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Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
« Reply #200 on: April 21, 2011, 01:31:49 pm »
hindi naman ata totoo yang year of the rabbit na yan kasi pinanganak ako year of the rabbit..
di din ako naniniwala sa chinese lunar calendar in determining/predicting your baby's gender..

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Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
« Reply #201 on: April 21, 2011, 04:03:17 pm »
I got pregnant too last oct and my due date was supposed to be this june 9,2011 but then unfortunately on my 7 weeks i had a d and c due to blighted ovum. Since then i havent got pregnant and i had 2 failed iui.. Im hoping and praying that i will get pregnant soon.. Baby dust to all of us here....

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Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
« Reply #202 on: April 21, 2011, 05:06:45 pm »
Hello everyone! This is my first time to post here. just want to share my experience....

I learned that I'm pregnant last March 9, 2011. Imagined the joy and happiness it brought to us, after 7 years of conceiving. But after a week, I had this bleeding/spotting, so my hubby rushed me to Perpetual Hospital. They put me on bed rest the first night then the ff day i had my transvaginal ultrasound only to find out that I had a blighted ovum(daw) [textspeak!] ng ob ko, apparently walang nakita na fetus pag ultrasound sa akin. So my OB not my long time OB,just referred by my first OB [textspeak!] sa SLMC Global cya, told me na i need to undergo D&C. So imagine the pain, napaiyak [textspeak!] kmi ni hubby while the OB is informing us. Pro we cannot do anything but to accept na maybe its was not meants for us and that God has a better plan for both of us. So thefollowing day, i was d/c. I asked my ob if we can pursue our HK the ff day, she said ok lang daw bu wag masyado maglalakad at magpagod. So tumuloy kmi.While in HK, hindi nag stop [textspeak!] bleeding ko and me occassional abdominal pains which is very abnormal [textspeak!] ng mom ko. Pero thinking na bka effect lang nong D&Cdi ko masyado sineryoso.

 So after 4 days of vacation, bumalik kmi ng Manila. Rest ako sa house but the bleeding never stops. On the second wk after my D&C prang mas lumala [textspeak!] abdominal pain and still me bleeding pa din. Di ko pa din masyado ininda because nawawala naman when i take nexium or buscopan. So on the 3rd week grabe na yong abdominal pain, still me bleeding pa din, so me and my hubby opted to have a check sa Fam. Med. So to rule out gall bladder stones,i had to undergo ultrasound of the whole abdomen. There nakita na me fetus.fetus????i just had my D&C?? We got the result and the ff day we had our 2nd opinion sa ibang ob.The OB found out that I had an ectopic pregnancy. So i need to undergo an emergency operation bka magkasepsis mamatay ako. so two weeks ago i had a lapatotomy , We also ask for blood donors because mdaming blood ang nawala and sadly i lose my left fal tube. I was so devastated and sad..... But thank God I still have my Right tube and hopefully mabless ulit ni Lord.
Right now, im recovering.. After all what happened I still trust the Lord that He will Bless us. I pray for strength to overcome the emotional pain.
Sorry mga sis napahaba ata ako.

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« Reply #203 on: April 26, 2011, 05:23:06 pm »
Yung pinsan ko din nakunan,2nd baby na din dapat. nauna lang siya makunan sa akin ng 1 week :o

anyway,nakuha ko na histopath ko pero di ko alam kung ano 'to kasi ayoko na nga bumalik sa OB na yun,pinakuha ko lang result sa asawa ko. nakalagay "few fragments of benign endocervical glands".

anyway,worried naman ako now kasi after 1 month i got my period na then nag contact kami pero with condom pero di ako sure kung safe ba kasi first time ni hubby gumamit ng condom,palpak pa nga nung una di kasi marunong gumamit hahaha. last week dapat ang period ko,pero spotting lang as in yung paumpisa na dapat kaso hindi nagtuloy until now, 1 week na wala parin. waaaah!
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Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
« Reply #204 on: April 26, 2011, 05:36:06 pm »
kami sis bumubuo. LOL! Bahala na si God sa amin kung bibigyan niya kaagad kami ng kapalit. Worry ko lang nagrereview ako for board exam. Pero hoping ako na mapalitan agad ang first baby namin.

