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Thinking of resigning...
« on: June 14, 2017, 11:24:58 am »
Thinking of resigning...

So I'm thinking of resigning on December 25 pa naman or January 10, 2018(yan balak ko na last day ko, yan kasi cut off namin)

I feel anxious about it. Ang dami kong worries and fears. Kasi I'm a college undergrad, 32 years old, married, with one kid, 10 years na ko sa present job ko, call center agent. And kung hahanap ako ng next job, call center industry pa rin, kasi yun lang naman alam ko gawin. Ayaw ko na sana sa call center industry. Pero paano? Huhuhu

Major reason number 1, since kinasal kami ni hubby 6 years ago, palagi nya ako kinukumbinse na mag resign kasi ang layo ng office sa bahay, 2 hours papunta, 2 hours plus pabalik. Hindi ako nagreresign kasi ito na comfort zone ko e, seniora na yung datingan ko dito hahaha, sobrang gaan ng trabaho, promise. Pero ngayon, napapagod na ako sa byahe byahe kaya nag iisip isip na.

Major reason number 2, si MIL, nagyayaya mag Japan sa January. Kapag hindi ako mag resign, for sure hindi ako makakasama kasi hindi ako papayagan mag leave. Pwede lang kami mag leave kapag April, May, June, July ( 9days max) other than those months 1 day 1 day lang.

Pero kasi kung magreresign nga ako, saan naman ako pupulutin. Paano kung matanggap ako sa isang call center company pero sobrang toxic naman. Hindi toxic pero 10k ang difference sa sweldo (sobrang downgrade, may napupusuan kasi ako na applyan, e ang offer daw mababa as in un nga 10k difference). Gulong gulo na ako mga sis. Help me, enlighten me, support me.

Salamat.
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Re: Thinking of resigning...
« Reply #1 on: June 14, 2017, 01:45:40 pm »
^ for your reason No.1 - that makes sense, but for the reason No.2 - nahh that's non-sense.

before you resign, find another job muna, and make sure na confirmed ka na sa new job na yan before getting off the current company. Then if you're lucky, gawin mo malapit na sa JAPAN vacation. win win para saiyo.

okay enough with the perfect world.

Now, the reality, get off the comfort zone and find a new job that is far more high paying. you can of you will do it.

Also, before you resign, do attend seminars or courses and get certificates, this can be a booster to the new company you want to get into, especially under grad ka.

another option, do some home business if possible as a safety net, para kung di ka naman makahanap agad ng work, hindi sobrang sakit sa pagbagsak mo.

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Re: Thinking of resigning...
« Reply #2 on: June 14, 2017, 05:40:22 pm »
Ako din. Planning to resign next year summer. 3 years na ko sa work ko on July 5. First job after graduation. Natatakot din ako kasi baka mahirapan ako maghanap ng work :( Pero ayoko na kasi talaga sa work ko, di na ko masaya. Super bait pa naman ng boss ko. See, nakakapag GT ako kahit asa office, hahaha. Pero ayaw ko na talaga :((((
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Re: Thinking of resigning...
« Reply #3 on: June 15, 2017, 07:05:32 am »
@badw33d sis thanks for your reply, I'm actually looking na din sa mga Home-Based rakets, I had before thru Upwork but the contract ended na din e. Sana soon makahanap ulit ng sideline.

@Ms. Undecided sis, you are still young, kung hindi ka na masaya e d resign na, buti ka nga graduate, hehe.
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Re: Thinking of resigning...
« Reply #4 on: June 15, 2017, 10:45:11 am »

@ sis forumera
Weigh your priorities. #1 reason, valid naman. pero ganon talaga e. lalo na dito satin. Either you invest on buying a car or magtiis ka muna mag commute. It's a common everyday struggle ng mga tao ngayon.


