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Hubby and our staff
« on: September 30, 2020, 06:55:53 pm »
Our family's kasambahay for gazilion years came to me and revealed that she thinks my husband is cheating with our office staff.
I asked our kasambahay how she said that and sabi nya is ito:
1. Nakikita nya na sweet sila sa office ng office staff namin
2. Magkasabay maglunch - as in sabay and magkatabi
3. Hinahatid ni hubby si office girl sa bahay nila which is 2 blocks away lang naman sa office.

When I confronted my husband, he obviously denied it. He said that they were never sweet.
Regarding lunch, sabi nya ofcourse magkasabay sila kasi iisa lang naman ang lunch break ng lahat  pero never nagtabi sila while eating.
Then regarding sa hatid, sabi ni hubby- on the way ang lugar ni girl - since dun din naman dadaan, why not?

And then this issue escalated when our super long employed driver said that there are times na nakikita nya si office girl na nakatambay sa labas ng office na gabi na. Nang tinanong nya si girl bakit di pa umuuwi, hindi naman nagsalita si girl. Pero nakikita na sinasabay sya ni hubby sa sasakyan - sa tabi ng hubby ko sa harap ng sasakyan.

My husband denied it and said that I should believe him that nothing was really going on. We had a huge fight and he swears on his parents lives na wala talagang malice dun sa kanila and he was never flirtatious sa girl.

PLease guys I need your insights.
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Re: Hubby and our staff
« Reply #1 on: September 30, 2020, 08:44:21 pm »
^It's a red flag for me. Lalo yung paghahatid pauwi kahit pa along the way. It's our rule ni hubby na walang ibang uupo sa tabi niya sa car na ibang babae (aside sa family members), ako lang. Bukod sa hindi magandang tingnan kasi may asawa syang tao kahit pa na no malice on their part. It's just me lang naman. Pero pati yung sabay na paglunch na sila lang, ayaw ko din.

And yung mga trusted employee niyo na yung nagsabi mismo na nakita nila, di naman nila intention magsinungaling siguro to ruin your relationship.

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Re: Hubby and our staff
« Reply #2 on: September 30, 2020, 08:56:12 pm »
Exactly! that's what I told him. Sabi ko, buti sana kung sino sino lang ang nagsabi - but those two were our trusted employees and there's no reason for them to create a rumor. Different people , different instances ang kanilang nakita or nasaksihan.

But hubby insisted wala daw talaga.

I called the girl and asked if totoo nga na sumasabay sya and she seemed like she doesn't know na may mali sa ginawa nya -- which I highly doubt. If you are really innocent, sa panahon ngayon, lalo na't Manila girl ka -- hindi ka sasakay sa sasakyan ng taong may asawa para lang mag pahatid ng isa or dalawang kanto nang walang malisya. Ofcourse, again, she denied na may malice.

I just dont have concrete proof na meron nga silang relationship.

It's freaking making me like a serial stalker here and I can't work. I can't concentrate. Pati work ko naapektuhan.
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Re: Hubby and our staff
« Reply #3 on: September 30, 2020, 09:07:32 pm »
Why don?t you ask your husband to stop bringing her home even if it?s along the way, then. Pag kumontra pa at kung anong dahilan, edi alam mo na.

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Re: Hubby and our staff
« Reply #4 on: September 30, 2020, 09:16:12 pm »
Ganito kasi yan sis.... sabi ng kasambahay namin around January of this year nila napansin yang mga ganap na yan. Pero this week lang nila sinabi. PERO last month, since Covid nga and hindi naman maganda ang takbo ng business, pina floating ko si office girl for six months. Inshort sa Feb pa ang balik nya to work.

Pero si office girl she keeps coming to the office para "mangamusta" sa mga ka-work nya.

 
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Re: Hubby and our staff
« Reply #5 on: October 23, 2020, 08:37:16 pm »
I-floating mo sya forever.
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Re: Hubby and our staff
« Reply #6 on: October 23, 2020, 10:21:41 pm »
^correct sis . floating forever.

may lalaki na ba na umamin na may babae siya ?  ;D ;D

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Re: Hubby and our staff
« Reply #7 on: October 29, 2020, 10:32:37 pm »
True! I agree, ifloating mo forever. If it's making you feel uncomfrotable, dapat irespeto ni hubby yung feelings mo - because it's valid. Go sis! Wag mo itolerate ang ganyan.

 

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