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Title: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ghichy on August 30, 2009, 10:52:44 am
gurls, naexperience nyo na ba yun? if yes, ano ginawa ng ob nyo to prevent it from happening again? what causes it daw in your case. Kasi in my case i had 3 sobrang hopeless na ako dito kami sa u.s and hindi naman ako binibigyan ng pampakapit kagaya sa pinas,.. help naman i'm starting to be hopeless. i'm only 25 pala.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: finally on August 30, 2009, 01:02:40 pm
yes. it happened sa US din, cause di daw malaman sagot lang nila it happened sa 8 out of 10 women.
just like you di uso pampakapit dito.

kee your faith sis, at saka siguro much better bed rest ka from the first time na alm mong buntis ka na.
 
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mctc_25 on September 01, 2009, 05:08:51 pm
sis na experience ko din makunan twice, but unlike sa inyo eh nandito ako sa pinas, kaya ng sumunod na ma preggy ako binigyan ako ng OB ko ng pangpakapit at vitamins sa early stage pa lang ng pregnancy ko, although based sa checkup ko hindi naman at risk yung pagbubuntis ko but sabi ng OB ko, considering yung history ko, better to be safe, ayun finally eh nagka baby din kami  :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: marose17 on September 02, 2009, 03:10:09 pm
I had once - the baby lost its heartbeat at 10 weeks.  On my second pregnancy, I took the tests for APAS and found that I was positive for APAS and was given meds for it.  (See APAS thread in the health matters forum)

Girls, I am not sure what you refer to as meds na pampakapit?  Eto ba yung Duphaston and Duvadilan?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ^kaedee^ on September 02, 2009, 03:48:33 pm
^ yep and include mo na din yung Isoxillan.

Anyway, twice na din saken nangyare ang ganito.  sa 1st pregnancy ko, nawalan ng heartbeat ang baby ko at 12 weeks. so sa 2nd pregnancy ko, pina-take ako ng Isoxillan and every month talaga may ultrasound ako just to be sure na ok pa si baby.

sa 3rd pregnancy ko naman, as in nahulog yung baby ko at around 12 weeks din kahit nag take ako ng pampakapit.  I'm thinking siguro stress na din kase nag work ako nun sa call center.

sa 4th pregnancy ko, take na naman ng pampakapit at make sure na hindi stress.

Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: emmylou on September 03, 2009, 06:42:58 pm
I experienced miscarriage sa second son ko. I'm PCO so i'm really prone to this. my waterbag leaked and then i felt a sudden rush of water. we waited for 7:30hours(as in naglabor ako nito) for the baby to come out. it's really sad. however, i have to move on for my eldes who is now 4years old. delikado talaga akong magbuntis.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: htebyen on September 04, 2009, 05:01:09 am
^sis ilang months ka nung nakunan?ganito rin kasi ang nangyayari sa akin..twice na..nung first ko 17 weeks then nung 2nd naman 20 weeks.

Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: cutiepie_honeypie on September 04, 2009, 09:25:30 am
Mga sis ano ba reason ng miscarriage bukod sa stress?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: emmylou on September 04, 2009, 03:49:38 pm
^sis ilang months ka nung nakunan?ganito rin kasi ang nangyayari sa akin..twice na..nung first ko 17 weeks then nung 2nd naman 20 weeks.

hi sis htebyen,

17weeks ang tyan ko. kalungkot.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: cutiepie_honeypie on September 04, 2009, 03:55:13 pm
ano daw naging reason ng miscarriage?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bump on September 05, 2009, 04:43:13 pm
yup w/ my second son last '07. his heartbeat stopped na lang at 3mos
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: emmylou on September 07, 2009, 04:15:34 pm
ano daw naging reason ng miscarriage?


sis cutiepie,

wala silang sinabing reason. sakit no. hindi mo alam kung anong mali na ginawa mo.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: plum_girl on September 07, 2009, 06:01:39 pm
yep, on my 2nd month of pregnancy way back 2005. Doc suspects that there is gene anomaly that's why the baby lost its hold despite the great care I was doing. Doc says it was nature's way of pruning possible malformed babies.

As for you sis, just try to conceive again. The perfect baby will soon come.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: jojogurl on September 09, 2009, 04:43:37 pm
sobrang regular ang period ko kaya kapag na-delay ng konti, nagpe-preg test na ako agad, gustong-guto na kasi namin na sundan ang panganay namin na 5-6years old na that time. pagdating ng 5th week, dinudugo na ako. 2x un nangyari sa akin.

i am at present 12weeks pregnant. nagpe-pray talaga ako na matuloy na to. pinag-duphaston ako ng ob ko for 1month.

 


Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ichelie on September 11, 2009, 01:43:57 pm
i had 2 cases.  with my first pregnancy  in 2004, my 6mos old baby had fetal death in utero pag beyond 4mos na, its still birth already.  i have to labor and wait for him to come out sponteneously. he had congenital anomalies, possible striken by a external virus while im preggy.  it was so traumatic that i grieved.

then last year 2007, had blighted ovum and had D & C at 8weeks.  it was induce when my cervix was ripe already.  traumatic too cause i lost lots of blood.  blighted ovum are said to be not so perfect babies.  they have problems to begin with too.  ito yung from the embryonic sac, it did not progress to have heartbeat, but still its consdiered a pregnancy.

yung ibang miscarriage, caused by either or internal factors.  kahit ano pang inom ng gamot if its not meant to be ours, well lose them. 

btw, duphaston is the hormone in enriching the uterus para maganda kapit ni baby.  duvadilan/isoxillan is to ease and relax the uterus para di mag contract.  ang pampakapit is the duphaston.

kaya nga ang haba na ng OB history ko to present to the hospital when they admit me soon for giving birth to my 4th baby!  you know the OB score - Gravida (number of pregnancies) and Parity (number of live children), ako is G4P2 (includes my live baby boy and the one im pregnanct with). 

mga sis, better ask for OBs help pag naka 2x or na kayo nakunan. baka meron kayo other concerns that needs further testing.  and dont blame yourself if something happens.  you are allowed to grieve for your unknown baby!  its ours!  ingat!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: cutiepie_honeypie on September 17, 2009, 04:30:21 pm
:( scary naman yung ma coil sa sarili nyang cord si baby....

Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ichelie on September 18, 2009, 08:16:31 am
sis phan2m, i can feel your pain and your "why's" while reading your post.  i know how it feels cause i lost my first baby also when he was about 28 weeks.  his heartbeat failed due to multiple congenital anomalies.  it was not induced kasi we waited for my body to expel it naturally through normal delivery.

ang dami ko rin tanong, i got depressed, kasi its the first.  wala naman sagot.  allow yourself to grieve if you must, you need that.  only you can grieve for your lost child, kasi kayo lang 2 ang magkasama all along.  but  after grieving, find ways to move on and look for God's greater plan for you.
 
i did not looked at my baby when i gave birth to him until he was buried.  he has some deformities and i dont want it to be a source of trauma for me.  pero til now, i cry when we visit his grave. 

i have a 3 year old now, and expecting next week our little girl.  life teaches us lessons, and God has bigger plans.  but my baby Miguel, is i know an angel now, looking over us and one with our family.

it may be hard to look forward now to another child.  but take one day at a time.  this too shall pass. take care and be well, sis. :) God bless you!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: halfasniceasyou on September 20, 2009, 12:06:05 pm
i had blighted ovum last year. we found out when i was about 11 weeks. pero at 10 weeks i was already spotting. sabi ng Gp baka daw implantation bleeding lang. pero nung nagtuloy-tuloy, pinapunta na ko sa emergency. nung nasa ospital na ko, in-ultrasound ako and maliit lang nakita sa uterus, bka daw 6 weeks pa lang nag-stop na mag-grow baby. kaya pala around 8-9 weeks i didn't feel pregnant anymore. that was my first pregnancy so i didn't know na warning sign na pala yun.

but now, i'm 16 weeks pregnant. i'm still worried a bit, but when we saw the baby at 12 weeks at super active sya, nabawasan worries ko. i cannot help not to worry because of what happened last year. medyo traumatic yung experience sa akin. akala ko it was my fault. pero nabasa ko na when you have a miscarriage at first trimester, it was somehow a blessing in disguise because there may be something wrong with the baby.

so think positive lang. kahit na i still have morning (and evenin) sickness until now, nare-reassure ako na my body is still reacting to the pregnancy.  :D
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: girl_to_mom on September 29, 2009, 04:23:40 pm
i had blighted ovum and had a miscarriage aug 24,2009.im 5 weeks delayed na and was just about to go to my ob for check up.pero the night before nag bleeding ako nung una spotting lang so i was confined and pinag full bed rest.even wee wee sa bedpan talaga.

that morning my OB came,nung IE nya ako mas marami blood pa lumabas and she said na wag na masyado umasa.i had this gut feel na wala na.

same morning i had a transvaginal ultrasound.hindi na ako pwede even sa wheelchair so i had to be transferred thorugh a strecher sa ultrasound room.and the sonologist confirmed it na wala na talaga.and they had me sign na some papers para iundergo ako sa raspa.

i was so sad.i mean unplanned pregnancy siya pero i never did anything naman to harm the baby inside me.ok lang for me na masundan na kasi 3 yrs old na naman baby ko.minsan i feel depressed.but minsan naiisip ko God has other plans for my family.yun na lang iniisip ko.


Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: htebyen on September 29, 2009, 04:57:39 pm
i was delay for 9 days when i took PT, 2 lines but the other one was a faint line.then after a week nag test uli ako at dark lines na so confirmed na pregnant na ako. then nung nag punta ako s OB at inultrasound ako wala daw yolk sack and baby.sabi nung nag ultrasound wait pa daw ako ng two weeks then i ultrasound ulit.sabi ni OB baka delay conception lang daw kaya wait lang. Meron bang delay conception? blighted ovum na kaya ako? twice na akong nakukunan..both during sa second trimester. kakalungkot talaga...walang akong sign ng spotting or bleeding.minsan lang masakit puson ko and feeling bloated.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: valerie28 on October 02, 2009, 09:12:52 pm
im supposed to post this experience to my birth club sisses for feb-mar 2010, but sabi ko baka mastress lang sila pag nabasa nila un nangyari sa kin..so dito ko na lang po ishare...

my ordeal started sept 11, i called my OB informing her im having an asthma attack, i took all first aid meds for it pero nandun pa rin un attack. she then advised me to go the hospital already for some steriods shot to stop my attack. i was admitted and they started iv meds for my asthma. by the time i was admitted and was given iv meds, i keep on praying na hinde magkaron ng effect kay baby un mga meds ko.  after 2 days around 2am, my water bag broke. since this is my first pregnancy i thought i just peed because of too much coughing, pero naisip ko rin baka water bag ko rin un. come morning around 9am my OB came, and i told her "doc pls check my water bag..."  and she confirmed indeed my water bag broke... i was in shocked really in shocked! tears followed after and my OB was trying to calm me down... i was immediately rushed to DR for further monitoring and un dextrose ko pinamadali un drip to help the baby magaccumalate ng amniotic fluid ulit...that night my OB did a thorough ultrasound with my mom and sister inside the room, she honestly told us, that my baby has only 20% chance of survival. and we hold on to that praying and hoping my case will be included in that 20%, that my water bag will re-seal and my baby can produce again amniotic fluid, we are asking for a miracle!
over a week has passed still in the hospital my asthma was cured, and my baby is still inside me fighting. her heartbeat didn't go below 150, sabi ni OB ang galing ng baby mo lumalaban, kaya laban din tayo! since OK na un asthma ko, i asked my OB if i can go home already, sa bahay na lang ako magpapagaling, my OB agreed but have to follow her special home instructions due to my situation and she insisted that i need to see her every after three days to check my baby's condition.
i was discharged from the hospital sept 22. wala pang 24hrs i was again rushed to the hospital, sept 23 around noon, i have an urge to go to the bathroom, when i sat down the toilet, i was screaming, meron lalabas, i immediately stand up at lumabas na si baby ng kusa, without pain... without blood at all... i lost my precious baby girl...
ang sakit tangapin, lalo na unexpected itong pregnancy na ito, pcos ako, i stopped taking fertility meds for over a year na rin, kaya when i found out im pregnant without doing anything special, it was really an answered prayer indeed. im blaming myself for what happened to her.. kung sana mas naging maingat ako hinde sya mawawala sa kin... she's my first baby.. and first apo din sana ng family ko...
now im praying again...hoping pagbalik ni husband He will give us again another blessing...
ang nakakagaan lang ng loob, we have now angel in heaven watching over us... haaay buhay!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bluish_mommy on October 03, 2009, 05:46:45 pm
^oh noh sis! shocked ako sa story mo! all along i thought you're ok with your pregnancy, until i received a text from you about your situation, so sad talaga ako  :( :(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: jelly on October 04, 2009, 10:14:25 pm
^^grabe naiyak ako sa story mo..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: applec16 on October 15, 2009, 10:32:57 am
^^sis,  i'm sooo sorry for your loss.  I m/c'ed also 2x na while my sis-in-law lost her at 6 months too.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: heaven_scent102 on October 17, 2009, 09:33:10 am
i had blighted ovum din nung 2nd pregnancy ko, now im on my 4th..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: anneG on October 18, 2009, 08:24:46 pm
I had my 1st miscarriage Oct. of 2008, 1yr na rin. I was 7wks pregnant then & was also given pampakapit (proluton depot) by my ob and also have PCOS, it was time for my check-up when we found out that baby's heartbeat stopped,very very sad experience. Weird lang coz few days before that I dream of having m/c then i asked my officemate kung anong feeling kaya pag wala na yung baby kasi nga nanaginip ako although that time I didnt feel anything, ayun pala premonition na yung dream na yun. Up to the last minute ayaw maalis ni baby, doc has to do something pa to open my cervix..

until now fresh pa rin sa memory ko yung experience, siguro matagal lang talaga yung acceptance stage..im still grieving up to now..I have given it up to the Lord but it still keep on bugging me.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: gracey9347 on October 19, 2009, 04:23:47 pm
-i was crying saturday night coz of my evilhubby's kawalanghiyaan...sunday before i went to bed, i saw blood in my pee....this morning i had utz only to find out no cardio activity ang 2nd baby ko....soooooo sad talaga...i opted for expectant management and wait for 2 weeks na malabas sha ng kusa if not i'll undergo d & c....sadness :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: halfasniceasyou on October 21, 2009, 06:29:00 am
mga sis, isipin na lang natin na hindi para sa ating yung mga babies na yun. easy to say, pero it took me sometime too to accept the miscarriage. i even blamed myself for it and i really thought i'm not going to get pregnant again. but i am now in 5th month of pregnancy and everything's going well with the pregnancy so far. so i guess we just have to trust God and keep on praying.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: purplelicious on October 26, 2009, 03:56:27 pm

ang sakit tangapin, lalo na unexpected itong pregnancy na ito, pcos ako, i stopped taking fertility meds for over a year na rin, kaya when i found out im pregnant without doing anything special, it was really an answered prayer indeed. im blaming myself for what happened to her.. kung sana mas naging maingat ako hinde sya mawawala sa kin... she's my first baby.. and first apo din sana ng family ko...
now im praying again...hoping pagbalik ni husband He will give us again another blessing...
ang nakakagaan lang ng loob, we have now angel in heaven watching over us... haaay buhay!

sis pareho tayo.. may pcos din ako nalaman ko lang nung 2nd ultrasound ko.. lalake naman yung sa akin ..first baby and first apo din.. last oct 16 ako nag preterm delivery ..5months pa lang ang baby yuan ko..

*hugs* sis.. goodluck sa atin.. sana maging magaan na ang lahat sa mga darating na araw..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: valerie28 on October 27, 2009, 03:35:10 am
sis pareho tayo.. may pcos din ako nalaman ko lang nung 2nd ultrasound ko.. lalake naman yung sa akin ..first baby and first apo din.. last oct 16 ako nag preterm delivery ..5months pa lang ang baby yuan ko..

*hugs* sis.. goodluck sa atin.. sana maging magaan na ang lahat sa mga darating na araw..

*hugz* to you as well sis... read your story sa birth experience thread.. and i feel your pain... we need to be strong sis for our angel...

sis, while reading your posts sa kabilang thread you mentioned cause of preterm delivery was infection sa amniotic fluid mo, nagleak ba un water bag mo?  coz thats what exactly happened to me, since pumutok na un water bag ko, open na sya for anything that can infect her. sabi ng OB ko pag nagkaron na ng butas un water bag, highly prone na un baby sa infection since open na sya and madaling pasukin na sya ng bacteria.

sis, if you wont mind i want to share notes with you regarding our experiences, can you pm me your ym id or email add, (sorry, dont know how to send pm dito e). thank you.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: htebyen on October 27, 2009, 09:04:18 am
pare pareho tayo mga sis ng cause of miscarriage...pumutok ang amniotic bag...on my second m/c i deliver my babies alive (twin)..nung una naman after  pumutok water bag ko,after 3 days dinugo ako..hindi ko kasi alam nun na amniotic fluid na pala yung lumabas akin..so sad talaga mga sis..

pinaka mahirap mag move on..madaling sabihin pero mahirap gawin.i always think na lang na im still blessed with a loving and supportive husband..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: meldesiderio on October 27, 2009, 09:26:51 am
i had one last january 2009 - 6weeks na siya nun...yeah there's always a reason for everything kaya move on lang.... :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: purplelicious on October 27, 2009, 02:31:03 pm
sis valerie di pa rin ako pwede mag pm.. pwede bang dito ko na lang i-post..
ang ym ko is oo0oogheeoo0oo
ang e-mail add ko - ghee0410@yahoo.com

i really need someone to talk to lalo yung may same experience as mine

God bless us at sana magkababy na tayo next year :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: valerie28 on October 28, 2009, 07:59:47 pm
sis valerie di pa rin ako pwede mag pm.. pwede bang dito ko na lang i-post..
ang ym ko is oo0oogheeoo0oo
ang e-mail add ko - ghee0410@yahoo.com

i really need someone to talk to lalo yung may same experience as mine

God bless us at sana magkababy na tayo next year :)

sis, i already added you sa ym. looking forward to chat with you...
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: lovelynewmom on November 03, 2009, 04:24:06 pm
naiyak ako sa mga cases nyo mga sis lalo na yung months na si baby sa tummy nyo nawala pa :'( ang sakit nun pero kaya natin to mga sis. kung pwede lang tayo magyakapan dito para maiparating ang sympathy natin at makapagbigay ng kahit konting lakas ng loob sa bawat isa. tandaan nating lahat God loves us even if He allows these things to happen...

sa akin naman...

Doc suspects that there is gene anomaly that's why the baby lost its hold despite the great care I was doing. Doc says it was nature's way of pruning possible malformed babies.

ganyan rin ang sinabi sa akin ni OB when i lost my baby at 8 weeks. i wasnt sure kung script lang yun ni Doc sa mga patients na nagkaka-miscarriage. anyhow, nakatulong yun sa pagtanggap ko sa nangyari. that was my first pregnancy at super sakit. to think sobrang saya namin ni hubby na i got pregnant agad 1 month after we got married.

what happened to me was, a blood spot near the embryo was seen in my first trans-v. caused siguro ng stress sa office then twice nag out-of-town kami ni hubby via long drive and fly (which is both bawal sabi ni OB). i took Duphaston and full bed rest. weekly ang trans-v ko to check for development and nag-iimprove naman kasi lumiliit ang blood spot. matigas ang ulo ko, confident na tuloy-tuloy na mawawala yung spot, umalis ako at umattend ng wedding. on my next check-up wala na yung heartbeat. im not sure though na dahilan ng miscarriage yung pag-alis ko na yun. pero sinisi ko pa rin sarili ko. ang sakit-sakit talaga.

after 8 months i got pregnant again. that time i promised to myself, God, hubby and the baby inside me na magiingat na talaga ako. i shifted to a new OB (na mas malapit ang clinic), then 1 and half months bed rest. nag-take ako ng ISOXILAN together with DUPHASTON. lahat talaga ng bilin ng OB ko sinusunod ko at lahat ng dapat kong ireport sa kanya sinasabi ko talaga. just to add, kinumpleto ko last year ang simbang gabi (my first time) para ipag-novena ang pagbubuntis ko. God is so merciful, naging successful ang pregnancy ko. my son's 3 months now. kahit papano nakaget-over na ko sa miscarriage ko nung una.

ganun yata talaga. may madaling pagbubuntis meron ding mahirap. i just wanna say to those women in the same circle na nagaabang mabuntis ulit, wag tayong mawalan ng pag-asa. God works His plans in His special way and time.

i pray for strength for all of us!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: heaven_scent102 on November 03, 2009, 05:02:31 pm
just experienced vanishing twin syndrome.. my 1st ultrasound shows that i have two yolk sac but during that time (less than 6 weeks) 1 palang may heartbeat.. a while ago, we went for another ultrasound, ndi na talaga tumuloy yung isa pang yolk sac..:( im sad.. but i know it's God's will.. we should still thank Him for the other baby na healthy..
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Post by: Gladz31842 on November 03, 2009, 05:24:20 pm
naiiyak ako while reading your posts...I will pray for all of you fellow mothers. our God is a Merciful Father, let's all trust in His will.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: purplelicious on November 16, 2009, 11:35:52 am
hi mga sis.. nakapagpacheckup na ako ang diagnosis ng doktor ko is incompetent cervix so next time daw na mabuntis ako kailangan talian yung cervix ko.. may ganitong case din ba sa inyo?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: htebyen on November 16, 2009, 12:58:49 pm
^hi sis!bakit daw incompetent cervix mo?ilang months ka ba nung nakunan?nagpa check up din ako ngayon..yan din ang findings sakin ng duktor.i already have two miscarriages both sa second trimester.kaya next week magpapa ultrasound ako para ma check length ng cervix ko.ayaw ko naman magpa cervical cerclage..im pregnant ngayon.naguguluhan pa ako.
Title: shortened cervix
Post by: sexymamma on November 16, 2009, 07:34:14 pm
hello! i am currently on my 16week pregnancy and my ob told me i have a shortened cervix (from 37mm to 28mm)... He asked me to have a full two weeks rest... i'm worried about what my baby's condition will be... Has anyone experienced the same thing? I've read it has great risks that leads to miscarriage or early labor...
Do you know if there are chances that my cervix will turn back to its normal size? thanks for your attention...
Title: Re: shortened cervix
Post by: sexymamma on November 16, 2009, 07:35:59 pm
hello! i am currently on my 16week pregnancy and my ob told me i have a shortened cervix (from 37mm to 28mm)... He asked me to have a full two weeks rest... i'm worried about what my baby's condition will be... Has anyone experienced the same thing? I've read it has great risks that leads to miscarriage or early labor...
Do you know if there are chances that my cervix will turn back to its normal size? thanks for your attention...
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: purplelicious on November 19, 2009, 01:40:54 pm
^hi sis!bakit daw incompetent cervix mo?ilang months ka ba nung nakunan?nagpa check up din ako ngayon..yan din ang findings sakin ng duktor.i already have two miscarriages both sa second trimester.kaya next week magpapa ultrasound ako para ma check length ng cervix ko.ayaw ko naman magpa cervical cerclage..im pregnant ngayon.naguguluhan pa ako.

5 months sis bumubuka yung cervix ko na wala akong nararamdaman. bakit ayaw mo sis? pero naiintindihan ko kung bakit ka naguguluhan kase kahit ako napapaisip pa rin kase baka pwede pang makuha sa pampakapit.. kaya lang sis maganda na rin yung sure ka.. goodluck sa pregnancy mo, sana this time mailabas mo na sya ng full term at healthy :) be extra careful sis
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: htebyen on November 22, 2009, 12:31:30 pm
^thanks sis!yan din ang pinag pe pray ko ang lumabas sya ng full term. my sister also had two miscarriages,going 7mos na tyan nya nung lumabas ang baby pero hindi rin nag survive.nung third preganancy nya lahat din ng duktor nag sasabi sa kanya na kelangan nya ng cerclage then she went to fabella for check up.sabi nung duktor na tumingin sa kanya kalokohan daw ang cerclage maybe hindi sya naniniwala at hindi daw yun kelangan ng sister ko.sa awa ng Dyos sis naka pag full term nman sya and malaki na ang pamangkin ko ngayon..duvadillan lang ininom ng sister ko. sabi pa ng duktor kahit talian daw ang cervix mo kung lalabas ang baby lalabas talaga sya at wala kang magagawa..same din sa sinabi ng mama ko.kaya hindi ko pa alam kung ano ang magiging desisyon ko.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: purplelicious on November 22, 2009, 03:01:27 pm
naiintindihan kita sis.. ngayon nga puro ako research online kung kahit may incompetent cervix pwedeng hindi mag undergo ng cerclage.. magpapacheck up din ako sa ibang ob kung mga tatlo sila na pare pareho ang sasabihin well siguro kelangan ko nga talaga gawin yun if ever ma preggy ako ulit.. :) samahan mo lang madaming dasal sis. ingat kaw parati
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: cutiepie_honeypie on November 23, 2009, 03:43:13 pm
magingat kayo sa incompetent cervix..

it can cause early water bag breakage and miscarriage if not treated soon

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btw paano nadetect yung incompetent cervix?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: purplelicious on November 23, 2009, 10:03:39 pm
^ yun sa akin sis yun ang diagnosis ng ob ko after ko magpreterm delivery
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: claudia_737 on November 30, 2009, 01:10:04 pm
hugs to all of you. I have been there and I know how difficult it can be. I had miscarried to in 2005. Lost the baby at 12 weeks (no heartbeat). I had to have a D & C.  I am PCOS so it's harder for me to cope because it's like killing the hope of becoming a mom na rin. Thank God in 2006, i got pregnant again and it was uneventful. Gave birth to a baby girl in 2007.

