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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #20 on: January 25, 2010, 01:27:37 am »
^ Sis you can ask the lawyer to mediate between the two of you din.
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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #21 on: January 27, 2010, 01:57:30 pm »
Good pm Kneekee and to everyone!

Meron bang girltalker na lawyer who can help me? Kasi the father of my son is going to visit this Friday night. He will get our son for a 3 day weekend trip. I told him its fine with me and sabi ko sa text message, na dont forget about the yayas salary. He replied "hindi naman na ako diyan, ang alam ko gastos ko lang ang pagkain at school at ibang pangangailangan niya."

Eh kasama naman sa ibang pangangailangan ng anak namin ang yaya, diba? Ang reply ko, "hindi na kita pipilitin kung ayaw mo."

Gusto ko sana i clear na i have the right as a wife (as of the moment) and as a mother of my son re. this. He does not know the reason I am having our marriage petition na void and null is because of this.

Meron bang pwedeng mag assist sa akin sa friday night re. this. Gusto ko kasi in writing and sana may mag mediate between the two of us.

I have no means of paying right now, I recently paid all of my recent salary sa mga gastusin because I am no longer fully supported. I can pay naman sa next pay day. Please let me know thanks!

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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #22 on: January 30, 2010, 03:38:04 pm »
Sis kikaygimikera? what happened? sorry now lang ulit nag GT
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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #23 on: January 31, 2010, 03:34:15 am »
Good am! :)

Hmmm, what happened, ang haba sis.

Friday:

1. I finally caught him. :) Thru his post paid line bill na nakapangalan sa akin. :) I talked to him about it and of course, denied it. :P I was actually wanted him to cooperate kasi baka pwede ko na yung ground ng annulment in case, you know - may marriage license pala kami na existing.

2. I made the agreement in writing. ALL CONSIDERATIONS. Sis, ang sweldo 60k a month. Ang hinihingi ko ay 8k/month for this 2010. WOW. AYAW! DAHIL di daw niya babayaran ang yaya. LOL! So 4k a month lang ang ibibigay? Well, I threatened him I file sa POEA about it, and will file a criminal case against him.

3. He signed. While I do all the talking, na tignan niya salamin niya bago siya mambabae... :P Im so mean!

4. Okay na. Hes texting na bawas 4k raw. Pero sorry non negotiable ang sabi ko. :)

alls good. Kapag 6 months no 8k this 2010 eh lagot siya. Ipapakulong ko talaga siya or korte kami magkikita.

5. I texted the other girl. I told her, goodluck to them and hindi ko naman siya aawayin dahil buong buo kong ibibigay ang asawa ko. ;)

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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #24 on: January 31, 2010, 11:49:16 am »
Grabe naman sis. Why is he using the postpaid line under your name? tss.

8K lang di pa niya maibigay?eh 60K/ month naman pala salary niya. Ok lang sana kung hindi nagkakasya sa kanya yung salary niya. Bukod sa sarili niya may iba pa ba sha ginagastusan?

Know what, my auntie demanded that her ex-husband pay for everything that her children needs kasi wala naman ibang pinagkakagastusan si ex. saka the fact na anak niya yun and obligation as father to give the needs.

Have the documents notarize na sis. :)
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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #25 on: January 31, 2010, 04:30:07 pm »
^^8K lang ayaw pa ibigay.  Actually, kahit walang kasulatan, pwede mo siyang habulin and for a larger share of his income.  Kaso kailangan mong pumunta ng korte and all that.  The amount given for child support depends on the financial capacity e at hindi nagiging pinal ang desisyon ng korte.  Ibig sabihin kung lumaki ang pangangailangan ng anak o lumaki ang capacity ng tatay, pwede ulit hingin sa korte na dagdagan yung amount.   

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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #26 on: February 01, 2010, 01:32:08 am »
meron dun last page di niya pinirmahan kasi ayusin ko raw re. the dates ng arrangement of my kid every christmas and new year kaya di pa pwede ipanotarize.

