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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #60 on: September 27, 2010, 04:34:48 pm »
ded na si lolo ... i've seen this movie recently lang, and it shows the diff beliefs during a wake (expect it funny, they made it a little comical! i enjoyed watching this!)
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« Reply #61 on: October 28, 2010, 11:56:08 pm »
Wala ba talagang mawawala satin?

Ilang beses binanggit sa Biblia na HUWAG MAGING MAPAMAHIIN, means ayaw ni God na naniniwala tayo sa mga bagay na hindi Nya kalooban . .
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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #62 on: November 13, 2010, 11:27:28 am »

Alam ko yung pagtakip ng salamin e Jewish practice. Para di makita ng mga namatayan ang sarili nila. Kontra vanity ba. Kasi nga naman naghihinagpis na yung tao, gagawin pang conscious sa itsura. Saka raw para ang focus e yung grief (?).

Yun ding iaabot mga kids and babies over the coffin para daw di bangungutin. Yung iba parang may sense (don't wear red or sing happy songs) pero yung iba ewan ko ba. Di ko gets yung palayok.


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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #63 on: June 09, 2011, 10:58:31 pm »
some beliefs that i know....

-nobody's allowed to wear color red when visiting the wake.
-don't go home immediately after visiting the wake.
-if you let the dead person have a rosary, make sure you break it before the burial.
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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #64 on: June 10, 2011, 12:53:34 pm »

- dont wear red.  otherwise, di makakalapit ang ghost sayo.  mamimiss ka niya lalo.  parang ganon ang explanation nila. 
- wag maligo kung saan andun ang wake.  maligo ka sa ibang bahay o dikaya sa bahay ng relatives mo.


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Super dami naming pamahiin kapag may wake..

*Bawal mag red
*Bawal mag suklay
*Bawal mag walis
*Bawal maligo sa banyo sa bahay ng may wake
*bawal ang pakanta2 ng happy songs
*Bawal matuluan ng luha nag coffin
*Dapat may tao sa may coffin, kasi kukunin daw ng mga "others" pag walang bantay duon.
*Bawal i-count ang abuloy
*bawal mag thank you sa mga abuloy
*Nakaclose ang palm ng namatay
*No mirrors sa bahay, dapat takpan
*Pag Umuulan sa libing, ibig daw sabihin, hindi pa tanggap ng namatay ang kanyang death
*Pag Sobrang init naman, tanggap na ng namatay ang kanyang death
*Wag magdala ng food from the wake

sobrang dami pa talaga.. di ko na maalala..


so true... lahat ng nasabi mo sis.  ganyan din ang paniniwala namin. 

to add:

- pag  iaalis na ang coffin sa bahay, lahat ng family members and relatives, dapat mag cross sa ilalim ng coffin habang ito ay nakaangat.
- pag papunta na sa cemetery, dapat yong daanan ng sasakyan with the coffin ay hindi parehong route nung inihatid siya sa bahay.
- bago iaalis ang coffin sa bahay, magbabasag ng plato/platito. 
- pag nasa cemetery na, ang kandila dapat nakaslant ang tayo. 


based sa experience namin, ang common reason lang sa mga pamahiin na ito ay para hindi sunod sunod ang pagkamatay ng mga naiwan.  at para mabilis matanggap ng namatay na siya ay nasa ibang mundo na. hindi sana siya maghanap ng "kasama" sa kanyang paglakbay.   

Pag may isa sumuway sa pamahiin na yan, malamang maiinis sayo ang mga relatives mo. hehe kasi takot sila sa "kadena" na sinasabi nila (sunod sunod na pagkamatay sa pamilya).
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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #65 on: January 04, 2013, 07:55:34 am »
nung 1 namatay ang mama ko . at 2 days nga ng nalaman namin ang mga ibat ibang pammahiin nagawa na namin yung iba . nakapaligo na yung anak ko sa banyo kung saan nakaburol ang mama ko kaya simula non may lagnat na sya ngayon. nakapag suklay na rin tapos namatayan na rin kami ng kandila.
bawal raw mamatayan ng kandila yung patay kase para may liwanag sya pag naglalakbay sya. at kaylangan pag pinalitan yung kandila dapat hindi ipapatong dun sa paubos na kandila para walng susunod kaso nagawa namin yun .. wwala ring rosary na nilagay sa mama ko. pero magpuputol kami . ang wish ko lang wala ng sumunod ..

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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #66 on: March 18, 2014, 03:17:27 pm »
Hi mga sis.. ask ko lang po, anong consequence kapag nakapag uwi ka ng food galing sa burol? kasi namatay lolo ng hubby ko.. tapos umino kami ng coffee, eh dinala namin hanggang sa bahay,, (kasi malapit lang house nila sa bahay ng lolo nila) tapos nalaman ni mom-in-law na dinala namin un, na-windang sya.. umm, ano mangyayari? im scared..  :(

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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #67 on: March 18, 2014, 03:37:49 pm »
Hi, monster mom0814.

A reasoning behind that is as its something imbibed at a place of the dead ay its laced with energy of the dead.  Thus, by bringing it to your place which is for the living it creates an imbalance that may spell some form of malas. 

As you've done it already ay simply cleanse your place.  One option is to wash your place from the interior to the exterior with water mixed with sea salt.  Scrub or mop syempre hindi buhos lang.  It can be as just a handful or even less of salt sa isang pail of water as long as it gets dissolved properly before using it for this purpose.

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« Reply #68 on: March 18, 2014, 03:51:29 pm »
Hi CityHunter,

Thanks. ^_^ can i do it like friday pa? kasi nasa work na ko ngayon? effective pa rin un?  :'(
except for my mom in law, wala na naniniwala sa pamhiin dun sa province ee..