December 2008, I had a tubal pregnancy naman. The pregnancy was unplanned but still....
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: blue_angel on December 05, 2009, 12:07:34 pm
i had my 1st US last nov. 16 then advice ng OB ko bedrest. Dec. 3 na kami nagpa US ulit talagang wala marinig na heartbeat so my mom decided to admit me at hospital, kahapon lang din ako na d & c,so sad nga eh parang may phobia na ko magpa US and maging preggy ulit.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ghichy on December 09, 2009, 06:45:17 am
I'm on my 4th pregnancy now after 3 miscarriages. Controlled naman ang blood sugar ko since i'm type 1 diabetic. Binigyan nila ko ng progesterone suppository twice a day ko gamitin for 21 days, hopefully this would work. I have faith na magtuloy tuloy na ito because if something happened hindi ko laam kung anong depression na naman ang dadaanan ko. I had my check-up before i had this pregnancy with infertility they did SIS kung san malalaman kung may problema sa uterus they did some lab work for me and my husband also and everything is all normal sabi ni doc bad luck lang daw so i'm praying this 4th is a healthy and normal pregnancy. Pls. pray for me mga sis. I'm not having any spotting or bleeding by now pero sabi ganon talaga pag gumagamit ng progesterone you can miscarry without bleeding and n symptoms at all. I'll be having my ultrasound on the 22nd i'm hoping to see the baby's heartbeat.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: hotsikikay on January 11, 2010, 10:25:49 pm
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hi, share ko lang experience ko...

i used to post here tsaka dun sa forum ng metformin users...but luckly got pregnant last september 2009 kaya matagal din akong hindi nakapagpost.

mga sis na may pcos o kaya yung mga nagkamiscarriage, don't loose hope... have faith in the Lord tsaka tyagaan lang sa pagpapawork up...kaya natin ito... be optimistic.

in 2007 and 2008, i had miscarriage.we were soooo sad then and feeling down [textspeak!] kami especially ako. we did all sorts of lab tests..apas, ths, t4, chole, karyotyping, torch..etc...
all came normal except for the prolactin which is slightly elevated..ayun pinainom ako ng bromocriptine na super mahal for a month tapos nagpatest pa kami sa PGH ng LAT and negative result kaya nagpacheck upkami kay dra aleta which recommended a procedure.. kahit mahal willing kami.. nakasked na nga na dec namin start session with dra aleta but then a friend recommended a new ob. so try namin.. that was dec 2008.. she suggested na wag na kami mag undergo ng procedue with dra aleta kasi wala naman akong allergy baka daw iba reason....

nagpawork up kami with the new dr and foundout i have bilateral pcos which could be thereason kaya slightly elevated prolactin ko and could be the reason for my m/c. i was given metformin at umabot ako sa4 times a day.. by theway nung una generic lang gamit ko na metformin and i noticed parang mabagal effect, din lumalaki follicles ko kaya kahit mahal nagshift ako sa branded na gamot... monthly nasa ob ako to monitor my follicles.. dami ko ring nagastos kakaultrasound, gamot (metformin p10, duphaston p50, vitamins p20, clomid p200 and yung pinaka huli yung femara p350) estimate lang price.. nakalimutan ko na exact price..yung iba dyan 2 x a day or 3 x a day pa.

months passed to the point na minsan nawawalan na ako ng pagasa...then last sept i got a good news na preggy na ako.

with prayers and help of my ob, im 20 weeks pregnant now. i still fear kasi naka half pa lang ako ng byahe but im keeping my faith na the Lord will this baby to us.

good luck and God bless sa ating lahat
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: valerie28 on January 28, 2010, 03:41:26 pm
^ sis, i will be praying for you and your baby.

let yourself grieve, find an outlet to your depression...dont keep it all to yourself, nakakasikip ng loob lalo un.

i had my mc last sept 23 '09, until now i still shed tears everynight.

be strong sis for your husband and all the people who loves you.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: anneG on January 28, 2010, 04:25:10 pm
@ gilenn - i understand how you feel. I was once like that almost a year nga ata akong bitter as in! 5days after my D&C(oct27'08) nag malling na ako hindi ko na inantay ang 1month rest period. ML ako ng Nov-Dec everybody was happy kasi xmas, ako hindi. When I went back to work buti na lang pinadala ako sa Singapore for wks training, since I work in an airline ginawa kong outlet yung pag travel super jetsetter ako nung 2009 every other month umaalis talaga ako literal went to singapore, hongkong, macau, hawaii, vietnam & bora my last travel was aug21,2009 after that sineryoso ko na ulit magpaalaga sa OB ko then Nov'09 I found out I'm pregnant again I know He knows that there's something missing & at the end of the day bitter pa rin ako. Continue to trust Him, oneday He'll give you that missing piece.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: anneG on January 29, 2010, 09:24:49 am
@ gilenn - try to go back to work, kelangan mo talaga maging busy para ndi mo lagi naaalala yung experience it really helps. I'm sure sa next pregnancy mo magiging ok na yan sis.
@ valerie28 - sis ganyan rin na experience ko sa mga people na concern. Tapos now that I got pregnant palagi ako sinasabihan na "o mag-ingat ka na ngayon ah" so parang sa loob-loob ko, hindi ba ako nag-ingat nuon??!!! nakakairita, hndi naman nila naiintindihan yung case namin dati. sino ba may gusto na mawalan ng baby lalo na kung most awaited, gusto ko lang i-share.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ghilaine on January 29, 2010, 01:23:29 pm
yes, nakunan na rin po ako once... ang sabi ng doctor ko i have an incompetent cervix daw... So, i decided to rest for 2 years yata? malungkot yung mawalan ng baby noh?? experience ko galing ako sa mall to buy my baby's clothes and then when i got home walang kaabog-abog dinugo na ko. how sad???
Ngayon preggy po ako at super alaga ako ng doctor ko.Actually,
nasa high-risk pregnancy unit ako. i'm on my 15th week na at lagi akong may ultrasound every check up ko to check daw kung umiiksi yung cervix ko. As of this moment ok pa naman yung pregnancy ko. Sabi ng doctor ko gagawain niya lahat para di lang maulit yung nangyari dati. I'm also hoping na maging succesful na ang pregnancy ko ngayon... never lose hope girls... maraming doctor ang magagaling, magtiwala lang po tayo sa doctor natin at syempre po kay God... god bless to all..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: simplykristine08 on January 29, 2010, 02:48:30 pm
yes, nakunan na rin po ako once... ang sabi ng doctor ko i have an incompetent cervix daw... So, i decided to rest for 2 years yata? malungkot yung mawalan ng baby noh?? experience ko galing ako sa mall to buy my baby's clothes and then when i got home walang kaabog-abog dinugo na ko. how sad???
Ngayon preggy po ako at super alaga ako ng doctor ko.Actually,
nasa high-risk pregnancy unit ako. i'm on my 15th week na at lagi akong may ultrasound every check up ko to check daw kung umiiksi yung cervix ko. As of this moment ok pa naman yung pregnancy ko. Sabi ng doctor ko gagawain niya lahat para di lang maulit yung nangyari dati. I'm also hoping na maging succesful na ang pregnancy ko ngayon... never lose hope girls... maraming doctor ang magagaling, magtiwala lang po tayo sa doctor natin at syempre po kay God... god bless to all..

kaya mo yan sis. hindi ka pababayaan ng ob mo, atleast alam na yung cause ng dating mong m/c. btw, ask ko lang if you don't mind, ilang weeks ka nung nakunan ka before dahil sa incompetent cervix? and ano po yung nafeel mo? sorry po sa tanong ha. kasi this is my first time and im on my 26th wks palang. hoping and praying that everything will be alright. thanks sis.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: purplelicious on January 30, 2010, 04:46:05 pm
sis ghilaine sinong ob mo? i was diagnosed with incompetent cervix also.. gusto ko yun approach ng ob mo kase if ever ma preggy ako ulit kailangan ko daw mag undergo ng cervical cerclage eh hanggat may ibang paraan ayaw kong gawin yun. TIA sis. God bless..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ichelie on January 30, 2010, 10:04:14 pm
@gilenn, the same thing happened to me.  FDIU - fetal death in utero at 24wks.  i had a baby boy too. he has multiple congenital anomalies kaya his heart failed.  its not meant to be.  i was not working then too cause i want to be a hands on mom full time.  i didnt see him too, my choice!  cause i know he has deformities that i dont want to be in my mind.

back read for my post about it.  grieve if you want to, you need it.  but you have to find ways to move on and make this a turning point in your life.  God bless you sis!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: blue_angel on January 31, 2010, 05:36:27 pm
mga sis ask ko lang kung nahirapan ba ulit kayo magconceive? dec'09 ako na d and c, nag-aalala kasi ako if ever maging preggy ulit ayaw ko na ma-experience [textspeak!] nangyari sa 1st baby ko.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: anneG on January 31, 2010, 05:55:34 pm
mga sis ask ko lang kung nahirapan ba ulit kayo magconceive? dec'09 ako na d and c, nag-aalala kasi ako if ever maging preggy ulit ayaw ko na ma-experience [textspeak!] nangyari sa 1st baby ko.
i had d&c in oct'08, we're advised to try again after 3mos. but then lagi ako nag tratravel tumigil lang ako mag travel ng Sep'09 & i got pregnant in Oct'09 so far ndi naman ako nahihirapan sa pregnancy medyo cool kasi tong OB ko ngayon kaya ndi ako natatakot na baka maulit uli. I believe kelangan lang talaga mag pray & let God to took over tfor protection.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: valerie28 on February 01, 2010, 02:28:49 am
@gilen > hirap talagang sumagot if people asks if im OK?, minsan i dont answer na lang and just give a "force smile".  iyakin pa naman ako kaya i really avoid those instances. sis, malamang magkalapit ang due date natin, im due dapat feb 27... nakakapraning lalo, dapat in a few weeks may baby na sana ako, haaay... naku! naiiyak na naman ako....

pray na lang tayo sis, un lang naman ang dapat natin hawakan sa mga panahon na ganito.

and lets believe, in HIS perfect time HE will give us again another blessing
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ichelie on February 01, 2010, 03:05:00 pm
^sis and gillen, and mahirap when you lose a baby, ang daming insensitive questions ng ibang tao!  minsanong gusto mong mag snap, though we have to compose ourselves.  piliin nyo na lang ang mga taong you want to open yourself up.  hindi lahat ng nabuntis nakunan din, kaya not all would understand.  sabi nga ng ninang ko, [textspeak!] mga naka experience ng miscarriage ang nakakaintindi rin sa kapwa nila nawalan.  be strong mga sis, God has better plans for you.  ater losing 2, i have 2 wonderful kiddos now. :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: janjohann on February 01, 2010, 04:21:53 pm
Ako rin nakunan na ako, 1st pregnancy. Walang heartbeat si baby at 12 weeks. Feeling ko siguro dahil hindi rin prepared ang body ko. I got married ng May so from January to May ang diet ako and 20 lbs ang nawala sa akin. Tapos I got pregnant ng July. and sobrang stressed ako sa boss. Sabi after 2 months pwede na magbuntis ulit, pero we waited pa for a few months and pinaghandaan ko muna pregnancy ko, siniguro kong healthy na ako.

Now may two boys na ako. Actually, madali akong maging pregnant, pero parang along my pregnancy medyo nagiging mahirap kasi lagi akong dinudugo. Dun sa 2nd pregnancy ko nag duvadilan ako and nakabed rest for 2 months. Yung 3rd pregnancy ko as in naka duphaston ako hanggang mag 5 months ako to be safe, kasi nga lagi akong dinugo at laging nagpapaultrasound kung okay sya. Pero, naging okay din.

Sis ichelie is right, God has better plans. kaya maging positive and keep on praying.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: anneG on February 01, 2010, 05:31:58 pm
@ ichelie & janjohann - when i had 1 miscarriage akala ko nga hinding hndi na ako mabubuntis ulit, that was sep'08 then nung nov'09 i got pregnant again nabuhayan ako kaya ko pala magbuntis every year :D
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: violetday on February 01, 2010, 08:03:37 pm
Yes. once, tapos hindi na ako mabuntis 3 years na. :(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ghilaine on February 02, 2010, 12:29:10 pm
sis ghilaine sinong ob mo? i was diagnosed with incompetent cervix also.. gusto ko yun approach ng ob mo kase if ever ma preggy ako ulit kailangan ko daw mag undergo ng cervical cerclage eh hanggat may ibang paraan ayaw kong gawin yun. TIA sis. God bless..
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my ob is Dra. Coloma of UST hospital sa ESpanya. Magaling siya para sakin ehh... same pala tayo na incompetent cervix ang problem??? don't worry kaya mo na yan sa next pregnancy mo...take and godbless....
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: purplelicious on February 02, 2010, 02:04:54 pm
^ thank you sis.. sana makabuo kami soon, may PCOS din kase ako :(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: rmv12 on February 11, 2010, 05:07:42 pm
ngaun ko lang to kayang i share na... i do experienced this.. traumatic talaga... after nung ngyari nghibernate ako sa tao.. wala ako kinausap kahit mga kapatid ko... ang sakit sakit kasi daanan talaga to...

exactly at 12weeks nawala baby ko.. nasa province kami that time.. sunday morning meron ko brown discharge.. eh nababasa ko normal lang naman daw un.. so okei pa.. wala [textspeak!] ako napi feel na iba.. then nung gabi meron na konting bleeding.. di ko masabi pero kinakabahan na ko nun... and then by 10pm.. ayun heavy bleeding na ngyari.. nailabas ko na pala baby ko di ko pa alam.. as in dasal ako ng dasal nun.. di ko nakatulog.. then nung umaga, diretso ko makati med kasi dun OB ko.. ngpa TVS ulet ako, wala na nga baby... grabeh sa u/s pa lang iyak na ko ng iyak... pati nurse dun naiyak na yata saken.. [textspeak!] doktor [textspeak!] dun napaka insensitive..

and then kinausap ako ng OB ko kelangan ko na d&c.. hindi na ko sa makati med kasi naisip ko mahal eh wala [textspeak!] ako iuuwing baby..  :'( di bale sana kung meron.. lipat kami mas murang hospital pero OB ko pa ren [textspeak!] ng d&c saken.. nung nasa parking kami ng husband ko di ko napigilan ng iyakan n kami, sorry ako ng sorry sa knya.. kino comfort nya kasi ko before... pero bumigay na ren.. then on the way sa ibang hospital ngsimba muna kami...

grabeh yung pain, di mo maexplain... tulala lang ako that time.. hindi nga tumalab saken [textspeak!] anesthesia... sabi ko nga walang kahit sinong babae deserving na malagay sa ganun situation...

after 2 months eto preggy na ulet ako...  :) though andun pa ren yung fear ko, unti unti nawawala na sya... im on my 12th week now... hopefully maka full term ako... prayers pa ren.. in my mind wala naman ako sinisi, meron mga questions pero at end of the day magpapasalamat ka pa ren kasi atleast capable ka maging mommy.. [textspeak!] in His right time lang talaga...

before pala ngyari un maybe 1 week before, nanaginip ako na nanganak daw ako,  di ko alam na premonition na pala yun... kinukwento ko to kasi its my way of saying goodbye to the pain of losing our first baby... at maka move on na ren.. napaparanoid ako minsan at ang fear ko na baka maulit, sana talaga hindi na..

ang imporatante lang pag nangyari ito eh yung supportive ang husband mo more than anyone else. at siempre hindi dapat i-question si God kung bakit.. I strongly believe na wala syang gagawin na masama saten..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: anneG on February 11, 2010, 09:55:30 pm
@rmv12 - sis, same yung nangyari sa atin when I had miscarriage napanaginipan ko din na nanganak ako pero, hindi baby kundi color black na may tail dog lover kasi ako...so puppy yung nilabas ko sa dream then the following day na kwento ko pa sa sister & mom ko tawa ako ng tawa...after a few days bigla ako nagtanong sa officemate ko kung ano kaya ang na fefeel pag wala ng life yung baby..that weekend sa checkup ko nag stop na yung heartbeat ni baby.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: rmv12 on February 12, 2010, 09:01:06 am
@sis anneG - i believe warning un saten.. [textspeak!] that time di [textspeak!] naten alam kung pano interpret... though blurred [textspeak!] [textspeak!] vision sa panaginip ko... hopefully soon we'll get through of what happen.. sa experience n un, natuto ako na mas alagaan baby ko habang nasa tummy ko pa [textspeak!].. kc dati sa sobrang excitement ko, iniisip ko n agad budget, mga bibilhin, sang hospital ba dapat manganak... which is dapat pala ang priority ko eh health nmen pareho...
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: anneG on February 12, 2010, 04:57:10 pm
@ rmv12 - yes sis i believe warning na yun, but then i was very careful during that pregnancy hatid sundo pa ako sa office. Pero my ob warned me na rin that the quality of the egg is not so nice & yung sac ko maliit now ko na lang talaga na realize yung difference im 16 weeks preggy & kita ko sa ultrasound result yun pagkakaiba & natanggap ko na with all my heart that my previous pregnancy was not meant talaga..im just so glad that God has blessed us with another one  :D
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: glam_o_momma on February 21, 2010, 03:27:53 pm
Everything's still so fresh...please bear with me as I only have GT now to pour out my heart to...:'(

I learned I was pregnant only last Feb 12, a day before my husband's birthday.  I was so happy and excited.  I already have one blessing from heaven, my 7 year old daughter and to have another angel soon, sent me on mother-mode overdrive.

Please indulge me in going back a little....

I missed my period for January and waited until the first week of Feb just to make sure if my period was just delayed.  I was disappointed a few nights later to see blood spots which I thought were the onset of my delayed period.  The following morning I noticed that this was not my usual monthly flow and wondered if it was implantation bleeding.  So I waited for 2 more days just to see if my period will resume.  When it didn't, I made it a point to observe my body for signs of pregnancy.

And the symptoms came.  My breasts were tender, I felt bloated, my lower back was aching and I was sleepy ALL the time.  I researched on the internet and confirmed that these were indeed pregnancy symptoms.  So I set a date in mind to go visit my Ob-Gyn once again.

Early morning of Feb 12, my husband and I went to my Ob's clinic.  My Ob asked to me do a preg test to confirm my suspicion that I was pregnant.  Then her secretary came back with the test in hand, and 2 lines appeared.  I was positively pregnant!  I was ecstatic.  My Ob calculated my dates and I was roughly about 6 weeks pregnant.  She tried to scan my tummy if we could possibly see a sac.  When we didn't, she said it was probably too early in the pregnancy to see anything yet and set to have me come back March 1 to check again.

Coming home from the clinic changed my life.  It was so timing that there was a 'Baptismals and Birthdays, Too Fair' at Megamall.  So right before lunch time, I dragged my sister with me to check it out.  When I got there, I was so proud to say that I was gathering ideas and infos for a future baptismal and birthday.  I still have those flyers with me.

I was on cloud nine! 

Then, my world slowly turned dark.  As in dark red.  I began spotting little by little beginning Feb 15.  At first, it would only happen once a day.  Come Thursday night, I already had what seemed like my menstrual flow.  All throughout this time, I would update my Ob of what's happening.  She asked me to come see her again Friday, Feb 19 to do a scan.

Friday morning came.  Called up the clinic to set an appointment.  I was given the 10:45am slot.  As I was getting ready at 10:30am (we live close to the clinic), the persistent pain in my lower back suddenly shifted to my lower abdomen causing me to curl up in pain.  To simply describe how I felt, para akong manganganak sa sakit.  I couldn't walk.  I didn't want to go to the ER so I asked my sister to keep on calling my Ob's clinic to ask for instructions.  When my Ob got to the phone, she told me "I think you're having a miscarriage...Proceed to the Delivery Room and I'll meet you there."

I was devastated.  I wasn't supposed to go to the Delivery Room yet.  Sa September or October pa dapat yun.  Di ako makapaniwala that what's happening at that moment was really happening.  And it didn't help that while I was waiting for my turn at the ultrasound section, shaking in pain and all, there were other pregnant women there holding the 4D scans of their babies.

Ang sakit.  Up to now I'm still grieving.  Grieving the loss of the baby I will never have.  My Ob told me it was the body's way of removing a genetically imperfect pregnancy.  That it's better than having a baby with abnormalities later on.  I understand that part.  What I'm feeling hurt about is that I felt was taken advantaged of.  It was just last week I was so happy only to have that happiness taken away from me a week later.  Now, I'm dreading for September to come. 

In that week I was pregnant, I already had a name chosen.  I was sure it was a boy.  I felt it was a boy.  I already was bonding with him.  I would talk to him and caress my tummy and call him by name.  I even had his first outfit planned. 

And what hurts me most is that I don't think I can try to have another baby anymore.  Suffice to say, it would be selfish of me to have another baby.

Now, I'm searching for the purpose of all of this.  And i still don't know. 
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ghilaine on February 25, 2010, 10:33:34 am
naranasan ko na ang makunan... but still umaasa ako na magiging maayos ang pregnancy ko ngayon. cervical incompetence ang tawag sa case ko. i'm on my 20th week na... lagi akong may transvaginal ultrasound to measure the lenght of my cervix... if it shortens as the week increases then i must take an operation according to my doctor. and as of my latest ultrasound... it became 4.10cm from 3.39cm... so i must say na nagiging maayos naman ang lahat sa pregnancy ko.
Girls who experienced miscarriage:
may pag-asa pa to give birth,.. nawalan din ako ng pag-asa once ehh... but my hubby proves that kung magtutulungan ang mag partner magiging maayos ang lahat....kaya niyo yan mga sis... god bless...
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mae18 on March 02, 2010, 05:43:55 pm
Ako din first pregnancy ko, was IUFD (Intra-uterine fetal demise) at 23 weeks last July 2009. Nawala din baby ko nuon, and until now, di ko pa din alam reason. Basta na lang di ko naramdaman gumagalaw sa loob then when we had our ultrasound, wala na nga siyang heartbeat.


Blangko din isip ko nuon kaya di ko naisip na magtest o ipatest yun baby ko, nasa isip ko lang bakit nanyari and mailibing agad. kasi parang pag nakikita ko lalu ako nalulungkot..


Then a few months later, December 2009 i got pregnant and now im 16 weeks preggy. Praying hard that it will be all okay...
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: simplykristine08 on March 14, 2010, 02:35:10 pm
sis gillen - how many months ka po nung ng stillbirth? sorry if i reminded u again of the pain. but you know, god has plans for everyone. and kahit di ko naexperience yung ngyari sayo, i still feel for you. in god's time darating din po yung baby na para na talaga sayo. god bless us all.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: aquacharly on March 14, 2010, 04:05:17 pm
yes, 2x     when I decided to just let it all go, bahala na si Batman, ayon -- carried my 1st born full-term
But th 2nd one -- ayon, 7 months lang.  Okay naman but the baby stayed in the hospital for a month,  ako 10- days.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sky_butterfly17 on March 19, 2010, 10:28:03 am
I had blighted ovum at 8 weeks and have to undergo d&Cc last feb 17 lang.

to those who underwent d&C after ilang weeks bumalik period nyo? ako kasi till now wala pa din. thanks
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: joeybaby on March 20, 2010, 10:19:57 am
Hi MGa sis!

ako i had 2 m/c. first is nung 2004 , the second one naman is 2005. but now im 19th week pregnant. since may history ako ng m/c bunigayan ako ng ob ko ng duphaston for 3 mos. 2x aday sya. and ok naman si baby. i hope na magtuloy tuloy ang good health ni baby in jesus name.


sa mga may history m/c, dnt worry bibigay sya ni lord in right time. = )
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mae18 on March 22, 2010, 10:39:03 pm
parehas tayo sis joeybaby... pero i only had one m/c actually it was IUFD at 23 weeks, meaning di ko naramdaman guamagalaw baby ko then there i know he's already gone.

that was july 2009 of last year, got pregnant again december 2009 and now im 19 weeks preggy...

Im praying very hard for the safety and full term of my preg.. Im on aspilet and weekly consultation to monitor my case.. dont want to be in that situation kasi again...

basta mga sis, keep on hanging and hoping- God will always be there for us..

sabi nga ni st. pio "Pray, Hope and Dont worry,
                            Worry is useless.
                            God is merciful and will hear our prayers."

Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: simplykristine08 on March 22, 2010, 10:45:18 pm
what happened sis mae18?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mae18 on March 23, 2010, 06:33:07 pm
I dont know, we havent done any test to confirm kung ano nga ikinamatay nun baby ko... That time kasi in grieve [textspeak!] ako, all i wanted is to have his burial ng maayos...

basta natatandaan ko nuon, di ko siya narramdaman gumaglaw sa loob ng tummy ko, akala ko nun una wala lang, pero after a day kmi nagpacheck up, yun pagkaultrasound wala ng heartbeat baby ko... devastating yun nangyari pero good thing i moved on na...

ngayon todo bantay ako sa movement ni baby and to my daily chores...

nun first preg ko kasi pumunta kami ng patay and sumilip ako duon which sabi nila bawal daw sa buntis.. ayun two weeks after nawalan naman ako...

