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Title: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: minicake on December 15, 2011, 03:29:40 pm
Hi mga sis do you believe in woman's instinct? Kasi I really feel something na may ginagawa hubby ko because sobrang drastic yung pagbabago nya. Tapos ang hirap pa since he's a cop there was a time na my duty sya and I doubt talaga minsan kasi di consistent minsan for a week meron minsan wala,kapag tinatanong ko sya syempre sinong t**** ang aamin diba? Nakikita ko sa mata nya na walang warm yung mga tingin nya sakin and everytime I did something wrong major or minor he never failed to laugh at me and say WALA KA TALAGA sa ayos. Sobrang nasasaktan ako kahit pa paulit ulit ko ibrought up sa kanya what I really feel magsosorry sya pero parating ulitin. Then after ko manganak I sobrang naging makakalimutin ako,di nya maintindihan yun at parati pa ko papagalitan instead of support me or making paalala all the time.. Haaay sobrang depressed ako. Btw,we're just 1 year 4 months na kasal. Pero parang wala ng pagmamahal at respeto sakin asawa ko.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: ladyarcher on December 15, 2011, 10:54:23 pm
Hi sis, I believe in woman's instinct. though may times talaga na palpak. My bf and i have been together for 2 years. we both have kids with our past relationships. We're both single parents. We're supposed to have our civil rights last month but he call off the wed. I was of course hurt and wondering why he'd do so. since he wanted us to get married na. I asked why.reason niya was, He needs to find a stable job for our future. I don't believe him. I know someones behind this that made him changed his mind. I even asked if the reason was the mother of his kid, sabi niya hindi and doesn't speak to her daw. I'm not so stupid to believe. I know he hides something from me. Siyempre kinukulit ko parin siya for the reason of cancelling the wedding and i still get the same answer. My bf has never been honest and open. But i have a strong feeling na he's cheating. Why? if i asked to go out he has all the reason out of his mind,alibis not to see me. I caught him having a different sim card.which he denies that its his. Siyempre bakit nga naman niya aaminin, right? He changed a lot and that makes me hurt. kahit hindi niya aminin i know he's hiding something. well hindi naman tatagal at lalabas din yung truth.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: rheagirl on December 16, 2011, 12:33:00 am
sobra. once you're feeling it ibig sabihin positive talaga. i don't know pero most na may nararamdaman naman ako positive na may ginagawa siyang hindi kaaya aya ang thank God at nahuhuli naman.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: gorgeousdiva on December 18, 2011, 10:29:50 am
My instinct is 100% reliable, all the time! Ang gagawin kasi nila uunahan ka na ng galit kesyo kung ano ano iniisip mo. They will deny to death even huling huli mo na. Sis, what you need to do is find a proof. Even may proof ka na, mahiirapan ka parin paaminin sya. Been there, done that.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: gab54 on December 18, 2011, 10:58:49 am
extreme ako, normally very reliable ang woman's instinct ko, pero pag nagtiwala ako, buong buo kaya i became blind...
sis minicake, from my experience, these are the signs na na observe ko sa hubby ko when he was cheating... (ngayon good boy na)
- madalas umalis ng house, late umuuwi
- laging napapabango
- every am nag pupush up at weights, nagpapalaki ng katawan
- monthly magpakulay ng hair (to hide gray hair)
- madalas may katext
- naka silent mode ang celfone
- nakatago na ang celfone (dati pa kalat kalat)
- madalas online
- yung passwords niya sa email/fb na alam ko, lahat pinalitan, hindi ko na ma check
- madaling magalit pag nag na-nag ako, dati naman hindi
- pati music na pinapakinggan niya iba na, parang hindi bagay sa edad niya
- hindi na ako nilalambing, no sex, no kisses
- malaki ang nawawala bank account (later ko na nadiscover)

in short, pag malaki ang pagbabago, mag ingat ka na. dont confront w/o proof, hindi yan aamin. at lalong mag iingat yan at wala kang mahanap na proof. investigate first & look for evidence, saka mo na confront, pero be prepared of the consequence...
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: ladyarcher on December 19, 2011, 12:30:58 pm
@ gorgeousdiva.. very true,sis! ako din huling huli na deny pa to death which is nakaka asar talaga.sobra pa mag explain na hindi na connected.

@gab54.. naku sis ganyan din sa bf ko. he changed all his password after knowing it all.and now ayaw na ipaalam sakin. what's there to hide if wala naman talagang gingawa db?
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: klengmorales on December 19, 2011, 02:56:58 pm
Ganyan din ang BF ko. dati alam ko ang PW sa FB ngayon hindi na. Ang Cp na dating pakalat kalat ngayon wala na at may sim card sya ngayon na gnagmit na hindi ko alam ang number. Pinipilit nya ipagawa yung isang CP para dun daw niya ilagay ang sim card. pag sa maayos na phone naman nya ilalagay, hindi nya ko sinasabihan. kaya ang hirap kontakin. hay buhay talaga.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: minicake on December 19, 2011, 04:11:30 pm
Thanks mga sis.. Kelangan ko nga muna mag gather talaga ng evidence bago umaksyon hirap kasi layo ng work nya sa QC pa while I'm here in Laguna.. Gaya nagyon my Christmas Party sila di nya kami sinama ni baby ang reson nya wala naman daw masyado event kainan lang. Then just kanina nagmessage ang gf ng kabuddy nya di daw kami pumunta ni baby ang saya daw kasi ng mga bata kasi andun si Jollibee and my Sta Claus pa daw those both bring hapiness to my baby.. And my mga gifts and games pa sa mga misis and babies. Grabe talaga nakakasama ng loob.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: gab54 on December 19, 2011, 06:16:30 pm
correct mga sis, bakit mag change ng password, bakit naka silent mode ang celfone, bakit nakatago hindi na pakalat kalat ang fone if u have nothing to hide? try niyo hiram hiramin ang celfone kunwari wala kayong load, then investigate, if ayaw pahiram beware...
THOSE WHO HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE HIDES NOTHING   >:(
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: ladyarcher on December 19, 2011, 06:30:20 pm
@ klengmorales. naku sis, yung bf ko while driving dumukot siya ng yosi and boom! biglang may nahulog na ibang sim na hindi ko alam.. i asked kung anong sim na yun and he told me sa uncle daw niya..grabe he looks stupid lang sa sinagot niya..imagine sa uncle daw niya pero nasa kanya and yung sim. i was trying to ask for it to check pero tinapon niya sa labas ng kotse..well yun palang obvious na db?huli na deny parin  to death! asar!
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: klengmorales on December 19, 2011, 07:57:23 pm
Oo nga sis, dati hindi naman siya ganun. Actually, may nakuha akong number sa Cellphone nya (nagmamadli pako nito kaya isang number lang). hindi ko matawagan kasi baka alam nung number na yun kung ano number ko or dito sa office or mga friends ko. naghahahanap pako ng taga tawag, Just to know kung ka group nya ba talaga yun or babae. Take note, taga mapua sya and I doubt kung may babae silang ka group

Ang ginagawa ko ngayon is nililista ko lahat ng mga ayaw ko sa kanya. Andito pa ko sa office pero gusto ko ng umiyak. ang sikip sikip sa dibdib. more than 7 years na kami. Eto na yata ang 7 year itch.  Never ko pa sya nahulihan na may iba. kaya this feeling is very new to me. ang hirap huminga. hayz :'(
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: gab54 on December 19, 2011, 08:13:43 pm
naku tama! yan ang isang nakalimutan ko sa listahan ko, signs of cheating...
- may new sim na hindi ko alam ang number!!!

