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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #40 on: April 21, 2009, 07:57:35 am »
imo, di [textspeak!]. eh pano kung ideny ng girl na di naman ang husband mo ang father ng pingbubuntis nya diba. so ikaw lang mpapahiya. di pa rin sapat na evidence yan porket nabuntis [textspeak!] yung girl.

i think the question was raised on the assumption na yung other girl ang nag-i-insist ng paternity
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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #41 on: April 23, 2009, 04:21:37 pm »
hi, need your help about this concern, got this office mate na may issue about her husband having an affair, the problem is iyong babae ang gumagastos para lang makasama you guy.  Now the question is, is it possible to go to the mistress' office and talked to the Human Resources para matanggal or at least magkaroon ng warning yung mistress about this, by the way, hindi magka officemate sina guy and mistress.  Does a company values the  integrity of its employees kapag ganito ang situation?

if the company is really strict on morality, then maybe, you can approach their HR, tawagin yung employee para kausapin ... may mga companies na, strict when it comes to office relationships, the relationship may not be office-related, pero yung nagiging topic ka ng mga officemates mo, during breaktime, nakaka-bagabag yun. 

like for religious institutions, kinakausap agad nila yan.
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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #42 on: May 04, 2009, 09:13:15 am »
I have a dilemma, well actually, my stupid cousin's dilemma.

My stupid cousin (yes she's stupid so i don't feel guilty for calling her stupid) got pregnant with an SOB who is already married.   Di sya separated ha, STILL married pa rin ang guy. In fact, 3 years pa lang ata sya married. Hindi mayaman ang guy, hamak na empleyado lang.  He's 28 and my cousin's 25 ata. What's worse, my cousin KNEW about the guy's status but still continued with the relationship as if it didn't matter.  In fact, ang kerida kong pinsan ay parang proud pa sa fact na nabuntis sya ng stupidong lalaki.

Sa sobrang kakapalan ng mukha ng lalaki at ng stupid kong cousin, nagimbento sila sa tita ko (na nanay ng cousin ko) na di pa raw sila pwede magpakasal kasi nga di pa daw ready.  Bulls(#@*( di ba.  Nagsinungaling pa ang mga gag0.  Fortunately, my sister can't take it anymore so sinabi nya sa mommy ko real ang situation kaya nalaman ng buong angkan namin na kerida nga itong pinsan ko.

Anyway, my question is, can the wife sue my cousin?  Even if my cousin's stupid and all, I'm still concerned about her welfare.  My cousin and the guy don't live together.  I assume, umuuwi pa rin ito sa asawa.  Pero ang press release ng lalaking gag0 ay naghilaway na DAW sila.  Tita ko ay SUPER bait, to the point na nakakainis na dahil hinayaan nyang magkita pa rin yung cousin ko at yung lalaki even if my tita found about the real status of the guy.  Natatakot kasi tita ko na lumayas ang cousin ko eh mahal na mahal ng tita ko yung stupida kong pinsan.

Kapag ba kahit hindi live in, basta may anak, pwedeng kasuhan ang kabit at yung lalaki?   Sa totoo lang, my friend akong nakulong because of adultery at ako ang nagbail sa kanya so I know kung ano pwede mangyari sa cousin ko kapag pinagpatuloy nya katang@han nya.  Plus, yung asawa nung guy, may kilalang politicians eh baka mamaya may masama pang mangyari sa cousin ko.

I want them to split up, but what can I do, hamak na pinsan lang ako.  My mom can't do anything since my aunt really loves my cousin so much na my aunt even tolerated the guy's mothereffing presence in her house.  Bob0 pinsan ko dahil hindi nya alam ang repercussions ng mga pinagagawa nya.  Sana mabasa nya ito. 

Sorry haba ng dilemma ko.
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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #43 on: May 04, 2009, 12:25:33 pm »
if they tend to live in one roof, and pinakikita nila sa tao na parang mag asawa sila...then oo

may alam akong case na ganyan, may kabit yung lalaki, binahay nya sa apartment ang kabit but umuuwi pa din sa original asawa...nalaman ng orginal family about sa kabit so nag gather sila ng evidences...nag hire pa sila ng family at pinatira katabi nung kabit, at ginawa nilang witness yon para madiin si kabit at father...ayun na convict sila..guilty!!! para manalo sa case na to, better hire a good lawyer at gawan ng good strategy para madiin sila...talagang patience is a virtue talaga....never nagdakdak ang wife but yet pailalalim pala na nag iibestiga at gumagastos talaga