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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #27 on: February 04, 2010, 09:57:25 pm »
please HELP!!! can anyone please send me a sample of a demand letter for child support....i think this is step one muna...THANKS in advance...my e-mail add is gracey9347@yahoo.com

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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #28 on: February 05, 2010, 07:56:17 am »
êmailed you sis.

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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #29 on: February 06, 2010, 08:43:46 am »
^pa-email din sis!hihi

i thought demand letters are supposed to be given by the lawyer? binigyan na namin neto dati yung ex-husband ko but i wasnt comfortable with the lawyer so d ko napagpatuloy yung kaso.

now, im starting again. tama kayo, hindi ito because of the "money" but this is the right of our kids. i dont want to become weak when it concerns my kiddos. saka gusto ko pasahan ng obligation yung asawa ko, para ba kasing ang dali para sa kanya na mangiwan or even kalimutan kami.  ::)

i asked him to meet me this afternoon, we'll talk about the support.

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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #30 on: February 06, 2010, 11:40:35 am »
Alam ko nga din demand letters are issued by the lawyers.

In my situation, indirect communication kami ni SD and his family. Ayoko na makipagusap sa kanila. Nasasayangan ako sa panahon if kakausapin ko sila kaya lagi ako may mediator.

Sis, kikaygimikera, what about the arrangement during Christmas and New Year? Ako its either a day before or after those said holidays lang yung kids pwede mahiram ni SD. Basta yung Christmas Eve and New Year's Eve sakin sila. May family naman sha eh. My kids are my everything.

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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #31 on: February 07, 2010, 12:23:36 am »
yup indeed, demand letter is issued by a lawyer...send sa HR ng work ng irresponsible na nilalang... :P sa house na tinutuluyan nya....pwede nga din sa kaibigan basta send as many as possible daw...para alang lusot na di natanggap.

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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #32 on: February 07, 2010, 04:31:10 am »
Christmas Eve and New Years Eve sa amin yung bata. Umangal siya run kaya di niya pinirmahan. Pero Di parin ko papayag talaga.

What happened to you mga sis? Ako basta pag hindi ako nakakuha ng sustento by the end of Feb and March kakasuhan ko na agad siya at ang manning agency niya. His family runs the business kasi and mother in law ko ang naghahandle ng payroll.

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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #33 on: February 27, 2010, 01:24:42 pm »
hi mga sis .. i just recently separated with my husband pero verbal pa lang separation namen .. im planning on doing the demand letter for child support then have it notarized by a lawyer just in case.. now pwede ko ba gawin yun kahit na hindi pa kame annulled or legally separated? tia!

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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #34 on: March 13, 2010, 10:34:41 pm »
demand letter - a complainant can do this if she does not have a lawyer yet.

petition for support / custody - never ending. no finality. if there's an issue, either of the parties can go to court.

ayrise, you can have a child support agreement even if your not annulled or legally separated yet.

there's a law that you can automatically deduct the child support from her salary.


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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #35 on: March 21, 2010, 12:50:39 am »
eto ang pinoproblema ko hanggang ngayon. yung magaling ko kasing asawa nagtatago na at di na nagpapadala ng financial support sa aming mag-ina! habang nasa barko sya last year, nag-file ako ng kaso na ra9262 against sa kanya. then umuwi sya at nagtago. ang ginawa ko dinala ko mismo yung copy ng kasong ni-file ko sa agency nya mismo, ayun napilitan makipagkita sa akin kasi di sya paalisin ng agency kapag di nakipag-settle sa akin. kaya nagpunta kami sa pao at gumawa ng kasulatan na magpapadala sya buwan-buwan. kaso nga lang, after kong iurong ang demanda at makaalis sya last oct., 1 buwan lang nagpadala at naglaho na naman parang bula!

kaya ngayon pupunta na ulit ako sa pao na gumawa ng kasulatan namin at irereklamo ko ulit sya. sabi kasi ng pao bumalik lang ako sa kanya at tutulungan nya akong makasuhan ulit ang asawa ko at ma-i-issue-han sya ng hold departure order once na bumalik sya dito, para magtanda at di na ulit makaalis. this time di na ako papaareglo. kelangan kasi talaga yung sweldo nya direkta na sa bank account ko eh kasi pag hindi at sa kanya bumabagsak ang sweldo sya, di na sya nakakaalala talaga na may anak sya dito!