#2, would you rather go to japan for x days or skip that x days in japan pero may trabaho ka and you can save up on your own para you can go on your own convenience? honestly, sobrang babaw ng reason na to. medyo may pagka millenial problem to na gusto mo na lang ba may YOLO. giving up your long term plan para lang sa short trip sa japan. it's like travel now, gutom later problem. sorry ah.


ikaw na nagsabi, senyora ka na dyan. maganda na status mo, ok ang pay. ok ang workload. if #1 & #2 lang naman problema mo, i dont think its worth it na igive up mo yang work mo para dyan. Di ba issue sa inyo if wala kang work? I mean, ok ba yung financial status niyo kaya di naman ganon kalaki effect if magresign ka sa work? If money is not an issue then go ahead. Pero if may impact sya sa family mo, better look for another work muna bago magresign.


minsan nakakapagod din magtrabaho. pero pag naisip mo na pera is lifest, na yan ang nagpapakain sa inyo sa pamilya mo. the pay is good, chill lang din ang environment, then stay. Unless meron ka pa talagang ibang issue bakit mo gusto magresign. Im 27 pero minsan naiisip ko din na magresign na pero mas naiisip ko na walang kayang magbayad sakin ng ganito sa ibang company. Baka phase lang yan, nabbored ka na kasi wala masyadong challenge. but then again, isipin mo paring mabuti. sa hirap ng buhay ngayon, mahirap mag give up basta basta lalo pag okay ang pasahod sayo. Pwede ka din mag online job, just make sure na u pay for your sss contribution kasi sayang yan pag nag retire ka, baka wala ka na makuha. and dapat regular job. at least you can stay at home with your kid. pero ayun nga, just make sure na meron ka na muna ipapalit bago ka magresign.


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Go lang! if di ka na masaya, magresign ka na. Buti ka nga nakastay ng 3 yrs sa first job mo e. My 1st 2 jobs, 9mos lang ako lagi. hahaha! on my 2nd job nag pahinga ako ng 9months ulit bago ako nagwork ulit. now mag 5 yrs na ako sa work ko. May makikita ka pang ibang job na magugustuhan mo. mahirap magwork pag di ka na masaya. bata ka pa naman, you have the time as your advantage. pwede ka pa maging aggressive sa work.
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Re: Thinking of resigning...
« Reply #5 on: June 15, 2017, 02:01:10 pm »
Thank you mga sis. Summer next year ako aalis. Sayang kasi 13th month at bonus, magpapasko pa naman. hahaha. Saka ayoko din na agad agad next year baka isipin pa na inantay ko lang talaga yung bonus w/c is totoo naman hahah. Pero buo na talaga desisyon ko. Uuwi muna ako province to refresh, super stress ako ngayon grabe. Sinabayan pa ko ng break up namin ng bf ko for almost 4yrs  hayysss :(
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Re: Thinking of resigning...
« Reply #6 on: June 17, 2017, 09:19:14 am »
Thanks again mga sis.

Siguro kasi I just want to hit two birds in one stone? Mapagbigyan ko husband ko(makatipid sa oras ng byahe)  and maka travel to Japan.

I still have 5 months to think things through.

@Ms. Undecided sis, ouch naman yan, better talaga to resign para new environment and everything.
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Re: Thinking of resigning...
« Reply #7 on: June 23, 2017, 01:30:59 pm »
^ TS, have you ever thought of other alternatives?

Like moving to a place near your office, if ok naman ang location?

If senyora ka na naman sa work mo, Baka naman ok lang sa boss mo to take leaves on January.
Ever explored to study again? Para kahit papaano you can stay You finished something. Then from there, in case you Want to make a career shift later, o di kaya Baka mag migrate kayo, you will find your degree useful at di ka mahirapan makahanap ng pagkakitaan.

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Re: Thinking of resigning...
« Reply #8 on: June 23, 2017, 01:42:34 pm »
I had those moments before. And to tell you honestly, tinatiming ko talaga na tipong may "escapade ako"
Kasi, ang hirap maghanap ng trabaho after the other one. Lalo na sa line of work ko. Registered nurse na ko, pero I am not working sa hospital. Papalit palit na din ako ng work. Pero siguro calling talaga na maging School Nurse ako!

3rd job ko na actually until I landed as a school nurse, kaso contractual yun. Kaya after nun, wala akong choice na maghanap ng bago. Napunta na din ako sa call center before.

What I can advice you is to find your calling if not, go for your convenience. Since sabi mo nga nakakapagod yung biyahe. Consider your place at yung time ng biyahe.
I guess, pwede ka naman magapply with the same position on other call centers, baka mas malaki pa sahod mo, because of tenureship? Not sure. Pero you can try diba? :)

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Re: Thinking of resigning...
« Reply #9 on: June 27, 2017, 08:16:51 am »
Thanks again mga sis.

di pwede lumipat ng place near work, lugi sa gastos.

ayun nga baka mag ETEEAP ako, sana matupad.

yun talaga best, makahanap ng lilipatan before umalis.
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