Author Topic: Recovering from infidelity: How did you do it?  (Read 2823 times)

Lady.Doloroso

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Re: Recovering from infidelity: How did you do it?
« Reply #20 on: May 17, 2019, 12:50:54 pm »
I feel you sis.
Wag mo pilitin ang sarili mo, kasi kahit anong gawin mo hindi talaga mawawala yan sa ngayon.
It?s a rollercoaster of emotions, iiyak ka, magiging ok, maalala mo, iiyak ka ulet.

I can relate to you sis, kasi months after we got married dun din nagkaroon ng fling husband ko eh.
We got married 2010, from then up to 2012 ang daming beses ko na siya nahuli.
Hindi siya emotional cheating, puro fling but the hurt is the same.
Lagi ko siya nahuhuli, nakakabaliw talaga. Lahat ng nararamdaman mo normal yan, ganyan talaga ang pinagdadaanan. Unexplainable ang feeling. Yung tipo bang gusto mo talaga sila gantihan.
Ginawa ko rin yan. Nahuli ko siya may kachat at naglalandian sila. I I forwarded yung conversation nila sa mga officemates nila, para mapahiya sila. And tama ka, at first masarap sa pakiramdam kasi gusto mo talaga makaganti eh.


Wala makakatulong sa inyong dalawa kung hindi kayo ring dalawa.
Yung husband mo dapat maintindihan ka niya sa pinagdadaanan mo.
Ikaw naman, if you feel gusto mo pa at may pag-asa pa kayo maayos, wag mo rin ialis yun sa sarili mo.
Be open for forgiveness. If he really deserves the 2nd chance, sana wag mo ipagkait yun because of pride.
Isa rin sa realizations ko, don?t hurt him because he hurt you. It won?t help kasi habang nasasaktan ka, sasaktan mo siya, lalo mo sinasaktan mo rin ang sarili mo.
Focus on the issue which hurt you and not on the things that will hurt your husband.
It will be a never ending hurt na ikaw lang lalo ang mahihirapan.

Pray.. Kung hindi na talaga kaya, pray to God and He will take over.

 


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