aside from that,
- amoyin ang damit, minsan may amoy babae!
- pag uwi minsan maliligo agad!
- check the car, may kakaibang amoy? hair? underwear? (in my case, pantyliner ang nakita ko!!!)
- if postpaid, biglang tumaas ang bill
- nag dedelete ng email kung dati hindi naman hinahayaan lang mag accumulate
- if u find a condom w/ him, which hindi naman ginagamit w/ u

haynaku, umiinit na ulo ko, naaalala ko ang nakaraan. buti nalang tinigilan na ni hubby si kabitch!  >:(

Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: klengmorales on December 19, 2011, 08:19:00 pm
Mag BF pa lang naman kami. kaya lang ramdam ko ang pagbabago nya especially sa CP nya. may isang number na pala. take note ako pa ang  kumuha ng sun post paid nya. tapos ngayon ayaw na gamitin. mas importante daw yung mga text nya sa bago nyang sim.

huhuhu. nanlalamig nako dito sa office. ang hirap
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: ladyarcher on December 19, 2011, 11:21:11 pm
naku mga sis.. we all feel the same way pala.. akala ko ako lang yung ganito.. tapos may time na i really wanted to cry tsaka sana may makausap man lang about this.. minsan na paparanoid na rin ako.
isa talaga sa mga sign of cheating yang sim na yan..na hindi pinapaalam satin mga girls. try ringing their phones once in a while.ginagawa ko to check if naka off ng wala naman sa oras..
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: minicake on December 20, 2011, 12:01:29 pm
Sis di effective yung paring mo yung number na you know kasi madaling i call divert.. Grabe talaga yang mga lalaking yan. Nakakainis!!!! >:(
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: momentum on December 20, 2011, 12:31:02 pm
nako nakakainis talaga!!!!!  >:(
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: ladyarcher on December 21, 2011, 02:04:08 pm
sabagay, may point ka dun sis. madali nga mag call divert di ko naisip yun at madaling bumili ng isang phone! naku..mga boys talaga wala sa ayos!  >:(
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: mdanica07 on December 26, 2011, 06:35:31 pm
nako nakakainis talaga!!!!!  >:(

Korek!
101% woman's instinct...
Believe it.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: klengmorales on January 01, 2012, 11:46:46 am
Pinsan nya lang daw ang katext nya.  :'( Pero I doubt it. so ngayon ang simcard na ginagamit nya pangtext sa akin ay nawawala. SO parang it means icucut na nya ang relationship namin. I asked him kung gusto nya ng space ayaw naman nya. I think I really need to move on kahit sobrang sakit. New year pero umiiyak ako. ano ba naman to... :'(
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: diamond.sky on January 01, 2012, 11:01:12 pm
For me.. to see is to believe kasi... natural na kasi sating mga babae na maduda at selosa that is why.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: crisswiss on January 03, 2012, 02:28:59 pm
i believe talaga sa woman's instinct. sobrang makamandag niyan.
sa case mo i believe na di ka dapat pumayag na ginaganun ka. kung di mo siya madaan sa mabutng usapan, mag imbestiga ka ng sarili mo. hindi naman masama na maghalungkat ng gamit, bumisita sa opisina, yayain siya makipag date, etc. tsaka ayusin mo rin ang actions mo. baka naman nagbago ka rin  before mo i judge ang asawa mo.
kung ako kasi ang tatanungin, mas mabuti na sigurista ka na bago mo siya kumprontahin,wala siyang masasabi sayo. yun lang naman
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: cychii17 on January 15, 2012, 04:24:28 pm
Hmm.. Madalas talaga.. Minsan naiinis na rin ako sa instinct ko kasi para bang kung kelan pa yung moment na masaya na ako saka pa nasisira dahil sa instinct ko. Actually, nagiging paranoid ako because of this... Ako pa naman yung tipo ng tao na kailangan malaman mo kung totoo by hook or by crook! =)) Pero aside from that may nagagawa ring mabuti like mas nagiging aware ako sa paligid ko, alam ko yung taong nakakasama ko. Dahil sa whattheycalled "WOMEN's INSTINCT" naging pakielamera na ako hahaha >:D
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: faithful and loyal on January 20, 2012, 08:09:23 am
Ako 101% percent [textspeak!] instinct ko sa kanya totoo lahat!! Nagsisimula palang nya ko lokohin,nararamdaman ko na.Minsan pag di kami magkasama nararamdaman ko,for e.G. Parang merong di magandang mangyayari pag uwi ko..Un pala pag uwi ko wala sa bahay. Basta lahat ng pakiramdam ko totoo walang sablay!Minsan kahit sa babae na puwedeng nilalandi nya nahuhulaan ko. Recently lang [textspeak!] frend ko duda nako sa kanila,huli ko! Confirmed! Minsan nga ayoko na ng ganitong feeling:( nakakasira ng mood ko!! Pero wala talagang pagkinabahan nako un na un! Minsan parang may tumutulong sakin kasabay ng pakiramdam ko na may ginagawa na sya! Grrrr!
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: faithful and loyal on January 20, 2012, 08:17:57 am
@ladyarcher,nako about sa sim.Dami nyan asawa ko! Diko na pinapansin,sakit lang sa ulo at away pa.Hayaan ko nalang magsawa.Pero parang walang sawa eh:( nakakaasar pa,hindi marunong magtago. Hindi makuntento sa isa:( gusto laging maging complicated [textspeak!] buhay.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: faithful and loyal on January 20, 2012, 08:34:17 am
@klengmorales,alam ko [textspeak!] feeling mu na yan. Lakasan mu lang loob mu. Masakit pagnalaman mung t0too..Ganyan din ako dati:( sobrang sakit! Pero n0w na 8yrs n kami manhid na ata ako pero nasasaktan padin ako..Pero parang susuko nako. Dati umiin0m ako,ngayon. Think positive nako, kung iisipin ko ng iisipin magmumukhang matanda lang ako.@ladyarcher,haha! Huli na deny to death pa! Akala nya naconvince nya ko sa alibi nya,di nya alam duda nako. Ganyan siguro,kahit stupid answer gagawin nila para makalusot.Hahaha
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: faithful and loyal on January 20, 2012, 08:43:43 am
Mga sis, mga stupid ata talaga sila pagdating sa pag aalibia! t**** na nga,gingawa pa nila lalong t**** mga babae!!
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: faithful and loyal on January 20, 2012, 08:49:04 am
Pag alam nila na nakakakutob kana, o nagtatanong na tayo, maggagalit galitan para mabago [textspeak!] topic,bulok stlye! Naku ewan! Basta mga sis,be strong kahit mahirap at sobrang sakit na.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: k_heart on January 21, 2012, 01:17:13 pm
Hmm, fair enough i think. Pag minsan tama, minsan naman semplang talaga!
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: Analene3 on January 23, 2012, 05:04:34 pm
I believe in Woman's instinct. I believe we have the capability to know if there is something new/strange going on around us, or if we ever feel different... It's our natural intuition to know things better than what men feel.