Huwag na sana ako makunan, kaya palit OB nalang.

Sis pakita mo nalang sa next OB mo ang histopath, photocopy mo, para kung gusto mo talaga magkababy, ibabased niya siguro ang result ng miscarriage natin dati sa magiging next pregnancy natin.
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« Reply #205 on: April 26, 2011, 05:45:16 pm »
^Haha di din daw kasi advisable na bumuo agad kasi prone ulit sa M/C. ipapakita ko nga yun sis sa orig OB ko,hopefully next month makapunta ako.

goodluck sa inyo sis,huwag pa pressure ibibigay yun ni lord kung para talaga sa inyo :)
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« Reply #206 on: April 27, 2011, 12:30:06 am »
Joining!  :)

Hi mga sis! Would like to share my experience din..

I had a miscarriage last January2009, super painful sa amin ni hubby kasi bigla na lang nawalan sya ng heartbeat. Nag ingat naman ako, and my OB told me na kahit uterine didelphys ako ok lang magwork and magbyahe. May mga meds akong ininom para kumapit, pero nung 3months na si baby nawala na lang sya. I had several spotting pero pag umiinom ako ng gamot nawawala naman so akala ko ok naman sya. Then nung Dec 08, nagkaroon ako ng spotting at kahit anong gawin ko dinudugo pa din ako. I called my OB, and sabi nya uminom lang ako ng gamot. Ewan ko ba pero I felt something was wrong na, hanggang nung New Year 09 nagpunta ko sa hospital (my OB is not available that time nasa vacation pa yata so iba nag attend sa akin) only to found out na i lost my baby na! That' s the saddest new year i ever had! After grieving and trying to accept the truth, me and my hubby looked for another OB, yung pang high risk patients. Buti na lang nakahanap kami and sobrang bait.

I told her my case that I have uterine didelphys and she told me na usually mahirap magbuntis ang mga may ganung condition but we will try everything para makabuo. At first we did SOS (sex on schedule) sabi ng OB ko wag namin masyado ipressure sarili namin dahil baka isa yun sa factor kaya di kami makabuo. Then March 2010, I was diagnosed with an obarian cyst which led me to have an operation right away, parang CS yun nga lang walang baby na lumabas sayo. My right ovary was removed na so I only have my left ovary working. With my conditon (didelphys) and with only one ovary working mahihirapan na daw talaga ako magbuntis, that's why after SOS, we tried to have IUI na, pero hindi naging successful! That's when we decide to stop na and let God do the work! Two months after that procedure, I was delayed (though irregular ako kaya hindi ko nagworry). My hubby and I were planning to go out of town, pero hindi nya k papayagan hanggat hindi ako nagPT, he bought me a home
PT. And we were in shock talaga nung nakita namin na two lines! Bumili pa ulit si hubby ng isa pang PT para sure!
We were very happy and now I'm on my 29th week! Everytime magpapaultrasound ako, the doctors will tell me I'm very lucky to be pregnant pa with my condition. that's why my OB told me it's a prized pregnancy! We're very thankful and happy kasi atlast we'll have our own baby. We love kids kasi eh. Kaya kahit isa lang ibigay nya happy na kami!

I hope this will serve as an inspiratin to other moms na medyo down. Do not worry, just pray and pray and have faith! Kami ni hubby, everday and everynight yun ang pinagpipray namin. And be specific! Kami we always pray na to have a baby girl.. And after 7months of waiting to know the gender of our little angel, we found out it's a girl! Kaya we are so happy and excited na!

