasal kasi magiging impyerno lang buhay mo.

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« Reply #14 on: November 28, 2017, 10:14:37 am »
yung ex ko mahigit 10 years kami pero nauwi din sa wala kasi nasilaw sa iphone  ;D

 


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