Sometimes, of course, our radar fails. but when you ever feel in doubt, confrontation is the next best thing to do. :)
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: sacchi on January 26, 2012, 10:21:37 am
ako malakas din ang instinct ko. nakukutuban kasi ako nun na may dinadala asawa ko sa bahay namin mismo (since conflicting ang sched namin). kaya simula nun lagi ako nagoobserve sa bahay namin nag magpapatunay sa nararamdaman ko. Kala ko nun naprapraning lang ako pero dumating ang time na nakakita ako ng matibay na ebidensya.

it would be best na maghanap muna ng proof bago i-confront si bf/hubby. sa case ko naman, wala siya mga bago sim pero ni sasave niya yung name ng girl sa cp as his buddy's name. maingat din pag dating sa mga call and message logs, lagi yan naka delete na. so nung may pag dududa na ako... sa billing statement ko ni check. kahit andyan na sa harap niya ang evidence mag dedeny pa din yan at magagalit pa sa at sasabihin na kung ano ano daw iniisip ko.


Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: purpleblush18 on January 26, 2012, 11:13:08 pm
never nagkamali instinct ko... alam ko somethings wrong dati sa ex ko lahit ldr kami.  may iba akong naramdaman kahit na di ko pa sya nakikita.  although di naman nagbago, wlang pagbabago sa texts, call and chat namin.  lagi ko sya tinatanong kung may problema ba, lagi nya sinasabi na wala.  pero alam ko na meron.  hanggang sa 2 weeks na ganun qang pakiramdam ko, finally he confessed he made another girl pregnant. 
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: superpiggyoink on February 08, 2012, 06:18:53 pm
101% hehe never ngkamali ang instinct ko.. lalo n f nambabae ang bf ko.. hehe
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: cath_cath on February 10, 2012, 06:39:21 pm
naniniwala ako na malakas talaga ang instinct ng mga babae kaso minsan pumapalpak din or perhaps magaling [textspeak!] [textspeak!] mambola ang mga guys kaya napapaikot nila story and in the end lumalabas pa tamang hinala tyo...=)
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Post by: CAROLINA on February 21, 2012, 02:07:25 pm
malakas talaga ang instinct ng isang babae. madalas kapag kinutoban na sigurado may katotohanan.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: sarahsensible on March 06, 2012, 02:28:11 am
mine is 101% too kaya minsan nakakatakot eh

ang mga lalake kahit caught in the act PMA rule lang yan...deny deny deny!!!
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: iamshiela on March 06, 2012, 02:35:29 am
im not really sure if i can trust my instincts. pero minsan talaga bigla ka lang kukutuban out of the blue! haha!
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: nursingsexymom on March 07, 2012, 02:59:06 pm
i trust my instints too. totoo [textspeak!] kase tyong mga babae sobrang observant sa mga maliliit na bagay.
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Post by: trishpassing on March 08, 2012, 02:18:36 pm
mine is super correct, Sometimes I hate it na.
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Post by: chakchuk on March 08, 2012, 03:39:42 pm
Ako din with my ex  ;D  nalaman ko na may kalaguyo siya just because of my instinct..
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Post by: chicafabulosa on March 08, 2012, 04:13:26 pm
Di pa ako sumasablay sa instincts ko. with hubby and my bro in law. lahat ng pinakilala ni bro in law nasesense ko agad pag may topak yung girl. and none of them pa naman ang nagkakamali. as for hubby, ganun rin, nasesense ko if may milagro. maybe because we've been friends muna bago naging kame kaya kabisado ko if may nagbago bigla and paano sya umarte if may kulanchinching sya haha
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Post by: pinkbubbles17 on March 08, 2012, 05:47:44 pm
mine is super correct, Sometimes I hate it na.

same here sis..^^ sometimes i hate it too na sana hindi ko na lang nafeel yun..because i get nervous and agitated..
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Post by: tipC_shoegal on March 13, 2012, 05:20:29 am
my instincts are quite accurate. if i get a hunch, i make sure to not let it pass. i do all what i can to validate the feeling and man, does it feel great when i come out victorious! ;)

my instinct never failed me. three times to be exact!
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Post by: stacies83221 on April 18, 2012, 05:34:22 am
it is pretty correct "almost" all the time, yung tipong taming hinala lagi. :)
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Post by: iamshiela on April 19, 2012, 08:57:55 pm
before i posted na im not really sure about my instincts but this month very accurate yung sinabi ng instinct ko, so i really advice sa mga girls na if you feel something talaga INVESTIGATE na!
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Post by: ladybunny_janet1272 on April 23, 2012, 10:22:27 am
walang matinong lalake sa malanding kabit. Kung sinu pa ang kabit sya pa ang makapal ang mukha mga sis....kaya sa mga hinde pa kasal sa inyo once na niloko kayo wag niyo ng patawarin kung nagawa nya na once magagawa nya pa ulit...sad but true.. me mga babae talaga na gustong gustong sumira ng pamilya at relasyon mga babaeng walang delikadesa...sorry for my words ha.
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Post by: FOURever on April 23, 2012, 11:17:02 am
grabe din instinct ko. Hahaha! Nagsisimula lang sa kutob yung akin tapos investigate ng konti then ayun na. Di ko alam kung binigyan ako ni lord ng super powers kaya kahit anong tago, nakikita at natutuklasan ko.. Kaya yung deny sa una, aaminin then hihingi ng sorry. Papaniwalain ako na di na mauulit. Syempre sa una tiwala pa rin ako pero pag nagtagal, akala lang nya naniniwala pa ako pero di na. Hehe! Sa mga nakaraan, pag nagsinungaling sya, sinasabi ko talaga na wag nya ko pinaglololoko dahil alam ko galaw ng bituka nya. Nanay nya lokohin nya, wag ako dahil di ako maniniwala pa.. Pag ganyan, sya na maglalambing at magsosorry at gagawa ng way para tigilan mga ayaw ko. Hahaha

Matagal na rin na hindi babae pinag aawayan namin. Kaya carry lang. Pero naiistress lang ako kaya goodbye ang drama.
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Post by: Deans Lister on May 12, 2012, 03:09:19 pm
Pa hop-in lang po ha...

It's just that I can relate very well kasi like one of the posts that I read. When my instincts run, it's like I have this super power of some sort na sobrang lakas na hindi ko maintindihan. In my case, it was my instinct that helped me found out that my husband of 10 years was cheating on me. Although on top of this, I would also agree on one of the sissies here that there are signs. Kasi ako, the signs gave my husband away. Idagdag mo yung nagging 'gut feeling' = PASOK SA BANGA!

Here are some more behaviors that you should take notice of your husband:
- EITHER SOBRANG SWEET (syempre may guilt feeling; para bang pambawi yung nagiging sobrang malambing so anjang bilhan ka ng [textspeak!]-anong pasalubong, etc., etc. One thing to note in differentiating an authentic sweetness from one that goes along with guilt is the way it was delivered. Pag OA na, sister, yun na yon!) or
- NAWAWALA ANG SWEETNESS (kasi nga his attention has diverted na to the other person so parang nawawalan ng gana sa yo)
- LAGING TULALA (if you ask him if something was bothering him, he would say, 'marami lang prblema sa work)
- NO TIME FOR SEX (pasensya ka na mahal, pagod lang [textspeak!] ako) OR
- WOULD GO LAME in the middle of sex
- WOULD WANTTO LOOK BETTER (biglang magja-jogging, mag-i-gym, stuff like that)
- LACK OF INTEREST in your usual conversation
- Avoids eye contact

Pag present ang ilan sa mga ito, and there's that feeling that couldn't just be stopped within you, I bet you that something is going on. In my case, I saw all of these signs and since the inner compass just wouldn't stop, I accessed hubby's email and right there and then, I saw the email exchange between him and the b**ch (who was an ex-girlfriend and who also worked within the same company) and they were talking about going to a motel to discuss some stuff.

