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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #20 on: June 02, 2008, 08:50:58 pm »
not really, but di rin kami cold to each other, wala super traditonal father figure lang

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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #21 on: June 03, 2008, 06:43:12 am »
I hardly know my dad. He was alway most of my childhood since he's an engineer for one of the leading oil companies in Dubai and was away most of the time.

My mom and dad separated when I was 11 and that caused more distance between us.

Right now, he is trying to act like a dad but its 14 years too late. I no longer intend to mend bridges with him, his chances had passed and everytime I try to open my heart to him, he keeps on breaking it... so I'm just tired.
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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #22 on: June 03, 2008, 01:23:37 pm »
i love my dad even he has many mistress.. he always telling me that even if ur mom and i were not together my love for u will stay desame. ;D
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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #23 on: June 03, 2008, 03:22:44 pm »
Yes super close ako sa dad ko.

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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #24 on: June 03, 2008, 07:19:53 pm »
di na masyado magmula ng mag abroad sya at nagka family naman ako :'(

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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #25 on: June 03, 2008, 07:59:54 pm »
yup. super close kami ng dad ko. i'm a tatay's girl :)
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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #26 on: June 03, 2008, 08:50:59 pm »
in my case... hindi  :(..... 2nd family lang kami and eversince bata pa ko, i always cling on to my mom. mga special events sa buhay ko, sa school, special occasions, debut ko, he was not there. though nandito lang naman siya sa Pilipinas. instead of being with us most of the time, mas pinipili niya to socialize with friends and other "extra-curricular" activities niya....

he is one of the reasons din kung bakit di masyadong ideal ang childhood ko. lumaki ako na indifferent sa kanya. nung maaga akong nag asawa, it pained me also nung umiyak siya sa harap ko. but i believe things happen for a reason, kasi nung nagka-asawa na ako, saka naging ok ang relationship namin. he also takes care of his apo more than what he did sa aming magkapatid.

he is not the perfect father and husband, but in my heart he will always be my dad. kasi kung wala naman siya, wala din kami sa mundo. i hope i can still make him proud and provide him and my mom a better life bago man lang sila magretire dito sa mundo.

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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #27 on: June 04, 2008, 08:02:54 am »
Yes. Same line of work
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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #28 on: June 04, 2008, 10:00:18 am »
I hate my dad.:) I live with him and grew up with him but I hate him. I wish I had a better father. yun lang kaya ko sabihin. :) hehe
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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #29 on: June 04, 2008, 10:05:44 am »
close? yes but for some reason minsan no, but i do love him so much sana alam niya yun kasi di ko masabi e naiiyak kasi ako ngayon pa lang na naiimagine kong sabihin yun 
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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #30 on: June 04, 2008, 03:33:01 pm »
close naman kami ng dad ko sa kakornikan ng jokes at sa pagkwento ng mga walang kwentang happenings mapa politics or comics. and i have a lot of great moments with him. he's a bit tahimik nung lumalaki kami kasi he had to provide for us pero he gave us a fun and memorable childhood sila ni mama.

he spoiled me a bit with pasalubongs when he'd travel, gifts, chocolates pag may sakit laging almond roca na lata binibigay naya so i associate that with being sick, bags nung nag wowork na ako and toys na if he knows i like he'll say no but he'd secretly buy it for me and surprise me with it.

nung kids kami pag weekends alam nya mahiluhin ako so pag nasa church (either ndi lang talga ako banal na bata) lagi ako nahihilo meron na syang plastic bag na may bimpo na basa to wipe my face pag nahihilo na ako. after nun he'd take us to exotic or new restaurants so we learned about different dishes and appreciated different flavors at a young age.

tapos we'd have our trips to chinatown eat balot ikot ikot. kain kung saan saan para maexpose kami sa areas na yun. he provided well for us and we always proud of him we loved saying his job title connected to his name and how he'd sponsor our school palaro lagi eh 4 levels kami nun so lagi kami pinapasponsor ng palaro may tshirts pa. kaya nung nag optional retirement sya we were all in for it kahit nag aaral pa kami. we'd rather have him alive rather than die of stress like his other colleagus so he was touched by our support. we were blessed padin with a business that supported us throughout.