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Post by: simplykristine08 on March 23, 2010, 07:00:42 pm
sorry kung naungkat pa sis ha. but anyways, atleast you have your guardian angel na in heaven and magkakaron ka ulit ng angel na makakasama mo na dito sa earth. at 23wks din kasi hindi pa ganun yung pattern ng movements ni baby unlike when you reached your 28th wk na talagang feel na feel na at may pattern na. ngayon nga, super likot din nitong baby ko. hay, while im doing some chores nakikilikot din sya. if hindi ko sya nafefeel sa mga oras na madalas ko syang maramdaman, i eat chocs or medyo inaalog ko yung tummy ko. good thing nakikipagcooperate si baby, but im sure he's telling me to stop kasi naabala ko pagrest nya. hehe. basta sis ingat nalang po ha. sana maging okay tayong lahat. god bless us all!
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Post by: mae18 on March 23, 2010, 07:05:07 pm
Thank sis, second preg ko na kasi to medyo inaware na din ako ng OB ko na medyo mararamdaman ko na nga siya, nuon 14 weeks siya parang feeling ko my hangin lang tyan ko, pero ngayn ramdam ko na [textspeak!] galaw niya... although minsan tulad kanina medyo busy di konaramdaman, kya yun din inalog ko siya, pero later on pa gumalaw siguro nakatulog... and naistorbo ko... hehe....bloated kasi ako knina, kinakabag ng sobra kaya di ko siya masyado feel... pero ngayon ramdam ko na... lalu pagka madaling araw o kaya pagkapatulog nko.. likot!

sana nga sis, pray lang tayong lahat! thanks ha!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: simplykristine08 on March 23, 2010, 07:15:49 pm
ilang wks na baby mo ngayon sis?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mae18 on March 23, 2010, 09:02:55 pm
19 weeks na. and im having a baby boy as said by my OB.


ikaw?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: simplykristine08 on March 23, 2010, 10:34:56 pm
33 wks na ko sis based sa early tvs ko. pero sa lmp 36wks 3days na po. and sa pelvic utzs ko 35wks 2 days. haha. ang gulo sis noh. but we're counting based sa early tvs ko. at 18wks din the sonologist told me na sure sya na baby boy and he's right! :)

nakapamili ka na ng mga things ni baby? at 24wks i starting buying stuff for him though my partner started hoarding things when i was mga 19wks palang. excited! :)
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Post by: mizizlim on April 13, 2010, 02:17:57 pm
yes.  :(

on my 2nd prenatal at 8 weeks, wala nang heartbeat si baby.  based on his/her size, it stopped developing at 7 weeks and 3 days.

pero may form na sya, as in small baby na sya kaso lang hindi talaga nagdevelop.  :(

di pa ulit ako nabuntis after.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sleepingbutterflies on April 13, 2010, 02:49:45 pm
hi mga sis!

i had my miscarriage last nov 25 2009. on my 10th week my OB did an ultrasound and she said she couldnt find the HB so after a week she asked me to come back. nug 6th week ko nalaman na buntis ako at me hb pa sya. then yun nga nung 10th week, the baby's siz didnt grow and stuck na on 8th week. after 11thweek another TVS and yun confirmed na nainde natuloy pregnancy ko.

i was so devastated lalo na si BF. iyakana kami pareho. inde masabi ni doc yun resaon but it could be hte UTI daw... (i was taking antibiotics for it precribed by my Ob for a month) so feeling ko inde kinaya ni baby ang antibiotics although sabi ni OB safe naman daw. anyhow ayun :(

now i am 11 weks preggy na ulit.  i also pray hard na maging ok na kami ni baby this time. i talk to my guardian angle na babatntayn nya kami palagi.

so ngayon super praning na ako i always feel my breasts if masakit pa rn. nung namiscarriage ako kasi the symptoms dispapeared, yung tenderness ng breasts, yung fatigue.. etc as in balik normal talaga.

anyhow safe pregnancy to all na preggy like me :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mae18 on April 13, 2010, 05:46:58 pm
33 wks na ko sis based sa early tvs ko. pero sa lmp 36wks 3days na po. and sa pelvic utzs ko 35wks 2 days. haha. ang gulo sis noh. but we're counting based sa early tvs ko. at 18wks din the sonologist told me na sure sya na baby boy and he's right! :)

nakapamili ka na ng mga things ni baby? at 24wks i starting buying stuff for him though my partner started hoarding things when i was mga 19wks palang. excited! :)


di pa ako nakapamili though may mga gamit kami na nabili nuon on my first preg that was never used because of what had happened. Ngayon pinagbabawalan kami ng in-laws and family to shop for our coming baby too soon. Sabi nila madali na lang daw mamili pag andyan na...

Ngayon Im 22 weeks preggy, paranoid ng konte since papasok na ako sa week ng 23 weeks kun san nakunan ako last year...

praying very hard ako ngayon.. at the same time, talagang binibilang at inoobserbahan ko na galaw ni baby every now and then.. nakakpraning kasi...

sana maging ok tayong lahat!

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Post by: sleepingbutterflies on April 13, 2010, 06:12:36 pm
hi sis mae! i feel for you. ako nasa 11 weeks na kaya praning na praning ako gusto ko na maga ultrasound ulit. last time kasi 8 weeks wala ng heartbeat yugn baby ko so sad.

kaya ngayon super pray ako na maging ok kami ni baby. im happy for you na magkkababy ka na ulit.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mae18 on April 13, 2010, 08:12:00 pm
sis, i know its hard pero we have to cling on HIM, SIYA na lang ang aasahan natin.. we have to keep our faith intact... and besides, andito din naman kaming mga sis mo.. lam mo naman na tayo tayo lang ang nagkakaintindihan of what we've been through...

Ill include you in my prayers... Sa lahat i will..

Ngayon Ive been praying rosary daily and novena to St. pio.. mahirap umasa for something you dont have an assurance pero prayers hang me on and keep me on hoping... Think positive tayo..

We will pass through this and soon we will have our bundle of joy...

Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mae18 on April 14, 2010, 01:00:23 pm
There are times na nagkakaruon tayo ng instinct- siempre we know and we have these instincts dahil our baby's inside us.

Ganun din ako last preg ko, i dreamed naman na me and my hubby crying on the baby boy im hugging pero walang face yun baby, and all of the people i see in my dreams nakaputi.. i felt like devastated sa dreams ko, when i woke up, i told my husband my dream, pero we never took it seriously though... a few weeks after we were awared that my husbands grandmother passed away.. ayun pumunta kami duon ng lamay and nakipaglibing pa ako..

Espiritista yun religion or kun ano man tawag duon sa sekta nun father in law ko and lahat nun anduon naka all white.. when my first baby was diagnosed as IUFD (fetal death) then there I realized my dream...

Ngayon, lahat even the slightest thing kinokonsult ko na doctor ko, may times na sa isang buwan 4 times ako nagpapaultrasound and check up just to ease my worry... ngayon todo bantay ako on my baby's movements... im taking notes na di baba ng 20 counts per 2 hours yung movement niya- to be sure na he is in good shape dahil makulit and malikot inside me...

hopefully God will lead us to have our very own child... :)
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Post by: mae18 on April 14, 2010, 01:21:32 pm
Thanks sis.. Sana talga!

And sa lahat din longing to have their own- may God give us what we deserve and what we are praying for,
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Post by: valerie28 on April 14, 2010, 10:30:55 pm
hello mga sisses!

just want to ask, were you able to see your baby before nyo sya nilibing/crinimate?  i was still in the recovery room when they gave my baby to my mom and mother in law, inuwi sya agad ng biyenan ko at nilibing agad. though my family took pics of her using my cellphone, until now i dont have the courage to look at her. i really dont know what will i feel pagnakita ko sya... will it lessen my grief or make it worst. i had my m/c last sept 2009, until now i cry every night... :'(
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Post by: mae18 on April 14, 2010, 11:03:39 pm
I feel the same way sis. Ako, i delivered my baby normally pero wala ng buhay, nasa loob pa siya ng inunan nun.. Nun time na yon though marami nagsusuggest to open yun inunan para mkita yun baby and dahil swerte daw yun inunan sa negosyo pag pinatuyo... Di kami pumayag ni hubby nuon na ilabas o sirain inunan niya and mailabas baby ko don, kasi we're thinking na kaya siya anduon pa sa loob ng inunan ko ng ilabas ko is ayaw pa niya magpakita sa amin... Minsan nagsisisi ako bakit di ko nakita at nayakap man lang baby ko, pero minsan naman, nasa isip ko okay na din yun, baka mas mahihirapan siya pag andto...

Pero ngayon, tanggap ko na, di ko na naiisip yun mga ganun... Think positive ako since I am now pregnant on our second child.. and clinging on Him to get on and move on and be happy on this another chance. Im on my 22nd week na, and on the way to 23rd week kun kelan ako nakunan last year.. kaya medyo praning mode ngayon, pero ayun, todo pray ako, ilang beses just to ease my feelings...
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Post by: valerie28 on April 14, 2010, 11:25:04 pm
^sabi ng hubby ko nga dont delete the pics... maski dun man lang makita nya anak nya.  magkakaron siguro ako ng lakas ng loob para tignan si baby pag sabay kami ni hubby titingin....

i guess, makakamove on lang siguro ako when i got pregnant again.  my OB is preparing me for pregnancy na, since huby will be home in few months time. medyo challenging ang ttc namin, pcos ako sis. but i know just like my 1st pregnancy... HE will grant us another baby in HIS perfect time.

sis, congrats sa pregnacy mo... il pray with you na tuloy tuloy at healthy na yan!
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Post by: mae18 on April 15, 2010, 09:10:53 am
^sabi ng hubby ko nga dont delete the pics... maski dun man lang makita nya anak nya.  magkakaron siguro ako ng lakas ng loob para tignan si baby pag sabay kami ni hubby titingin....

i guess, makakamove on lang siguro ako when i got pregnant again.  my OB is preparing me for pregnancy na, since huby will be home in few months time. medyo challenging ang ttc namin, pcos ako sis. but i know just like my 1st pregnancy... HE will grant us another baby in HIS perfect time.

sis, congrats sa pregnacy mo... il pray with you na tuloy tuloy at healthy na yan!

Thanks sis.. kahit ano manyari its lucky for you na at least kayo may pics to remember na minsan your baby was there.. ako kasi ni isang alaala except for mga stuff na binili namin in preparation nun yun lang.. pics wala ako.. pero in my heart and in my mind lage ko naiisip and dinadaydreamed na what if my baby's with me, ano kaya hitsura niya... yun ganun ba... pero wala na eh... kaya kayo cherish your moment na buti pa kayo may pics eh ako, ang pinanghahawakan ko na lang alaala niya... :( :(
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Post by: sleepingbutterflies on April 15, 2010, 10:01:42 am
Ngayon, lahat even the slightest thing kinokonsult ko na doctor ko, may times na sa isang buwan 4 times ako nagpapaultrasound and check up just to ease my worry... ngayon todo bantay ako on my baby's movements... im taking notes na di baba ng 20 counts per 2 hours yung movement niya- to be sure na he is in good shape dahil makulit and malikot inside me...

hopefully God will lead us to have our very own child... :)


ako sis gusto ko na nga paultrasound ulit now that im on 11th week na.. last ko kasi yung 8th weeks pa sya. as in im so worried talaga. kinakapa ko lagi boobs ko kaskung masakit pa rin sighn na preegy na preegy pa rin ako. lasely napapraning ako kaya ayun hay. siguro sakakaisip ko me bad dream na ako kagabi.

kinakauspa ko si baby to hang on. to be strong kahit na wala yung daddy nya.. magulo status namin nung ndaddy e. so ayun im staying strong for my baby.

2 days na lang . ppaultrasound na ako ulit. hay. ok lang] ba yun sis na madalas paultrasound? i want to closely monitor e.  aiiyak na ako minsan sa kaba :(


to all mommies-to be like me... god bless us all and stay safe!
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Post by: sleepingbutterflies on April 15, 2010, 10:18:02 am
thanks sis sa info. ill definitely have an TVS this sat.  I ned to be sure that my baby is ok :( I dont want to lose him again :( :-\
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Post by: simplykristine08 on April 15, 2010, 10:48:16 am
sis ok lang ang ultrasound, sound waves naman nga kasi. as ive said, ako i had 8 ultrasounds kasi super praning din ako. and kahit once lang ang prenatal checkup talaga, ako im seeing my ob before mga 2-4x a month. so medyo naging magastos yung buong pregnancy ko, kung susumahin, baka mas malaki pa nagagastos ko sa checkups, utzs, meds kesa sa panganganak ko. but when i reached mga 6-7months, feel na feel na kasi talaga yung movements ni baby, kapag may concern nalang talaga ako dali dali pumupunta kay ob.

and now, fullterm na si baby sa tummy ko, so anytime pwede na ako manganak. makakaraos na din at makikita ko na din ang little boy ko :) basta sis, if you have enough savings naman, lalo kung super worried ka, ok lang. wag lang masyadong praning kasi baka naman mastress ka pati si baby maapektuhan. and think din sis minsan na maging practical kasi dame pang gastos in the near future. ingat ka and godbless you and your baby!
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Post by: fegloria1954 on April 15, 2010, 10:54:08 am
Yes.

I got pregnant 7 times.

I had 4 miscarriages all at 3 months.  Very distressing, especially as the circumstances that triggered the miscarriages were really big issues.  I saw all of them.  They were all males.

I bore 3 live children.  2 lived to become adults - one female, one male.  The third one - a son - died at 2 weeks old kasi he was to much a preemie.

So now, I have 5 babies in heaven, who pray for me and my husband and our two living children.
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Post by: mae18 on April 15, 2010, 04:57:43 pm


2 days na lang . ppaultrasound na ako ulit. hay. ok lang] ba yun sis na madalas paultrasound? i want to closely monitor e.  aiiyak na ako minsan sa kaba :(


to all mommies-to be like me... god bless us all and stay safe!

Ok lang yun sis, i can assure you na safe ang ultrasound sa atin- walang radiation yun katulad ng mga MRI/CT Scan or Xrays.. I can vouch for that- Ive worked in a Multinational medical company din before i got married and nahawakan and napag aralan naming lahat yun mga medical equipment na yan.. kaya dont worry!

High frequency sound wave and echoes ang tinatrace ng machine to picture your baby inside you... alam mo yun sa national geographic or sa matanglawin ni kuya kim kun paano tinatrack or tintrace yun marine animals like dolphins? parang ganun ang paggana ng ultrasound... kaya dont worry... ako nga 4 times a month din kun magpa ultrasound...

ngayon since 22 weeks na ko, and nararamdaman ko na galaw ni baby, yun na ang minomonitor ko unless may iba akng concerns...
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Post by: valerie28 on May 07, 2010, 11:49:42 am
mother's day is just around the corner.. for gt sisses who experienced miscarriage.. i want to share this poem with you...

WHAT MAKES A MOTHER

I thought of you and closed my eyes
And prayed to God today,
I asked, "What makes a Mother?"
And I know I heard him say:
A Mother has a baby,
This is we know is true
But, God, can you be a mother
When your baby's not with you?

Yes, you can, he replied
With Confidence in his voice,
I give many women babies,
When they leave it is not their choice.
Some I send for a lifetime,
And others for the day,
And some I send to feel your womb,
But there's no need to stay.

I just don't understand this God,
I want my baby here.

He took a breath,
and cleared his throat,
And then I saw a tear.
I wish I could show you,
What your child is doing Here...

If you could see your child smile
With other children and say,
"We go to earth to learn our lessons
of love and life and fear,
but My mommy loved me so much
I got to come straight here!"
I feel so lucky to have a Mom who had so much love for me,
I learned my lessons very quickly,
My Mommy set me free.
I miss my Mommy oh so much
But I visit her each day.
When she goes to sleep,
On her pillow is where I lay.
I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek,
Ans whisper in her ear,
"Mommy, Please don't be sad today,
I'm your baby and I am here!"

So you see my dear sweet one,
Your child is okay.
Your baby is here in My home,
And this is where she'll stay.
She'll wait for you with Me,
Until your lessons there are through,
And on the day that you come home,
she'll be at the gates waiting for you

So now you see
What makes a Mother,
It's the feeling in your heart,
It's the love you had so much of
Right from the very start.




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Post by: khengzky on May 07, 2010, 03:46:38 pm
ganda naman ng poem, grabe while im reading each different stories nakakaiyak how hard & painful to accept na hanggang dun nalang. kaya ako when i got home since im working while pregnant todo thank you talga ako kay Lord kasi were both safe & now 26w na si baby & very active contine pa din ang pray ko na ibigay siya sakin healhty & normal that's what all moms wanted.. pero bilib pa din ako sa inyo mga sis.. God knows the right time for us.  ;)
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Post by: mae18 on May 07, 2010, 03:49:49 pm
Thanks sis. Ang ganda ng poem. Nakakaiyak nga lang.

very inspiring. 
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Post by: joey09 on May 08, 2010, 09:46:04 pm
hi,just want to share also my experience since fresh pa.nag pa D&C ako last sat.because wala ng heartbeat si baby.Wala man lang ako na ramdaman except sa brown discharge na akala ko is normal lang.dahil nagbabawas ng dumi daw un.i texted my OB para sure and she suggested na mag TVS kami the next day.May 1,2010.ang pinaka malungkot na nangyari during the ultrasound wala na makita na heartbeat ang OB ko.that night pinag D&C nya ako. :-[
may mga times pa din na bigla na lang ako umiiyak.pero mga sis hindi tayo bibigyan ni lord ng problem or trials na hindi natin kaya.so pray na lang tayo sa kanya for his guidance and blessings
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Post by: gurlalu on May 10, 2010, 09:41:28 am
hi joey09 so sorry to hear your lost. i can totally understand how u feel. i had my d&C as well april 10.. same thing no heartbeat den. and until now im waiting for my period to come back so we can start TTC again...

moving on, just be strong and hang-on. for definitely God has a plan. and prayers lang talaga. believe that God will bless u another healthy baby very very soon!.. and for the meantime stay positive and be healthy.

God bless   :)  :)  :)
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Post by: joey09 on May 10, 2010, 07:38:40 pm
@gurlalu,thanks sis,ilang weeks yung baby mo?ilang days na nga heavy pa din yung bleeding ko.sabi ng OB ko dapat patapos na daw pag dating ng second week,kaya nga medyo worried ako kasi yung iba ilang days lang ang bleeding.kaw how was your experience.bibigay din ni GOD sa tamang panahon.
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Post by: gurlalu on May 11, 2010, 03:56:24 pm
@ joey09 - i was then 8 wks. ob said i had missed miscarriage at 5 wks.. so sad.. i had brown-spotting den lasted for 3 wks kla ko normal lang un pala un n un.

after my d&c 2 days lang light bleeding tapos as in wala na. now it's been over 4 wks na since then...

sau ilan wks?
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Post by: fegloria1954 on May 11, 2010, 05:32:06 pm
mother's day is just around the corner.. for gt sisses who experienced miscarriage.. i want to share this poem with you...

WHAT MAKES A MOTHER

I thought of you and closed my eyes
And prayed to God today,
I asked, "What makes a Mother?"
And I know I heard him say:
A Mother has a baby,
This is we know is true
But, God, can you be a mother
When your baby's not with you?

Yes, you can, he replied
With Confidence in his voice,
I give many women babies,
When they leave it is not their choice.
Some I send for a lifetime,
And others for the day,
And some I send to feel your womb,
But there's no need to stay.

I just don't understand this God,
I want my baby here.

He took a breath,
and cleared his throat,
And then I saw a tear.
I wish I could show you,
What your child is doing Here...

If you could see your child smile
With other children and say,
"We go to earth to learn our lessons
of love and life and fear,
but My mommy loved me so much
I got to come straight here!"
I feel so lucky to have a Mom who had so much love for me,
I learned my lessons very quickly,
My Mommy set me free.
I miss my Mommy oh so much
But I visit her each day.
When she goes to sleep,
On her pillow is where I lay.
I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek,
Ans whisper in her ear,
"Mommy, Please don't be sad today,
I'm your baby and I am here!"

So you see my dear sweet one,
Your child is okay.
Your baby is here in My home,
And this is where she'll stay.
She'll wait for you with Me,
Until your lessons there are through,
And on the day that you come home,
she'll be at the gates waiting for you

So now you see
What makes a Mother,
It's the feeling in your heart,
It's the love you had so much of
Right from the very start.

Dear valerie28,

Thank you for sharing the poem.  I had 4 miscarriages, all of the lost babies at very early stages, but one could already see that they were males.  I also had a baby die after 2 weeks in an incubator, as he (a male too) was born at 28 weeks old - to small and too young.  They are all my angels in heaven, looking after me.

Mommy Fe
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Post by: joey09 on May 11, 2010, 06:15:28 pm
@gurlalu,ako nman nalaman ko na pregnant ako during my six weeks.after ko na confirm that i was pregnant nag pa ultrasound ako.tuwang-tuwa ako nung makita ko sya sa ultrasound.then last week [textspeak!] nagkaroon ako ng brpwn discharge pero sobrang light lang.texted my OB nag ultrasound dun nalaman na wala na pla sya heartbeat.lumaki pa sya kasi nag 7 weeks pa sya.after D&C 1 week na heavy bleeding.ngayon medyo konti na lang.
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Post by: valerie28 on May 12, 2010, 09:18:42 am
^^mommy fe, i salute you for being strong.  having 4 miscarriages? omg! i experienced one last sept, til now cant get over with it!
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Post by: ichelie on May 12, 2010, 09:34:38 am
@mommy fe, yes you are so strong.  we feel for you!  women who lost their children can empathize with you the more.  I lost 2 (1 still birth & another miscarriage), but now blessed with 2 precious ones.  Still, they have a space inside me and it still pains me when I thought of them. God has better plans for us who felt the pain of losing our precious ones.  :)   

Thanks for the very assurig poem!
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Post by: lea06 on May 12, 2010, 12:32:24 pm
Sa 2nd pregnancy ko, i had a blighted ovum and sa 3rd pregnancy, my baby lost a heartbeat at 8 weeks kaya I undergone 2 D&C in one year kaya nagpaalaga na ako. Thank God for giving us a healthy baby girl  :) :) :)
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Post by: joey09 on May 12, 2010, 09:02:51 pm
don't worry mga sis,bibigay din ni lord sa atin ang mga angels natin sa tamang panahon.mahirap talaga ma accept na wala na sila sa atin.isipin na lang natin na sila na yung guardian angel natin at tutulungan nila ang mga mommies nila na maging masaya.God Bless us all.
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Post by: ichelie on May 17, 2010, 08:34:31 am
^ mommy fe, you are one faithful person!  I commend your spirit and love! 

i had my own share of losses but it pales in comparisn for what happened to you.  i lost my first due to fetal death in utero at 6mos, then had my baby boy (now 3.6), then another miscarriage, then my baby girl (now turning 8 mos).  each pregnancy drains me physically and emotionally.  bed rest, spotting and premature contractions.  so i say na pagod na kong mag buntis.  and relieveing my losses is always painful.  but seeing my borne happy and beautiful kids makes it worthwhile.

mabuhay ka po!
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Post by: gurlalu on May 17, 2010, 04:47:38 pm
dear mommies, ask ko lang when did u start trying to conceive again after miscarriage. how many weeks ba typically?

TIA
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Post by: mae18 on May 17, 2010, 05:04:06 pm
not weeks sis...