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« Reply #207 on: April 27, 2011, 10:40:11 am »
that's truly inspiring! I'm so happy for you sis! congrats! :)
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Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
« Reply #208 on: April 27, 2011, 12:21:12 pm »
@kathon
wow! congratulations!  ;)

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« Reply #209 on: April 27, 2011, 01:06:07 pm »
Thank you mga sisses! :) kahit ako everytime na iniisip ko nangyari sakin super thankful pa din ako. Iniisip ko nga minsan kaya nya kinuha kagad dati si baby kasi mali yung nabigay nya, baka boy yun kaya ginawa nya ngayon na girl.. :)

It also brought me and my hubby closer and stronger. I tried to be strOng nung nalaman namin na wala na si baby, kasi during the ultrasound nung nakitang wala ng heartbeat, lumabas si hubby and umiyak. Sobrang nasaktan sya nun kasi ilang weeks lang before yun nakita nya pa tumitibok heartbeat ni baby eh.  Kaya ako na lang ang naging strong, though everynight I cried silently, I asked God questions kung ano gusto nya iparating sa amin. Until natanggap na lang namin na ganun talaga.. We decided to get a puppy na lang muna, parang training na din sa amin before maging parents. God is so good naman to answer our prayers kaya super thankful na din! :)

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Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
« Reply #210 on: May 02, 2011, 11:42:03 pm »
someone really close to me just had a miscarriage earlier today :'(
sayang nga she already 7 months preggy.. hindi ko pa alam full detail .. so sad talaga  :'(

we plan on visiting her sa hospital soon.. i dont know how i will comfort her when i see her... i dont even know if i'll be able to say anything at all.. i myself is grieving, what more her diba? shes the mom.. haay..

please pray for her mga sis and her family...
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Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
« Reply #211 on: May 02, 2011, 11:48:18 pm »
Aww.. I know how it feels.

Just tell her God has His plans and siguro may mas magandang blessing ang parating for her and her hubby.. Isipin na lang din nya na baka pag pinanganak nga si baby e baka naman kunin din sya kaagad.. :(

Pero kahit anong sabihin mo sa kanya sa ngayon, hindi nya maiintindihan dahil she's in pain and grieving, lalo na 7mos na. Nakita na nya siguro yun sa ultrasound and all, nakapagbonding na siguro sila.. Sobrang sakit nun for mommy..

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« Reply #212 on: May 03, 2011, 06:00:37 am »
oo nga sisn eh.. hindi ko alam sasabihin ko.. sa totoo lang madali akong maiyak eh kaya parang ayaw ko muna pumunta doon.. kasi baka lalo siyang madepress..
hindi naman ako masamang tao
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Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
« Reply #213 on: May 03, 2011, 07:06:35 am »
^:( sis sayang naman...7months na...nakakaawa..pwede pa pala mawala ang baby kahit malapit na mailabas noh..

nakakatakot naman:( 7months pa naman din ako ngayon:(
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« Reply #214 on: May 03, 2011, 07:31:32 am »
^oo nga sis eh.. sumakit daw tiyan kaya nagpatingin daw sa hospital.. nung inultrasound wala ng heartbeat.. cs siya agad .. wala na yung baby.. kakalungkot talaga.. hindi pa ko nakakadalaw eh.. hindi ko pa talaga alam findings..
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Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
« Reply #215 on: May 03, 2011, 11:23:50 am »
^nakakalungkot naman yun sis...ang aksidente talaga inde mapipigilan.  :-\
kaya need natin palaging magdasal para sa baby natin.
ako palagi akong nagdarasal kay God na protektahan nya palagi ang baby ko, at sana maideliver ko ng maayos. i promised to Him that i will raise the child well at may takot sa Kanya.
pag nagwoworry ako, i always turn my worries to prayers..nakakahinga ako ng maluwag. kasi si God lang naman ang may kapangyarihang magbigay at bumawi ng buhay. so kung ano man ang mangyari, ano man ang maging result ng pregnancy ko, mabuti man o masama, for sure there's a reason behind. basta yong mabuntis lang tayo, isang malaking blessing na yon. much more kung maipanganak natin yong baby at mapalaki natin nang maayos, sobra-sobrang blessing na yon. :)

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« Reply #216 on: May 03, 2011, 02:30:05 pm »
^:( sis sayang naman...7months na...nakakaawa..pwede pa pala mawala ang baby kahit malapit na mailabas noh..