nung nag college ako, ako nalang nag aaral, sya ang pumila sa lahat ng schools to get my entrance test ayaw nya ako sumama kasi daw mainit so sya nag apply.  and nung nag major in one subject he wanted to do one paper i was researching on kasi naintrigue din sya about the country i was studying about and needed 2 papers to turn in. eh magaling sya magsulat so he did one paper for me pero pag balik ng grades tawa sya kasi mas mataas grade nung gawa ko kesa sa kanya.

nung nag work ako nag work din sya sabay kami lagi pumasok. hilig nun nya magbreakfast sa jollibee or mcdo so kunyari daw hintay kami mawala ang traffic pero kakain lang talaga kami. and there was one time, he likes playing hooky kasi na spoil sa di pagtrabaho, after breakfast sabi nya traffic masyado commute nalang ako :P ok lang kahit late na ako. pag pumapasok sya sabay kami uuwi he'd pick me up kakain muna sya balot while waiting.

one time nagkita kami to watch a movie sa greenbelt eh di kasi kami magkamuha maputi ako sya dark and handsome tapos naka dress pa ako sya naka barong  tapos naka tayo ako sa isang side eh madami tao, and i saw him walking sabay takbo ako sa kanya ang hug and kiss,  aba pinalayo nya ako at sinabihan na lumayo raw ako sa kanya wag ako didikit masyado, sabi ko bakit, sabi nya kasi tinitignan kami baka akala nila girlfriend ako or kabit hehe..so ginawa ko mega-ankla ako sa kanya, care ko and i kept calling him pappy pappy (di pa sikat si willie r. nun) buti di nya ako binatukan.

tapos ayun nainlove na ako and nahurt and i had to go be on my own so support nalang and kwentuhan from a distance nalang ngayon.
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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #31 on: June 04, 2008, 11:22:21 pm »

close? yep.. 14 years ago.  :)

now, di na.. wala lang.. so-so na lang. nag uusap kami, oo pero di na tulad ng dati. he has a new family now.. but im not mad or anythig.. happy pa nga ako

love ko naman half siblings ko kay dad..  :)

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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #32 on: June 06, 2008, 03:05:20 am »
If my dad can just drop dead. It will be such a peaceful world. :)

I grew up with him. By the age of 6 or was that 7, pinagpapalo nya ko sa kotse dahil natapakan ko yung white shoes nya. Hehe. He was always out. He was always in the province. When he still had lots of money, I barely saw him. Drivers and my lola would take me to school, nung wala na kaming driver, he would drive me to school. Pero basta ma-late lang ako ng 5mins minumura nya nako ang nagagalit na sha. Ako yung pinakamatangkad sa klase nun. Ako yung nasa huli ng line. Pag nakita nyang nauna nang nakalabas si Melody (my shortest classmate) na wala pako. Nagagalit sha. Lagi ganon. Even after I already explained it to him.

Today he cursed at me simply because I wasnt able to park the car in the right position in the garage. He was at the top of his voice and while I was explaining why, without even listening that I was very tired and nahihilo ko kanina pag-uwi ko dahil sobrang init ng byahe and parang na-heatstroke ata ako. I didnt even finish my sentence when he yelled, "Edi wag ka nang gumamit ng kotse! P*t*ng*n* Mo!"

I didnt borrow the car from him. He offered to lend it to me because he neeeded me to get his money from his sister in the US that comes in to my ATM Account.

Am I close to dad? I wish him gone.
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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #33 on: June 06, 2008, 03:35:38 am »
daddy's girl ako. my mom left us kasi when i was 2. so dadi na [textspeak!] mami pa. super close kami at andami nyang itinuro sakin. tinuruan nya ko not to get jelous. minsan kasi naingit ako sa cousin ko nung nauna xang makascooter kesa sakin. sabi ni papa "wag kang maiingit. magkakaroon ka din nian, pero di pa ngayun".

di kami mayaman. tama lang. alang job [textspeak!] dad ko, pero i was sent to a private school. di nagkulang si papa, sa pangangaral sakin.i remembered once pinagalitan nia ko. i visited my grand parents kasi sa mother side tas sinagot ko [textspeak!] lola ko. sabi ng dad ko "anak wag ganun. baka isipin nila ganyan ang tinuturo ko sau."

todo support sakin si papa. he let me decide sa mga bagay bagay. kahit na maaga ko nabuntis at nagasawa anjan pa din [textspeak!]. di nagbago [textspeak!] samahan namen. pinabayaan nia kong maging independent. [textspeak!] pagiging matatag at maparaan ko, nakuha ko sa kanya.

kahit na may iba na syang family at nakabukod na ako...di ko pa alam kung san ako pupulutin kung wala yung tatay ko...