It should definitely take months... aside from waiting for your menstruation come after cleaning, meron pang healing period yan, which in some Ob's sinasabi nilang parang relaxation ng womb natin in preparation for another pregnancy.

sa akin July 2009 ako nakunan at 23 weeks, i had bleeding since i didnt undergo yung curage that time... my Ob had me taken a pill to cleanse my uterus, then after a month and a half my period came back, then December napreggy na ako, pero work out pa lang yun we didnt expect to have my pregnancy that soon kasi my first took me a year or more, pero ngayon same year lang meron na.. and now im 27 weeks preggy..

medyo kinakabahan since lage ako nakakaramdam nun pain at my hips and my tummy minsan kasi pang intolerable pa...

please pray for me mga sis... my ob told me baka im on pre term labor.. natatakot talga ako.. i just hope not.. im also praying na di pa to right [textspeak!] sa july or august pa ako... please sis, pray for me...

thanks...  :-[ :-[ :-[
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Post by: joey09 on May 17, 2010, 06:13:50 pm
@mae18,don't worry makakaya mo yan and nandyan si GOD hindi ka niya pababayaan.will pray for you and your baby's health.
@gurlalu,sabi ng OB ko after 2 months daw pwede mag try.kasi ako na D&C din nung May 1.sa wait ko muna ma regulate yung period ko.
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Post by: ichelie on May 17, 2010, 08:16:37 pm
pwede na talaga mag oreggy after d&c.  though my ob before suggested waiting for around 6mos. to be sure thsat the cells of the uterus are healed and regenerated.  theres a tendency daw kasi pag nag preggy ulit after d&c, di maganda kapit. 
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Post by: mae18 on May 17, 2010, 09:08:09 pm
@mae18,don't worry makakaya mo yan and nandyan si GOD hindi ka niya pababayaan.will pray for you and your baby's health.



thanks sis.. please do... thanks... im so worried talaga....
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Post by: gurlalu on May 17, 2010, 11:05:00 pm
thanks po sa mga advise. i just had kase my 1st period after 5 weeks 2 days since my d&c.

i have read din kase sa ibang international forums na most of them did try after 1st mens cycle lang and had luck to conceive successfully... pero same din po sa inyo, ganun din sabi ng OB ko to wait to regulate the menses - gave me 2 months to start trying again.

i had d&c April 10, period came May 14. Ob told me to try again June.
i guess better to trust our OBs for our and future baby safety
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Post by: rmv12 on May 18, 2010, 08:27:05 am
i had my share of this sad experience last yr..  OB said, it's safe to try again after 3 menstrual cycle... but i conceived after 2 months... i'm in panicked kc maaga pa, pero my new OB tells me not to worry about it kasi eto [textspeak!] natural process ng katawan naten... but to be safe, she gave me duvidillan for 1 month... now i'm on my 26th weeks and hoping maka full term...  :)

treat na [textspeak!] po naten na [textspeak!] experience naten as a reminder to be more careful pa about our baby habang nasa tummy pa...  ;)
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Post by: joey09 on May 18, 2010, 09:07:32 pm
ako nga din wait ko pa ang period ko.may 1 ako na d&c and mga mahigit 1 week ako nag bleed.kailan kaya ako magkakaroon uli?
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Post by: anneG on May 18, 2010, 10:07:34 pm
ako nga din wait ko pa ang period ko.may 1 ako na d&c and mga mahigit 1 week ako nag bleed.kailan kaya ako magkakaroon uli?
kung regular naman period mo sis after 1 month balik na ulit yung cycle mo.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: joey09 on May 19, 2010, 06:24:22 pm
kung regular naman period mo sis after 1 month balik na ulit yung cycle mo.
ganun ba.kaya pala sabi ng OB ko balik ako after 1 month.si partner kasi gusto na mag try uli.sabi ko tiis muna siya. :D
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Post by: anneG on May 20, 2010, 10:07:25 am
ganun ba.kaya pala sabi ng OB ko balik ako after 1 month.si partner kasi gusto na mag try uli.sabi ko tiis muna siya. :D

yes ganun nga..in my case, pina try kami after 3mos.
pero yung isang friend ko had miscarried last july she didn't underwent d&c kasi sobrang aga nangyari then nag try sila agad aug na preggy siya. hindi ko alam kung pano nangyari yun hehe then last april she gave birth na.
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Post by: joey09 on May 20, 2010, 06:47:49 pm
yes ganun nga..in my case, pina try kami after 3mos.
pero yung isang friend ko had miscarried last july she didn't underwent d&c kasi sobrang aga nangyari then nag try sila agad aug na preggy siya. hindi ko alam kung pano nangyari yun hehe then last april she gave birth na.
naguluhan nga ako kasi sabi ni OB hindi naman daw ganun ka critical yung D&C na ginawa.hindi naman daw totally kinyod like yung mga usual na ginagawa.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: wella on May 21, 2010, 09:18:39 am
I got miscarriage recently. We've been trying for almost 2 years now. I think kaya rin kme nakabuo that time kase i was excited for our vacation in pinas. Its true na pag di mo iniisip na sana mabuntis ka na every month, nabubuo talaga. So before we left, nagpacheck up na ko around 6 weeks na ata ako non. Walang heartbeat. There's a 50-50 chances kase nga maliit pa daw. When we were in Pinas, one week pa lang kme don, nagkaron na ko ng spotting. It was brown (parang pahabol nten) parang bahid lang sya. Then nawala a day after, tapos ayun na nagtuloy tuloy. At first medyo ok lang kase sabi ng ibang kakilala ko normal lang daw, yun daw yung tinatawag na "tagbawas". Worried nman ang mommy ko kase sa 5 anak nya never naman daw nya naexperience yun. So anyway after ilang days di na ko comfortable kase nasspoil na yung vacation ko. Di ko na naeenjoy so nagpunta na ko sa ospital. Unfortunately my OB was not available that day kaya sa iba ako nagpatingin. Ayun nagpatransvaginal na ko and sabi nga walang development, 9 weeks na ko non pero sa gestational 6 weeks pa lang. Same size pa rin daw (accdg to my medical records from US). That day, kailangan ko na raw D&C. My hubby was so hesitant kase aside from diskompyado sya sa doctor, wala rin naman kme extra money (wer really trying not to use our credit cards on hehe). She prescribed a duphaston kaya lang nung nagtake ako non, heavy bleeding na.. parang period na so I stopped it. Then we asked for a 2nd opinion who happens to be my hubby's friend aunt. But still the same answer. She's concerned na rin na its really necessary kase mauubusan na ko ng dugo and its more risky. We had no choice kaya niraspa na ko.

It so sad kase khet short period of time nafeel ko na there's a life inside me khet di pa ganon kalaki. I feel more complete as a woman. Kaya eto ulit kme ngayon back to square one. Though minsan naiisip ko na dapat this september ang due ko. Pero ganyan ang buhay... weder weder lang...
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Post by: joey09 on May 21, 2010, 06:45:42 pm
@wella,ganyan din nangyari sa akin at 7 weeks nawalan din ng heartbeat.may mga brown discharge din pero light lang and sabi naman nila normal nga daw baka nagbabawas.yun pala wala na si baby.Isipin m na lang na may reason kung bakit nangyayari [textspeak!] mga bagay-bagay.mag trust na lang tayo kay GOD.
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Post by: wella on May 22, 2010, 04:06:24 am
^blighted ovum daw naman yung sken...may narinig din akong strory from a friend naman na, pagkalabas ng baby after ilang seconds wala ng heartbeat.... napakasakit non! Kya nga nagiging positive na lang ako na, khet papano yung sa atin eh maliit pa lang... kesa yung inalagaan mo for 9 months... tapos wala rin pala. And sabi rin ng hubby ko mas gugustuhin na lang daw nya mawala yung baby na yun kesa naman magkaron ng birth defects or magkaron pa kmeng dalawa ng complications.

Yesterday, I was watching this show na yung mother, she's neglecting her 3 year old baby. Di nya nilalabas yung bata... nasa room lang for 20 hours. Then yung window pa naka-covered pa talagang madilim. She didn't change the diapers tapos crackers and soda pa ang pinapakain. Di rin nakakapagsalita kase nga kulang sa human interaction. Ang reason ng nanay, she's lazy daw. Nalungkot ako di lang sa situation ng kid but also ang daming gustong magkaron ng anak na deserving na maging good parent pero di pinalad tapos eto ka may anak pero wala lang.

I know darating ang tamang panahon para saten... kaya lang minsan nakakainip noh... hehe!
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Post by: anneG on May 22, 2010, 09:41:11 am
naguluhan nga ako kasi sabi ni OB hindi naman daw ganun ka critical yung D&C na ginawa.hindi naman daw totally kinyod like yung mga usual na ginagawa.

siguro its more on physically inside gusto ni OB ready na yung body bago mag try ulit & also emotionally. kaya kami sumunod naman kasi gusto rin namin this time maganda yung maging quality ng egg/sperm para tuloy-tuloy na..had my D&C Oct'08 got preggy again Oct'09 inabot din ng 1yr in the making hehe..pinadala din kasi ako sa abroad for training ng Feb'09 kaya na delay ng na delay yung baby project namin tapos due to depression every other month travel talaga ako ng travel with friends (taga airline kasi ako kaya libre lang hehe) last travel ko Aug'09 but during that time i'm under the care of my OB in MMC close monitoring ang ginawa sa ovulation period ko.

@wella - mukhang critical talaga yung 6-7wks..we also lost our baby on its 7th week.
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Post by: wella on May 22, 2010, 10:01:04 am
^ oo nga eh, nabasa ko nga na risky ang stage pag 1st and last trimester. And yun din nga na after D&C wait til 3-6 months na magtry ulit kase pag niraraspa numinipis yung uterine lining nten, so kailangan maging normal yung cycle nten para may makapitan. And ang sabi rin sken ng OB ko, mas okay na rin nga daw kung maghintay kme ng mga ganon katagal kase what if kung failed na naman, so another raspa na naman yun... Pero yun nga kung nakabuo, eh di nabuo...
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Post by: anneG on May 22, 2010, 10:56:32 am
@wella - mas delikado yung 1st trimester..sa last trimester kasi buo na si baby common problem is cord coil other than that puede ng ilabas as premie si baby sa last trimester.
The good this is atleast nabuntis tayo, more chances na mabubuntis ulit kesa sa totally hindi diba. When we least expect it, then i got pregnant again..kaya don't rush but don't take it for granted din :D during the time na inaantay namin dumating si baby, I can say that i was able to enjoy my life last year..yung pagiging jetsetter hehe! travelling makes me very happy.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: applec16 on May 22, 2010, 11:15:38 am
my sis-in-law had a miscarriage @ almost 5 mos last May 20.  This is her 2nd time.  The first one was @ 6 mos naman.  Masaklap nito, my brother has to bury his child on the day of my bro's birthday (May 21).  Sobrang sad ako para sa kanya... :'(
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Post by: joey09 on May 23, 2010, 07:47:40 pm
mga sis,[textspeak!] wag na lang natin bigyan ng pressure yung sarili natin na maka buo ng baby.kasi nakaka depress pag every month nagkakaroon tayo diba.siguro gawin na lang natin yung mga dapat and wait na lang.I believe bibigay din sa atin at the right time.
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Post by: joey09 on May 23, 2010, 07:50:34 pm
^blighted ovum daw naman yung sken...may narinig din akong strory from a friend naman na, pagkalabas ng baby after ilang seconds wala ng heartbeat.... napakasakit non! Kya nga nagiging positive na lang ako na, khet papano yung sa atin eh maliit pa lang... kesa yung inalagaan mo for 9 months... tapos wala rin pala. And sabi rin ng hubby ko mas gugustuhin na lang daw nya mawala yung baby na yun kesa naman magkaron ng birth defects or magkaron pa kmeng dalawa ng complications.

Yesterday, I was watching this show na yung mother, she's neglecting her 3 year old baby. Di nya nilalabas yung bata... nasa room lang for 20 hours. Then yung window pa naka-covered pa talagang madilim. She didn't change the diapers tapos crackers and soda pa ang pinapakain. Di rin nakakapagsalita kase nga kulang sa human interaction. Ang reason ng nanay, she's lazy daw. Nalungkot ako di lang sa situation ng kid but also ang daming gustong magkaron ng anak na deserving na maging good parent pero di pinalad tapos eto ka may anak pero wala lang.

I know darating ang tamang panahon para saten... kaya lang minsan nakakainip noh... hehe!
un din ang sinabi ni BF mas ok na yung ganun kesa lumabas yung baby na may abnormalities kasi magiging kawawa lang daw sya.masyado nga tlaga risky ang first 3 months.kasi dun pa lang sya nabubuo.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: eihnah on May 24, 2010, 12:55:25 pm
hi mga sis..

is it possible ba na may uterus na hindi kayang lumaki ang baby sa loob ng 5 months pataas?
na miscarriage ako nung october 28 2009 .. 19 weeks ako nun. hindi malaman bat ng ka gnon. sobrang ingat din ako at walang work.. nasa bahay lang ako. si hubby lahat ang gumagawa ng gawaing bahay. na D & C ako nun. halos 2 months ako dinugo . january 15 2010 dumating na first mens ko.. after nun. ng try na kami ulit.. feb. hindi na ako dinatnan.. tapos ayun. happy ako dahil nalaman ko nabuntis na ako ulit. but sad dahil na miscarriage nanaman ako this MAY 21 2010 lang. at 17 weeks.. at na D & C..
sabi ng OB ko baka nga daw may problem sa uterus dahil hindi kaya lumaki ng 5 months pataas.. lahat naman kasi sinunod ko. sobrang ingat din ako. halos hindi ako umaalis ng bahay..
nalulungkot pa rin ako sa nangyare.sana ngkataon lang ang lahat.
ang tagal namin hinintay ng hubby ko na magkaroon ng baby.7 years and a half na kami magkasama ni hubby. and last year lang ako ng preggy at nawala pa..
after 2 months pinapabalik ako ng OB ko para pa ultrasound daw para ma check [textspeak!] uterus ko kung may problem..
siguro kung mabubuntis ako ulit magpapalit na ako ng OB..

thanks..
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Post by: applec16 on May 24, 2010, 01:03:02 pm
^sis, you might have incompetent cervix.  My sis-in-law has that.  Na miscarriage din sya twice at 5 and 6 mos.  Para ma-full term ang pregnancy, dapat, tatahiin ng OB ang cervix para hindi sya bumuka when the baby keeps on growing.  Tatanggalin na lang pag pwede na yung baby lumabas..
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Post by: purplelicious on May 24, 2010, 01:43:25 pm
^ sis, nung tinahi yung sa sis-in-law mo, ok naman sya? hindi ba naging lalong uneasy yung feeling nya? May incompetent cervix din kase ako at yun din advise ng OB ko na once i got pregnant again i have to undergo cervical cerclage..
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Post by: mae18 on May 24, 2010, 09:27:27 pm
sis, correction ha , in my own opinion kasi depende sa situation mo if ur cervix is incompetent, meaning bumubuka agad cervix mo pag medyo malaki na yun baby, signs nun is puputok yun panubigan mo, or yun nga dilated agad pero buhay pa ang baby pero later on mamatay since maliit pa nga... my friend has this situation kaya when she got preg nagpatahi muna siya ng pepe niya and ioopen na lang until labor comes...

another issue is kung dead na yun baby inside womb pa lang is either, di kaya isupport ng uterus mo yun papalaki mong placenta, kung  baga nalimit lang siya on that size, kaya di na lalake yun panubigan niya na siyang kinakabuhay nun baby-in this case dead mo na ilalabas yun baby... in this case there are a lot of issues to factor, like APAS, blood clotting and [textspeak!] auto immune disease... dont have any idea how to treat this pero you can ask your OB on these situations.

kung lilipat ka ng OB make sure to bring all you past/pertinent medical records including ultrasound reports of your previous pregnancies...

kasi the OB can compare your ultrasound reports and from their can based whether your baby is growing just right or in time in his/her gestational age...

My experience was i was m/c at 23 weeks and based from my previous ultrasound reports mabagal ang paglaki ng baby ko, and it may be the reason why the heart beat of my  baby stopped, plus my blood clotting.

Now, im pregnant on my 2nd and on my 28th week, and on aspirin, and doing monthly laboratories on my blood, urine and ulratsound to monitor everything.. GOd was good kaya i was able to come onto this 28th week.

Hopefully, it will be on full term...

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Post by: gurlalu on May 24, 2010, 11:35:33 pm
wow congrats mae18!! sis ilan weeks ka nag conceive again after miscarriage?
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Post by: applec16 on May 25, 2010, 08:56:23 am
@purplelicious,

sis, she just had her 2nd miscarriage last Thursday eh.  Yun yung findings ng doctor kaya sa susunod, aagapan na nila.

@eihnah, mae18,

agree with sis mae18, you should be properly diagnosed first before proceeding with any medical procedures.
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Post by: purplelicious on May 25, 2010, 04:42:43 pm
^ mali pala pagkakaintindi ko sis! sorry.. akala ko kase nag-undergo na sya ng cerclage.. :)
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Post by: mae18 on May 25, 2010, 05:12:24 pm
wow congrats mae18!! sis ilan weeks ka nag conceive again after miscarriage?

to be exact, July 17 of last year ako nakunan, nagkaruon ako ng period after 1.5 months, that was mid September, then my OB advised me to take duphaston to regulate my period since naging irreg siya nun nakunan ako, Nov 4, 2009 was my LMP and took pregnancy test by Decmber which came out positive...

Eto, 28 weeks na... ;)

Sana nga tayong lahat eh magtuloy tuloy na.. I will pray for all of us here.
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Post by: hunny_ally on May 29, 2010, 05:36:31 pm
i'm nearing my 2nd trimester already. I slipped the other day and though i didn't hit the floor, i had abdominal spasms after. A US the following day showed i am having contractions already. I'm on duvadilan now but i'm just afraid i'll have a miscarriage
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Post by: ichelie on May 31, 2010, 05:56:58 am
^ sis, do complete bed rest.  and take all the precautions.  im prone to contractions myself while preggy and was never off from duvadilan.   meds, bed rest and prayers would take care of you and baby. take care!
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Post by: hunny_ally on May 31, 2010, 06:46:27 am
^thanks sis! no negative effects naman on the baby? did you give birth via CS or normal? my doctor is extending my duvadilan for another week. yesterday i thought i was ok already for a quick lunch next door (as in go down the condo, then cross the street. 5 mins walking tops). we had to cut our lunch short cause i couldnt sit for a long time. i kept having tightening of the abdomen.
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Post by: marose17 on May 31, 2010, 09:01:20 am
^ Hi Ally!  I suggest you do complete bed rest, which means stay away from the computer too.  Refrain from walking or standing up.  Has your OB given you toilet privileges?  In some cases, even that is bawal.

Duvadilan has no adverse side effects naman on the baby.

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Post by: hunny_ally on May 31, 2010, 01:55:19 pm
^i didn't get to see my ob, only his reliever. Per the doc i should get some rest but not strict bed rest. Try to avoid getting tired daw. Di ako mapakali just staying in bed so i'd sometimes get up and walk around the condo. I noticed though over the weekend, my abdomen would really tighten up when i start walking around. I'm seeing my ob tom. Hirap kc if reliever lang. Oh with the computer, i use a laptop in bed but most of the time i access the net thru my phone
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Post by: marose17 on May 31, 2010, 02:06:42 pm
^ Okay, avoid muna accessing your laptop.  My OB forbade me even to access the net before.  My problem naman was sub-chorionic hemorrhage and not premature contractions.  I dealt with 7 months of boredom. :(
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Post by: mae18 on May 31, 2010, 05:01:03 pm
^ sis ally, i suggest you take a complete bed rest like what our sis' told u...

contractions just nearing 2nd trimester is already a sign of pre-term labour, meaning in any way pwede ka duguin...

i suggest ihiga mo lang and put a pillow under your hips, para elevated siya... wag mo na intayin na duguin or magspotting ka..

sis, im telling you this di dahil sa tinatakot kita- ang hirap ng feeling na makunan and mawalan ng baby lalu at kun ini-expect mo...

sabi nga nila- laging nasa huli ang pagsisisi..

yun ob ko when i had those cramps di na niya ako pinapunta for check up instead my OB told me to take 1 week of bed rest and duvadilan, after 1 week of bed rest- di ko na nararamdaman yung contractions..

mas mabuti na yun nag iingat kaysa magsisi sa huli...  ;)
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Post by: ichelie on June 02, 2010, 11:38:34 am
^thanks sis! no negative effects naman on the baby? did you give birth via CS or normal? my doctor is extending my duvadilan for another week. yesterday i thought i was ok already for a quick lunch next door (as in go down the condo, then cross the street. 5 mins walking tops). we had to cut our lunch short cause i couldnt sit for a long time. i kept having tightening of the abdomen.

sis, hope youre better.  no negative effects naman sa baby with contractions and duvadilan.  im prone to premature contractions.  not just the tightening of the lower abdomen, may pain pa ko sa perenium on about 6mos of pregnancy.  im so scared.  i gave birth via CS due to other considerations.  but then, i followed OBs instructions na full bed rest, but w/ bathroom priveledges.  bear the boredom.  it would do yo well to lie down.  better put pillow on your butt then raise your leg once in a while. ingat!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: Cherry143 on January 19, 2011, 12:43:36 am
Mga sis,
question lang:
1) gaano ba dapat ka-taas yung pillow na ilalagay under the hips when lying down?
my doctor said kasi 2pillows, parang ang taas! saka depende ata sa kapal ng pillow... para daw mawala yung mild funneling ng cervix ko, in addition sa duvadilan.
ang hirap ng may unan sa hips! nangangalay ang legs, dapat naka-angat din ang legs! tapos nung nag wiwi ako, parang may hapdi... baka related sa elevated hips ko recently.
2) ano ba yung dangerous na contractions sa tummy?
eto ba yung parang ang tigas ng tummy. kahit walang pain?  for some reasons, naramdaman ko eto the other day.  wala namang pain pero ang wierd na parang ang tigas ng tyan ko bigla... yun ba yun?
what i did is humiga ako ng maayos. naka half seating-lying down lang kasi ako bago ako tumayo then na feel ko yung matigas ang tummy ko.  actually, i am in bedrest fr 1st tri to present 20wks.

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Post by: ana mimi on January 20, 2011, 04:57:45 pm
naiyak naman ako sa mga stories na nandito..

there was a time na i thought makukunan na ako kase i had spotting for 3 consecutive days nung 8 weeks na.. nakakatakot talaga.. nagpa check up kami ni hubby tapos magpa tvu/s daw ako kase baka daw ectopic.

natakot ako kase parang ang sa isip ko, hindi pwedeng ectopic si baby.
pagka-insert ng transducer, gulat yung sonologist kase buntis daw talaga ako.. pinakita nya pa yung heart activity ni baby pati heart rate.

gusto ko na maiyak sa sobrang tuwa, kala ko kase hindi sya totoo dahil unexpected si baby..

i am gonna pray for you all mommies.. your babies are safe and watching for you in heaven..
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Post by: sweetsorrow on March 08, 2011, 05:05:36 pm
yes. and sobrang painful. kaya kong tiisin ang sakit ng needles, ng anti-biotics na nilalagay sa akin, ang anesthesia, and D&C, and mabilis ang recovery agad after ng operation... PERO--hindi ko kayang matiis ang pain na nawala ang baby ko, na 3months lang siya nasa tummy ko... hindi ko alam kung ano ang mangyayari sa akin sa mga susunod na araw.. iyak ako ng iyak.. natutulala.. ang hirap.. :'(
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Post by: jenwei on April 10, 2011, 02:19:07 pm
my first pregnancy and my first d&c.

march 19- first tvs. no heartbeat detected. est. 5 weeks ad 3 days.
                pinainom ako ng duphaston for 5 days 3X a day.
                suggested after 2 weeks tvs uli. baka maliit pa daw c bb kya wlng heartbeat.

then april 4- drops of brown spots... called my ob on april 5 may spotting p din kc. pero drops lang din. she suggested to have tvs asap.

april 6- 2nd tvs. no heatbeat pa din,  bb is smaller than expected. 6 weeks and 2 day. dapat 7-8 weeks na.. and bb is not in the right place. nasa lower part n ng uterus. conclusion nila, early embryo demise.

april 7-the next day sched na ako d&c.

hay~ this is fast! parang dumaan lang c bb sa tyan ko.. sad tlaga.

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Post by: newbeymum on April 10, 2011, 03:44:51 pm
Ttc for two years then finally got pregnant last oct Lang kaso blighted ovum kay a I had a d and c
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Post by: a_y_e_n on April 10, 2011, 10:11:02 pm
di pa naman and i hope di mangyari saken to since i'll surely be devastated. :(
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Post by: emmylou on April 10, 2011, 11:48:20 pm
sis newbeymum and jenwei,

i know it would be hard. i've been through that before. pray lang mga sis.
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Post by: michi247 on April 11, 2011, 01:01:58 pm
yes! first baby ko pa. sobrang depress sa una kasi di ko expected na makukunan ko kasi excited na kami magkababy. 6weeks - no heartbeat after 2 weeks inulit ko ulit yung TVS sa iba na ko nagpaultrasound para sure na hindi machine yung mali, pero same result. di ko lam kung paano ko napigilan luha ko nung kausap ko OB ko hanggang sa makauwi ako. 2 days after ko malaman saka lang ko nag pa d&c.

pero di naman ko ganun katagal nalungkot, siguro after a month ok na ko. inisip ko lang baka di pa right time, in His time siguro. 3 months after d&c preggy na ko ulit, super kaba ko hanggang sa mailabas ko siya, kung pwede nga lang maga ultrasound lagi para makita ko lagay niya sa loob.  :)
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Post by: jenwei on April 11, 2011, 01:34:39 pm
thank you sis emmylou :)
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Post by: sweetsorrow on April 11, 2011, 03:10:05 pm
last march7 na d&c din ako, after 33days meron na akong mens, kahit na excited ako at atat magkababy na ulit, sobrang takot ko na.

Kaya i put up a thread kung ilang months after makunan kayo nagbaby ulit, kasi may iba sabi mas madali daw mabuntis pagkatapos ng d&c. Gusto ko din kasi maregular ang mens ko, dati kasi 28days ang cycle ko.