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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #36 on: March 21, 2010, 07:00:06 pm »
Good am! :)

Hmmm, what happened, ang haba sis.

Friday:

1. I finally caught him. :) Thru his post paid line bill na nakapangalan sa akin. :) I talked to him about it and of course, denied it. :P I was actually wanted him to cooperate kasi baka pwede ko na yung ground ng annulment in case, you know - may marriage license pala kami na existing.

2. I made the agreement in writing. ALL CONSIDERATIONS. Sis, ang sweldo 60k a month. Ang hinihingi ko ay 8k/month for this 2010. WOW. AYAW! DAHIL di daw niya babayaran ang yaya. LOL! So 4k a month lang ang ibibigay? Well, I threatened him I file sa POEA about it, and will file a criminal case against him.

3. He signed. While I do all the talking, na tignan niya salamin niya bago siya mambabae... :P Im so mean!

4. Okay na. Hes texting na bawas 4k raw. Pero sorry non negotiable ang sabi ko. :)

alls good. Kapag 6 months no 8k this 2010 eh lagot siya. Ipapakulong ko talaga siya or korte kami magkikita.

5. I texted the other girl. I told her, goodluck to them and hindi ko naman siya aawayin dahil buong buo kong ibibigay ang asawa ko. ;)

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SIS punta kana sa POEA ang alam ko 70% ng salary dapat ang naiiwalan or support sa family(remitance).
grabe naman ang hubby mo 8k lang ayaw pa e anak naman niya ang dapat supportaan ano mabibili mo ngayon sa 4k na gusto niyang ibigay dapat pakita mo sa kanya ang computation ng monthly expenses mo.dami talaga ngayon na irresponsible na mga tatay gumawa ng bata tapos ayaw supportaan

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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #37 on: April 01, 2010, 10:28:18 pm »
sis .. anybody can send me child support letter format?? paano niyo ba ginawa ito? im coming back to manila this april gusto ko sana ifinalize na yung letter .. sabi nila a private lawyer cost so much .. so i really dont know what to do.. maybe gagatusan ko un lawyer pero pwede bang ipanotarize na lang yung letter from any attorney? and not really hire an attorney since wala pa naman case .

please PM me po for the child support letter.. pls plss .. need it badly .. TIA!!

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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #38 on: April 01, 2010, 10:35:46 pm »
^ You can go to UP Office of Legal Aid or IBP's Legal Aid office for assistance in drafting a demand letter.  In my opinion though, mas effective at mas may panakot na effect if the letter comes from a lawyer rather than yourself.

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Re: Child Support Thread
« Reply #39 on: April 01, 2010, 10:41:49 pm »
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sis if in case maguusap kami then mag aagree kami verbally how much he can give to my child.. then i can go to UP office of Legal Aid .. ask for help in drafting a Demand Letter.. then have it notarize?

Can the UP office of Legal Aid notarize it themselves? and since "Demand" letter siya .. is this the same as an agreement letter stating the amount he should give to the child?

kasi baka parang "demand" meaning your filing a case na agad .. he is still doing his duties as a father pa naman so wala pa ako problema .. i just want to be two stepa ahead of the situation .. kung sakali dumating un time na kalimutan na ren niya pati anak namen ..

im posting this BLOG .. for single mommies out there .. madami ren ako natutunan on how to File Child Support Case ..

http://www.jackieacosta.com/

Thanks sa reply sis!! ** hugs **

 

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