Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 4)

[ms_teryosa]

^^not naman for jeje's siguro, but more for teenagers who think na hindi sila aabutin ng years together kaya they had to celebrate it monthly haha

mas malupit to.. hehe

[simang]

For most men, I don't think it's that much of a big deal as it is for most women.

We don't have a monthsarry and I don't even know when our anniv is. But sa kanya ako nagka-idea how long we've been together. And he's the one who remembers when we first met, our first date, how long he claims I made him wait to have a date with me, and heck, he even remembers my period.

di din namin thing ang anniv, pero sya din nagpaalala saken kung kelan kame nagkakilala, and from there we called it kilalaversary haha

[ms_teryosa]

kami rin we dont greet each other happy monthsary pero natutuwa ako pag sinasabi nya sa akin yung mga lock code nya sa phone, locker and laptop is 0320 which is our anniv so meaning important pa rin sa kanya yung date na yun.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^^ Natuwa naman ako sa 'kilalaversary' na yan. Ingenious!!!
^ Yikes! For as long as di naman naka broadcast sa world ang 0320, okay lang. Pero scary din kasi ang bilis lang ma figure out ng codes. I'm just so praning with security kasi.

[ms_teryosa]

hindi naman siguro alam ng ibang tao yun passcode nya sis.sa dami ng combination ang hirap naman malaman nyang 0320 na yan.. lol

[simang]

^keep your anonimity na lang sis kase you just broadcasted the passcode we're not sure baka may nakakakilala sayo dito or matrack ka using your ISP or something. I suggest to remove the numbers na lang for you and your bf's privacy and safety

[ms_teryosa]

it's ok sis.. sa locker key nya lang naman yun sa office.. di naman nila alam kung san sya nagwowork.

[t_r_i_s_h]

^ sweet naman pero sis tell him to change narin malay mo meron may kilala sainyo dito heheh

[ms_teryosa]

if a guy say " will you marry me" pero jokingly does he mean it? coz yesterday when im talking to my bf we were teasing at each other kasi he's out of town so i tld him i miss him na then suddenly bigla sya nagsabi na "babe, will you marry me?" then i ask him "are you serious" then he said yes then sabi ko usap na lang tayo pag balik mo ng Manila.
mahilig aksi syang magsabi ng "will yu marry me" then ako naman i always tell him na pagplanuhan natin yan, hindi basta basta yan" what do you think, serious naman kaya sya or alam nya kasing hindi ako basta basta pumapayag kaya lagi nyang sinasabi yun dahil alam nyang hindi naman ako papayag agad.

[sacred cow]

^ baka half meant, bf mo yan dapat alam mo kung kelan siya totally serious

[simang]

^^girls these days di na uubra sa kanila yung saktong will you marry me lang. Proposals nowadays may bago ng standards, pag seryosong nagsabi na lang ng "pakasal na tayo" feeling nila biro lang.

So yeah you have to talk to him about that when he comes back

[ms_teryosa]

kelangan ba bongga or mega propose talaga si BF? like yung mga napapanood natin sa TV? or ok na yung while you guys are talking to each other eh bigla na lang nya sasabihin na "will you marry me"
guys, do you prepare ba on how will you propose sa mga gf's nyo or ok an yung yayain nyo na lang basta basta na pakasal na kayo?

[simang]

^exactly my point, kelangan ba bongga for you to consider na seryoso sya?

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^^ What does he know about you and your stand when it comes to proposals? Kasi if say you have set something and di pa na achiever, so malamang baka di pa serious. Pero again, things can change. It's a big leap, so this has to be clear cut talaga! In my case kasi, alam ng guy ko na I am hoping to get an engagement ring - kasi alam niya na lahat ng women in my family, for all generations na inabutan ko eh talagang may engagement ring, kaya he knows that I will make a big deal out of it!

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Speaking of proposals, not sure also if this question has been asked before, GuyTalkers, how important is it for you to have a ring on hand when you propose to a girl?

[t_r_i_s_h]

For me a simple proposal will do, pero syempre pag pinagplanuhan dagdag points yun.

[argento]

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what do you think, serious naman kaya sya or alam nya kasing hindi ako basta basta pumapayag kaya lagi nyang sinasabi yun dahil alam nyang hindi naman ako papayag agad.

I think serious bf mo. Ikaw lang may ayaw.

[ms_teryosa]

ganun? para kasing madalas nya sabihin sa'kin na "will you mary me" then sasabihin ko lang "yes, but we need to plan for it" then attawa na lang sya so im not sure kung he mean it ba talaga or he's not serious.

sa mga guys, is proposal important for you ba talaga? kelangan ba ipagsigawan nyo sa mga madlang people na you're proposing to your gf's?

[Pink_Sugar]

Yung bf ko din for 11 years lagi akong tinatanong pero feeling ko hindi sya serious kaya deadma lang ako, tapos sinisisi nya ako pag sinasabi kong dika naman seryoso ano? Jinojoke mo lang ako. Pero minsan napapagod na ako sa tanong nyang yan

[simang]

^bakit di nyo pag usapan ng maayos? bakit feeling mo nagjojoke lang sya? some girls it's a joke pag walang ring, kapag hindi 'for the books'. malay mo seryoso sya. oh well you'll never know kase you think he's just kidding. whatever you're thinking, that's your reality

[Pink_Sugar]

^sa nararamdaman ko kasi sis if talagang seryoso sya eh may mga follow up sya sa akin after nya magtanong, hindi yung pag sinabi ko na nagjojoke ka lang naman eh, tatawa lang sya tapos sasagutin nya ako ng may paninisi na wag ko daw sya sisihin na pagdating ng araw na ganub mangyari kasi di ako pumayag na pa joke din ang pagkakasabi. Lol