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sweet_maldita

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Re: Friends with Benefits
« Reply #20 on: February 15, 2020, 11:30:44 pm »
^natawa ko sa part na alam mo kung kelan sila fertile at yung monthly period nila. Swerte mo sir kasi regular ang monthly period nila, mahirap kasi pag irregular isa sa kanila.

Ni isa ba sa kanila hindi ka na-inlove? Parang ang hirap kasi na makipag-do ng ilang beses tapos walang feelings na nadevelop ng isa sa kanila.

Samin, mga ilang weeks namin bago napag-usapan about sa nangyari samin. Gusto ko minsan iopen yung topic na yung pero nakakahiya naman. Minsan gusto ko sya ayain magpunta uli dun pero di ko alam pano sasabihin. Nagulat na lang ako last week nun sinabi nia na "parang nakakamiss mag-ano..haha". So dun na nagstart yung conversation namin about sa nangyari sa amin. Hindi lang kami natutuloy kasi busy sa work and wala kasama yung anak ko. (single mom here)

whenever you compare yourself with others, you will only be vain or bitter because according to Desiderata, "there will always be a greater and a lesser person than yourself." so never compare yourself with others..compare yourself only with yourself

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Re: Friends with Benefits
« Reply #21 on: February 17, 2020, 10:30:29 pm »
12 years ago, I was in a FwB relationship with a man I thought I would be with for the rest of my life. No strings attached. Who wouldn't want that? No heartache. No drama.

I met him through a common friend. We used to hangout at my place. Just the two of us. Whenever I need him and whenever he needs me. Great, right?

We both knew we love each other. We used to tell that to ourselves. However, we also knew  that it was not good for the both of us.

I guess the thought of having someone around without putting your heart in danger makes it easier for us to stay in that kind of relationship.

Until I met this guy, who helped me see my worth. He made me realized that I should not settle for less. I risked everything about us by telling him about my crazy relationship. I thought it would make him leave, but he loved me even more. I stopped communicating with my FUBU (as they cal it) and moved to another place. Though I still think about him sometimes, I am pretty much happy with my beau now.  I guess you just really have to meet the right one. :)

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Re: Friends with Benefits
« Reply #22 on: February 19, 2020, 07:12:49 am »
Check also your heart. Seems like you are in a rebound.
Emotionally you are not ready if your are still thinking of him. This is the risk of FUBU and then fall!

Sometimes we just convince ourselves with "the one" but our heart is not telling it.

12 years ago, I was in a FwB relationship with a man I thought I would be with for the rest of my life. No strings attached. Who wouldn't want that? No heartache. No drama.

I met him through a common friend. We used to hangout at my place. Just the two of us. Whenever I need him and whenever he needs me. Great, right?

We both knew we love each other. We used to tell that to ourselves. However, we also knew  that it was not good for the both of us.

I guess the thought of having someone around without putting your heart in danger makes it easier for us to stay in that kind of relationship.

Until I met this guy, who helped me see my worth. He made me realized that I should not settle for less. I risked everything about us by telling him about my crazy relationship. I thought it would make him leave, but he loved me even more. I stopped communicating with my FUBU (as they cal it) and moved to another place. Though I still think about him sometimes, I am pretty much happy with my beau now.  I guess you just really have to meet the right one. :)

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Re: Friends with Benefits
« Reply #23 on: February 22, 2020, 04:52:04 pm »
Hi. Anyone here na merong ka FwB? How was it? 😂

me 8 years ago kinda fwb na fubu na rin siguro
skype: LurkerMan

sweet_maldita

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Re: Friends with Benefits
« Reply #24 on: February 23, 2020, 09:53:33 pm »
May mga questions lang po ako.

1. meron ba sainyo na may partner naman tlaga pero meron pa rin ka-fwb/fubu?
2. nag iilove you din ba kayo everytime na nagsesex kayo?
whenever you compare yourself with others, you will only be vain or bitter because according to Desiderata, "there will always be a greater and a lesser person than yourself." so never compare yourself with others..compare yourself only with yourself

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Re: Friends with Benefits
« Reply #25 on: Today at 07:36:49 am »
May mga questions lang po ako.

1. meron ba sainyo na may partner naman tlaga pero meron pa rin ka-fwb/fubu?
2. nag iilove you din ba kayo everytime na nagsesex kayo?

Me. Guy here.
1. Yes. I don't know may nagyayaya sa akin di naman ako wafu.
2. Hindi ako na inlove sa lahat. Pero may isa na minahal ako sa simula pa lang. Akala ko FUBU lang but I fell in love... Di talaga sya FUBU for me. Matagal kaming friends and we've been thru tough times together in life and at work. Na-late lang sya sa buhay ko. Ako lahat naka-una sa kanya :(.  Sad but I need to let her go. Yan nga yung 1st month pa lang ng BF nya still contacts me kahit iwas na ako and when I decided to meet her for catch up, we did it (sex) sya pa nagyaya and she said she never gave it to her bf and no plan yet to give it to him and she still loves me. :'( Parang bf pa rin treat nya for me but I decided to let her go. She still contacts me every now and then and 3 months now with her BF but I decided to go no contact. I'm letting my heart heal too... I know this is the right thing to do...

 


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