I'm not one who would invade emails and fb's and chats. But on that day, parang di ko lang mapalampas kasi kabog tlg sa dibdib naramdaman ko. My heart was beating too fast not to take notice so ayun, inaccess ko ang email. After that, I confronted my hubby. And guess what the explanation was: "Nagbibiruan lang kami." I mean, come on!

Again, I'm not one na magpapalengkera't mang-aaaway but when that happened, I called the girl and the lying, flirting b**ch gave me almost the same excuse. "Nagbibiruan lang kami. Parang tropa lang. Naging confidante ko lang kasi ang mister mo". If she were beside me, I'd probably break her neck for both sleeping with my husband and for making a fool out of me....

Pasnsya na po, napahaba. hehe
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: Tootsie31 on July 09, 2012, 04:52:35 am
Sa first bf ko, i think tamang ko na nambababae sya. Sinabi ko kagad sa kanya un nung 1st bday nya na magbf gf kame. Dineny syempre. But nung monthsary namin sa birthday month nya, feeling ko meron na nga talagang iba kaya kinabukasan nakipagbreak ako. Hindi nya ako hinabol or sinabing he wants to win me back. So I concluded na tama instinct ko, at least nakaiwas ako sa kanya kagad.

My current bf, maagang naging intimate kame. I hope hindi nya ko lolokohin.
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Post by: longing on July 17, 2012, 02:34:17 pm
Almost always accurate ang instinct ko at lalo ko pa yang napatibay when we discussed in class the "Women's Ways of Knowing" check it out sissies na lang sa google :)

Super power kumbaga yan ng girls that can work in our advantage.
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Post by: manilyn17 on July 18, 2012, 04:00:26 pm
..tama talaga yong instinct qoh,,,..nakakaloka.. :(
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Post by: ayami on August 22, 2012, 10:51:00 pm
malakas din. palagi tama. haha. buti na lang nakokontrol ko na ang sitwasyon pag may nararamdaman ako :D
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Post by: rheinfall18 on August 30, 2012, 10:29:08 am
malakas din kasi madalas tama, denial king kasi si bf kaya ang hirap paaminin nauuwi lang sa away kaya minsan deadmabells na lang ^^
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Post by: eeekar on August 31, 2012, 08:59:37 am
Yung sa akin hindi super accurate.
Siguro kasi may pagka-paranoid ako kung minsan. hehe
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Post by: Prunella on September 02, 2012, 04:53:56 pm
Not at all. :(
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Post by: pauweebabe on September 12, 2012, 08:56:37 pm
Ghhh
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Post by: home_seeker on September 16, 2012, 11:09:01 pm
Most of the time correct, pero minsan paranoid thinking lang. Masyado kasi akong nag-iisip ng kung [textspeak!]-ano kaya ayun exaggerated na minsan.
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Post by: rapids on September 18, 2012, 10:55:20 am
Sobrang Lakas! :D
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Post by: alex001 on September 18, 2012, 10:57:35 am
super accurate, yung halos hindi na ako patulugin sa gabi kapag sinungpong (hehe) parang sinasabi na gawan ko na kaagad ng paraan wag akong patulog tulog nalang
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Post by: ayka on September 19, 2012, 10:30:05 pm
correct! i think women really have to listen to their instinct especially when it comes to men! LOL :)
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Post by: mavs6382 on September 19, 2012, 11:17:11 pm
Super naniniwala ako.. like before nung nagsisimula pa lang kami bf ko.. because of previous offenses.. pinagbawal ko na siya maghangout with his office fubu nung hindi pa kami.. kasi nga dati niyang fubu yun and love siya nung girl.. mahirap temptation. So nagpalipat morning shift bf ko.. tapos one time naisip ko lang ayain siya maglunch.. tapos marami daw siya gawa pero kung gusto ko daw dun na lang sa may mall na malapit... kinutuban ako.. tapos di kami natuloy kumain kasi dumating na ka meeting ko. pero nung nagkita kami after office.. i just asked directly kung naging morning shift na yung ex-fubu niya and naglulunch sila since then.. so i discovered something based on kutob lang. :D
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Post by: Dhee-Dhee on September 19, 2012, 11:37:27 pm
malakas!!! ;D naalala ko dati, bigla ko nalang naisipang isearch yung name ng ex ng bf ko (now my hubby) dun sa list ng applicants sa office. shared kasi yung file na yun kaya may access ang lahat at para rin siguro malaman nung mga nagrerefer kung nakapasok ang referrals nila. so ayun, out of nowhere, naisip ko lang.. and, wala siya sa list! pagkatapos ng shift, sinabi sa akin ni bf na nakita nya ex nya sa office, kabuilding nya ang ga** haha. same company kami pero hiwalay ng building. ang lakas lang talaga ng pang amoy ko..
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Post by: ayka on September 19, 2012, 11:47:24 pm
@dhee dhee

girl, bakit kaya ganon noh? ang lakas ng vibes lalo na sa mga ex ng mga bf/hubby natin? sometimes i really can't grasp kung bakit bigla na lang ako may iisipang gawin tapos 99% correct ang instict ko! haha. feeling ko minsan chumambang paranoia lang! =)
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Post by: Dhee-Dhee on September 20, 2012, 12:00:08 am
^oo nga sis eh.. hindi ko rin alam kung bakit ganun, talagang malakas lang siguro tayo makiramdam. kaya minsan hindi acceptable yung sasabihin ng lalakeng "paranoid ka lang" or "ikaw lang nag iisip nun".. marami na rin instances na tama ang instict ko, madalas actually. in fairness kay hubby, sinabi nya sa akin at hindi nya tinago. ang hindi ko lang sure eh kung totoong "hindi nya kinausap yung ex nya". that time kasi, sa ibang building ako, malas lang haha. pero nagkasama-sama kaming tatlo (me, bf & the ex) sa isang building.
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Post by: chizzyness on October 17, 2012, 04:57:51 pm
sa sobrang lakas ng instinct ko napagdugtong dugtong ko ang istorya just by reading private messages.. looking at dates of some text messages.. biruan ng mga friends.. viewing other profile's social networking accounts.. and viola.. i got the whole story.. now the other girl was so amazed she can't even explain herself. haha .. well hindi naman toh istorya ng pangangaliwa.. mga unfinished business lang .. hahaha
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Post by: katieflores on October 20, 2012, 09:23:10 pm
hmmm...i must say malakas. in a scale of 10 being the highest, mga 7. naiisip ko tuloy baka nangyayari kasi iniisip ko, kaya minsan ayoko na magisip ng ganun, hehe
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Post by: jccastro15 on October 21, 2012, 07:44:48 am
8 in a scale of 10.. Malakas talaga.. I don't know, ganito n yata ko talaga. Haha!
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Post by: Serena. on November 02, 2012, 10:18:14 pm
i can proudly say malakas ang instinct ko. May it be relationship, strangers, infidelity. Walang palya. Hanggaling!  ;D Siguro dahil im a good observer din, so when a changes occur i can smell the fishiness na!  ;)



