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messyhair

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Need help
« on: January 21, 2021, 06:11:41 pm »
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Girls anung take nyo dito sa patner ko. Nagsasama kami ng almost 7 years na and we have 3 kids. Sa 7 years na yan  hindi man lang mag effort humanap o gumawa ng paraan para makapaghanap buhay. Madami syang idea at plano pero hindi naman nagmamaterialize.

Ako ang breadwinner, as in ako lahat. Ang nakakainis yun bang  sana man lang makita kong malinis ang bahay kaso ako pa talaga maglilinis.

Nananawa na ako magsabi sa kanya, parang nawawala na rin talaga amor ko sa kanya. Anong pwede kong gawin?

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Re: Need help
« Reply #1 on: February 08, 2021, 10:30:28 am »
What you can do is really up to you.
You can continue what you have been doing these past 7 years, and wait for him to change. Or you can put an end to it.

Good luck sis.


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Re: Need help
« Reply #2 on: February 09, 2021, 03:47:32 am »
^^have you tried talking to him about this? What made you stay for the last 7 years? 
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Re: Need help
« Reply #3 on: February 10, 2021, 03:23:44 pm »
I have the same problem with my ex boyfriend. Grabe we've been together for so long pero hindi man lang ako malibre kahit sa Jollibee man lang. Good thing na lang din may work sya. Pero all talaga ako gumagastos. Well, mas malaki naman ang sweldo ko pero kahit fishball lang or banana-q, di man lang ako mabilhan. Sa tagal that we've been together, hindi ko macommit sarili ko kase ang bigat bigat nya dalhin. Pero we broke up so buti na lang din.

Yan pa kaya na 7 years with 3 kids.

P.S. Buti na lang masipag naman sya at malinis. Pero still, minsan pikit mata na lang lahat.

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Re: Need help
« Reply #4 on: February 10, 2021, 05:10:08 pm »
try giving him an ultimatum TS, tell him how heavy it is to bring him.. if he doesn't want to change at all and still depends on you on everything, our other sister here is right.. put an end to it & it will lift the burden.

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Re: Need help
« Reply #5 on: March 01, 2021, 07:25:24 pm »
Nagtataka lang ako minsan na bakit after a few years pa narerealized ng iba na tamad ang husband nila samantalang kapag magbf/gf or 1st year ng marriage pa lang malalaman mo na naman yun based sa kilos niya. Kaya mas pabor ako sa live-in muna bago magpakasal dahil mas madali mong iwanan once lumabas na tunay na kulay ng partner mo.

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Re: Need help
« Reply #6 on: March 01, 2021, 10:42:08 pm »
^women are very emotional...hoping against hope sometimes. Maiintindihan mo pa kapag may kids kung bakit umaasa magbago pero  dapat mag set din ng deadline dahil walang forever sa lalaking hindi driven. Nafa fall out love ka din sa ganyang tao in the long run yung amor mo sa kanya nawawala na rin.
« Last Edit: March 01, 2021, 10:45:08 pm by RoadrunnerXCX »
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