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Title: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: prettygurl00001 on April 16, 2017, 11:41:09 pm
Any wife here who experience this? I know usually mga husbands ang mahilig sa sex and mga wives ang madalas tumanggi, pero does anyone here experience sa hubby nila na hindi gaano mhilig sa lovemaking?
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: yannuh on April 17, 2017, 04:09:04 am
^hi sis! How long have you been married na to your husband? Sobrang routinary ba yung sex nyo like same position, same days ginagawa etc?
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: prettygurl00001 on April 17, 2017, 06:51:07 am
10 years married. We tried lots of sex positions, we tried porn, and okay naman for both of us. Problem is, sobrang madalang ang sex... as in he can go on for 2 months straight na walang sex. He's always busy sa work, and watching his fave tv shows. Whenever i initiate our lovemaking, sometimes i get insulted and humiliated pa na para ba kong sex addict na walang ibang nasa isip kundi sex. I feel alone, i feel stupid, i feel unpretty....  :'(
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: lonely_dad on April 17, 2017, 07:26:54 am
10 years married. We tried lots of sex positions, we tried porn, and okay naman for both of us. Problem is, sobrang madalang ang sex... as in he can go on for 2 months straight na walang sex. He's always busy sa work, and watching his fave tv shows. Whenever i initiate our lovemaking, sometimes i get insulted and humiliated pa na para ba kong sex addict na walang ibang nasa isip kundi sex. I feel alone, i feel stupid, i feel unpretty....  :'(

meron din palang ganito. i thought nag iisa ako  :'(
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: Girltalker2 on April 17, 2017, 07:45:12 am
For 10 years?
Now ka lang nag complain or dati mo nang hinaing ito?

Do u have kids? Nag usap na ba kayo?

Para sakin 3 reasons lang
- gay
- ibang babae
- medical issue
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: Shadow Angel on April 17, 2017, 08:46:47 pm
May mga lalaki na mababa talaga ang libido. Ako nga dati akala ko pag foreigner puro sex ang alam hindi pala hehe. What I mean is nakakadaming rounds hindi pala. Anyway depende rin sa tagal nyo kung may spice pa ba ang sex life nyo alam mo un routine na lang walang bago eksena in short boring na. Try mo ibang moves un alam no maexcite ang asawa mo.
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: Shadow Angel on April 17, 2017, 08:47:59 pm
May mga lalaki na mababa talaga ang libido. Ako nga dati akala ko pag foreigner puro sex ang alam hindi pala hehe. What I mean is nakakadaming rounds hindi pala. Anyway depende rin sa tagal nyo kung may spice pa ba ang sex life nyo alam mo un routine na lang walang bago eksena in short boring na. Try mo ibang moves un alam no maexcite ang asawa mo.
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: Sofitell on April 17, 2017, 10:03:05 pm
We had this situation before. Kinausap ko si husband seriously to the extent that I am willing to fulfill his fantasy so long na magkaroon ng normalcy ang sex life namin. He responded point blank MMF. After careful consideration, I gave in and we did it once. Now our sex life is back but this time more than normal as if we're on a honeymoon everyday. Glad the solution worked for both of us.
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: blushberry on May 01, 2017, 07:16:55 pm
I have to second na if your husband has low sex drive or if he is not initiating that he probably has another woman if hindi siya ganyan dati
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: baliya15 on May 07, 2017, 02:22:53 pm
i feel you sis. 🙁
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: Danicajan26 on September 04, 2017, 02:18:38 pm
Same here.. nung hindi pa kami nag sasama wild masyado but when I got pregnant and we live together na paran ako nalang yung naghahanap.
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: Faina on September 06, 2017, 04:08:01 pm
My husband has a low sex drive, but it's because of a mixture of things.

We used to be able to go at it almost everyday, but during those times he was still a regular gym-goer. We've been pretty sedentary these last 2-3 years, and notice mo talaga na his stamina and strength has decreased. Ngayon parang chronic na ang fatigue niya, and lagi siyang inaantok kahit 8 hours or more pa ang tulog niya the night before. He's also anaemic, and supplements only help a bit. Kahit nga pag lalabas kami at mamamasyal madali na siyang mapagod at sumakit ang katawan. Lastly, his varicocele has been getting worse lately. Before mga once a few weeks lang siya makaramdam ng pain, ngayon once to a couple of times a week na. Ayaw naman niya ipacheck kasi sabi niya baka pag gustong operahan ng doctor eh lalo kaming hindi magkaanak. Whenever we had sex it's usually rough, and minsan talaga halfway through bigla siya napapatigil kasi sobrang sakit daw. Minsan talaga kahit gusto niya rin di namin magawa kasi we know na may sasakit talaga sa kanya.

So yun, kaya this Friday we will start working out na uli to get our health and bodies back in shape, and hopefully, our sex lives back to what it once was  :) Sabi niya kasi pansin niya pag nagsestretching siya medyo nalelessen daw yung pain, so baka lahat nga ito e related sa pag-eexercise.
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: Hannyagirl on September 07, 2017, 02:57:20 am
Yung hubby ko din low sex drive compared to when we are still not mArried. nung kinasal kami akala ko mas madalas ang sex pero iba sa expectations ko hehe not sure if tinamad bigla or nakampante pero nag iba talaga. Bihira na yung performance level like before. Btw this was before he cheated. When he cheated i guess naging low to nothing na yung sex drive nya towards me.
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: lonely_dad on September 07, 2017, 07:50:23 am
wife ko super low din ang sex drive
nung di pa kami married madalas kami mag sex as in. siya pa nag initiate
ngayon, nada  :'(
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: MayVerona on November 29, 2017, 04:47:00 pm
kausapin mo asawa mo at para maliwanagan ka at ng mabawasan mga hinala mo sa kanya
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: abhigaile on March 14, 2018, 01:34:01 am
Hi sis! What's point blank MMF? Sorry ha clueless talaga ko
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: G30Bride on March 14, 2018, 05:47:32 pm
Male Male Female?
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: curlyrainbow on July 24, 2020, 12:04:37 am
I had a great start to a marriage when we were doing it all the time. It was the best time of my life and It is really sad that it had stopped. We haven't done anything in months and I really wanted it, but he had no interests. I went and bought some pills on ed-oesterreichische.at (https://ed-oesterreichische.at/kamagra-kaufen/) and put it in his drink. After one hour we were doing it again and it worked like a charm. Now we are doing it regularly and it is all thanks to those pills. He had no idea and I am not telling.
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: EvelynPatterson on August 19, 2020, 07:10:07 am