xxx
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Post by: IamDzeybi on November 22, 2012, 12:37:33 pm
Our intuition is usually right. But it's much better if you have enough proof parin. Your partners sudden change of mood sayo and naiiba scheds niya etc. Some instinct are di rin tama, they're just being paranoid. ;)
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Post by: gracita13 on November 22, 2012, 05:20:11 pm
as in malakas haha ;D kahit nga chix nung kambal ng h2b ko nalaman ko kung sino sa mga palike like lang nila sa status ng bawat isa.ewan ko ba ang galing nteng mga babae dyan :P
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Post by: missn on November 27, 2012, 11:52:28 am
I could say, malakas ang instinct ko, 9/10 kung ire-rate. Based on my experiences, lovelife man or not it's always right. For example, if something is wrong and you think na may mali nga.. like sa partners natin when they usually makes an alibis, but in the end you'll know na ganun (halimbawa hangout with friends/colleagues) pala talaga ginawa that day. Without knowing na makakasira iyong ganon ng tiwala. Hindi talaga nakakatuwa.
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Post by: danne on December 05, 2012, 08:05:30 am
Sorry to hear about your situation sis. Well, ganyan din ako. I've seen big changes sa husband ko, especially sa way ng pagtreat niya sa akin. Ang laki ng difference para hindi manotice. Ibang-iba during the first months namin after kami ikasal. We're newly wed as well pero napansin ko agad yung madalas na napapansin ng mga mag-asawa na halos more than 10 years ng kasal. In fact, I always remind him not to mess with our marriage because I won't give second chances. But lately nabasa ko sa fb niya conversation niya with his previous classmate na gusto makipagmeet sa kaniya. And sobrang disappointed kasi my husband said yes if iyong girl ang gagastos sa food nila and nag insist pa talaga siya. After the girl replied na kanya kanya, ala ng reply ang husband ko so I really do not know what happened next. The conversation was last August pa pero last week ko lang nakita and I was devastated. I never expect my husband na makipagflirt sa iba eh. I was shaking and in the middle of night I called my brother crying and before ko marealized, mom ko na yung nasa kabilang line then tatay ko na. When I confronted my husband, he said he was just joking that time and talaga naman daw na kapag may nagpapansin sa kaniya at yayayain siya lumabas sinasabi niya na ilibre siya para umatras. But I am not convinced. I've lost my trust in him and it is hard to be with someone na hindi mo mapagkatiwalaan.
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Post by: Citruzcents on December 17, 2012, 04:41:41 am
I think malakas instinct ko yun pakiramdam ko ngang yun ang nag save sa akin sa kapahamakan pero parang creepy minsan kasi minsan para kasing nangyayari talaga naiisip mo o coincidence lang o may paliwanag dun :o
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Post by: shellenic on January 17, 2013, 06:02:12 pm
Oras lang ang pagitan naamoy ko kagad. Pag kasi alam mo ang routine ng bf or asawa mo at may napansin kang kakaiba, ayun na iyon! Grabe, iyong sakin nga oras lang din, nagaway kami, siya pa nakipagbreak sakin, kapal ng mukha eh huling huli ko naman siya.
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Post by: Valkerie on January 21, 2013, 04:42:37 pm
hahaha uber sa lakas...sana nagagamit din ito to win lottery no?hahaha...i mean i know na malakas based sa experiences ko with my pasts ;) buti di ko nararamdaman with my present (married na ko so subukan lang nya at hiwalay kung hiwalay kami!!!)

sad naman pag nababasa ko mga experiences and situation ng mga sis dito sa forum...nakakatakot at baka mangyari,,,wag naman sana
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Post by: ijj2k on February 26, 2013, 11:23:26 am
Ako din malakas ang kutob. Ngayon nga lang sa bf ko mabait naman pero meron something na nagbobother sa akin. true enough nung napagkatuwaan kong i-search siya online BOOM! Labas lahat ng links niya sa isang online escort site ... sama mo na ang napagkakahiligan niyang CAMFROG lately.
Sarap s@p@kin talaga kakagigil. Di ko pa nako-confront mga sis, i don't know how to kasi for sure iibahin niyan username niya and hindi ko na sya mamomonitor.

Kung wala lang kaming anak kiber ko ba, magkanya-kanya na kami ng daan. Masakit pag nababasa mo pala, nakahanap ka evidence kesa sa naririnig mo lang.

Gosh!
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Post by: sixteen16 on April 03, 2013, 11:21:46 pm
i believe in woman's instinct.. 101%..
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Post by: greenpease05 on April 04, 2013, 03:09:39 pm
every girl has it. =)

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Post by: iamshiela on May 05, 2013, 04:40:34 am
Pero we need to admit na minsan out of selos or paranoia or even insecurities natin kaya tayo isip ng isip ng kung ano ano which is sometimes yung instinct natin pumapalya. For me, kapag matagal akong nabobother ng paranoia ko, I'm always correct on my hinala.
 