Sana tulad mo ako michi, magkababy agad at mailabas ko siya ng buhay at healthy. :)
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Post by: dialamari on April 11, 2011, 07:18:31 pm
hi mga sisses! nagbabasa basa ako dito sa thread na to para maging aware ako sa mga common causes ng m/c. para maging vigilant din ako at mas lalong maing maingat. by the way, im on my 31wks now.
i symphatize sa mga inyo mga sisses na nakaranas ng m/c
ang ate ko lately nagkamiscarriage, she's on her 2nd month na. nakakaiyak din nong binalita nya sakin..basta lang na lang daw nawalan ng HB si baby..
yong ginastos nya sa pagpaparaspa e tulad ng ginastos nya sa panganganak on her 1st baby..kaya sad..sabi non OB nya, since 9mos pa lang ang 1st  baby nya, inde pa matibay ang matres nya para magbuntis ulit. ideal daw na after 2yrs yong space bago sya magbuntis ulit..

sa pagbabasa-basa ko, naobseve na karamihan sa mga nagkaron ng m/c dito e nananaginip na nanganak na kayo..
then bigla kong naalala yong napagkwentuhan namin ng hubby ko nong minsang naglalakad kami papuntang office..sabi nya, napanaginipan daw nya na nanganak na ako..pero daw ang anak ko daw e halaman..tapos nagtataka daw kami pareho bakit halaman yong baby namin. pero sabi daw ng nanay ko, ganon din daw ako nong ipinanganak, halaman din daw, although nawirduhan daw kami, we took care of the baby, inalagaan daw namin, diniligan at pinagyabong. pero minsan daw, di namin sinasadya parang napabayaaan daw namin or naiwan ng matagal kasi nagbakasyon daw kami..then pagbalik namin, malaki na daw yong halaman, naging parang puno na daw..ang laki daw at ang daming dahon..
hanggang don lang ang panaginip ng hubby ko..
ano sa tingin nyo mga sisses? may ibig sabihin kaya yon? kanina on my checkup niraise ko sa OB yong mga concerns ko like cord coil at yong macontaminate ng meconium ang amniotic fluid ko than can poison my baby.

sabi nya, yong cord coil daw e inde maiiwasan, it's an accident daw..so always pray daw na wag macord coil ang baby ko..then about meconium, pag daw umabot na ng beyond 38wks ang baby, kaya pag ganon ini-induce labor na nya ang patient nya para maiwasan ang ibat-ibang complication.

sa ngyon, may warts daw ang vagina ko pero sobrang liit lang. may possibility na ma-CS ako kung magpropagate yong warts. kasi pedeng magkasakit sa larynx ang baby kung may warts ako at magnonormal delivery ako. kasi yong virus pede nyang maingest..
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Post by: simplykristine08 on April 12, 2011, 03:51:48 am
^ ganyan din ako magisip dati sis. As in sobrang worried din kasi tagal bago ako nabuntis. Almost weekly ako bumibisita kay doc, na minsan hindi na nya ako pinagbabayad ng cf nya :) halos lahat ng ultrasound pinagawa ko. CAS, 3d/4d, etc. And almost monthly ang utz ko. Maybe because first time mommy ako and we waited a long time. Gusto ko lang makasigurado na okay si baby. But I think, sa 2nd baby namin, hindi na ko ganito kaparanoid. Lol.

Btw sis, bakit ka daw nagkaron ng wart? Sana matanggal sya para pwede ka magnormal delivery.
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Post by: michi247 on April 12, 2011, 05:50:16 am
@sweetsorrow - don't worry magkakaroon ka rin.  :) mas madali daw mabuntis after d&c kasi malinis nga yung uterus natin. pray lang ko ng pray nung preggy ko na sana ok na.
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Post by: dialamari on April 12, 2011, 09:19:12 am
@simplykristine08

ayoko sanang magworry kasi mas nakakasama iyon. ayoko din naman masyadong confident like my ate na nagkaron nga ng m/c lately. teacher kasi sya at kwento nya non preggo sya sa panganay nya e akyat-baba pa sya sa hagdan non school nila. then minsan daw halos magkandahulog sya sa hagdan. napabilib ako sa mga kwento nya kasi ako nabedrest pa non 1st trimester ko due to internal bleeding spot na nadetect thru TVS. kaya nagbabasa-basa ako. madami talaga akong natututunan dito sa GT.  ;)

kumusta na nga pala ang 2nd pregnancy mo? ok naman ba? i hope so.. :)

about my warts. sabi ni doc, possible STD daw yon. sabi ko e di nga kami nag-do-do ni hubby simula non 4-5 mos na ko..sabi nya posible daw na yong bacteria or virus existing na sya bago pa ako mabuntis..basta non magsimula akong magbuntis e lagi na lang akong may bacterial vaginosis..ewan ko kumpano nangyari. siguro non gumamit kami ng lubricant ni hubby noong TTC pa ko. 1st time lang namin noon na gumamit. baka may harmful chemicals yon.. :-\
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Post by: simplykristine08 on April 12, 2011, 02:15:32 pm
^ sana mawala na sya sis para makapag NSD ka. I'm not preggy ngayon sis, kumbaga sa next time na mabubuntis ako, hindi na ko mapaparanoid.
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Post by: jenwei on April 13, 2011, 03:08:10 pm
i got the result of pathology report.
IMMATURE PLACENTA daw cause ng m/c. normal lang daw and no need to worry.
hmm.. [textspeak!] kya yun?  :o
will visit my ob next week to ask about it further.
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Post by: honey_iya on April 13, 2011, 06:29:54 pm
^Sis,'yan ba yung histopath na tinatawag? Ilang days bago makuha result and how much? TIA :)
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Post by: jenwei on April 13, 2011, 06:34:47 pm
kasama sya sa bill ng d&c ko.
btw, ginawa ni ob ako as outpatient.
nakita ko dun pathology. mine is about 2k. one week after ang result.
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Post by: honey_iya on April 13, 2011, 06:50:12 pm
^Ah,sa akin kasi hindi kasama. nag request nalang ako nung hinanapan ako ng SSS. yun yung ila-lab nila kung ano nakuha sa iyo di ba? P820 binayaran ko yun nga lang 7-10 working days bago makuha kasi matagal at maselang test daw yun.
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Post by: newbeymum on April 15, 2011, 10:56:02 am
Had a d and c last october 21, 2010 at the New medical City. My first pregnancy was blighted ovum and i thought i could get pregnant easily after the d and c hirap pa rin pala.. I had 2 failed iui na.. I do hope this time my third one will give me a BFP result and i hoping for a naormal pregnancy.. Nakaka trauma na baka ma blighted nanaman ako kase i know someone who had 2 consecutive blighted ovum..Im praying so hard na sana mabiyayaan na talaga ako... I was out patient sa tmc nun husband paid around 25k all in they have a d and c package sa tmc...
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Post by: janjohann on April 15, 2011, 12:16:28 pm
Two weeks ago I posted na preggy na ako... tapos ngayong week, hindi na :( Like the first, nag spotting konti tapos nagtuloy tuloy na like I'm menstruating, no need for a D&C  this time. Hindi nag implant ng maayos so totally wala na. Im still having vaginal bleeding though, mga 2 weeks pa na ganito according to my OB. I'll have another tvu by last week of april to make sure na wala na natira sa loob.
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Post by: bbmack on April 15, 2011, 12:51:44 pm
^im so sorry for your lost sis, di palang siguro time... hopefully in God's time mabigyan ka ulit ng baby :)
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Post by: honey_iya on April 15, 2011, 01:01:15 pm
^^Oh my,sorry for your loss sis. 2nd time na di ba? lalo tuloy ako natakot :-\
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Post by: ysa_38 on April 15, 2011, 02:11:52 pm
^me too sis..hugs! God has greater plans ahead for you...

naalala ko dati tuloy I bled for 3 weeks...Nung first week light brown Lang..I took duphaston as per ob's advice pero lalong lumakas na I had to use napkin na...so I stopped it nalang...now I'm almost at the end of the race
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Post by: jhoanne11108 on April 15, 2011, 05:51:50 pm
i had miscarriage last year april 22 to be exact.  Nung nagtest akofaint line din sabi ng ob ultin after 1 week, tapos faint line pa din. before mag 1week nag spotting ako tapos ob advised na magpa tvu.  Maganda naman ang result 5weeks na daw akong pregnant pero di pa visible si baby, then after a week tvu ulit ganon pa din tapos one day nag heavy bleeding ako ni rush ako ng hubby ko sa hospital sa nearest dito na hospital (cavite) sabi sa result may subchorionic bleeding  daw at mas malaki pa yung blood clot kaysa kay baby. ob advised na bedrest but hindi tumigil yung bleeding, then after a week ayun na super sakit ng puson ko then may malaking blood clot na kasama sa ihi ko, ni rush nanaman ako sa hospital after ultrasound we found out na wala na si baby, completely na expelled na sya.

After a year, im going to  6weeks on my pregnancy by tommorow april 16.  di namin tinantanan si god sa mga novena at prayers nmin.
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Post by: janjohann on April 15, 2011, 08:49:10 pm
^im so sorry for your lost sis, di palang siguro time... hopefully in God's time mabigyan ka ulit ng baby :)

thanks sis, I'll be praying for that...

^^Oh my,sorry for your loss sis. 2nd time na di ba? lalo tuloy ako natakot :-\

Yes, 2nd time na sis. pero magkaiba ng case, yung 1st blighted ovum itong 2nd i guess implantation issue kaya early miscarriage. Dont be afraid sis... iba-iba naman, be positive.

^me too sis..hugs! God has greater plans ahead for you...

naalala ko dati tuloy I bled for 3 weeks...Nung first week light brown Lang..I took duphaston as per ob's advice pero lalong lumakas na I had to use napkin na...so I stopped it nalang...now I'm almost at the end of the race

sis, did you bleed during your 1st tri? Ako sis nagstart spotting until heavy vaginal bleeding na. We're happy for you sis at malapit ka na pala sa finish line. Have a safe delivery sis.
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Post by: ysa_38 on April 18, 2011, 01:01:12 pm
^yup nagbleed ako around 5 weeks...spotting nung una then lumakas nung nagduphaston ako kaya I stopped kahit Hindi sinabi ni ob..every week nga ako nun nagpatvs to check her heartbeat...I was on bedrest hanggat nawala yung bleeding...I always tell my baby to hold on to mommy...I'm glad she did...

don't worry sis...may better plan si God para sayo
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Post by: sweetsorrow on April 19, 2011, 11:01:54 am
iniisip ko kung inalagaan ako ng OB ko, hindi siguro mawawala baby ko, kasi i bleed friday, check thru ultrasound okey si baby may contraction at 3cm dilate cervix ko,

PINAUWI PA AKO. At binigyan ng gamot na isoxillan.. Pamparelax ng uterus daw..

Saturday okey. Sunday bleed ulit. Pinaconfine na ako.. Dumating siya gabi ng sunday kumakain ako, pwede naman niya ako patigilin sa pagkain at mag IE, kaso hindi niya ginawa kinabukasan nalang daw. Kinabukasan ayun wala na daw si baby ko dahil nakakapa niya na..

Hay.. Kaya ayoko na talaga sa OB ko..
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Post by: applec16 on April 19, 2011, 01:36:04 pm
^sorry for your loss sis..  :'(  An OB can really 'make or break' your pregnancy..

Ilang weeks ka na sis when you lost your little angel?
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Post by: hairt mini on April 19, 2011, 01:39:38 pm
^^ ouch sorry to hear that sis  :( :'(

Palit ka na lang ng OB.
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Post by: broken one on April 19, 2011, 02:42:27 pm
I'm sorry to hear about your lost sis janjohann.  I had 2 miscarriage na din, but I also have 2 beautiful children now.  Alternate lang sila, miscarriage then nabuo [textspeak!] eldest namin nung 2002.  MIsarriage ulit then [textspeak!] daughter ko naman ang binigay samin nung 2009.  It's kinda traumatic esp [textspeak!] huling miscarriage ko kc we waited for 8years pra mabuntis ulit. tapos nawala pa. Kaya nung nabuntis ako ulit, sobrang novena at dasal ginawa ko.  After how many bedrests at preterm labor at 29weeks, nakasurvive naman kami ng daughter ko..

I'm praying for you sis.. I know HE has a better plan for you.
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Post by: lelaina17 on April 19, 2011, 03:56:22 pm
i lost my baby nitong sunday lang.  1st tvs ko less than 5 weeks pa lang so la pa nakita.  pero may nakita na yolk sac.  2nd tvs ko 6 weeks may fetal pole but no heartbeat.  i was on bed rest.  then nung saturday nag-bleed ako even though i was taking duphaston and duvadilan.  mahina lang at first then nung sunday lumakas.  nagpunta na kami sa hospital.  after a few hours sumakit na puson ko.  sobrang sakit.  then dapat i-tvs pa ko ulit but may lumabas na.  yung inunan daw yun sabi ng doc.  then i was brought to the delivery room for completion currettage.  wala na baby ko.  i never thought it would be this painful.  first pregnancy ko ito.  i feel so empty.  :'(
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Post by: jp_jameop on April 19, 2011, 04:10:13 pm
^awww.. virtual hugs and kisses for you sis... sorry to hear that... :(
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Post by: sweetsorrow on April 19, 2011, 04:17:34 pm
sis lelaina isipin mo nalang God has better plans. 'yan nalang palagi kong iniisip dati.

Sabi nga:

A baby does not need to be born to change lives.

God needed angels, He knew our babies will be perfect.

I lost my baby at 13w2d, sana ngayon nasa 19weeks na siya.
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Post by: applec16 on April 19, 2011, 04:35:36 pm
^you're almost past your 1st trim sis..  I am now scared..  This is my 3rd pregnancy (14th week na).  I had miscarriages for my past 2 pregnancies.  Did you get your pathology report na sis?
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Post by: honey_iya on April 19, 2011, 04:47:39 pm
^Ako tomorrow makukuha pathology report ko. Ewan ko ba parang andami-daming nakukunan these days :( parang ang hirap-hirap na magbuntis nowadays unlike nung sa 1st pregnancy ko grabe wala man lang kahirap-hirap,ni morning sickness wala. ngayon nakaka depressed :( :( sorry for being nega!
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Post by: sweetsorrow on April 19, 2011, 04:58:09 pm
^^ yes sis. Lagpas 1st trim na nga, kaya sobrang lungkot talaga.

Nakuha ko na histopath ko, immature placenta.

Feeling ko talaga may pagkukulang OB ko, kasi may subchrionic hemorrhage na ako nung simula palang pero parang wala talagang paki, tinatanong ko pa nga kung kailangan ko ba ng rest from work kasi nababasa ko from other sisses dito na bedrest kahit 2weeks, siya walang paki.

Kaya tama na nakadepende din sa OB ang pagiging okey ng pregnancy..
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Post by: sweetsorrow on April 19, 2011, 04:59:15 pm
^^ yes sis. Lagpas 1st trim na nga, kaya sobrang lungkot talaga.

Nakuha ko na histopath ko, immature placenta.

Feeling ko talaga may pagkukulang OB ko, kasi may subchrionic hemorrhage na ako nung simula palang pero parang wala talagang paki, tinatanong ko pa nga kung kailangan ko ba ng rest from work kasi nababasa ko from other sisses dito na bedrest kahit 2weeks, siya walang paki.

Kaya tama na nakadepende din sa OB ang pagiging okey ng pregnancy..
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Post by: ysa_38 on April 19, 2011, 07:03:36 pm
I'm sorry to hear that sis... your baby is almost 5 months na! kainis Naman yung ob mo...change your ob sis...
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Post by: sweetsorrow on April 19, 2011, 07:30:18 pm
kaya nga eh. Im planning to change my OB talaga. At ang mahal ng doctor's fee niya sa hospital bill ko nung na-d&c ako, nasa 17k! Sa hospital lang na maliit 'yun dito sa antipolo ha.

Tapos ang followup checkup ko sakanya after ko ma-d&c, 500 pesos!
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Post by: ysa_38 on April 19, 2011, 07:54:58 pm
taga antipolo ka pala..taga cainta Lang ako sis...I changed ob 3 times na...when I had bleeding and ob said I should take duphaston but got heavy bleeding after taking it--I changed ob...I asked for 2nd opinion..aun nalaman ko na okay Lang yung ginawa kong  pagtigil sa paginom ng duphaston...dun kasi sa first ob pinipilit pa din Niya na magtake ako despite heavy bleeding...
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Post by: sweetsorrow on April 19, 2011, 09:07:55 pm
ako sis simula 6weeks hanggang 11weeks pinatake niya ako ng duphaston.. I will change my OB na talaga.. Upper antipolo ako sis. Sa Unciano Doctors ako nad&c. Doon din ang OB ko.. Na papalitan ko naman na.. :) LOL!
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Post by: jenwei on April 19, 2011, 09:52:55 pm
@sweetsorrow may further explanation ba kung ano yung immature placenta sa result m? and why daw nagkaganon? i visited my ob today. sinabi lang na immature placenta ang result. as in yun lang walang explanation. cannot explain further.
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Post by: jenwei on April 19, 2011, 10:01:08 pm
@honey_iya i think madaming cases nga this year ang miscarriage. (chinese ob ko) if not, why biglang nagsuggest si ob n wag daw mag conceive asap. wait for june daw para year of the dragon magiging baby namin. hmm... na curious ako dun actually. pero hindi na ako nagask further. may mga kakilala akong bb rabbit sana this year pero m/c. tapos kapatid ko year of the rabbit siya, premature siya nilabas ni mommy. my pinsan naman, siya lang sakitin sa magkakapatid. coincidence?! ???
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Post by: sweetsorrow on April 20, 2011, 11:12:25 am
@jenwei

sis wala din explanation. Ni hindi nga ako inasikaso ng OB ko ng followup ko, IE tapos okey na, kung hindi pa ako nagtanong eh hindi pa magsasalita.

Sis, kinilabutan ako sa kwento mo, kasi ang mga asawa ng mga kapatid ni Hubby, lahat kami M/C din!

Sayang sunod sunod pa naman sana kami, ako due date ko september dapat, 'yung asawa ng panganay october, tapos 'yung sumunod kay hubby asawa nun dapat november..

Tapos may kilala ako 7mos. Pinanganak kasi pumutok na waterbag kaagad ng walang explanation.

Baka nga may something about year of the rabbit?
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Post by: jenwei on April 20, 2011, 12:09:51 pm
^ :o ha?! grabe sis nagsiakyatan mga balahibo ko. dami nga talagang cases m/c this year. baka nga hindi good this year magconceive. i'll obey my ob para sure..
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Post by: sweetsorrow on April 20, 2011, 01:21:30 pm
oo nga sis.. Hindi nga namin alam kung bakit nangyari sa aming 3 'yun.. Sabay sabay pa.. Kaya si MIL malungkot kasi sana by december dami na sana niyang apo...


Ngayon we're on the race, kung sino maunang makabuo.. :) LOL!
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Post by: chakchuk on April 20, 2011, 01:48:18 pm
Katakot naman yan sis.... I'm 1 month pregnant kailangan ko super ingat
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Post by: dialamari on April 21, 2011, 01:31:49 pm
hindi naman ata totoo yang year of the rabbit na yan kasi pinanganak ako year of the rabbit..
di din ako naniniwala sa chinese lunar calendar in determining/predicting your baby's gender..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: newbeymum on April 21, 2011, 04:03:17 pm
I got pregnant too last oct and my due date was supposed to be this june 9,2011 but then unfortunately on my 7 weeks i had a d and c due to blighted ovum. Since then i havent got pregnant and i had 2 failed iui.. Im hoping and praying that i will get pregnant soon.. Baby dust to all of us here....
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: Dayzley on April 21, 2011, 05:06:45 pm
Hello everyone! This is my first time to post here. just want to share my experience....

I learned that I'm pregnant last March 9, 2011. Imagined the joy and happiness it brought to us, after 7 years of conceiving. But after a week, I had this bleeding/spotting, so my hubby rushed me to Perpetual Hospital. They put me on bed rest the first night then the ff day i had my transvaginal ultrasound only to find out that I had a blighted ovum(daw) [textspeak!] ng ob ko, apparently walang nakita na fetus pag ultrasound sa akin. So my OB not my long time OB,just referred by my first OB [textspeak!] sa SLMC Global cya, told me na i need to undergo D&C. So imagine the pain, napaiyak [textspeak!] kmi ni hubby while the OB is informing us. Pro we cannot do anything but to accept na maybe its was not meants for us and that God has a better plan for both of us. So thefollowing day, i was d/c. I asked my ob if we can pursue our HK the ff day, she said ok lang daw bu wag masyado maglalakad at magpagod. So tumuloy kmi.While in HK, hindi nag stop [textspeak!] bleeding ko and me occassional abdominal pains which is very abnormal [textspeak!] ng mom ko. Pero thinking na bka effect lang nong D&Cdi ko masyado sineryoso.

 So after 4 days of vacation, bumalik kmi ng Manila. Rest ako sa house but the bleeding never stops. On the second wk after my D&C prang mas lumala [textspeak!] abdominal pain and still me bleeding pa din. Di ko pa din masyado ininda because nawawala naman when i take nexium or buscopan. So on the 3rd week grabe na yong abdominal pain, still me bleeding pa din, so me and my hubby opted to have a check sa Fam. Med. So to rule out gall bladder stones,i had to undergo ultrasound of the whole abdomen. There nakita na me fetus.fetus????i just had my D&C?? We got the result and the ff day we had our 2nd opinion sa ibang ob.The OB found out that I had an ectopic pregnancy. So i need to undergo an emergency operation bka magkasepsis mamatay ako. so two weeks ago i had a lapatotomy , We also ask for blood donors because mdaming blood ang nawala and sadly i lose my left fal tube. I was so devastated and sad..... But thank God I still have my Right tube and hopefully mabless ulit ni Lord.
Right now, im recovering.. After all what happened I still trust the Lord that He will Bless us. I pray for strength to overcome the emotional pain.
Sorry mga sis napahaba ata ako.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: honey_iya on April 26, 2011, 05:23:06 pm
Yung pinsan ko din nakunan,2nd baby na din dapat. nauna lang siya makunan sa akin ng 1 week :o

anyway,nakuha ko na histopath ko pero di ko alam kung ano 'to kasi ayoko na nga bumalik sa OB na yun,pinakuha ko lang result sa asawa ko. nakalagay "few fragments of benign endocervical glands".

anyway,worried naman ako now kasi after 1 month i got my period na then nag contact kami pero with condom pero di ako sure kung safe ba kasi first time ni hubby gumamit ng condom,palpak pa nga nung una di kasi marunong gumamit hahaha. last week dapat ang period ko,pero spotting lang as in yung paumpisa na dapat kaso hindi nagtuloy until now, 1 week na wala parin. waaaah!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sweetsorrow on April 26, 2011, 05:36:06 pm
kami sis bumubuo. LOL! Bahala na si God sa amin kung bibigyan niya kaagad kami ng kapalit. Worry ko lang nagrereview ako for board exam. Pero hoping ako na mapalitan agad ang first baby namin.

Huwag na sana ako makunan, kaya palit OB nalang.

Sis pakita mo nalang sa next OB mo ang histopath, photocopy mo, para kung gusto mo talaga magkababy, ibabased niya siguro ang result ng miscarriage natin dati sa magiging next pregnancy natin.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: honey_iya on April 26, 2011, 05:45:16 pm
^Haha di din daw kasi advisable na bumuo agad kasi prone ulit sa M/C. ipapakita ko nga yun sis sa orig OB ko,hopefully next month makapunta ako.

goodluck sa inyo sis,huwag pa pressure ibibigay yun ni lord kung para talaga sa inyo :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: kathon on April 27, 2011, 12:30:06 am
Joining!  :)

Hi mga sis! Would like to share my experience din..

I had a miscarriage last January2009, super painful sa amin ni hubby kasi bigla na lang nawalan sya ng heartbeat. Nag ingat naman ako, and my OB told me na kahit uterine didelphys ako ok lang magwork and magbyahe. May mga meds akong ininom para kumapit, pero nung 3months na si baby nawala na lang sya. I had several spotting pero pag umiinom ako ng gamot nawawala naman so akala ko ok naman sya. Then nung Dec 08, nagkaroon ako ng spotting at kahit anong gawin ko dinudugo pa din ako. I called my OB, and sabi nya uminom lang ako ng gamot. Ewan ko ba pero I felt something was wrong na, hanggang nung New Year 09 nagpunta ko sa hospital (my OB is not available that time nasa vacation pa yata so iba nag attend sa akin) only to found out na i lost my baby na! That' s the saddest new year i ever had! After grieving and trying to accept the truth, me and my hubby looked for another OB, yung pang high risk patients. Buti na lang nakahanap kami and sobrang bait.

I told her my case that I have uterine didelphys and she told me na usually mahirap magbuntis ang mga may ganung condition but we will try everything para makabuo. At first we did SOS (sex on schedule) sabi ng OB ko wag namin masyado ipressure sarili namin dahil baka isa yun sa factor kaya di kami makabuo. Then March 2010, I was diagnosed with an obarian cyst which led me to have an operation right away, parang CS yun nga lang walang baby na lumabas sayo. My right ovary was removed na so I only have my left ovary working. With my conditon (didelphys) and with only one ovary working mahihirapan na daw talaga ako magbuntis, that's why after SOS, we tried to have IUI na, pero hindi naging successful! That's when we decide to stop na and let God do the work! Two months after that procedure, I was delayed (though irregular ako kaya hindi ko nagworry). My hubby and I were planning to go out of town, pero hindi nya k papayagan hanggat hindi ako nagPT, he bought me a home
PT. And we were in shock talaga nung nakita namin na two lines! Bumili pa ulit si hubby ng isa pang PT para sure!
We were very happy and now I'm on my 29th week! Everytime magpapaultrasound ako, the doctors will tell me I'm very lucky to be pregnant pa with my condition. that's why my OB told me it's a prized pregnancy! We're very thankful and happy kasi atlast we'll have our own baby. We love kids kasi eh. Kaya kahit isa lang ibigay nya happy na kami!

