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Re: Nagalit, nainis, napikon na ba kayo sa relative/s ng asawa nyo?
« Reply #580 on: October 08, 2019, 09:17:59 am »
^Hinde kase sis fina factor in ng ibang tao yung other expenses sa exclusive schools. Tuition lang basta magawan ng paraan feeling nila okay na. Eh ang daming ibang iisipin like  books, supplies, uniforms, allowance/food, school bus, projects/activities fees at kung ano ano pa. For example, my daughter goes to Assumption and her school bus every month is 3800. Nag join ng theatre, may fee na 10k. She does gymnastics, training fee is 3500 every 10 sessions tapos the uniform for this year is 4k. On top of the regular expenses pa yan and it's one of the things na hinde alam ng ibang parents so basta maipilit lang kahit nagkakanda baon baon sa utang. Ang ending, yung bata nagsa suffer.
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Re: Nagalit, nainis, napikon na ba kayo sa relative/s ng asawa nyo?
« Reply #581 on: October 08, 2019, 10:23:28 am »
^ kaya nga sis. Tapos yung bata nakikita classmates nya may ganito, ganyan.. sya wala.
Lumalaki pa sya nakikita lagi nag aaway parents nya dahil sa pera.
Buti na lang mabait yung nephew ko even at young age of 12 mukang naiintidihan naman nya.

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Re: Nagalit, nainis, napikon na ba kayo sa relative/s ng asawa nyo?
« Reply #582 on: October 08, 2019, 10:36:44 am »
^^True yan. Akala kapag nagbayad ng tuition tapos na dun. May mga parents na angal ng angal kasi ang gastos daw. Ayaw pasalihin mga anak sa extra-curriculars kasi gastos lang, hindi nila naiisip yung pwedeng matutunan ng bata at yung experience na magi-gain ng mga kids.

Ang naiisip ko tuloy sila yung mga magulang na pinag-private school ang mga anak para masabi lang na nakapagpaaral sa private school. Para makasabay sa mga friends, family and neighbors na nakaprivate school mga anak. Naalala ko yung neighbor ko nagpaaral sa private school kasi ang main purpose niya aircon daw kasi. Maski nagmamakaawa na ang anak niya na magpublic school kasi hirap na hirap sa turo sa private.
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Re: Nagalit, nainis, napikon na ba kayo sa relative/s ng asawa nyo?
« Reply #583 on: October 08, 2019, 11:01:52 am »
J.warner It's good that he understands. Siguro lahat naman tayong parents kung pwede lang ibigay ang mundo sa anak gagawin diba? Pero we also need to be realistic and stick to what we can sustain lang. Mas magandang values pa matuturo sa kids na hinde tayo nagli-live beond our means.

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Common yan sa families na galing sa meron tapos biglang nawalan :( Samin mag asawa din sis, important na sumasali sya sa extra curricular activities. We let her choose what she wants tapos we support lang. Pero we tell her din pag may mga times na hinde aabot and my daughter understands naman.
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