nakakatakot naman:( 7months pa naman din ako ngayon:(

oo sis, kalimitan may mga 7mos na pero namamatay pa din ang baby.
most reasons daw napupulupot yung cord sa leeg, minsan naman sa presyon ng mommy.. kaya dapat doble ingat pa din tayong mga mommy and make sure na every now and then maramdaman natin ang paggalaw ni baby. :)

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« Reply #217 on: May 03, 2011, 03:37:52 pm »
sis kathon,

Congrats! atleast you got over it. ako when i lost my second son due to miscarriage on Nov 12, 2007 he was only 4 months. i had to undergo several fertility treatments(follicle monitoring, fertility pills and injections) for 3 years. pero wala eh. i was exhausted na rin. i stopped it mga june 2010. nakakafrustrate na rin. sabi ko Lord ikaw na bahala. kung ayaw mo na, Ok na lang. my eldest ( he was 5 years noon) kept on asking me for a sibling. sabi ko, ikaw na humingi kay Jesus. nagpray siya every night. mga 2 months i got pregnant. pero it didn't stop there. when i was 5 months, my OB can't hear my baby's heartbeat. so we had to rush to the nearest laboratory to have my ultrasound. nakadapa lang. most heartbreaking of all is ng magpa CAS ako at 26 weeks and she was diagnosed to have either congenital diaphragmatic hernia or congenital cystic adenomatoid malformation of the lungs. i'll be giving birth by May 5. hindi ko pa alam kung anong outcome. we're positive about it. i know we'll get through!

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« Reply #218 on: May 03, 2011, 09:16:07 pm »
^thanks sis!

Hope maging ok si baby! Alam ko kung binigay yan sayo ni Lord, blessing yan for you and your family, lalo na sa eldest mo. :) pagpray mo lang palagi. :)

Na-overcome ko din sis.. Kelangan eh, ayoko naman magdwell na lang sa nakaraan at di na makapag move on.. And alam ko may purpose si Lord sa mga nangyayari sa akin. :)

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« Reply #219 on: May 03, 2011, 10:06:47 pm »
I'll share my story....

i got pregnant shortly after i got married, but lost the baby at 3mos. after a couple of months, i got pregnant again, but it was blighted ovum. so 2 miscarriages in the same year i was married.

we stopped ttc for a couple of months then went for consultation with an infertility specialist. sabi ko after the consultation, bec. i was very devastated, to wait 1 year before we start with work-up. but after a couple of months lang, we went for the treatment. so i did all the lab test, the monitoring, fertily pills, injections, hspg, the works...last was an iui, pero failure. we were considering ivf already pero held back since we were just about migrate. but at this time also, we stopped with the treatment for over a year bec. i was already getting overly depressed. at this point sabi ko bahala na lang si lord. pls. believe me when i say ang hindi ko na lang nagawa ay ang sumayaw sa obando to get pregnant.

so when we moved abroad, syempre we learned the hard way that life in another country is not actually a bed of roses. ang hirap. never ko  pa naranasan so much physical work, i was exhausted by the time i get home. hubby too was already depressed since medyo nahirapan sya to get work. so just imagine the picture...

when arrived abroad, part of our plan of course after settling down is to continue with the fertility work-up. but its actually not free here except for blocked fallopian. dasal na lang ako to get pregnant. kung meron or wala, life has to go on.

but, less than a year after we landed here, lo and behold, i got pregnant. it was during the point when we both didnt have stable jobs, our savings was getting depleted as days go by. but then again syempre masaya kami kasi after all these years, we got pregnant already. hirap ako with the pregnancy bec of morning sickness, i even lost weight. but i couldnt quit work kahit sobrang physical fatigue (bec of work) kasi i have to complete a certain amount of time on work to get the benefits.

anyway, our son who is 4yrs old now, was born on december 25. truly a gift.

ps: when he died, asked for the intercession of Pope Paul II to conceive, less than a year after, i was.
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