Ang mahirap lang na gawin natin is to prove it eh. Minsan ang hirap pang mag-gather ng evidences. Dapat talaga affordable na ang mga PI (private investigator). hehe!
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Post by: enilec on May 05, 2013, 07:11:56 am
Malakas to a fault... kasi I usually find out about stuff i'm not meant to know -_-
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Post by: elishababy on July 11, 2013, 12:13:33 am
Eh what if nagdadala ng fone s cr? Ayaw magdelete ng ex gf sa fb smantalang sa fb ko panay delete nya. Pag may nagtext sakin nauuna pa siya kumuha sa fone ko. Like ng like ng pics ng mga ex nya. Lagi kwento ng kwento about sa mga ex nya. Nasabi pa nya minsan na gusto nya lumipat ng subd. dun daw kasi nakatira yung isang ex nya, pero d daw yun ang reason kung bakit gusto nya lumipat, maganda daw kasi dun. Tapos evrytime nagkkwntuhan kami d mawawala sa kanya na magkwnto na yung ex nyang si ganito si ganyan blah blah. Minsan sweet minsan hindi. Tapos kelan lang may nakita kong pic ng girl pero masyadong mabilis kaya sabi ko, patingin ulit tapos nag cr sya, pag tingin ko wala na yung pic. Sabi nya yung mga cookies daw yun, napupunta daw sa gallery nya. Pag pinagdududahan ko sya pa galit, dumadating pa sa time na pinagsasalitaan ako ng hindi maganda. Ano sa tingin nyo sis? Kinukutuban talaga ko pero wala ko makitang matibay na ebidensya.
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Post by: jenger109 on July 11, 2013, 12:56:19 am
instinct..its god's gift to us women.. :) for me, lahat naman ng women malakas instict.. sometimes lang in denial ang girl kaya akala natin, hindi sya aware.. :(
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Post by: momentum on July 12, 2013, 07:58:10 am
sis elishababy obvious na he is not over his ex. he is stepping all over you
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Post by: thistimearound on August 21, 2013, 08:08:40 am
In my case,  totoo ang women's instincts.  Napatunayan ko yan nung nahuli ko ang asawa ko na may ka-flirt. Like sa mga sinabi niyo, hawak lagi ang cell. Yung sa akin naman, kabisado ko asawa ko na kapag nagcr, lagi talaga yan nag a-ipad kasi naglalaro siya don bago mag no.2 (hehe)... there was a time na napansin ko na aside from ipad, pati cellphone, dala din. Tapos yun nga, nagbubura ng logs.
Kinutuban ako don mga sis, pero hindi ko inentertain kasi iniisip ko na baka naman OA lang ako.. na dahil siguro sa hormones ko dahil buntis ako.. yun pala, mismo ang Diyos na nagbigay at nagpaisipnsa akin na gumawa at magisipnpa ako ng ways to further investigate. Well, tama nga ang instincts.  Sad to say, binalewale ko lang yun kasi nga never ko naman inexpect na gagawin sa akin ng asawa ko yun eh.
Kaya ngayon, ang dilemna ko after my discovery that he cheated on me, eh kung women's instincts pa ba to or paranoia nalang at takot to be hurt again :( sana mapatunayan ko na wala na talagang namamagitan sa kanila
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Post by: kookai88 on September 13, 2013, 11:25:11 am
ako rin naniniwala sa woman's instinct. nahuli ko rin na may ka-flirt si mister. first gf niya ako at  eto nga mag asawa na kami. 6 years steady and 4 years married. 2010 siya nag-flirt sa iba kasi malandi naman talaga ang girl. first time niya ginawa sa akin yun. siguro naimpluwensiyahan ng mga kasama niya office na mga babaero din. sa mall magkasama kami, may lihim siyang tinetext, ask ko siya sino yun? sabi niya officemate niya lang so hindi ko pinansin. pero iba ang kutob ko eh kasi parang iba din ang kinikilos ni hubby so mayamaya sinabi ko, o may nagtext sayo tapos kinuha ko bigla sa kamay niya ang cp niya ayun nabuking ko nga. grabe pala ang feeling ng niloloko ka. ang sakit sakit, akala ko magiging mitsa na iyon ng pagkakasira ng marriage namin pero nakita ko na very sincere siya sa paghingi niya ng tawad. at nakita ko din sa kanya na ayaw niya akong mawala sa kanya kaya napatawad ko na siya. pero dumaan din ang maraming buwan na totally ko na siya napatawad. ngayon masaya na kami.
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Post by: agape on December 28, 2013, 01:02:37 pm
So far malakas. I have bad dreams, weeks to months before. I told him about it
na if he is doing any wrong, like cheating on me, he should be careful.
I felt something is wrong, so I gather evidence for myself lang.
I brefriended the girl first, officemate niya.
I waited for perfect timing, minsan kc me mga family occassions eh.
He was a bit scared. Then he made another move (ligaw) on the girl. Nainis ako.
Then confronted BF, ayaw umamin,
so next step, I caught him so he can't deny anymore.
I made him decide. Then binuking ko sila sa office.
Officemates na nila nagpahiya sa kanilang 2,
isang babaero, at malanding mang-aagaw.
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Post by: graZiousa on January 15, 2014, 03:26:00 pm
malakas naman talga mga kutob natin mga sis, gift ni God satin yon. nung hindi pa kami kasal ang dami kong nararamdaman talaga, nung ikinasal na kami parang napanatag na ako which is i think hind i rin tama na maging sobrang kampante lang lalo na husband ko sa sales company connected, kaya nag iingat din since every weekends lang kami nagkikita (malayo area nya) ginagawa ko surprise visits sa house nya tinitirhan nya dun (so far wala pa naman ako nadatnan)and monitoring din talga.
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Post by: sugardrop on January 15, 2014, 04:14:11 pm
If I feel something's off with my past relationships, most of the time, there is. Sa relationship ko ngayon naman, if I sense na something's wrong with him, it turns out my prob nga sya. For two days, I didn't hear from him, I wasn't worried about us; I was worried about him. Tama nga, one problem after another. When we saw each other, he apologized if hindi nya ako natatawagan or natetext ng madalas. Medyo ayaw nya muna hawakan phone nya and switched it off kasi parang natatakot na sya na baka may panibagong problema na naman. So women's instict's really strong. Basta hindi borderline paranoia.
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Post by: mspanyang on February 10, 2014, 11:05:21 pm
You have to trust your instinct.  My husband is OFW, i dont know pero pag pauwi na sya ng house or kadarating lang nya nakukutuban ko na agad.  Minsan naugulat sya kasi yung tipong pabukas pa lang sya ng pinto magriring na fon nya.
Lagi ganun natyeyempo ko.  Parang ang lakas lakas ng radar ko :)
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Post by: ghee.lucky on February 12, 2014, 08:42:43 am
Kung mag bf/gf pa lang then nag cheat na, Leave him before its too late. Im telling you mahirap yan pag kasal na, marami akong nabasa na thread na bf/gf pa lang nag cheat na, minadali yung pagpapakasal kasi baka mag bago pa daw yung lalaki, pero worst ang nangyari. Pag kasal na saka mag sisisi.
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Post by: simang on March 11, 2014, 10:51:46 am
I don't really trust my instincts. Ako lang yata ang babaeng hindi naniniwalang intuitive ako haha

Or siguro it's the way i was raised din, i was taught to see the good in things and not be suspicious unless there are OBVIOUS signs.

With my past relationship i never really had a hunch that he was up to something fishy, kase he was very good to me. We broke up without me knowing if there really was a 3rd party but at that time i couldn't care less.

I would still go after tangible and obvious signs than my instincts, I guess.
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Post by: enilec on July 03, 2014, 01:56:19 pm
Normally my bf is very honest with everything so I usually trust him. Pero may time na he went to this networking seminar without my permission. I told him fervently na wag na wag siyang sasali kasi sayang pera at kalokohan ang mga ganun. He told me na hindi daw. Pero di ko mapigilan na everyday syang kulitin about it, kahit sabi nya naman he didn't join. As I said, I usually trust him and I don't normally make kulit pero that time, di ako mapalagay talaga. Ayun. After a few weeks nahanap ko yung networking stuff under his bed. Sumali nga yung loko! :P
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Post by: imyourangel on July 15, 2014, 01:55:25 pm
Ako naman, there was one time he was with his friends. Di ko alam bakit nagagalit ako sa kanya though pumapayag naman akong sumama siya. Then the next day, nakita ko sa fb nung friend niya pictures of them na nasa computer shop, nakikipag DOTAhan (I strictly don't let him play DOTA due to church reasons) kaya pala galit na galit ako sa kanya nun at ayaw ko siyang pasamahin.
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Post by: killbill on July 15, 2014, 03:25:35 pm
Pano ba matin madidistinguish kung paranoia lang or woman's instinct?
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Post by: hawhaw on July 20, 2014, 11:21:31 am
^oo nga. pano nga ba? saka mga sis, pano kung nahuli tapos ayaw umamin at ayaw nyang iwan mo cya. O ayaw umamin at nakikipagbreak agad?
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Post by: sugardrop on July 20, 2014, 11:51:04 am
Paranoia is when you can't shut out suspicious thoughts inside your head. Even if he's not doing anything, every little thing he does leads you to suspect that he is doing something behind your back. For example, my cousin's wife. She's paranoid. Calling everyone who calls or texts her husband, even me. I once sent an sms to my cousin using my other number and she called, not recognizing my voice and told me to stay away from her husband, accused me of being a slut for texting him. She follows him around, shows up to his office and makes a scene. She can no longer function well and her world revolves around the thought that my cousin is having an affair.

Now instinct is when you have this nagging feeling inside your head that there is something wrong after seeing signs or behavioral changes on your partner that are out of the ordinary and you just can't ignore.

Somebody feel free to correct me if I am wrong.
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Post by: chai88 on September 17, 2014, 06:40:13 am
As the saying goes...
Always trust your first gut instinct, if you feel in your heart that something is wrong, it usually is...


This just happened recently, so it's still fresh in my system...