My husband sometimes has problems with this. Though everything was great before
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: barcode on October 11, 2020, 11:14:20 am
Agree kay sis Faina, I think related din sa health issues yung low sex drive ni hubby, well plus work stress din. But since we got married he has relatively low sex drive kesa saken, I want it everyday or at least every other day. But he wanted it once a week lang.

Is there something wrong with me if I wanted it everyday or every other day?
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: TomHansen on October 12, 2020, 03:48:08 pm
^ wala namang masama at di mo fault kung gusto mo araw araw pero kailangan niyong pag-usapan para magkaroon kayo ng understanding sa needs mo. Kailangan magkaroon kayo ng middle ground, kahit 2x a week sana. Ilang taon na ba kayo pareho? Bago ba kayo kinasal active siya? Nagtatake ba siya ng medication?
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: janachen on October 12, 2020, 06:02:32 pm
wife ko super low din ang sex drive
nung di pa kami married madalas kami mag sex as in. siya pa nag initiate
ngayon, nada  :'(

Naku sir normal sa babae yan ;D lalo pag may kids tapos may work pa. ::)

Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: barcode on October 13, 2020, 11:32:11 am
27 and 29 lang now. Weve been active for 10 years. Got married 4yrs ago.

Minsan naman sis twice a week, pero pag ganun parang over na sa kanya, once a week lang talaga. Ang maganda naman he cant go a week without it, sure yung once a week.

Kinausap ko na sya and he said he cant do it everyday and there is no way its possible. Madalas din ako natatangihan at nasasabihan ng hurtful words kaya napapaisip ako kung ako ba yung may problema.
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: TomHansen on October 13, 2020, 12:27:33 pm
Though bata pa kayo ang tagal niyo na rin pala so ayun na nga siguro yung sinasabi nilang nagkakasawaan(siya) kapag matagal na sa relasyon and not necessarily na ikaw ang dahilan. Wala namang problema sa iyo dahil ginagawa niyo pa rin naman once a week, siya ang may problema kung napagsasalitaan ka pa niya.

Mabaligtad man ang sitwasyon ang sex hindi automatic dapat palaging dalawa kayong matatapos, maraming paraan siyang pwedeng gawin basta gustuhin niya lang.
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: barcode on October 24, 2020, 02:41:28 pm
Ayun na nga yung masakit na katotohanan. Nagkakasawaan. Ayaw mo man aminin pero totoo noh?
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: AlexaAlly on October 29, 2020, 03:13:08 am
1st try to seduce him. Talk sexy with him. Don't be in a hurry to penetrate, look at the nude bodies of each other and do have a creative mind to seduce. You can touch the sexual organs of him. Play with them. Let him also do the same.

Have a bath before sex. That feels fresh. Try to give him a blow job and don't show your hesitate face to him so that he turns off. Even if you feel hesitation in performing any act ,don't let him know. Try these following steps.If that also doesn't work consult a sex therapist or a sexologist and get a testosterone level check of your husband.

the last the last step used to consult a sexual logest but before that try to figure it out why he is not having a good sex drive. And at last consult a sex therapist or a sexologist.
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: Ivelle14 on February 23, 2021, 09:17:28 pm
10 years married. We tried lots of sex positions, we tried porn, and okay naman for both of us. Problem is, sobrang madalang ang sex... as in he can go on for 2 months straight na walang sex. He's always busy sa work, and watching his fave tv shows. Whenever i initiate our lovemaking, sometimes i get insulted and humiliated pa na para ba kong sex addict na walang ibang nasa isip kundi sex. I feel alone, i feel stupid, i feel unpretty....  :'(

this is sad. kinda same with me.
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: nhie on July 19, 2021, 05:37:02 am
Same with us. Back when we were bf/gf super active ng sex life namin, but now that we're married swerte na ang twice a week, minsan once a week lang worst is once every two weeks 😪 3yrs married but we're already 12yrs together, we have a 3yr old baby girl. Minsan ako na [textspeak!] nagiinitiate ng move pero matatanggihan pa 😔 I feel like deprived and unloved. 💔
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: kaisha on July 04, 2022, 09:35:00 pm
I'm experiencing this now... problem is, i don't know how to open up to him..
i'm pretty sure, walang ibang girls.. =(
Title: Re: Husband has low sex drive
Post by: TomHansen on July 05, 2022, 06:27:54 pm
^ diretsuhin mo na lang. Sabihin mo na feeling mo hindi ka na attractive para sa kanya, he'll ask why then tuloy tuloy na conversation.

Marami rin kasing reasons,, May nagbago ba sa buhay niya?? bagong work kaya sobrang busy? Something bad na nangyari kaya depressed siya? Mukha ba siyang may ibang bagay na iniisip kapag mag-isa lang siya? Nag gain ba siya ng weight? Is he in medication?