I hope this will serve as an inspiratin to other moms na medyo down. Do not worry, just pray and pray and have faith! Kami ni hubby, everday and everynight yun ang pinagpipray namin. And be specific! Kami we always pray na to have a baby girl.. And after 7months of waiting to know the gender of our little angel, we found out it's a girl! Kaya we are so happy and excited na!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ysa_38 on April 27, 2011, 10:40:11 am
that's truly inspiring! I'm so happy for you sis! congrats! :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: jenwei on April 27, 2011, 12:21:12 pm
@kathon
wow! congratulations!  ;)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: kathon on April 27, 2011, 01:06:07 pm
Thank you mga sisses! :) kahit ako everytime na iniisip ko nangyari sakin super thankful pa din ako. Iniisip ko nga minsan kaya nya kinuha kagad dati si baby kasi mali yung nabigay nya, baka boy yun kaya ginawa nya ngayon na girl.. :)

It also brought me and my hubby closer and stronger. I tried to be strOng nung nalaman namin na wala na si baby, kasi during the ultrasound nung nakitang wala ng heartbeat, lumabas si hubby and umiyak. Sobrang nasaktan sya nun kasi ilang weeks lang before yun nakita nya pa tumitibok heartbeat ni baby eh.  Kaya ako na lang ang naging strong, though everynight I cried silently, I asked God questions kung ano gusto nya iparating sa amin. Until natanggap na lang namin na ganun talaga.. We decided to get a puppy na lang muna, parang training na din sa amin before maging parents. God is so good naman to answer our prayers kaya super thankful na din! :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: rianne_mallows on May 02, 2011, 11:42:03 pm
someone really close to me just had a miscarriage earlier today :'(
sayang nga she already 7 months preggy.. hindi ko pa alam full detail .. so sad talaga  :'(

we plan on visiting her sa hospital soon.. i dont know how i will comfort her when i see her... i dont even know if i'll be able to say anything at all.. i myself is grieving, what more her diba? shes the mom.. haay..

please pray for her mga sis and her family...
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: kathon on May 02, 2011, 11:48:18 pm
Aww.. I know how it feels.

Just tell her God has His plans and siguro may mas magandang blessing ang parating for her and her hubby.. Isipin na lang din nya na baka pag pinanganak nga si baby e baka naman kunin din sya kaagad.. :(

Pero kahit anong sabihin mo sa kanya sa ngayon, hindi nya maiintindihan dahil she's in pain and grieving, lalo na 7mos na. Nakita na nya siguro yun sa ultrasound and all, nakapagbonding na siguro sila.. Sobrang sakit nun for mommy..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: rianne_mallows on May 03, 2011, 06:00:37 am
oo nga sisn eh.. hindi ko alam sasabihin ko.. sa totoo lang madali akong maiyak eh kaya parang ayaw ko muna pumunta doon.. kasi baka lalo siyang madepress..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: howdouknowitsme on May 03, 2011, 07:06:35 am
^:( sis sayang naman...7months na...nakakaawa..pwede pa pala mawala ang baby kahit malapit na mailabas noh..

nakakatakot naman:( 7months pa naman din ako ngayon:(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: rianne_mallows on May 03, 2011, 07:31:32 am
^oo nga sis eh.. sumakit daw tiyan kaya nagpatingin daw sa hospital.. nung inultrasound wala ng heartbeat.. cs siya agad .. wala na yung baby.. kakalungkot talaga.. hindi pa ko nakakadalaw eh.. hindi ko pa talaga alam findings..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: dialamari on May 03, 2011, 11:23:50 am
^nakakalungkot naman yun sis...ang aksidente talaga inde mapipigilan.  :-\
kaya need natin palaging magdasal para sa baby natin.
ako palagi akong nagdarasal kay God na protektahan nya palagi ang baby ko, at sana maideliver ko ng maayos. i promised to Him that i will raise the child well at may takot sa Kanya.
pag nagwoworry ako, i always turn my worries to prayers..nakakahinga ako ng maluwag. kasi si God lang naman ang may kapangyarihang magbigay at bumawi ng buhay. so kung ano man ang mangyari, ano man ang maging result ng pregnancy ko, mabuti man o masama, for sure there's a reason behind. basta yong mabuntis lang tayo, isang malaking blessing na yon. much more kung maipanganak natin yong baby at mapalaki natin nang maayos, sobra-sobrang blessing na yon. :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: kathon on May 03, 2011, 02:30:05 pm
^:( sis sayang naman...7months na...nakakaawa..pwede pa pala mawala ang baby kahit malapit na mailabas noh..

nakakatakot naman:( 7months pa naman din ako ngayon:(

oo sis, kalimitan may mga 7mos na pero namamatay pa din ang baby.
most reasons daw napupulupot yung cord sa leeg, minsan naman sa presyon ng mommy.. kaya dapat doble ingat pa din tayong mga mommy and make sure na every now and then maramdaman natin ang paggalaw ni baby. :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: emmylou on May 03, 2011, 03:37:52 pm
sis kathon,

Congrats! atleast you got over it. ako when i lost my second son due to miscarriage on Nov 12, 2007 he was only 4 months. i had to undergo several fertility treatments(follicle monitoring, fertility pills and injections) for 3 years. pero wala eh. i was exhausted na rin. i stopped it mga june 2010. nakakafrustrate na rin. sabi ko Lord ikaw na bahala. kung ayaw mo na, Ok na lang. my eldest ( he was 5 years noon) kept on asking me for a sibling. sabi ko, ikaw na humingi kay Jesus. nagpray siya every night. mga 2 months i got pregnant. pero it didn't stop there. when i was 5 months, my OB can't hear my baby's heartbeat. so we had to rush to the nearest laboratory to have my ultrasound. nakadapa lang. most heartbreaking of all is ng magpa CAS ako at 26 weeks and she was diagnosed to have either congenital diaphragmatic hernia or congenital cystic adenomatoid malformation of the lungs. i'll be giving birth by May 5. hindi ko pa alam kung anong outcome. we're positive about it. i know we'll get through!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: kathon on May 03, 2011, 09:16:07 pm
^thanks sis!

Hope maging ok si baby! Alam ko kung binigay yan sayo ni Lord, blessing yan for you and your family, lalo na sa eldest mo. :) pagpray mo lang palagi. :)

Na-overcome ko din sis.. Kelangan eh, ayoko naman magdwell na lang sa nakaraan at di na makapag move on.. And alam ko may purpose si Lord sa mga nangyayari sa akin. :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: rics on May 03, 2011, 10:06:47 pm
I'll share my story....

i got pregnant shortly after i got married, but lost the baby at 3mos. after a couple of months, i got pregnant again, but it was blighted ovum. so 2 miscarriages in the same year i was married.

we stopped ttc for a couple of months then went for consultation with an infertility specialist. sabi ko after the consultation, bec. i was very devastated, to wait 1 year before we start with work-up. but after a couple of months lang, we went for the treatment. so i did all the lab test, the monitoring, fertily pills, injections, hspg, the works...last was an iui, pero failure. we were considering ivf already pero held back since we were just about migrate. but at this time also, we stopped with the treatment for over a year bec. i was already getting overly depressed. at this point sabi ko bahala na lang si lord. pls. believe me when i say ang hindi ko na lang nagawa ay ang sumayaw sa obando to get pregnant.

so when we moved abroad, syempre we learned the hard way that life in another country is not actually a bed of roses. ang hirap. never ko  pa naranasan so much physical work, i was exhausted by the time i get home. hubby too was already depressed since medyo nahirapan sya to get work. so just imagine the picture...

when arrived abroad, part of our plan of course after settling down is to continue with the fertility work-up. but its actually not free here except for blocked fallopian. dasal na lang ako to get pregnant. kung meron or wala, life has to go on.

but, less than a year after we landed here, lo and behold, i got pregnant. it was during the point when we both didnt have stable jobs, our savings was getting depleted as days go by. but then again syempre masaya kami kasi after all these years, we got pregnant already. hirap ako with the pregnancy bec of morning sickness, i even lost weight. but i couldnt quit work kahit sobrang physical fatigue (bec of work) kasi i have to complete a certain amount of time on work to get the benefits.

anyway, our son who is 4yrs old now, was born on december 25. truly a gift.

ps: when he died, asked for the intercession of Pope Paul II to conceive, less than a year after, i was.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: honey_iya on May 20, 2011, 03:17:13 pm
^Wow, nakaka-inspire naman! Thanks for sharing sis :)

Me naman,nakabalik na sa original OB ko. pero ayaw niya magbuntis agad ako kasi delikado din daw. Babalik pa ako sa kanya after 6 months for papsmear. Pero honestly,hesitant na ako kung gusto ko pa magbuntis ulit,bahala na si God :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: jhoanne11108 on May 22, 2011, 09:03:03 pm
last last week ive been here to post about my twin pregnancy, now im here because were about to let go of our babies.  The Ob sched me for D and C this coming wed may 25, pregnancy did not work after all those hopeful ultrasounds there's no difference in all results.  There was a sac but no baby inside, OB said that the baby didn't develop at all. 

Im so devastated, im having sleepless nights thinking what happened again (its my 2nd miscarriage).  I hope time will come for us :'( 
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: carvar_28 on May 23, 2011, 01:13:00 pm
i also had a miscarriaged last 2007 pa,but i could still remember the pain,hindi lang physical pain mas painful [textspeak!] nrrmdaman ni heart..until now we are trying pa din pero wala pa..8 weeks un when the bleeding started,nakita sa ultrasound na pabagsak na siya during that time di tlg ako makabangon high fever super hilo masakit ang ktwan while bleeding.nung nwala na si baby the day after ng operation super gaan ng pakiramdam ko parang walang nngyri..teardrops :'( :'( :'(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: coni428 on June 14, 2011, 11:36:36 pm
Hi mga sis, I just wanted to share my story...

I lost my baby Raphael 2 months ago at 19 weeks. Nadiagnose siya with anhydramnios (zero amniotic fluid). 8 weeks preggy ako nung nagstart ako magbleed, tpos since then once or twice a week na ako dinudugo, mga 1 hour a day malakas tpos hihina hanggang sa spotting na lang. Every time na magbleed ako ng malakas dinadala ako ni hubby sa hospital, funny nga kase pagdating sa hospital nagiistop [textspeak!] bleeding. Subchorionic hemorrhage lang ang nakita saken tska low lying placenta. At 12 weeks okay pa si baby, kumakaway pa nga e kaya super happy kami ni hubby kahit bedrest nko nun. Pero at 14 weeks, nakita sa ultrasound wala na cyang water. I dont know how it happened, di ko [textspeak!] namalayan na nagleak ako ng water. So sabi ng OB ko, drink lang ako ng madaming water hoping na magreplenish siya tpos balik ako after 2 weeks. Pagbalik ko, the bad news, sa case ko daw hinde na viable for life si baby kase di daw magdevelop lungs nya tska magkakaron siya ng deformities. And we have the option to induce or just wait for the baby to come out naturally. Sobrang iyak na ako nun. We opted to wait, continuous paren ang bleeding ko. 2 days after, sumakit na [textspeak!] puson ko na parang may lalabas so punta na kami kagad sa hosp, madaming blood clots ang lumabas saken, binigyan na ako ng pampainduce. 12 hours akong naglabor pero ayaw lumabas ni baby at strong paren ang heartbeat nya nasa 150 pa kaya lang i was loosing so much blood na so OB decided to do a C-section. I couldn't bear to see my baby dying kaya tulog lang ako during that time. Sabi ng mga nurses, my baby passed away after an hour nya na makalabas. Nakakalungkot talaga, super excited kami sa first baby namen, pati buong maganak namen excited sa much awaited na baby tpos ganun lang [textspeak!] nangyari. Nothing is more painful really than the loss of a child...
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: rics on June 15, 2011, 02:15:14 am
^i feel your pain sis. In His time He will heal your heart and spirit and will give you renewed joy. God bless you.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: coni428 on June 15, 2011, 09:59:01 pm
Thanks sis rics! Sana makacope ako sa loss. Hirap kc e. Parang pati faith ko kay Lord, kinwestyon ko na. Kase sa lahat ng blessings na binigay nya, ang laki ng kinuha nyang kapalit..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ana mimi on June 16, 2011, 10:08:34 pm
nakakalungkot naman yan mga mommies. kahit pala 7 months na si baby e pwede pa siya mawala. nakakatakot naman. atleast some other moms here already moved on pero syempre, the pain still lingers. di naman mawawala yun. pero siguro mas kinuha na sila ng maaga ni God para di na mahirapan ang mga mommies kung mawala sila after the mommy gave birth. kung yung baby nga na hindi mo pa nakikita e nasaktan ka na, pano pa kaya kapag andyan na tapos nawala pa.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: kathon on June 17, 2011, 01:30:35 am
Mga sisses, hugs for you. :) i can feel your pain.
But do not worry, may mas magandang plan si God para sa inyo. :) just pray and believe in Him. :) may mga reasons kung bakit nangyayari ang ganyang bagay.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ana mimi on June 19, 2011, 03:29:25 pm
Some quotes for the mommies who loss their little ones..

Quote
"As Long As I Live You Will Live
As Long As I Live You Will Be Remembered
As Long As I Live You Will Be Loved..."

Quote
"How very softly
you tiptoed into my world.
Almost silently;
Only a moment you stayed.
But what an imprint
Your footprints have left
On our hearts."

Quote
"To Remember Is Painful
To Forget Is Impossible."
~Maureen Connelly
"Now I lay you down to sleep,
I pray the Lord your soul to keep;
Within his arms he'll hold you tight,
My Heavenly Angel, My Guiding Light."


Quote
"The mention of my child's name
may bring tears to my eyes,
but it never fails to bring music to my ears.
If you are really my friend,
let me hear the beautiful music of his name.
It soothes my broken heart and sings to my soul."


Quote
"Our hearts still ache with sadness,
And Secret tears still flow,
Was it meant to lose you,
No one can ever know."
"A moment in our arms...a lifetime in our hearts."

Quote
"A family is a circle of love,
not broken by a loss,
but made stronger by the memories.
We remember."


Quote
"The best and most beautiful things in the world
cannot be seen, nor touched, but are felt in the heart."
*Helen Keller*

Quote
"i put your name in the sand.
but the waves washed it away.
i put your name on my hand.
but i washed it away the next day.
i put your name on paper.
but i accidentally threw it away.
i put your name in my heart and forever it will stay"


Quote
"Dear Lord,I would have loved to have held my babies on my lap and tell them about you, but since I didn't get the chance, would you please hold them on your lap and tell them about me?"

Quote
AN ANGEL VISITED THE GREEN EARTH, AND TOOK A FLOWER AWAY
OUR LITTLE ANGEL
A LITTLE SOUL TAKES WINGS
ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS
BUDDED ON EARTH TO BLOOM IN HEAVEN
LORD WE GIVE YOU OUR LITTLEST ANGEL
OURS FOR A LITTLE WHILE, WITH JESUS FOREVER
PRECIOUS MEMORIES OF A LITTLE ANGEL
REMEMBERING A TINY ANGEL
SAFE IN THE ARMS OF JESUS
SLEEP MY LITTLE ONE, SLEEP
SO LITTLE, YET SO LOVED
SO SMALL, SO SWEET, SO SOON
WE WILL LOVE YOU ALWAYS

Quote
In perfect peace
What the heart has once owned and had, It shall never lose......
A family is a circle of love, not broken by a loss, but made stronger by the memories.
The one who put gentle footprints on our hearts leaves a story worth telling
God has given us memories, that we might have roses in December
Each new life... No matter how fragile or brief... Forever changes the world.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ellababy on August 02, 2011, 01:20:27 pm

basta non magsimula akong magbuntis e lagi na lang akong may bacterial vaginosis..ewan ko kumpano nangyari. siguro non gumamit kami ng lubricant ni hubby noong TTC pa ko. 1st time lang namin noon na gumamit. baka may harmful chemicals yon.. :-\

hi sis, ano ba mga symptoms mo nung my bacterial vaginosis ka? ako kasi last June nakita sa papsmear result ko na may bacterial vaginosis ako pero hanggang ngayon feeling ko meron pa din parang di nawawala...nung july 12 lang na d&c din ako "blighted ovum" ang reason pero feeling ko baka dahil din sa bacterial vaginosis kya hindi natuloy si baby...
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ghichy on August 03, 2011, 11:31:07 am
Hello, tagal ko na hindi nakapag log in dito sa girltalk and i just this thread i posted before. and now, i'm 36 wks pregnant. But I had 4 miscarriages in the past very early around 8 wks lang sya naglast so I thank God for making me reach this far. I just to be an inspiration to everyone who had gone through with this like me. Don't lose hope, be positive and have faith in God.
I'm having a baby girl, I'll keep you gurls posted about my baby, right now my baby is very active and all is well according to my doctor who's taking care of me
since I'm a high risk, I have ultrasound every month and also OB check up every 3 wks.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: newbeymum on August 03, 2011, 01:28:40 pm
I just want to share my story,I got pregnant lastyear after two years of ttc then it my pregnancy didnt last lost. I had spotting and abdominal cramps most of the time. When I went to my OB and had an ultra sound at exactly 8 weeks of my pregnancy my ob informed me that my pregnancy need to be terminated bec it is blighted ovum (BUGOG). I had a D and C right away. After 2 months I had my first iui but then it failed then had my hsg and thank God my tubes are patent. Then I had another two IUI and still it failed. After all those aggressive work ups I stopped seeing my OB already for the reason that hubby and i need to save money again. The work up is  financially draining and emotionally draining. Its been 10 months since my d and c and yet i havent gotten pregnant again.. Hopefully i will soon get pregnant again.  :'( If i didnt have a d and c and my pregnancy continued my due date was supposedsedly june 9 and by now i should have a 2 month old baby.. :'( :'( :'( Its so depressing.. Ive done everything to get pregnant again all known to science and even went to obando last May to join the parade, went to cebu to pray to sto nino last dec and went to this chinese doctor in binondo and tried all those herbs.. Im crossing my fingers that the year wont end that i wont get pregnant...
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: rics on August 06, 2011, 01:31:49 am
^hugs to you sis. Trying asking the intercession of Pope John Paul II. It worked for me.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mrs.S. on August 06, 2011, 02:44:38 am
once...  :(  it was a very sad moment in my life. But hang on to all those who are TTC at nakunan. I did post a thread how to get over my miscarriage nun. It's been 2 years na and darating din ang panahon na you'll get over it. Baby dust to all na din who are TTC! Keep praying and stay strong!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sweetsorrow on August 15, 2011, 03:41:34 pm
March 7, nakunan ako.

Dapat waiting na ako ngayon at super laki na sana ng tiyan ko, pero eto... Ttc :(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: honey_iya on August 15, 2011, 03:47:58 pm
^Ako nga sis due na sana by october :)

Anyway,ako kasi pinapabalik pa ng OB ko by november for papsmear so di pa ako pwede magbuntis pero makulit asawa ko just this month no protection at all kami waaah kinakabahan na naman ako.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: lyn cheema on November 17, 2011, 01:17:55 pm
2008... nag pa check ko sa o.b delayed na kasi ako... pinag PT nya ko.. positive.... 10weeks na daw ako... sabi nya pakinggan daw namin heart beat ng baby ko.. 30 minutes akong nakahiga.. as first timer.. hindi ko naman alam kong ano ang test at ano ang pakikingan, tahimik lang yung o.b paulit ulit nyang nililipat sa tummy kung ano man ang tawag dun... hanggang sa nagsabi cya finish na daw.

waiting ako sa table.. pagdating nya, sabi nya ectopic pregnany daw ko... walang heartbeat... iyak ako ng iyak.. sa harap ng o.b... depressed na depressed ako... posible naman daw talagang ganun sa pregnancy.. hindi ko maawat ang iyak ko... pinababalik nya pa ko... pero sa takot at lungkot ko hindi na ko bumalik..

after a week... nagkaroon na ulit ko ng lakas ng loob mg pa check up pero this time sa ibang o.b naman...BINGO!!! narinig na heartbeat ng baby ko at ang lakas pa... sabi ng o.b ang lakas ng heartbeat parang kabayong tumatakbo..=))

tuwang tuwa kami ng hubby ko kahit medyo malayo cya rinig na rinig daw nya...sabi ko pano mo nalaman na baby natin yung pinakikinggan mo... naramdaman daw hehe...

after 7 mos.. nawalan na ko ng amnuitic fluid... magaling c o.b cs kagad.. hindi pa gumagaling uti ko... though premature baby ko.. sobrang ingat naman parang nag-aalaga ka ng itlog hindi mabasag.. as of now 3 years old na baby girl ko, kasama ko na cyang nag-pra-pray bigyan ulit kami ng bagong baby love.. Thank You Lord.. ;)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: kuliglig^^ on November 17, 2011, 08:40:40 pm
I experienced miscarriage three years ago. 20 weeks na ko nun. Lagi kasi akong nagkakasakit. December 31 pa naman yun. :( Nakita ko siya bumaba, as in gumagalaw pa legs nya, hanggang magstop na lang...  :'(

Ngayon, 26 weeks preggy na ko. Okay naman, alagang alaga naman ako. :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: angel gabrielle on December 28, 2011, 06:16:12 pm
Dati binabasa ko lang yung mga posts dito, now i have my own story to tell. Last Monday December 26 I had my first trip to my OB, I had my pregnancy test last Dec 21 and it was positive. But then nag-spotting ako. Nung chinecheck-up n ako sabi ni OB she said she needs to read my ultrasound first before nya ko bigyang ng pampakapit. But then according dun sa ng-ultrasound sa kin wala daw sya makitang embryo. For a 9-week pregnancy its not normal daw.  I already had a hint and I burst into tears ng pinakita ko kay hubby [textspeak!] ultrasound ko.  It was confirmed by my ob na hindi natuloy yung pregnancy.  And kailangan akong iraspa to remove the dead egg.  What makes it worst ayaw nilang alisin, gusto ng ob na mag-bleeding muan ako ako bago nila simulan yung raspa.  I dont know, im so confused right now.  I want it to be done sana sa public hospital to save money kaya lang its been 4 days di pa din ako nagblee-bleeding.  What do you think mga sis? Please help..Thanks
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: prettyeight on March 24, 2012, 08:22:27 pm
Tatanong ko lang po sana. Yun mga babies po na namiscarriage or still birth. San po ba sila nililibing?

My baby was diagnosed with a rare congenital abnormality and it is fatal. We were told to prepare for the worst kaya I'm just curious..

Thanks po in advance.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: jigsaw10 on March 30, 2012, 04:25:34 pm
Never in my entire life have I imagined myself in this situation. Just today, my OB confirmed that I miscarried spontaneously. It started out with small amounts of spotting, stopped, then morning after my husband's birthday celebration, the spotting increased gradually. OB told me to take Duvadilan and placed me on bed rest. It was too late for the 'pampakapit' to save the baby. Now, I am taking Methergin to naturally expel my baby. How painful it is to think that I am aborting my baby but I am left without a choice.  OB assured me that the medicine will just help clean my uterus of what is left of the baby to save me through the process of D&C.

I feel that I am such a bad person or a mother for that matter. Binigay na nga sa akin, hindi ko pa iningatan. But that 6weeks changed me and brought me a lifetime's worth of happiness. And like all the supportive people around me say, God has His ways and reasons. I now surrender everything to Him. Thank you for the inspiring stories, mommies!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ganda11_a on April 01, 2012, 07:15:30 am
Last october na d&c ako i was 8wks and 6 day at that time blighted ovum no baby daw at all nagbleed ako ng sobra nun and sabi nila pagblighted ovum daw sa next pregnancy hindi na daw yun mauulit just last feb we found out na im pregnant, go agad ako kay ob para macheck agad, i was 6wks pregnant as per my lmp then sa ultrasound walang heartbeat si baby i was advised to come back after 3wks, after 3 wks i was 9wks and 5 days but still no heartbeat and baby is so small for 9wks. I cried so much i know somethings wrong. Sabi ni ob bigyan nya pa ko ng another 1wk. Yesterday bumalik ako and wala talagang heartbeat si baby and 7wks and 1 day lang ang sukat nya. I am schedule for a raspa tomorrow night. 2 consecutive na blighted ovum ako. I dont know whats wrong with me. Sabi gagawa ng test after ng raspa kung what is.problem then magpaworkout daw kami. So drain na ko talaga kakaisip.
Medyo mahaba na. Thank you mga sisses
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: honey_iya on April 01, 2012, 12:44:22 pm
^Sorry to hear that sis. question lang sis, sabi mo may baby this time pero no heartbeat? kasi kung blighted ovum no baby at all eh. blighted ovum din kasi ako last year.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ganda11_a on April 01, 2012, 07:22:27 pm
Sis honey_iya yes po as per ob and sonologist na tumingin sa akin blighted ovum sya but they saw embryo/fetus inside the sac kaya lang the baby is 7wk and 1 day pa lang eh im 10wks and 5 days na. Yung growth ng baby sa tummy is sobrang bagal and walang heartbeat.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: hairt mini on April 02, 2012, 02:26:57 pm
Hi mga sis, just want to share this very touching story about God's miracle shared by one of our sister in Christ.

http://www.cfcmiddleeast.org/?p=3045

God bless us!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sweetestCORN on April 02, 2012, 04:24:23 pm
Hi mga sis, just want to share this very touching story about God's miracle shared by one of our sister in Christ.

http://www.cfcmiddleeast.org/?p=3045

God bless us!

wooow!!!! really wonderful story. pero yung dalawang doctor sana pinagawa ng explanation.. pano kung sumunod silang mag-asawa e di naabort na yung baby. tss...
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: alias on April 13, 2012, 10:44:21 am
 i got d & c kc no heartbeat baby ko till mag 7weeks sya tapos stop growing na rin sya so no choice na, but i had a problem kc i didnt notify the sss but i already done d& c would you think may makukuha ako, kc im just waiting for the hearbeat kaso urgent d&c nako.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: honey_iya on April 13, 2012, 10:48:39 am
^Sis, may makukuha ka. ganyan na ganyan nangyari sa akin last year. inantay ko din kasi muna magkaroon ng heartbeat bago mag file sa SSS kaso hindi naman nagkaroon hanggang na D&C ako. kelangan mo yung PT before & after, medical report & histopath (dito ako natagalan kasi i thought di na need, after 2-3 weeks ko pa yata bago makuha sa ospital 'to). umpisahan mo na ayusin sis :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: alias on April 13, 2012, 11:19:32 am
talga sis thank you actually nagpa received ako ng notification muna after d& c ko  tapos now preparing ako for reimbursement.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: alias on April 13, 2012, 11:22:21 am
grabhe kac sis almost 26t nagastos ko kaya im so sad nawalan na ko ng anak gumastos pako.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: wedz on April 18, 2012, 05:56:16 am
I am 6 weeks pregnant now but  i experienced brown spotting again since last week hence my G.P booked me for a scan.but when we saw it, it was only the pregnancy sac and we’ve seen nothing heartbeat. I’ve been told with my mid wife to come back after 1 week to see if there is any development of my uterus. All my pregnancy symtoms have disappeared too and i am so worried as i had a miscarriage last year as well and that was my first pregnancy which was 10 weeks but only to find out that i was unembryonic pregnancy. the same bad signs that i have now like heavy feeling in my tummy and i also have brown spotting for almost 2 weeks.  I feel so helpless because the’ve done nothing about it. I live here in Scotland, u.k and its part of their medical practice not to give any pregnancy support hormones and it’s been banned of their state 10 years ago. I think i'll be losing my pregnancy again.Me and my hubby have discovered the website from Canada and we can buy it online even without prescription from the doctor.they sell pregnancy hormones like duphaston, duvadilan and isoxilan. All i know is that we can take duphaston with duvadilan or duphaston with isoxilan especially if we have previous history of miscarriages.Has anyone know if how many tablets should i take in a day and can i take it for 1 month? Please i need your help.thank you very much.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: dialamari on May 02, 2012, 06:10:50 pm
^sis, usually ang isoxilan or duvadilan pag nirereseta sakin ng ob ko, 1 tablet every 8 hrs for 14days. depende yan sa ob kung gano kalala yong condition mo. in my case kasi nagkaron ako ng subchorionic hemorrhage around 9weeks ata..so bedrest for 2weeks then with medication. non stable na pregnancy ko, minsan nagkakaron ako ng contraction, let say tumigas yong tyan ko , may nakatabi akong duvadilan pang-emergency para marelax yong muscle ko
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: peminista on May 29, 2012, 05:59:35 pm
i had a miscarriage yesterday..my baby was 9 weeks old..i slept with an aching back and hips then when i woke up, i was literally soaked in blood..immediately i was rushed to the hospital and when we saw  the trans v ultrasound result, there's no heartbeat and the baby was about to come out of my womb..i was headed to the delivery room for d & c..and now, when i got home, i just cry when im alone..i feel that somehow its my fault for still pushing myself to work even if im tired..though my ob told me that the fetus has weak chromosomes,, i still feel guilty and i have this feeling of blaming myself or asking myself if iam a bad mother..pls help me cope..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mrs.S. on May 31, 2012, 12:03:06 am
^hugs to you sis. I know its not easy but its not your fault and these things happen and you may not understand why. I have gone through the same thing , it may not be easy but remember there's a rainbow after the rain.