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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #44 on: June 16, 2009, 03:58:17 pm »
kwestyun lang poh...what if di sila kasal ng first n naanakan nung guy then nagsama sila til mkpanganak ang girl. and d rison why they never pursue on getting married is the cousin of the guy who happens to be his ex gf too na sinamahan prin nung guy nung iniwan nya ang girl na nabuntis nya kc buntis na rin ang cousin nya sknya.

meron bng pwedeng gawin ang unang girl na nabuntis nung guy, i mean any legal action against them (sa guy at sa cousin na kinakasama ng guy ngayon) or ala sya right kc di naman cla kasal nung guy?
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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #45 on: July 10, 2009, 12:07:39 am »
if they tend to live in one roof, and pinakikita nila sa tao na parang mag asawa sila...then oo

may alam akong case na ganyan, may kabit yung lalaki, binahay nya sa apartment ang kabit but umuuwi pa din sa original asawa...nalaman ng orginal family about sa kabit so nag gather sila ng evidences...nag hire pa sila ng family at pinatira katabi nung kabit, at ginawa nilang witness yon para madiin si kabit at father...ayun na convict sila..guilty!!! para manalo sa case na to, better hire a good lawyer at gawan ng good strategy para madiin sila...talagang patience is a virtue talaga....never nagdakdak ang wife but yet pailalalim pala na nag iibestiga at gumagastos talaga

sis, nakulong ba si kabit and si father?  ???
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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #46 on: July 23, 2009, 09:33:40 pm »
in my case naman separated(not legally separated) parents ko pero frends pa rin sila. [textspeak!] mother ko kasi laging wala dito so ayun, si father naghahanap ng asawa figure until may naging gf na sya. eto na.[textspeak!] kabit nabuntis. sabi nia tatay ko raw ama. e feeling ko hindi naman talaga. nasa province kasi [textspeak!] babae, e maagang nanganak si babae based sa date ng pagpunta ng tatay ko dun. ayaw ring ipa-dna ng babae para magkaalamanan na. pano un? anong pwede kong gawin? kasi shempre ayoko namang gamitin tatay ko at sabihin sa kanya [textspeak!] bata khit hindi naman.

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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #47 on: August 15, 2009, 10:12:42 pm »
hintayin mo muna sis til hingi cla support.. tpos dun nyo na sabihin na kelangan iprove nya sa dad mo na kanya nga yung baby.. and the only way to prove that is i think dna test e.. kng ayaw ng third party, hnd din magpprosper, kc hnd proven na sa dad mo nga ...

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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #48 on: September 08, 2009, 02:35:41 pm »
I have a dilemma, well actually, my stupid cousin's dilemma.

My stupid cousin (yes she's stupid so i don't feel guilty for calling her stupid) got pregnant with an SOB who is already married.   Di sya separated ha, STILL married pa rin ang guy. In fact, 3 years pa lang ata sya married. Hindi mayaman ang guy, hamak na empleyado lang.  He's 28 and my cousin's 25 ata. What's worse, my cousin KNEW about the guy's status but still continued with the relationship as if it didn't matter.  In fact, ang kerida kong pinsan ay parang proud pa sa fact na nabuntis sya ng stupidong lalaki.

Sa sobrang kakapalan ng mukha ng lalaki at ng stupid kong cousin, nagimbento sila sa tita ko (na nanay ng cousin ko) na di pa raw sila pwede magpakasal kasi nga di pa daw ready.  Bulls(#@*( di ba.  Nagsinungaling pa ang mga gag0.  Fortunately, my sister can't take it anymore so sinabi nya sa mommy ko real ang situation kaya nalaman ng buong angkan namin na kerida nga itong pinsan ko.

Anyway, my question is, can the wife sue my cousin?  Even if my cousin's stupid and all, I'm still concerned about her welfare.  My cousin and the guy don't live together.  I assume, umuuwi pa rin ito sa asawa.  Pero ang press release ng lalaking gag0 ay naghilaway na DAW sila.  Tita ko ay SUPER bait, to the point na nakakainis na dahil hinayaan nyang magkita pa rin yung cousin ko at yung lalaki even if my tita found about the real status of the guy.  Natatakot kasi tita ko na lumayas ang cousin ko eh mahal na mahal ng tita ko yung stupida kong pinsan.

Kapag ba kahit hindi live in, basta may anak, pwedeng kasuhan ang kabit at yung lalaki?   Sa totoo lang, my friend akong nakulong because of adultery at ako ang nagbail sa kanya so I know kung ano pwede mangyari sa cousin ko kapag pinagpatuloy nya katang@han nya.  Plus, yung asawa nung guy, may kilalang politicians eh baka mamaya may masama pang mangyari sa cousin ko.