2 weeks ago I felt something was wrong with my boyfriend which I can't fathom. Normally kapag may mga ganyan akong gut feelings, hindi muna ako nagsasalita. As much as possible iniintindi ko muna like wine-weight ko muna yung mga bagay bagay para maintindihan ko yung mga tanong na naglalaro sa utak ko...

3 days after ko makaramdam na may mali, medyo nag iba na rin ako ng pakikitungo kay boyfriend. Like, hindi na ako masyadong nagkikikibo talaga. Normally kapag nasa ganun na akong state ng pakikitungo sa kanya, mangungulit na yan. Maglalambing na yan. Like hindi ako titigilan hanggang sa hindi ako bumalik sa normal... So alam ko sa sarili ko na may mali kasi parang hinayaan lang niya na maging ganun ako sa kanya.

Then I tried to open his facebook account. I know his password, though I don't normally check it... Pero dahil nga iba ang pakiramdam ko noong mga panahon na yun, in-open ko. Pero nagtaka ako kasi hindi ako makapasok... Obviously he changed the password.

Kinabukasan, tahimik lang ako. Hindi talaga ako nagsasalita. He confronted me of course and sinabi ko lang na hindi ko alam. I felt something is wrong with him pero hindi ko pa alam sa ngayon. Nainis siya! Kesyo, ayan na naman daw ako, blah blah... So sabi ko sige nga paano mo maipapaliwanang yung pagpalit mo ng password sa facebook mo? Ang sagot naman niya is dahil daw sa gumagamit daw siya ng proxy sa office sa pag access ng mga personal accounts niya. So, obviously, he needs to change his passwords from time to time. Which kinagat ko naman kahit papaano. Dahil I myself , gumagamit din ako ng proxy sa office to access my facebook and gmail account and recently lang din, nag changed ako ng password kasi nga may notification akong na receive na someone is trying to log in to my account. Tinanong ko siya kung ano nang bago niyang password at binigay naman niya. So nagbati din kami...

A day after that confrontation, I open his facebook account and check his inbox. May nakita akong convo between him and a girl. Kung susumahin, wala naman akong makitang mali talaga sa convo nila nung girl pero yung pakiramdam ko, mas lalong bumigat. Hindi ko ni log out yung account niya sa cellphone ko, then umalis na ako ng house papuntang work (Gabi work ko, siya naman morning)... Kinaumagahan, pagkadating na pagkadating ko ng bahay, I checked his inbox again pero burado na yung convo nila ni girl. Which lalong nagpakulo ng dugo ko, kasi kung walang malisya, bakit kailangan burahin? Alam ko, sa pakiramdam ko, may mali... I checked the girl's facebook profile. Ni isa wala silang mutual friend. And nakita kong ni like niya yung profile picture ni girl at nagcomment siya dun ng heart icon at nag effort pa siyang maghanap ng picture ng babae na may hawig sa girl...

Oo mababaw para manggalaiti ako pero, is it really that necessary for him to put all those type of stuff in the comment box? No, right? I posted a status in my facebook account about cheating and he messaged me and asked me what's with my status. Sinabi ko sa kanya yung tungkol sa nakita ko blah blah blah... At first sinusuyo pa niya ako e. Siyempre hindi ako bumigay dahil alam ko sa sarili ko may mali... Ending nag-away kami. Siya pa galit. Ang sabi pa niya saken paranoid daw ako. Kahit daw wala siyang ginagawa, pinagbibintangan ko daw siyang nagloloko. Well sabagay daw, siguro daw alam ko sa sarili ko na may dahilan siya para mambabae siya. I was like, WTF??!! Really??!! Ano pa ba??!!

So, umuwi siya that day nang hindi kami nagkibuan. Cold war... Parang walang pakialamanan...

Kinabukasan, pagkauwi ko galing work. Naalala ko na may binigay siya saken na na username and password ng cctv access sa office nila. So in access ko, at nakapasok ako. Nakatutok yung camera sa station niya. So lahat ng galaw niya, kitang kita ko. Wala naman akong makita na kakaiba like, check ng check ng cellphone. Then habang tinitignan ko siya at yung monitor niya, bigla na parang may bumulong saken na i check yung yahoo mail niya which I did! At first hindi ako makapasok since hindi ko naman talaga alam ang password niya doon. Pero ang galing lang ni Lord, na access ko siya...

At doon ko nakita lahat. Yung girl na pinagseselosan ko sa facebook, wala pala talaga yun dahil ibang girl pala ang talaga ang nilalandi niya. Doon nabasa ko lahat... Nakita ko lahat... At sobrang nanginginig ako habang binabasa ko yung MGA convo thread nila...

That time hindi ko alam kung anong gagawin ko. Hindi ko alam kung kakausapin ko ba siya or hindi. Basta, gulong gulo ako. Gusto kong maglaho. Gusto kong umiyak pero hindi ako makaiyak. Pagkadating niya galing work, saka naman ako umalis, pinacheck up ko yung bunso ko. Oo may anak kami. Noong nasa hospital kami, hindi ako mapakali. Hindi rin ako nakatiis... I texted him. I asked him kung anong plano niya. Kung ano ba talaga ang gusto niyang mangyari... Sinasagot naman niya like, ano daw bang pinagsasasabi ko. Na wala naman daw talaga siyang ginagawa. Nanahimik daw siya. I remain calm. I contain all my emotions. Sabi ko pa sa kanya, talaga bang papanindigan niya yung mga kasinungalingan niya? Ang sabi naman niya wala naman siyang ipinagsisinungaling saken. So ang sabi ko nalang na hintayin nalang niya akong makauwi para mapaintindi ko sa kanya mga bagy bagay at kung saan ako nanggagaling...

So to make it short, nag usap kami... First, medyo matapang pa siya. Til I asked him kung sino si C******** T*****. Sinabi naman niya kung sino ba si girl. Pero ni deny niya kung ano ang meron kay girl... Siyempre, hindi na ako nag aksaya pa ng panahon... Sinabi ko lahat lahat ng nabasa ko. Lahat ng nakita ko. And I have all the screenshots so wala siyang pwedeng i deny... Wala, nanahimik siya. Yung kaninang tapang tapangan, napalitan ng mukhang parang pinagsakloban ng langit at lupa. Tinanong ko siya kung anong dahilan niya. Hindi siya makapagsalita. Wala naman siyang masabi. Basta sorry lang daw at g**o siya... Ang sakit e. Ni paliwanang, ni hindi niya maibigay saken.  Wala daw kasi siyang dahilan. g**o lang daw siya. Nagpadala siya sa tukso. Sabi ko nga, ganun lang yun? Ganun ganun lang? Hindi man lang niya naisip yung ako or maski anak nalang niya habang gumagawa siya ng kalokohan at lumalandi...

Anyways, we're able to tackle things out din naman. I asked him kung bakit pa niya nagagawa yun... Hindi pa ba ako sapat? Sabi naman niya, tinatakam ko daw siya. Oo wala naman na daw siya hahanapin pa kaso para daw akong isang masarap na pagkain na hindi niya matikman. Hindi kasi talaga ako ganun ka sweet. Hindi rin ako maalaga like nagpapaka domestic wife sa kanya. Hindi rin ako mahilig magluto. At hindi rin ako pumapayag na makipag make love sa kanya... Siguro mga once a month lang.

So I guess that explains his side. Pero masakit pa rin. Hindi pa rin ako ganun ka okay...



Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: chai88 on October 12, 2014, 03:44:51 am
Natawa naman ako sis sa basted to the max mo...  ;)
Well good thing, nalaman mo habang maaga pa. I believe it was the Lord God who guided you to see all his kalokohan... Truly if you ask guidance/signs from Him, He will definitely let you see the light just like what happened to me/ to you...