Pray and ask God for guidance in this time sa buhay mo. I will pray for you.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: jigsaw10 on May 31, 2012, 10:49:06 am
Sis peminista, i know exactly how you feel. I'm really sorry for your loss. But please, do not blame yourself for what happened. God has His reasons. I, too, miscarried last March 28. Pero I'm 9weeks preggy now.

Do not lose hope. I'll be praying for you.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ganda11_a on May 31, 2012, 11:28:52 am
sis peminista i know how you feel also,  like other sisses here said God has his reason why this happened. Ako twice na ko na d&c last Oct 9, 2011 and this April 2 2012 due to blighted ovum. until now naiiyak pa din ako but i know darating din ang 2nd baby namin In HIS TIME. It's not your fault, everything has a reason why this happened.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: longing on May 31, 2012, 09:43:31 pm
In 2007, I was diagnosed to have a blighted ovum hence D&C is required.  Our world crushed then as I was 9 weeks pregnant.  However, God is indeed good all the time, after two months, we were blessed to have a baby - this time with a heartbeat.  Feelings then were unbelievable. :) I had threatened abortion at 9 weeks (again) but with proper meds, bed rest, care and support from the family and OB, I overcome this.  Now, I have a very bright daughter in my care.  TTC this year, hopefully a boy. :)

A friend of mine also lost his baby boy, short of 3 weeks before her delivery date.  She has medical conditions - diabetic, pre-eclampsia and others thus the baby didn't survive that long.  I saw her in the hospital in pain while expelling naturally the baby.  It was a very heart wrenching moment for me, moreso to my friend and her hubby who waited 10 long years to conceive. However, after a year, she delivered a healthy baby boy.

All I can say is that, in God's perfect time, he'll give us our bundle of joy. :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mae18 on June 01, 2012, 09:37:50 am
my first pregnancy was traumatic, i was induced then by clomid and after few months, i thought it will be fine, but on my 25th week, which was on 6th month to, i think.... by that time you can all feel the movements of your baby, but unfortunately, i havent felt mine that time, i did observed it for another day and decided the following day to go on check up sa mga lying in clinic na may ultrasound na cheaper sa doctor ko... kasi i never thought of anything bad will happen, until on the ultrasound room, the doctor told me to after i received the report of my uv to go immediately to my ob, i was so worried then because they never told me anything about the uv, when i received the report, i read there "no fetal heartbeat, intrauterine fetal demise" pinanghinaan ako ng loob, immediately i ran to my ob's hospital and took another uv, pero dun inexplain nila sa akin na wala na nga talaga, wala na heartbeat, and they asked me what happen kun nagkasakit ba ako, kun may tinake ba akong gamot na di ko nasabi sa doctor ko or something, hindi lang ako ng hindi, paglabas ko di ko na napigilan tumulo luha ko at tumakbo sa husband ko at umiyak sa shoulder nya...

naalala ko pa nun binigyan ako pampahilab para ideliver ko yun baby ko, sobrang sakit sa akin kasi nasa ospital ako to have a normal delivery pero patay naman ang iuuwi kong baby, ang sakit nun.... sobra,,

that was July 17 nun nakunan ako of 2009, then i got pregnant again by clomid induced by december and my son was born July 24, healthy and is now 22 months old.. ngayon im pregnant without the use of clomid or any fertility pill, im on my 13th week, im praying so hard for the safety of my pregnancy...

kaya sa lahat, wag na wag kayo mawawalan ng pag asa, ako nun akala ko katapusan ko na, akala ko galit sa akin ang Diyos, pero hindi pala, kasi it made me stronger and it made me feel na God is always there na wala siyang ibibigay na pagsubok na di natin kakayanin, oo, mafefeel natin na parang pinabayaan nya tayo pero dont loose hope kasi there's always a reason kun bakit kun ano man yon, it is for our own good... like me, ive learned na baka kun sakaling mabuhay yun panganay ko baka may mas malala pa syang sakit na mas dudurog sa puso ko kaya God didnt let it happen... and the fact na maraming taong nagmamahal sa akin and na ang husband ko andyan sakin di ako sisihin o paparamdaman na may pagkukulang ako.... basta it gave us a great lesson.. gang ngayon kasama pa din namin sa prayers ang eldest ko, along the prayers of our safety.... :) :) :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: zieaja on June 05, 2012, 11:30:01 am
How sad sis peminista GOD's plan sis. na experience ko na din yan i had miscarriage last november 8 weeks nman yun sis. and after nun d pa kami ng work out ulit para mgka baby this month palang kami mgsstart ulit nang work out. pahinga ka muna sis wag mo kalimutan mg ask nang guidance kay lord sa mga step na gagawin mo para mas mabilis recovery mo. naiintindihan ko [textspeak!] pain na nafefel mo ngaun. sa akin before pati kahihiyan na feel ko din kasi madaming ng expect madaming nag antay sa wala. pero wag mo muna sila e mind what most important is yung recovery mo. lumabas labas kna din nang house kung ok na yung condition mo para di mo lagi maalala [textspeak!] pagkawala ni baby. ganyan din ako noon ginawa lahat ni hubby para lang wag ako mgkulong sa room. sa akin nga before talagang ngfflow na yung dugo ayaw ko pa mgpa raspa kasi iniisip ko bka sakaling trials lang ngbabakasakali ako na buhay pa din c baby kahit ngfflow na yung dugo. kaya naiintindihan kita sis. prayer sis is the best medicine talaga. walang imposoble kay god.


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Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: pillowski on June 19, 2012, 10:44:55 am
Last June 6 I had a TVS, and my baby is ok at 4.7mm, with cardiac activity but cannot document on M-mode, so my OBRE advised TVS after 10 days that was last saturday, only to find out that the baby doesnt grow and now no more cardiac activity... I was devastated! The cause could possibly chromosomal abnormalities...right now the baby is still inside me waiting to bleed naturally as it was less than 10 weeks old....
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sofiameredith on July 01, 2012, 07:33:45 pm
just recently after 10years i got pregnant... i was so surprised and happy kasi PCOS ako.... I rushed to my OB for check up then did an ultrasound at 7weeks everything was good and may heartbeat ang baby ko though may minimal SCH which is makukuha naman daw sa gamot like Duphaston and Duvadilan and 10days bed rest....

after a month, i visited my OB as scheduled i'm supposed to be 12weeks per LMP, she listened to my baby's heartbeat via doppler and all is well gave me vitamins and was advised to just finish what was left with my Duphaston and Duvadilan......

a week passed and i noticed a very slight brownish stain on my undies... texted my OB(who is out of the country) and she said that I should go to the delivery room to further check since it isn't normal... the residents of the hospital looked at me asked so many questions and checked the heartbeat of my baby via doppler and they didn't hear anything so they recommended for a trans V...... and there it was seen that my baby no longer have a heartbeat and didn't progress at 8th wk....thus with the explanations i can't understand because i was really shocked and was advised to have D&C

i transferred to a different hospital where we chose to have my D&C....as of now I was given meds to take orally so I would bleed before they perform D&C since they don't wanna traumatized my closed cervix......

it's so painful.... yes.... cried my heart out but surrendered everything to the Lord.... i just want to be finished with this D&C thing so me and my hubby can move on...... and hopefully try again with God's grace....
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: imagodei082990 on July 03, 2012, 11:44:13 am
^Sis, may makukuha ka. ganyan na ganyan nangyari sa akin last year. inantay ko din kasi muna magkaroon ng heartbeat bago mag file sa SSS kaso hindi naman nagkaroon hanggang na D&C ako. kelangan mo yung PT before & after, medical report & histopath (dito ako natagalan kasi i thought di na need, after 2-3 weeks ko pa yata bago makuha sa ospital 'to). umpisahan mo na ayusin sis :)

hi sis iya! ask ko lang kung pano makakakuha ng maternity benifits? at [textspeak!] yung mga qualification ? voluntary member lang me TIA
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: jessebell on July 03, 2012, 01:57:58 pm
Mga sis, naistress lang ako kasi sa previous posts nababasa ko andaming miscarriages kahit lagpas na sila ng 1st trimester- usually kasi ito yung period na nalalaglag ang baby. Meron pa nakunan at 28 wks. Ako kasi 22 wks na, natatakot ako na baka makunan din ako. Akala ko talaga 95% ka ng di makukunan if lagpas ka na ng 1st trimester mo.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: jessebell on July 03, 2012, 02:02:56 pm
I bled during my 3rd and 4th month, thrice na ko nagpa transvaginal ultrasound, now I'm 5 months and a half wala ng bleeding pero 1st baby ko kasi to kaya may aning factor ako na baka malaglag. Advisable ba na ipa-check ang heartbeat ng baby evry week sa OB ko? magastos nga lang pero kung dun [textspeak!] ako magkaka peace of mind diba. Ang kelangan ko pa ba ipa-ultrasound or icheck any abnormalities if ever? Or OK na yung hearbeat lang?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: imagodei082990 on July 04, 2012, 08:01:31 am
I bled during my 3rd and 4th month, thrice na ko nagpa transvaginal ultrasound, now I'm 5 months and a half wala ng bleeding pero 1st baby ko kasi to kaya may aning factor ako na baka malaglag. Advisable ba na ipa-check ang heartbeat ng baby evry week sa OB ko? magastos nga lang pero kung dun [textspeak!] ako magkaka peace of mind diba. Ang kelangan ko pa ba ipa-ultrasound or icheck any abnormalities if ever? Or OK na yung hearbeat lang?
kelangan mo rin sis ipacheck up lahat lahat para mas maganda .. :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: pink_blush01 on July 04, 2012, 08:48:47 pm
I bled during my 3rd and 4th month, thrice na ko nagpa transvaginal ultrasound, now I'm 5 months and a half wala ng bleeding pero 1st baby ko kasi to kaya may aning factor ako na baka malaglag. Advisable ba na ipa-check ang heartbeat ng baby evry week sa OB ko? magastos nga lang pero kung dun [textspeak!] ako magkaka peace of mind diba. Ang kelangan ko pa ba ipa-ultrasound or icheck any abnormalities if ever? Or OK na yung hearbeat lang?

sis jessebell, i bought fetal doppler for peace of mind. mas tipid kesa pumunta ka sa OB every week. pero siyempre dapat regular pa din check up mo
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: snowdrizzle_27 on July 08, 2012, 02:31:45 am
^ yep and include mo na din yung Isoxillan.

Anyway, twice na din saken nangyare ang ganito.  sa 1st pregnancy ko, nawalan ng heartbeat ang baby ko at 12 weeks. so sa 2nd pregnancy ko, pina-take ako ng Isoxillan and every month talaga may ultrasound ako just to be sure na ok pa si baby.

sa 3rd pregnancy ko naman, as in nahulog yung baby ko at around 12 weeks din kahit nag take ako ng pampakapit.  I'm thinking siguro stress na din kase nag work ako nun sa call center.

sa 4th pregnancy ko, take na naman ng pampakapit at make sure na hindi stress.


ganyan din ang nangyari sa  baby q , at 10th-week, nawlan rin ng heartbeat so klangan na nila i-remove ano  kaya ang ng cause bkit nawawalan ng heartbeat? sabi lang kc ng ob q, at firt trimester na nakunan ka, the problem is w/ the baby.. pwedeng my defects  kya ganun.. so knowing that, prang napanatag na rin kami khit papano kesa mag suffer c baby q na may depekto , umpisa palng, di na makita sa ultrasound khit positive sa pregnancy test by  urine and blood. Then after nun, nung inultrasound ulit, nakita na but mahina heartbeat. taz nag start na q ng spotting, nag bedrest ako for a week, continue pa rin. Bumalik kmi sa Ob namin, then nung inultrasound ulit, wala na nga daw heartbeat.. traumatic .. sana next time, ok na.. di q na kakayanin ang  pangalawa...  :-[
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: pillowski on July 09, 2012, 09:09:33 pm
Marami rin pala talagang kaso na ganito na during the first trimester suddenly the baby stop growing, at nawawala rin ang heartbeat...nangyari ito sa akin...7 yrs kaming ttc, this summer i've prepared myself for a full blown fertility treatment, start kami natural wala nangyari, then sumunod na month IUI successful! I was the happiest woman ever, iningatan ko naman then on my second ultrasound sana to count na the heartbeat, sadly the bad news... after almost 2 weeks waiting to bleed naturally i finally choose to have a d&c, mukang nasobrahan sa kapit ang baby ko... now i am praying that a MIRACLE do happen to me...my husband will be leaving in two months time...sana mabuntis na ako sa normal na paraan, kasi di pa ako pwede mag pa fertility work up....
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ria_gelai on July 13, 2012, 11:08:32 pm
i want to share din...after 10 weeks of waiting, praying, hoping for a baby, hindi din sya natuloy kasi walang nakita na embryo at 10 weeks, after 4 ultrasound, nagdecide na din kami na magpa d&c kasi mejo matagal na at hindi pa din ako ulit nagspotting dahil sa pag inom siguro ng duphaston...mejo hindi na din daw kasi maganda ang itsura ng gest. sac and hindi sya lumaki after 3 weeks...ngayon dito na ko sa bahay after kong maraspa kanina, sa 3 weeks kong nakabed rest ako unti unti kong natanggap na ganun na ang mangyayari kasi nung una talaga sobrang akong makaiyak pag nakakakita ng spot sa undies ko, dahil na din sa mga advise ng friends and family natanggap ko na sya pero may konting part ng isip ko na pinalaglag ko sya, pero sabi naman ng husband ko hindi daw kasi wala naman daw baby eh...ayun recovering nalang muna ako ngayon...
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: snowdrizzle_27 on July 14, 2012, 01:34:26 am
sis ria_gelai , parehong pareho pala tayo.
 :(

But I learned to accept it na since it was 8mos ago na rin.
At first, masakit talaga.
But in God's perfect time, wounds will heal.

Anyway sis, after 3 months naman from d&c, pede na ulit mag try mag baby accdg to my OB.
:)
So keep trying sis! and smile   :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sofiameredith on July 19, 2012, 09:29:54 am
sa mga naka experience na di nag grow or nag stop suddenly yung heartbeat ni baby at 1st trimester tapos na d&c.. nagpatest ba kayo like (APAS etc)  bago kayo mag baby ulit?

nakaka trauma kasi kung mauulit na makunan di ba... as much as possible ayaw ko na ulit pagdaanan yun kung magtatry ulit kami magbaby....
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: newbeymum on July 19, 2012, 12:00:50 pm
My heart goes out for all the sissies here who had d & c bec i also had a d and c procedure way back October of 2010 due to BLIGHTED OVUM. After my d and c October of 2010 I though I could get pregnant right away but its almost 2 years and wala pa rin. I had several IUI and all failed. So lately after my 6th failed iui i stopped from all the treatment bec i really got depressed and disappointed. Then since i have been reading different topics here on ttc i have come across the APAS thread. I asked my RE/OB if i need to consult to an immunologist i was told no need bec but my diagnoses is UNEXPLAINED Secondary INFERTILITY secondary kase daw i got pregnant naman kaso blighted. So i cant accept the diagnoses na Unexplained, there must be reason, but im ovulating regularly, my tubes are patent.. etc.. in short all the tests are good except that my husbby's SA is not so good but still i had 6 failed iui so bakit pa rin diba? until i decided na to go to Dr Aleta an immunologist, then she gave me requests na mag pa APAS, ANA, LAT panel tests. Thank God im not APAS and the rest but my LAT is not so good. so ayun daw a reason bakit di ako mabuntis buntis or bakit din nag fail yun pregnancy ko. so now im into LIT treatment. Sorry mahaba gusto ko lang ma share sana lang kung dati ko pa na laman sana baka di nag fail mga iui ko baka rin nabuntis na ako agad.. Good luck on our ttc journey sana mabiyayaan na tayong lahat ng cute, healthy baby.. May the Lord be with us in this journey.. :D
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: billy on August 29, 2012, 11:34:38 am
mga sis, asking lang for an officemate - do you know kung saan available dito sa MM yung Proluton Depot? thanks in advance
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mscuriosity on August 29, 2012, 02:59:43 pm
^ yes! I had a worst miscarriage I've ever experienced. Ectopic pregnancy po ang case ko and na emergency pa ko December 30-31 so ayun sa hospital ang New Year ko. sobrang painful pero need mag move on.. at first di ko alam kung anong nangyari kc first baby ko sana. kaso unexpected naman yung nangyari. I had an explor lap operation kc yun lang ang way para ma-treat at maalis sa tubo si baby if not pwedeng mamatay ang girl. tinanggal yung left falopian tube ko, sobrang depress and emotional down ako nung nangyari yun kc I have a fear na mabuntis ulit plus the fact na right ovary na lang ang pwede haysss But thanked God kc God allowed me mabuntis ulit. I'm 7mo's and 1 week prego now and I'm praying for a normal delivery. Please help me guys!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bump on August 29, 2012, 04:58:23 pm
year '07 my baby 's heartbeat stopped when  he was 3-4mos in my tummy. i had a bad feeling on  the day i found out. as not to prolong my agony i had my d&c the next day. its been 5yrs but the pain remains tho i accepted it. we didnt rush to make another baby. i prepared my body till i feel i am healthy to get pregnant again. i can easily get pregnant kaya nag ingat muna kami. i got pregnant w/ our 3rd baby in '09. keep the faith sisses
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sweetarwen07 on September 08, 2012, 12:57:38 pm
mga sis, true ba na nakak-prevent and spirulina ng miscarriage?  may nakita kasi akong spirulina tablets sa healthy options 100 pcs. / 805 pesos. 

i might buy one kasi.  baka sakaling effective.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mommytobe on September 21, 2012, 11:14:40 am
Sis ano po ba cause kung bakit nagstop ang paghinga ng baby?  :'(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sweetarwen07 on September 22, 2012, 09:01:45 am
^ same here sis.  nag stop na lang bigla heartbeat ni baby.  basta sabi lang ng OB ko before, it happens daw.  parang chromosomal abnormalities. 

sana nga totoo yung sabi nila na ok yung spirulina sa mga galing sa miscarriage.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: blushydamsel on September 24, 2012, 02:05:56 pm
hi mga sis... had a blighted ovum at 7weeks & 2 days. The sac just went out naturally last September 17. My OB didn't want me to undergo D&C instead she prescrbed me or Methergine to release the residues of conception. last day ko sa methergin kahapon. pero until now hindi pa ako nagbbleed. meron bang ganitong situation sa inyo? thanks mga sis.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: imagodei082990 on September 25, 2012, 05:27:33 am
^hindi ka pa ng bibleed binigyan ka na ng methergine ... Ang methergine ay pang stop ng bleeding ..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: blushydamsel on September 27, 2012, 02:49:34 pm
^hi sis, sorry for the confusion. nagbleed na ako (before the sac came out, then ilang days after it went out). then nagstop, tapos nag methergine ako sabi ni OB to flush out daw the remaining bits of conception from the uterus. nun nagpost ako d pa ako nagbleed :) pero nagbleed na ako last tuesday, pero mahina lang, now parang patapos na sha, balik na ulit sa dati. i'm going to have a TVU tonight to confirm na wala na talaga natira. :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sweetarwen07 on September 27, 2012, 02:52:59 pm
^ pinainom din ako dati nun sis, just to make sure nga na mailabas natin lahat. After that, ok na. :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: SiennaMiller on September 27, 2012, 05:11:03 pm
Hi mga sis,
i'm 18 weeks pregnant today. But i'm worrying about sa black/brown discharge sabi nila kasi kapag second trimester hindi daw normal ang ganung spotting. Please advise. Kapag sa first trimester it can be a sign of miscarriage or etc pero paano kapag 2nd trimester na?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sweetarwen07 on October 06, 2012, 03:59:47 pm
^ try mo na magpa check up ulit sis, para sure.  :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: chic80 on October 06, 2012, 09:10:19 pm
Hi sis SiennaMiller, i had black/brown discharge then during my 2nd trimester last year, it was during my 4th until 6 months everyday talaga, i am so worried due to my previous miscarriages. but Thanks God, my baby was delivered healthy and is now 7 months old. May mga cases talaga na ganun kahit nga i'm on bedrest na at walang kontak kasi nasa abroad si hubby my spotting pa rin ako. Pray ka lang sis tapos, go to your OB right away para mabigyan ka ng meds. I took Duvadillan during that time it helps naman.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mrsdee on October 06, 2012, 10:07:58 pm
sis, sienaMiller, tama si sis chic. I had my miscarriage at 6th wk in my first pregnancy. first trim yun, ikaw ay 2nd trim na. nabasa ko na kapag naman daw nagka-heartbeat na ang baby like yours, ang chances of miscarriage drops to 5%. yung discharge mo can be old blood. so hopefully, nothing to worry about but be sure to get rest din and let your OB know para mabigyan ka agad ng meds. :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: alexii on October 27, 2012, 04:17:40 pm
Yes.  :'(

Sakin naman mga sis blighted ovum. Hindi nabuo yung baby, placenta lang ang nabuo. 3 months na kasi ako nung nagpa-ultrasound ako then yun nga yung sabi ng doctor. First baby ko pa naman sana iyon.

Pero 2 weeks before ako nagpa-ultrasound nag spotting na ako. Sabi ng mga kawork ko noon eh natural lang naman daw yun. Pero hindi na siya nag-stop at lumalakas pa. Na-DandC din ako kasi sobrang nagbbleed ako. Pero before ako maraspa sumakit yung tyan ko ng sobra, feeling ko ganon din kasakit pag naglalabor na. Halos hindi na ako makatayo noon. Kaya ayon, nagpunta na kami hospital para magparaspa. Sobrang lakas ng bleeding ko noon at nakakapanghina siya talaga.  :'(

Masakit! Ineexpect mo na magkakababy ka na pero nawala pa. It's been a month already pero hindi pa rin ako maka-move on. :(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: abbina on November 13, 2012, 10:12:23 am
I lost my baby last August 11. I had pre-eclampsia and sa check up ko sa OB ko ng August 11, wala nang heartbeat si Baby Masie. Sabi ng doctor mga 2 days na daw dead si baby sa tummy ko. 33 weeks na sya and dapat scheduled CS na ko come 36-37 weeks.

It was so sudden and I did not have a clue na wala na pala si baby. Nag nonstress test pa kami ng July 31 and did my shopping for Baby Masie. Everything was okay except my blood pressure.

Nang ilabas si baby, pinakita sa kin ng nurse pero blurred as I was not wearing my glasses that time. May mga pictures ni baby nung nasa coffin na sya pero di ko kayang tingnan. Sabi nila sobrang kamuka ni hubby.

Ang bilis ng mga pangyayari and parang panaginip lang lahat.