I want them to split up, but what can I do, hamak na pinsan lang ako.  My mom can't do anything since my aunt really loves my cousin so much na my aunt even tolerated the guy's mothereffing presence in her house.  Bob0 pinsan ko dahil hindi nya alam ang repercussions ng mga pinagagawa nya.  Sana mabasa nya ito. 

Sorry haba ng dilemma ko.


ano na update sa kwento ng cousin mo?
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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #49 on: September 14, 2009, 09:53:31 am »
hi po!need ko lang po ang advice nio! [textspeak!] sister ko po at hubby nya ay matagal ng hiwalay nung 2004 pa ata.walang financial s support [textspeak!] mga pamangkin ko na kambal pa,minsan [textspeak!] mgpadala and hindi naman sapat?anong case pedeng i file dun? and pwede nya b sampahan ng kaso sa ate ko kasi nagkaanak sa ibang guy ang ate ko per hindi naman sila mgkasama nung father ? pls help mga sis! thanks

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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #50 on: September 14, 2009, 10:07:49 am »
kasal sila nung una niang asawa? kung kasal sila then naanakan siya ng iba oO pwede siyang kasuhan dun lalu na at mapapatunayan na hindi anak un nung asawa niya. Regarding financial support pwede siyang magdemand dun. Kuha siya ng lawyer kasi kahit hiwalay na sila( legal) karapatan pa din ng sister mo humingi ng financial support.
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« Reply #51 on: November 12, 2009, 06:18:27 am »
^ fully agree. if the indiscretion has nothing to do with work or is in no way connected with the employee's functions the employer has no right to dismiss the employee lest the employer be made liable for illegal dismissal. :)

What if magkasama sila sa isang office. ganito situation ng asawa ko eh. yung kabit nya, tag-office nila at ibang dept lang. nakakainis na kasi di madaan sa pakiusap. parang kapal na nila no! pwede ko ba ireklamo sila sa hr?

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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #52 on: November 12, 2009, 09:14:53 pm »
bigmomma....malaking share ang nakuha ng wife sa mga properties, the wife opted na wag ipakulong ang husband

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« Reply #53 on: November 15, 2009, 09:08:14 pm »
actually sis it is the girl who is insisting that my husband is the father. i think she is bound to file a case for child support once she delivers the baby. so ako naman, can i file concubinage? so silang dalawa ang kakasuhan ko.
kasi if that is what she will do she has to prove that the baby is really my husband's, so pag na prove nya, pwede ko na sila kasuhan?

nakakarelate ako dito pero father ko [textspeak!] may kabit. any advice?

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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #54 on: January 04, 2010, 03:00:44 pm »
Given these circumstances, mukhang di muna uubra ang concubinage. Kailangan, hintay muna. To prove concubinage, kailangan either binahay ng husband si mistress or they had sexual intercourse under scandalous circumstances.

Di naman binahay ni husband si mistress, so out na iyon. Plus, di naman porke nag-buntis si mistress, scandalous circumstances na iyon. Di pa iyon enough.

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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #55 on: November 13, 2011, 01:58:01 am »
nakakarelate ako dito pero father ko [textspeak!] may kabit. any advice?

from what i know din, kailangan binahay ni husband si girl bago mag-stick yung concubinage charge. and you have to sue both of them, meaning pati hubby makukulong if you are able to secure a conviction... pero kahit kulong si hubby, married pa rin kayo unless you are able to get annulment.

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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #56 on: November 13, 2011, 12:54:23 pm »
@merryjazz kumusta na ang case ng parents mo sis?

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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #57 on: November 15, 2011, 09:29:02 am »
What if magkasama sila sa isang office. ganito situation ng asawa ko eh. yung kabit nya, tag-office nila at ibang dept lang. nakakainis na kasi di madaan sa pakiusap. parang kapal na nila no! pwede ko ba ireklamo sila sa hr?

yes, sis. pwede mo itong ireklamo sa HR ng company nila. may mga companies kasi na "Strict" when it comes to extra-marital affairs, at pag confirmed, pwede nila itong tanggalin sa trabaho.
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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #58 on: October 12, 2012, 02:45:54 am »
Since medyo related naman tong question ko about suing mistresses, ano ba pwedeng gawin if ayaw lumbayan ng kabit si Hubby even though sinabi na ni hubby na ayaw na nya dun sa kabit? Pwede ba ipareport to if she keeps on texting and communicating with my hubby?
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Re: Are There Ways to Sue mistresses
« Reply #59 on: October 12, 2012, 01:49:42 pm »
Pwede siguro file ng civil case lang violation ng Civil Code.  Pwede rin siguro humingi ng damages.

 

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