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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #69 on: December 23, 2014, 07:54:25 pm »
sa amin naman, ang alam ko na pamahiin ay bawal linisin ang bahay kung saan nakaburol ang patay. tapos bawal din daw yung ihahatid palabas ang mga dumalaw ng mga namatayan. yung sa damit naman, sa pagkakaalam ko, kaya daw bawal yung red or any bright colors kasi parang ang ibig sabihin daw noon ay masaya ka pa dahil namatayan sila.

well pagdating sa food, parang di naman totoo yun. nung namatay ang lola ko noon, ang daming nag-uuwi ng mga pagkain mula sa burol ah kahit ako nakapag-uwi pa ng candy pero wala naman akong naramdaman na kung ano. tapos di rin ako naniniwala na kelangan wag munang uuwi at dapat dumaan muna sa ibang lugar like mall or convenience store or any place para iligaw yung kaluluwa. kasi bakit nung namatay yung kapitbahay namin, diretso uwi naman kami kasi sobrang lapit eh gabi na saan pa kami pupunta ng ganung oras. hehe

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« Reply #70 on: April 25, 2015, 09:51:05 pm »
hi mga sis, a little advise please, i went to my aunt's husband's cremation and i accidentally take home the bottled water that they brought for the people as refreshment while waiting for the cremation to finish..
what happen is this, i bought my daughter a box of doughnut out side the funeral homes, then after eating almost all of it, she somewhat choked and threw up a mouthful of doughnut in the box, so rushed her to the restroom, in case she will continue to vommit.. i grabbed the bottle of water so she could gargle and drink after throwing up.. Then, I accidentally put the bottle inside my bag.. and totally forget about it, i even bought a bottled water after the cremation because i have to take my meds.. We even stop by at Trinoma to buy some stuff and have dinner before finally going home..
i totally forgot the bottled water, all those times, it was just inside my bag, i even paid the cab and took the money inside my purse??? I only found out that it was inside my bag when i was looking for my phone.. I panicked when I saw it and immediately took it out of the house and threw it to our neighbor's garbage can.. what do you think will happen...    :'(   im so worried right now...

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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #71 on: June 03, 2015, 03:36:44 am »
Pag daw may ililibing at dumaan na sa kalsada, dapat daw gisingin lahat ng tulog kasi yung kaluluwa nung tulog baka daw sumama dun sa patay.
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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #72 on: June 03, 2015, 05:43:45 am »
Hi mga sis. Last week Lang nag 40 days ang lolo ko. Wala namang unusual na nangyari sa Amin. He died in the other bedroom, which is katabi Lang ng room niya. His wake was at a funeral home, not in the house. Although yes, sinunod namin  yung sinasabing mga pamahiin, like Di pwede ihatid ang mga bumisita sa Kanya, Di pwd iuwe ang mga food from the wake. Pero, ang nakalimutan namin is putulin ang rosary niya. And the hospital bed that he used has just been donated yesterday, dun nga ako nagssleep eh, kasi sturdy and comfy ang mattress. By the way, he died there in that bed. Wala naman akong na feel na unusual, but kahapon ko Lang din nalaman na one should not sleep on the deathbed of a person cause may susunod daw yan? Is that true? I find it creepy cause I am the only one who sleeps in that bed kasi takot yung mga relatives ko even just to sit there. Would that mean, ako din ang susunod? Di naman Siguro. Pero I find it nakakatakot.hehe.
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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #73 on: June 07, 2015, 09:16:00 am »
Hi, mga sis.

Share ko lang - if I haven't yet or if I have do forgive me for repeating it again.  When my brother died - ka-birthday ko pa naman though mas matanda sa akin - ay it was due to heart attack.  In short ay hindi siya handa.

Sa Chinese kasi they usually leave the dead alone after midnight.  They just lock the doors with heavy chains.  Pero syempre as ako I do not observe that along with others ay we did not adhere to it.

Typhoon Milenyo (or is it Millenio) when dapat siya ilibing.  The night before ay the lights flickered and died for quite a while despite back up generators and emergency lights.  Yun mga guards sa upper floors sa building where the wake was held "saw" something na hindi tao.  Ayaw na umakyat doon to do rounds until the lights came back on. 

At dahil may bagyo na ay hindi mailabas sa back door where it is normally done so yun patay.  Dinaan na lang sa harap and as the kabaong passed each emergency light ay it flickered.  Pag lagpas ay back to normal. 

Papunta na kami sa paglilibingan and the trees were falling left and right along our path.  Big naman yun road so not much of an issue.  Then pagdating sa site ay welga pa yun inabutan namin. 

And the story does not end there dahil yun wife nag-drama pa so hindi lang basang basa na kaming lahat (and deep in mud) but also battered by winds.  To make a long story short ay it was not a peaceful burial.

The lesson in this was walang forgiveness sa mga very important sa namatay.  I opine that was what weighed more than anything else.
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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #74 on: August 02, 2015, 07:48:32 pm »
wag daw tuluan ng luha yung kabaong, strictly mirror is not allowed, bawal mag walis etc. it helps ba mga sis? hirap tuloy gumalaw everytime pupunta ako ng lamay.

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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #75 on: August 03, 2015, 09:19:49 pm »
nakakatuwa yung pamahiin na bawal daw maligo hahahaha :D so the whole week walang ligo?

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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #76 on: August 07, 2015, 05:20:40 pm »
For the girls, you're not allowed to go to burol if you have your monthly period. (weird)

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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #77 on: April 26, 2019, 04:32:31 pm »
hello sisses, I know bawal magpakasal, magpatayo ng bahay if namatayan. Do you know if bawal din ba bumili ng bahay on the same year na namatayan ang family members?

 


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