Status... We are okay now... I decided to just let it pass nalang but of course I gave him an ultimatum like kapag inulit niya pa yung kalokohan niya, mawawala ako sa landas niya at hinding hindi na niya makikita anak niya...

Masaya kami ngayon at maayos naman siya ngayon but of course hindi pa rin maalis alis saken yung takot na maulit ulet yun like the saying goes na cheaters will always cheat... Matagal din bago ako maging totally okay and normal... My God, akala ko nga hindi na ako babalik sa dating pakikitungo ko sa kanya e... Pero nakita ko naman yung effort niya and all... At kapag inaaway ko siya at sinusumbatan out of nowhere, hinahayaan lang niya ako tapos niyayakap lang niya ako at nagso sorry siya tapos he'll assure me na hinding hindi na mauulit talaga... Until now, ginagawa ko pa rin yun sa kanya and lagi naman niya akong sinusuyo... Pero ilang gabi din akong nananaginip about him cheating on me... until now actually... Just 3 days ago, napanaginipan ko ulit na nagche-cheat siya with the same girl... At inaway ko naman siya at sinuyo lang naman niya ako...
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: louiesmom on October 20, 2014, 04:54:21 pm
Relate!!  ;)

Never ako binigo ng instinct ko..

2012 (I felt husband was flirting with someone. Ofcourse, hanap ako ng ebidensya. Nakakita naman ako. Pero I let it pass. Napag usapan na din naman namin yun and he told me na mali ako. Wala daw syang ginagawang mali. He needed it daw for his job. Bilang ayaw ko ng makipag argue, I have panic attacks kasi so as much as possible ayaw ko ng stress. I let it pass. After nun, thank God, wala na ko nararamdaman. So I thought na baka nga mali ako. Baka paranoid lang ako.

While searching for hubby's email (with his consent because may inutos sya sa akin) I accidentally saw his convo with a girl dated 2012. I don't know how I have felt pero siempre masakit pa din. Halo halo na e. So again we talked about it, and he gave me the same answer. He needed it for his job. He apologized and told me na masyado syang nafrustrate sa work. Sa kagustuhan niyang mapromote and all nagawa sya ng "MGA" mali. I don't know mga sis, pero I have accepted his apology and tried to forget about it na lang since matagal naman na.  :)

I am just thankful because I felt that he is sincere naman with his apology. Pinagdadasal ko na din kasi lagi. So malaking tulong. :)
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: jennyflores on March 30, 2015, 07:59:12 pm
yes! I always agree with this. my instinc is 100% reliable. once na may negative akong na fe'feel lalo na pag kinakabahan ako it's only means na totoo yung instinc ko. I felt sad and hurt but it's ok atleast hindi nag tagal. most of my doubt is true.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: angelparvian on June 05, 2015, 12:29:52 pm
HAHAHA natawa ako sa mga denial reason ng mga lalake. yun minsan ang sagot nila eh akala mo t*NG* yun kausap. kaya dun din ako minsan nakakahuli e. mas matalino lang talaga mga babae pagdating sa analysis at memorization. huli tuloy sila
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: quennna on June 05, 2015, 01:26:12 pm
proven and tested instinct ko kay hubby..
validation pa sa dream.. pero bago confrontation..
dapat mag kalap ng ebidensya...
para... aamin na lang sya.. :D
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: kikaygirl5810 on June 08, 2015, 10:18:40 am
Sa sobrang lakas ayaw ko paganahin hehe....
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: ubermame on June 08, 2015, 05:17:57 pm
ako 101% tama lagi...

sabi nga nung officemate ko dati, nakakatakot daw akong maging kapitbahay kasi baka maturuan ko daw yung asawa nya. Daig ko pa daw kasi ang NBI kapag meron naramdaman. hahaha

positive naman yung naging resulta, may naayos akong pamilya at naging maayos din kami ngayon ng ex-bf ko na asawa ko na ngayon  ;)

Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: josebeth on July 30, 2015, 03:18:27 pm
mostly of my instinc is totoo. not totally lahat ah. nakakaramdam tayo syempre base on how they act na para bang iba na ang kinikilos ng partner natin at he didn't want you to hold her phone na which is means na may tinatago na sya.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: Queenly on January 25, 2016, 11:50:12 am
bakit kaya ganun mga sis, yung husband ko nahuli ko sa email na nambabae. tapos yung isang email na ginagamit niya ayaw niya ibigay yung password. dahilan niya dinelete na niya yung account pero sure ako di pa deactivated yun. di kaya may tinatago pa rin siya sakin?? yung ibang password ng email niya binigay naman niya pero yan isa lang ang hindi. sabi niya move on na lang...
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: snowkeis on July 05, 2016, 06:10:16 pm
Sobra lakas. Lalo na pagdating sa asawa ko. Kahit tulog ako alam ko pag nagising sya. Pag aalis na sya, magigising na lang ako bigla. Pag nagsisinungaling, lahat. It happens all the time.

On the other hand, alam ko din pag meron galit sa akin. Inis sakin. INSECURE sakin. And this happens all the time. HAHHA!! Hindi ko alam kung maawa ako  or matatawa na lang.  :P :P
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: Tootsie31 on July 29, 2016, 01:33:27 pm
^idol ka ateng! may third sense ka siguro  ;D

mahina ang instinct ko, sana may way para ma-improve ko to.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: cupcakejane on May 23, 2017, 09:10:01 pm
Apparently malakas, I have doubted so many times in the past but without actual solid proof, no man will ever admit to anything.  If we can just where these paid women hangout and gang up on them or something mababawasan siguro sila.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: kvan on May 23, 2017, 10:31:52 pm
bakit kaya ganun mga sis, yung husband ko nahuli ko sa email na nambabae. tapos yung isang email na ginagamit niya ayaw niya ibigay yung password. dahilan niya dinelete na niya yung account pero sure ako di pa deactivated yun. di kaya may tinatago pa rin siya sakin?? yung ibang password ng email niya binigay naman niya pero yan isa lang ang hindi. sabi niya move on na lang...

Hindi na kelangan ng instinct dyan. Common sense lang pasok na sa banga! Babaero ang husband mo. Ganon, move on? Pagkatapos mangaliwa, move on?
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: sweet_maldita on October 17, 2018, 11:22:20 pm
For me,  100% accurate na minsan naiignore ko na lang.  Minsan out of nowhere bigla ako papara ng jeep papunta sa house ng jowa ko dati pagdating ko andun ang ex nya
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: khaleesiCersei on October 17, 2018, 11:36:20 pm
Malakas hehe and i can?t explain how pero gumagana din siya pati sa mga bf ng mga friends ko lol! It?s like ramdam ko kung magtatagal sila or hindi
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: mahc on October 18, 2018, 08:56:52 am
Di ko ma-gauge ang extent ng woman's instinct ko, may history na kasi ang husband ko so more on tamang duda na lang yata. Over time, I just managed to ignore na lang, bahala sya sa buhay nya.  Nakakaubos na din ng pasensya. Basta wag nya pabayaan mga anak namin.
Title: Re: Gaano ka lakas woman's instinct nyo?
Post by: cupcakejane on March 09, 2019, 05:01:50 pm
I caught mine a few times din, so I would say malakas ang woman's instinct ko. And one that keeps me going is acceptance of things I cannot control  :-*