Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 4)

[jtansanco]

If FB status is already a cause for a fight, what more if something serious happens? It's a relationship bound to fail.

[simang]

If FB status is already a cause for a fight, what more if something serious happens? It's a relationship bound to fail.

ditto

[Girltalker2]

her "problem" - she has been with her bf for a couple of months now (6 or 7 months), and up to now, ayaw daw magpalit ng FB status ng boyfriend nya. this issue daw has been causing them some fights and arguments.

There could be a reason behind her requesting for this. Malamang ang dami nyang nakikita sa FB ni BF na nilalandian parin si BF. At mukhang nag eenjoy naman BF nya.  Mukhang kahit i-change ng BF nya ang status sa FB, hindi parin nya mababago ang situation. 

[slickchick]

thanks so much sa insights mga sis and bros. at least we're on the same page on this - na hindi naman big issue yung FB status.

sis girltalker, i asked officemate this morning (yes.. i'm still comforting her till now...) kung meron ba syang nakikita sa FB ni bf na kaduda-duda. she showed me her bf's FB page, and mukhang ang ikinapa-praning nya is yung fact na may mga comments kay bf nya na bakit hindi pa maghanap ng gf or wife material (the guy is is in his late 20's-early 30's, officemate is in mid-20's) and deadma lang si bf sa mga ganung comments, parang hindi daw sya dini-defend or sinasabi man lang na meron naman... wala naman ako nakita na pics ng mga girls na nakaakbay or pulupot sa bf nya. there are some pics with some female friends, pero i don't think may malisya dun kasi parang officemates lang din ng guy.

[Berynice]

A non-experienced girl or still V in her 28. Some says kawawa daw, but you, what would you think?

[simang]

^kawawa in what sense?

I was inexperienced til i was 25, never felt kawawa, i never any different anyway. Experiencing sex should be a choice. And for a virgin, i can say that the most important part of the first time is who you do it with.

[jtansanco]

A non-experienced girl or still V in her 28. Some says kawawa daw, but you, what would you think?

^ Doesn't matter. Giving your virginity to the man you will marry could probably be the best gift a girl can give to her man.

[jtansanco]

^ I don't get the question...
Do I want to marry a virgin? Why not? Virgin or not, it doesn't matter.
Don't I engage in premarital sex in hopes to marry a virgin? No, I don't live in a conservative world.

[sacred cow]

A non-experienced girl or still V in her 28. Some says kawawa daw, but you, what would you think?

I'll either think she's a prude or nobody wants to sleep with her

[Girltalker2]

A non-experienced girl or still V in her 28. Some says kawawa daw, but you, what would you think?

I am thinking along the lines for my son, in case he would get married. And honestly, as a mom, it does not matter.  What matters to me though is how a girl decides when to get intimate and not yet with a guy.

Almost 2 decades ago, hindi pa uso iyan.  I was a virgin bride. Kaso it is not a guarantee of happy marriage. 

[insanelypurpleprincess]

How much of a big deal is it for men to have actual dates for milestones in a relationship, e.g. having an actual monthsary / anniversary date?

[sacred cow]

I think depende 'to sa guy, in my case, hindi siya ganun ka big deal pero ako yung mas nakaka keep track samin ng milestones like kung gaano na katagal nagdadate, date kung kelan nagmeet etc. etc.

[bonita111809]

Question
pag nagcheat ba dati ang guy sa dati nyang partner posible nya din yun gawin sa partner nya ngayon?

possible, but not likely. depende sa sitwasyon. my husband cheated on her ex gf with me. pero ang pinagkaiba kase nun walang sexual involvement. I went out of the affair 1 month palang kame kase I realized na may babaeng masasaktan. he chose me, and wala pang month silang naghihiwalay nung ex gf nya nagpakasal agad yung babae. turns out she cheated on him first. 5 years na kame ng hubby ko pero awa ng dyos, wala kameng nagiging problema about cheating issues.

[sugardrop]

How much of a big deal is it for men to have actual dates for milestones in a relationship, e.g. having an actual monthsary / anniversary date?

For most men, I don't think it's that much of a big deal as it is for most women.

We don't have a monthsarry and I don't even know when our anniv is. But sa kanya ako nagka-idea how long we've been together. And he's the one who remembers when we first met, our first date, how long he claims I made him wait to have a date with me, and heck, he even remembers my period.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^ Looks like men (as a general rule) don't mind or think about it as much. But when you come across someone who's like that... like the way your guy is... makes me think that he is indeed someone rare and special

[ms_teryosa]

my bf doesnt greet me happy monthsary every month but good thing alam nya kung kelan ko sya sinagot.. so ok na ko dun..

[argento]

Monthsaries are nonsense   

[Girltalker2]

For most men, I don't think it's that much of a big deal as it is for most women.

We don't have a monthsarry and I don't even know when our anniv is. But sa kanya ako nagka-idea how long we've been together. And he's the one who remembers when we first met, our first date, how long he claims I made him wait to have a date with me, and heck, he even remembers my period.

so nice to hear such love stories.

he is so into you girl!   

^ Looks like men (as a general rule) don't mind or think about it as much. But when you come across someone who's like that... like the way your guy is... makes me think that he is indeed someone rare and special

rare specie.

Monthsaries are nonsense   

haha, nakakatawa naman pagkasabi mo.   

Actually, I never have celebrated any monthary in my entire life.  When I heard of it dati, nung BF/GF palang kami ng naging asawa ko, sabi ko sige next month. And then the following month, nakalimutan ko.  Then by the time naisip ko, tapos na. After several incidents na lagi kong nakakalimutan, I just dropped the whole idea. 

[ms_teryosa]

for guys wala naman kasi talaga yang monthsaries na yan..mga girls lang ang masyadong clingy sa mga ganyan.. before i was like that but ngayon narealize ko those monthsaries are like for jeje's. 

[simang]

^^not naman for jeje's siguro, but more for teenagers who think na hindi sila aabutin ng years together kaya they had to celebrate it monthly haha