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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #34 on: June 07, 2008, 02:56:36 pm »
hinde. he's never a father to us.

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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #35 on: June 11, 2008, 02:43:22 pm »
super! meron kasing closeness na okay rel nila but ours is the kind na para talagang barkada. dami natutuwa samin lalo na pag naririnig nila na ang tawag ko eh "mang papa's first name" we share jokes, iinisin pa ko na di naman daw funny tapos maririnig ko na lang kinukwento nya na sa kapitbahay yung joke ko. eh tawa naman ng tawa ang mga neighbors! at kanya pa ang credit, huh!

alam ko how sad he was when i got married, everytime i visit him and mama, lagi nya sinasabi na, "dalawa na lang ulet kami ng mama mo, kaya nga malaki ang pinagawa kong bahay para kahit magasawa kayo, dito pa din kayo nakatira.." or minsan tampururot na, "di naman kalayuan ang bahay nyo pero buti pa kuya mo, weekly nabibisita kami dito.."

i love him (and my mother too syempre) and everynight i pray to the Lord to give them more years to stay para naman makabawi ako sa lahat ng ginawa nila for me.

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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #36 on: June 12, 2008, 01:20:27 am »
super close... :) kahapon lang kausap ko si papa and i felt the longing na sana nasa tabi ko lang sya dahil sobrang miss ko na buong pamilya. si papa kasi barkada naming magkakapatid....workaholic pa rin at pangarap nya tumama sa lotto para pagsamasamahin kaming mga anak nya at hindi na mahiwalay sa kanila ni mama. ;D
i remember 12 years ago na,nung  natuto akong manigarilyo at sinabi ko sa kanya, kwentuhan kami sa kitchen paglabas ko pala eh biglang enter si mother naamoy ang yosi...ayun sinalo ako ng tatay ko sya daw yun.parang feel nya lang daw...mega taka si mama kasi di naman naninigarilyo si papa...inamin ko rin ako yun...medyo matagal na. ;D kunsintidor na tatay. and since then si mama naman may rasyon ako yosi everyday...hehe..galing ng parents ko noh with matching reminder smoking is bad to our health...but that was before naman...

kung meron akong isang hiling para sa papa ko....sana maging healthy sya palagi at masayahin...humaba pa buhay niya para naman mapakita naming magkakapatid kung gaano namin sya kamahal...
isang yakap nga para sa papi ko.... ;)
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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #37 on: June 12, 2008, 01:04:27 pm »
i think i never told my father that i love him.. he's been working abroad at nung 2006 lang siya talaga naging permanente dito sa pinas.. he's been a good provider, but not much. he could've done more pero ayaw niya. he's quite selfish.. he had mistresses, although maganda at mabait naman mother ko.. masyadong moody ang ama ko, konting bagay madaling magalit.. i know may mga times na happy rin naman kami pero super madalang lang.. i really hated him nung nalaman ko he's having a mistress. mga 2months ko rin siya hindi pinapansin. i cant simply look at his face. silent treatment and it kills him.. kinausap niya mom ko para sabihin sakin na ok na ang lahat. for my mom, napatawad ko siya. but i can never forget na niloko niya kami. siguro yung kabaligtaran ng dad ko ang hinahanap ko sa guys ngayon.

but of course, i know in my heart i love my father. but he has hurted us so much to the point na nagkaron na talaga ng lamat ang relationship naming mag-ama.. i always ask God bakit nagkaganon pero siguro hanggang ganun na lang talaga.. although im still praying for a miracle to happen..
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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #38 on: June 12, 2008, 03:53:16 pm »
not as much as i want to be.
my mom and dad separated when i was really young. and then he went to the States when i was 12 years old. i haven't seen him since. but we talk daily (almost). he said that would most probably go home this year since he wants to see na his apos :)
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Re: Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?
« Reply #39 on: June 13, 2008, 10:56:58 pm »
ok naman kami pero hindi ganun kaclose. we joke around pero i'm still expecting na siya yung tipo ng dad na pwede ako makipagkwentuhan ng mga problema. ang awkward talaga na magopen up kay papa. okay lang na magasaran kami pero not yung senti type. hindi siya yung tipo ng tatay na magbibigay ng advice. hinahayaan niya lang kami :'(

 

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