Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 4)

[Pink_Sugar]

^hahaha!

[jtansanco]

nakigaya lang ba ang mga pinoy sa banyaga,patungkol sa 'public proposal'?  OT

The "power" of social media. Kung ano ang "in" or whatever the current trend is, that's what people usually follow.

[ms_teryosa]

ok..tama nga naman. wag magmadali.. lol..

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^ Very, very possible. Well, for me at least since having the same wavelength to sustain a conversation is very much a big thing for me!!!

[jtansanco]

^ That's just how men are programmed to talk to each other. Share their fantasies and stuff. At the end of the day, it's still the girl that matters. How well you take care of your stuff down there or how good it looks, bonus na lang yun. I'm sure you girls do the same when you talk about a guy when you see a "bulge" in his pants.

is it possible not to develop romantic feelings for a girl that you like and enjoy having long conversations with?

Yeah, that's possible. I may like you but it doesn't necessarily mean I will love you.

[ohcmon]

I was kinda seeing this guy late last year tapos napag-usapan namin na pag umabot kami ng 6 months na steady, we'll commit. Turns out he just got out of an engagement (na hindi naman issue sa'kin) but he didn't give me an explanation whatsoevs. Tinabangan ako, so I backed off.

Last weekend, he wanted to patch things up with me dahil alam niya daw na may atraso siya sa'kin. Said ngayon lang daw siya naging ready to explain sa'kin dahil ngayon niya lang masasabi na nakamove on na talaga siya, at hindi naman daw siya mag-eeffort nang ganun after all this time kung hindi niya talaga 'ko gusto.

Can his intentions really be pure? Nagdadalawang-isip ako, tapos parang 'di ko na siya gusto. I mean, on paper he looks good, as in instructor sa UP and pursuing grad studies in Ateneo, pero parang may something off eh...

[jtansanco]

^^ Don't be limited because of the "6 months to be steady" arrangements you had with him. You can always just start over with him and see how it goes. No need to commit. You can still date him but still keep your options open. If his intentions are pure, he'll be patient until you're ready.

[bonita111809]

seriously, ganun ba talaga sa lalaki? hahaha! just asking, kasi mukang type ako ng officemate ko.. lagi syang nagtatnong kung okay lang ako, kung kumain na ko, bakit ang putla ko, bakit ako ngiti ng ngiti yung mga ganun samantalang sa ibang girls sa work hindi sya ganun. at nafifeel ko yun na parang may something sya sa kin, hindi ako nag-aassume base lang yun sa mga observations ko at isa pa may bf na ako and alam yun ng lahat. just sharing

let me answer this question MissVeket kahit babae ako. hindi lahat ng lalake ganyan. may lalaking showy, meron ding mahiyain. now kung type ka ng lalake, madaling makita yun. pero ang tanong, anong pakay nya? kase pwedeng type ka nyang maka-sex lang o di kaya type ka nyang maging jowa kasi may nakita syang maganda sayo. although it's a given fact that a man would look at the physical attributes first at pwedeng down south ang unang pakay nya sayo. you have to read the signs very carefully.

[sacred cow]

seriously, ganun ba talaga sa lalaki? hahaha! just asking, kasi mukang type ako ng officemate ko.. lagi syang nagtatnong kung okay lang ako, kung kumain na ko, bakit ang putla ko, bakit ako ngiti ng ngiti yung mga ganun samantalang sa ibang girls sa work hindi sya ganun. at nafifeel ko yun na parang may something sya sa kin, hindi ako nag-aassume base lang yun sa mga observations ko at isa pa may bf na ako and alam yun ng lahat. just sharing

iba iba naman mga guys, how I react kapag tinutukso sa isang girl might not be the same with other guys. The only surefire way to know if a guy really likes you or at least wants to have sex with you is if he asks you to go out with him otherwise puro assumption lang pwede mong gawin

[fleur_de_liz]

question: ano ang pinaka-ayaw nyong guys sa ugali ng girl? is it true ba na ayaw na ayaw daw talaga ng guys ang girl na nagger?

[bonita111809]

question: ano ang pinaka-ayaw nyong guys sa ugali ng girl? is it true ba na ayaw na ayaw daw talaga ng guys ang girl na nagger?

yep.. that is a big no no. wag din sila huhubaran ng pagkalalake. ayaw din nila ng hinihigpitan. pag naging tamang hinala naman si babae at umabot sa point na kinakalkal nya phone ni lalake, ayaw din nila nun.

[sacred cow]

question: ano ang pinaka-ayaw nyong guys sa ugali ng girl? is it true ba na ayaw na ayaw daw talaga ng guys ang girl na nagger?

I hate it when you expect/assume us to know what's on your mind when something's wrong, tapos ayaw nyo pa sabihin kasi gusto niyo alam na dapat namin kung ano kasalanan namin.

[amethyst028]

i don't know kung natanong na ito.

pag type niyo yung girl do you tend to ignore her. i mean you get shy around her kaya mas kakausapin niyo yung ibang girls na hindi niyo type. and is it ok if the girl is the first one to say "hi" let's say sa office or sa class room where you see each other a lot pero hindi kayo formally magkaka kilala.

also if a pretty girl (your type) is friendly, ma chika, down to earth, accommodating, binibigyan niyo ba yun ng meaning yun? do you automatically assume na type niya kayo?

[fleur_de_liz]

new thread na tayo..


http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,284445.0.html

[insanelypurpleprincess]

I hate it when you expect/assume us to know what's on your mind when something's wrong, tapos ayaw nyo pa sabihin kasi gusto niyo alam na dapat namin kung ano kasalanan namin.

^ I think this applies not only to men hating it about women, but also goes the other way. There are also men who expect a girl to know what is on their mind.

[happilytaken2]

question lang guys. my boyfriend doesn't like going to church or hear mass. he'd rather play video games. sapilitan pa pag niyaya ko siya. is this normal sa mga guys?

[simang]

^yung mga ganyan bagay mahirap iimpose sa ibang tao. You don't just tell another to go hear mass with you if to begin with di talaga sya sanay na nagsisimba. Depende yan sa kinalakihan, nakasanayan, at beliefs and values ng isang tao.

[happilytaken2]

^ I suppose you're right sis.

[jtansanco]

question lang guys. my boyfriend doesn't like going to church or hear mass. he'd rather play video games. sapilitan pa pag niyaya ko siya. is this normal sa mga guys?

That's probably because he didn't grow up going to church. He's the same as me. My parents never brought me to church so I grew up thinking that going to church on a Sunday is a waste of time/not important. A friend of mine is so devoted that she "begged" me to go to church but I declined her request since I just do not see any benefit from it. I could say my faith/religion is my weakest attribute. That could be the same for him.

[sugardrop]

Don't "sapilitan sa pagyaya" your boyfriend. Let it come from him. This might cause aways in the future. If that's not much of a big deal for you, let it go. If it is, then think.