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husband cheated but only confessed after marriage
« on: June 18, 2022, 04:39:15 pm »
I was an OFW at an early age of 21.

I was abroad, he was in the Philippines. Due to us being in an LDR, we were on again, off again couple. He was very flirtatious to girls even way back. But it tripled when I went out of the country. Like a dog who finally got out of a leash.

So, I would always get jealous with the girls in his fb, but he always reassured me that nothing ever happened.

okay, so fast forward to today. We are already married for 7 years. We were on a long drive and a convo about sex with other people came out of the blue. He was my first and last btw and the only bf I had.

He admitted that he cheated on me with a HS friend of his while I was abroad and told me that it was nothing but a booty call. but also confessed that it happened not more than 5 times while he was working in makati and the girl reviewing for the board exams.

i always thought that he wasn't 100% faithful on me while I was gone but the confession shocked me. this was the girl who i also got jealous of before.

if i were you, what are you gonna do?


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Re: husband cheated but only confessed after marriage
« Reply #1 on: July 13, 2022, 03:18:00 pm »
Mahirap to sis, since married na kayo.

Ang question ko, may mga anak ba kayo? Because if meron, sadly mas mahirap.

If I am in your position, didistansya muna ako (if wala pa kayong anak). I will enjoy my free time to think carefully what will be my next steps. Andami kasing red flag ng asawa mo.

(1) Cheater (2) Sinungaling

And yung may mga ganyang traits, sad to say, may possibility na maulit pa.


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Re: husband cheated but only confessed after marriage
« Reply #2 on: August 11, 2022, 12:12:11 am »
Nilagay ka sa alanganin. Nakakainis na sitwasyon. Pero, kung nagbago naman na eh (kuno). May kasabihan tayo nung mga bata pa tayo na a leopard never changes it's spots.

Painful result lang nito is, deserve ka ba niya talaga? Sa dami dami na nang natulfo at kung ano anong kalat, aabot pa ba kayo sa ganun?


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