I know that God has plans for us and that He is in control. I'm not losing hope that someday magkakababy kami ulit ni hubby.  "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time to be born and a time to die..."

Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: elle_tabs on December 11, 2012, 02:15:38 pm
hayyyy parang gusto ko nalang umiyak sa mga nabasa ko dito.. :(

think positive nalang mga sis..
(di ko po kaya magshare kasi sobrang sakit talaga ng naramdaman ko noon)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bigdadis_girl on January 02, 2013, 05:31:52 pm
mga sis nag follow up check up ba kayo after ma d&c? like bumalik kayo after ilang buwan? na d&c kasi ako 2 years ago and hindi pa namin na try ulet to conceive within 2 years na trauma kame sa nangyari.  Now gusto na namin ulet magka baby, delayed na ako ng 1month but PT is negative :(  I read somewhere na dapat magpa test muna after d&c such as APAS etc? ginawa nyo rin ba to?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: miminibebe on January 03, 2013, 08:45:35 am
^Hi sis, ako sa 1st pregnancy ko blighted ovum and naD&C din ako.  Di naman na ako nagpacheck ulit after nun, ang sunod ko ng check up was when i got pregnant with my daughter.   Why ka nagmiscarriage sis? yung iba nagpapatest lang for APAS and etc pag paulit ulit yung MC nila.  Pero kung 1st time blighted, i think OK lang naman kahit hindi pa.  Sabi naman kasi nila most of the 1st pregnancies nauuwi sa blighted ovum pero ikaw sis, pwede namang magpa-alaga ka kay OB, mention mo na may history ka ng MC and the reason para in case you get pregnant ulit, alaga ka na agad.   :D
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bigdadis_girl on January 03, 2013, 10:12:54 am
hi sis, naliwanagan ako sa sinabe mo.  early embryonic fetal demise ang case ko sis, 1st pregnancy ko din.  hindi na nadevelop si baby and nawalan ng heart beat at 6weeks. iyak ako ng iyak sa takot ko 2 years na pala nakalipas mula non.  ngayon malakas na loob ko, magpapa alaga na ako talaga.  hindi ko kasi alam noon ang gagawin.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: miminibebe on January 03, 2013, 10:45:28 am
^Ah, blighted din sis.  Oo sis, don't lose hope.  Di naman ibig sabihin agad nun eh may problema ka na, yan din ang fear ko nung TTC na kami ulit mag-asawa.  Baka maulit yung MC ko, awa naman ni Lord meron na kong 3 yr old daughter and now i am 9 weeks pregnant.  Though andun pa din yung fear ko dinadasal ko na lang na magtutuloy tuloy tong pregnancy ko na to.  Tama sis, paalaga ka agad kay OB kahit TTC pa lang, and wag ka pastress na makabuo agad.  :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bigdadis_girl on January 03, 2013, 10:56:54 am
^thank you sis.  in search na ako sa OB right now and hopefully makapagpa schedule the soonest.   thank you sis talaga :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mrsdee on January 04, 2013, 02:34:51 am
^sis, di rin ako nakapag-APAS test. first pregnancy was also blighted ovum but no D&C operation because the sac passed out naturally @6wks din. pagpacheck-up ko, completely aborted na raw. after one month, no period came, only to find out preggy na ulit ako. one week na lang, 5months preggy na ako. :)

normal yung fear mo sis, ako din parang nawindang ng husto noon. I took all the blame na baka di ko naalagaan ang sarili ko while at it, na baka may nagawa akong naka-harm kay baby. I felt crushed but all the more I felt guilty that I took away not only my happiness but also my husband's. but things like these happen talaga. my nurse friend explained to me that miscarriage is nature's way of aborting a baby who from the start already have abnormalities in their form, chromosomes, etc.

let's always keep the faith that we will in one time or another be blessed with a healthy baby that's meant for us. :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bigdadis_girl on January 08, 2013, 08:53:51 am
^congrats sis! and thank you sa mga sinabe mo, nainspire ako :) kaya di ko maiwan tong gt e :D ang daming support. 
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: heavenangels on March 05, 2013, 01:43:36 pm
i am newbie here and share the same sentiment..i had two m/c which both happened during my first trimester. the first one was last june 2012 (7weeks). the last one was last february 2013 and 3 days na lang 3months na sana sya. i was at my lowest when i learned na wala na ang baby namin..i was on bed rest since day 1 na nalaman ko na pregnant ako since may previous history na ko and my ob gave me duphaston twice a day. i even went for APAS and LAT test sa PGH to determine if positive ba ko since miscarriage yun first baby ko and thank GOD negative naman so i'm so sad lang talaga na di sya nakasurvive.di ko na alam ang iisipin ko..good thing is i have my husband who is very supportive and positive na makakaya namin to and ibibigay din sya ni Lord in HIS time and sobrang malakas din ang support system na nabibigay ng family ko esp my mom..In HIS perfect time, dadating din ang mga angels na meant for us. HE was never late for anything, as i always said,  patience is a virtue =) wait lang tayo at yun blessing na yun is already on its way. AMEN!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sweetarwen07 on March 05, 2013, 10:03:34 pm
@bigdadis_girl sis, may marerecommend ba kayong OB for me, just like you, fetal demise din ang sabi at nawalan ng heartbeat ng 7 weeks.

di ko kasi alam kung bukod sa papaalaga ako sa OB, magpapa-accupunture din ako dahil manipis daw ang lining ko.  :(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bigdadis_girl on March 10, 2013, 01:03:12 am
^sis it would be better to have an OB na ma aalaga sayo.  para kung wala naman problema e pwede naman kayo mag try ulet.  Saka para alam mo na where and who to ask  kapag may nararamdaman ka.  I'm frequent na ngayon sa OB ko kasi nalaman ko I have PCOS.  I'm in he process of losing weight and see if magnormal cycle ulet ako and hopefully to conceive :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: tgf1016 on March 16, 2013, 01:09:38 pm
Hi mga sis... i just want typ share my experience last Dec 2011... i did not know that i was preggers that time... kamamatay lang ng dad ko nung Nov of the same year and nung may feeling ako i was pregnanti ahd myself checked and true enough na preggy nga ako but i did not know that i had a blighted ovum... for 3-4 weeks, i've been seeing my OB lagi nagpapa TVS (transvaginal u/z) to check if lumaki ba yung sac or may embryo na nabuo... but wala pa rin so i expelled everything Dec 27 while i was having a check-up sa OB ko... my Ob is a Ob Gyne Sonologist sa OGUSCA (OB Gyne Ultrasound Center Alabang) and puro mga pregnant ang katabi ko... just imagine yung mga katabi ko excited magpaultrasound tapos ako in pain na nun kasi that day pala duduguin nako ng husto and mailalabas ko na yung placenta... so i had to go to the CR that time and parang may malaking something na lumabas, i guess that was it... My OB did not want a D&C, binigyan lang ako ng methergine and gumaling naman nako... that year was one of tghe worst experiences i had in my life, from my father who died from cancer to my miscarriage... pero God always has His own way of making us feel better... I knnow he has never left my side... I told myself na i wouldn't be planning on having a baby soon, but i was blessed this time and i got pregnant last June 2012 at eto nanganak nako last March 5 with a healthy baby girl  ;D... My eldest was a boy and 6 yrs ang gap nila, now answered prayers uli ako kasi girl na sya this time...  pero yung recent pregnancy ko wasn't easy rin kasi i had a UTI nung first trimester ko, i was hospitalized and i had a very bad case of nausea which led my throat to scorch na and bleed... tapos i had early contractiond nung 2nd trimester ko, i was in bedrest for 2 weeks, pinatatake ako ng duvadilan para kumapit si baby... nung third trimester ko naging ok naman na ako pero i had to be induced this time kasi dilated nako then si baby mataas pa and yung cervix ko too thick pa, luckily when i was induced i was in labor for 7 hrs at nailabas ko ng normal si baby... everything will fall into place mga sis so don't lose hope... may mga times na bibigyan tayo ng mga trials na ganito but in time all wounds will be healed... i was down for a month nung nakunan ako kasi i was really happy nung nalaman ko i was pregnant ulimay plan talaga ang Diyos sa tin, so sa mga sissies na nakunan, just hold on and pray, your time will come din... God Bless  :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bigdadis_girl on March 18, 2013, 02:42:51 pm
^thank you sis sa mga na share mo, nakaka inspire talaga.  Inspire na ako mag exercise ngayon dati talaga sobrang tamad.  kelangan talaga alagaan ang sarili para maging ready ang body sa healthy pregnancy.

baby blessings to all!!!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: vuzhia on March 25, 2013, 09:37:34 am
hi sisses! LMP ko nung December 04, 2012, then punta ako ng OB ng January 17, 2013, preggy na nga daw ako, reseta na sya Folic Acid & Fish Oil pinabalik ako ng Feb.16 for ultrasound then sac lang nakita nya at wala ngang embryo pinababalik ako after 2 weeks for another ultrasound & confirm nga na blighted ovum, wait na lang daw muna namin lumabas anag sac naturally para hindi na ako d&C

then March 1, nag start na ako mag spotting, March 3 lumabas na yung sac, bumalik ako kay OB ng March 4 at completed abortion na daw ako, lumabas na yung sac and no need na ng d&c, na sad kami ni hubby kase 1st pregnancy namin ito, inisip na lang namin na hindi pa talaga time & ibibigay rin God yun sa tamang panahon, tutal nung December lang naman talaga kami nag TTC kase inuna muna naming makalipat ng house

ask namin si OB kung kailan ulit pwede kami mag TTC & after 6 months daw, yun daw ang ideal medyo natatagalan si hubby, kaya nga healthy living muna para preparation for another pregnancy

rant ko lang sisses yung mga taong nakapaligid sa amin, pinipilit naming maging positbo ni hubby lagi sa sitwasyon namin, kaso yung iba kung ano-ano sinasabi keso kawawa naman kami (hindi naman namin feel na kawawa kami) keso gumawa na daw ulit kase kung aantayin pa yung 6 mos minsan daw hindi agad nakakabuo...nakakainis lang

ngayun talaga tuwing pag gising ko iniisip ko talaga na happy ako parati, para good and positive vibes, Good Luck mga sisses!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: dec_girl on April 01, 2013, 08:22:12 pm
had a miscarriage during my 1st pregnancy back in 2002, abnormal development ng baby. kaya pala nung ultrasound ko, mahina heartbeat ng baby. on the 10th week, dun na nawala ang baby. na d& c ako. but my husband and i stayed positive despite our experience. i prayed for strength and asked God to grant us another child. now, i have 2 healthy kids, God's answer to my prayers.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: jhem31 on April 01, 2013, 09:00:32 pm
I was diagnosed with PCOS last 2010, hindi naman ako mataba, at wala akong acne, pero super abnormal ang period ko, minsan umaabot nang 9 months wala akong mens, at pag nag karon ako umaabot ng 1month bago mawala at sobrang lakas, bata pa daw ako nung nag pa check up ako kaya di ako niresetahan ng doktor, sabi niya bumalik nalang daw ako pag ready na ko mag ka baby kasi medyo mahal daw ang gamot. Last February 14, 2013 nag pa-check up ako kasi palagay ko kailangan ko na mag gamot dahil nahihirapan ako sa mens ko, pero nakita sa ultrasound ko na buntis ako, 1month na siya. Sobrang natuwa ako kasi sabi nang doktor ko dati mahihirapan daw ako mag kaanak kasi hindi nangingitlog ang ovary ko, so doble ingat ako, pinabalik ako ng doctor ko after 2 weeks, pero napaaga ang balik ko sa OB ko kasi dinudugo ako, vaginal bleeding daw, andun pa ang baby pero hindi alam ng doktor ko kung bakit walang development ang baby ko, binigyan nya ko ng duphaston, at pinababalik ako next week, sabi nya sakin pag next week at dinudugo pa rin ako at wala pa rin development ang baby ko hindi daw magtutuloy ang pag bubuntis ko, pero 3 araw bago ako bumalik dun, sobrang sakit ng puson ko at ang lakas ng bleeding ko, Dinala na nila ko sa ospital, at nung inultrasound ako wala na daw ang baby ko kailangan akong raspahin, March 1, 2013 ako naraspa, sobrang sakit hindi lang ako nagastusan ng malaki nawalan pa ako ng anak.

Kaya ako nag post dito dahil gusto kong humingi ng advice, tumigil na ang pag dudugo ko dulot ng D&C pero March 25, 2013 dinudugo na naman ako, parang mens kasi red talaga siya, normal ba na mag ka mens kagad ako kahit wala pang 1month nung naraspa ako?

Sana masagot niyo kasi nag aalala talaga ko, thanks.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: frapuccino on April 01, 2013, 11:06:03 pm
^sorry about your loss. :( Possible period na yan sis kasi it has been 28 days na since nung niraspa ka and you mentioned tumigil na yung bleeding mo then nagbleed ka ulit ng march 25.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: Beng01 on April 04, 2013, 12:51:02 pm
I lost it last January 18, 2013.

Nung nagpacheck up ako and ultrasound, diagnosis is ectopic :-(
That day din inooperahan ako, kaya I lost the 6-week embryo dahil kailangan tanggalin, nabuo siya sa right fallopian tube ko :-(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: jhem31 on April 04, 2013, 02:36:02 pm
Sabi sa blog na nabasa ko, pag nakunan ka malaki ang chance na mabuntis ka agad, pero malaki din ang possibility ng miscarriage, dapat 2 cycles muna ng mens bago ka mag plan na magka baby ulit. Minsan ang dahilan ng miscarriage ee mababa ang matres, di ko alam kung makakatulong ang hilot dun pero wala naman masama kung susubukan di ba? Basta bago kayo bumuo, dapat muna maging handa ka physically and emotionally para maiwasan na ang miscarriage. Dadating din ang baby natin sa tamang oras at panahon. Wag mawalan ng pag asa mga sis. God bless.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: wella on May 07, 2013, 09:00:16 am
Hello mga sis, I wanna share this article as this gave me hope and wisdom. I would say that despite of our loss, we are proud that once in our life we became parents even for a short time. Baby dust to all!

http://www.lifesitenews.com/blog/my-sibling-i-never-acknowledged?fb_action_ids=10151883729687796&fb_action_types=og.likes&fb_source=other_multiline&action_object_map=%7B%2210151883729687796%22%3A640847975941504%7D&action_type_map=%7B%2210151883729687796%22%3A%22og.likes%22%7D&action_ref_map=%5B%5D (http://www.lifesitenews.com/blog/my-sibling-i-never-acknowledged?fb_action_ids=10151883729687796&fb_action_types=og.likes&fb_source=other_multiline&action_object_map=%7B%2210151883729687796%22%3A640847975941504%7D&action_type_map=%7B%2210151883729687796%22%3A%22og.likes%22%7D&action_ref_map=%5B%5D)

Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: Jeannybaby on March 27, 2014, 12:44:00 am
Its been a long time since someone posted on this thread; but i just wanna share.. Im also diagnosed with blighted ovum; bHCG levels didnt go up, and im due for another ultrasound nxt week to confirm...  But OB said all my symptoms indicate blighted ovum; tapos almost everyday had brown discharge. supposed to be my first pregnancy so it's quite sad.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: GMGravity on March 27, 2014, 02:15:28 pm
Sabi sa blog na nabasa ko, pag nakunan ka malaki ang chance na mabuntis ka agad, pero malaki din ang possibility ng miscarriage, dapat 2 cycles muna ng mens bago ka mag plan na magka baby ulit. Minsan ang dahilan ng miscarriage ee mababa ang matres, di ko alam kung makakatulong ang hilot dun pero wala naman masama kung susubukan di ba? Basta bago kayo bumuo, dapat muna maging handa ka physically and emotionally para maiwasan na ang miscarriage. Dadating din ang baby natin sa tamang oras at panahon. Wag mawalan ng pag asa mga sis. God bless.

Iyan din madalas ko marinig kasi dahil nga daw nalinis sa loob. Ganyan nangyari sa sister in law ko last 2012. Around March confirmed na buntis siya pero parang nakunan siya mga 2 months after. Pero October that same year, buntis na siya ulit. Nagresign siya sa work niya kasi super tagtag siya sa biyahe and pagod. Naghanap na lang siya ng malapit sa house nila. So far, wala naman naging problema dire-diretso ang pagbubuntis niya.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: lakwatsa on March 27, 2014, 10:01:25 pm
just want to share din. i lost mine last Tuesday lang. honeymoon baby sana namin. :(

Monday last wk ang check up ko sa doc. supposed to be 6w3d na ko nun pero nun inultrasound nya ko 5w5d pa lang daw. tapos wala pang heartbeat pero may sac na. then ang medyo nakakaworry is dun sya sa tabi ng myoma (2cm) nabubuo. OB advised to repeat the ultrasound after 1-2wks to confirm fetal viability tapos folic acid lang yun nireseta nya. then play it by ear na lang daw kasi tabi nga ng myoma nabubuo. pero since mag a abroad pala sya, after 1 month na nya ko pinapabalik for ultrasound.

kaso nga lang last Sun around noon time, nagulat ako kasi nag brown spotting ako. eto yun pag nagwiwi ka at nagwipe ka ng tissue e may makikita kang kulay tan sa tissue. the next day around noon time ulit, i noticed may dark brown nang lumabas. dry sya so natakot ako. i checked the internet and sabi its old blood so should be nothing to worry. pero that same afternoon, bigla ko nafeel yun may lumabas, pagka cr ko mucus-like na sya tapos pag nadidikit sa tissue e nag iiwan na ng red marks.

note na i didn't feel any pain at all pero dahil may red na e scared na ko. so the following day, punta kami agad sa OB kaso wala sya so reliever lang yun nagcheck sa kin. that day, naging continuous na yun paglabas ng mucus-like red clots sa kin. everytime na nag wiwiwi ako sumasabay sya. i'm so scared na kasi sabi ko parang first day ng period ko lang ang nangyayari. although may hint na ako na nakukunan ako, at the back of my mind, parang di ko matanggap kasi wala naman akong nafeel na pain e.

pinaultrasound nya ako and di na nakita yun sac dun. pagka insert ng probe, naramdaman ko yun agos na talaga ng whole blood. sabi ko yun na yun. wala na yun baby. supposed to be, dapat malalaman na namin if may heartbeat na sya this week pero iba ang nangyari. pagbalik ko sa OB, ni-IE nya ako and more blood came out. inadvise nya ko to have D&C kasi daw pag hinayaan ko lang na natural lumabas e baka magtagal pa yun bleeding ko at saka meron at meron daw naiiwan sa loob so mas ok kung iraspa para mailabas lahat. that same day, i got admitted.

the doc couldn't tell if the miscarriage was due to the myoma or kung talagang hindi lang natuloy mag develop yun sac like blighted ovum ganun. :(

so ayun, my advise, if there is any blood, kahit anong kulay pa yan - tan, brown, black, maroon, red at kahit walang accompanying cramps or pain, punta na kayo agad sa OB to have it checked.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: dropdeaad on April 11, 2014, 01:48:39 am
It's been 4 months since makunan ako due to blighted ovum sobrang sakit sakin mawalan ng baby kasi parang tanggap ko na tsaka ng bf ko sabay hindi pala siya totally nabuo kaya pag may naririnig akong buntis or happy na nagbubuntis naiinggit ako kasicyung baby nila makapit eh. Pero hindi pa ako ready ule magkababy dami pang kailangan gawin pero 3 months nako delayed nagpipills naman ako kaso parang may gumagalaw na lagi sa tummy ko tas naninigas na lagi puson ko could i be pregnant again? Ayoko muna magpt kasi natatakot ako talaga eh :( baka preggy ule ako okay lang naman sakin kaso hirap magkababy pag wala pang stable na buhay.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: spaghetti on April 11, 2014, 07:50:58 am
Hi all...just want to share about my recent miscarriage experience...   :(
Mar21, I found that I was 4wks pregnant. A week after, we were told that the sac was not growing and my hcg levels were also low, so mag-expect na daw ako na magbleed.  I took another opinion from a different doctor and from their scan, they did not find any sac at all, which left me super heartbroken and confused.  So medyo tanggap ko na na wala na talaga until last Apr7 I had this terrible lower back pain.  I was rushed to the hospital and to make it short, the ultrasound found a 4wks 6days sac.   I thought it was a miracle.  But I was already having discharge so I was advised for bed rest.  Until the discharge became bleeding.  At first, I was in denial that it was blood already.  I have been reading millions of articles online and marami nagsabi na maybe it is an old blood.  Until Apr9, super sakit ng puson ko and I felt this huge clot came out from me.  I wasn't thinking right at that moment.  Nasa kamay ko yung big clot na parang dugo...and i was so scared I knew I lost the baby.  This was finally confirmed by the doctors sa ER.  But according to the scan I still have retained some in my uterus kaya I was prescribed Methergine.  Super sad ako and feeling weak, maybe because of the medicine.  I am still bleeding.  Ang hindi ko pa maintindihan is yung resident OB sa hospital did not even advise na magpahinga ako.  Parang hesitant pa sila magsabi kung ilan araw daw ako magpahinga.  My ob at that time was out of town kasi...

Super painful and traumatic yung experience ko.  I don't know how some people felt when they had natural miscarriage...if meron sa inyo, please share your experience.. Everytime naaalala ko yung blood sa kamay ko (almost the size of my palm), umiiyak ako...

Anyone please?  Nung nagmiscarriage ba kayo, how long kayo leave from work?  Did you avail of the maternity leave?  Ang dami ko iniisip ngayon and at the same time I am still grieving.  :(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sweetarwen07 on April 11, 2014, 11:11:15 am
Super worried here. This is my second baby. I lost my first baby last 2012.

Now, 15 weeks na ang second baby ko. Bigla ba naman ako nag spotting. My doc immediately advised me to take duphaston once a day and duvadila 3 times a day. Uminom na ko. Antay daw tumigil ang spotting. If not, mag leave ako 1 week sa work.

Cant help but worry na baka maulit miscarriage ko. Nag spotting din kasi ako dati, nagpa ultrasound ako that same day, at sabi wala na daw heartbeat baby.

Sana wag ba maulit. :(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: dropdeaad on April 11, 2014, 01:52:15 pm
Ako sis galing ako natural miscarriage last december dapat 11 weeks na ata akong preggy pero mga november palang may spotting nako pinatake ako ng duphaston non and bedrest pero after 3 weeks bigla nalang ako dinugo na parang mens bali 3 days lumakas dugo ko tapos nung pinaultrasound ako gestational sac lang meron at 4 weeks bigla kasi nung una 5 weeks na eh kaya medyo malabo na meron kaya pinastop nadin ako sa duphaston tapos mas lumakas na bleeding ko then nung saturday noon after ko magpacheck bigla nalang akong dinudugo ng malakas tas may kasamang lower back pain tapos ilang minutes palang humilab na yung puson ko sumabay pa yung poop ko kaya hndi ko maiere ng maayos baka kasi sumabay yung dugo then after noon lumalabas na yung mga blood clots tapos yung sac nya na puti na laman after noon narelieve na yung pain pero andyan padin yung bleeding. Pinaparaspa ako ng ob ko nun kaso ayoko takot ako sa raspa tapos pinainom nalang ako methergine then after a week nawala na bleeding ko tas okay na. Bali 2 weeks ako hndi nakapasok buti nalang xmas vacation na non.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: lakwatsa on April 12, 2014, 10:21:37 am
mga sis sabi ng doc, mas ok iraspa kasi pag natural lang, meron at meron daw naiiwan sa loob ng uterus at possible malason ka pa daw sa ganun. kapag niraspa, dun lang nakukuha lahat so magiging clean yun uterus mo. saka pag natural lang daw kasi di mo alam kelan titigil ang bleeding e.
yun pagraspa naman ginagawa din sya minsan to stop abnormal bleeding o di kaya para alisin yun nabubuong polyps. hindi naman sya masakit mga sis kasi under anesthesia ka naman. nun nagising ako noon done na sya e. tapos pinainom lang ako ng medicines after. yun bleeding naman mahina lang. pantyliner lang keri na.

@sweetarwen07, rest ka sis. pray at iwasan mag worry. baka makatulong kausapin si baby na kapit lang sya. past 1st trimester ka na naman e di ba so dapat wala na yun mataas na risk ng miscarriage.

@dropdeaad, sis buti yun sa u nalaman na blighted ovum. yun akin di na nalaman kung ano cause e. lakasan mo loob mo sis at mag PT ka. pero kung nagpipills ka naman, di ba mas delikado yun kung may nabuo? pa-check up ka na agad sa OB sis. kaya mo yan. be strong.

@spaghetti, entitled ka sa maternity leave sis. 60days yun. if you are an employee, claim mo yun. right mo yun e. yun OB ko mismo nagsabi nyan. ayoko nga sana kasi SSS lang ang sweldo pero kelangan din ng katawan natin magpahinga. saka kahit ok na physically, emotionally kelangan din natin magrest at matanggap yun nangyari.

isipin na lang natin na hindi "perfect" yun little one kaya di sya itinuloy ni Lord na ibigay sa tin. sabi kasi nila minsan chromosomal abnormalities kaya hindi tumutuloy ang development e. so love pa rin tayo ni Lord kasi ayaw nya tayo mahirapan :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sweetarwen07 on April 12, 2014, 12:56:42 pm
Salamat @lakwatsa. Puro positive thoughts lang. So far, nag stop na bleeding. May konting cramping lang. Hopefully pati itong cramping wala na today.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: spaghetti on April 14, 2014, 02:00:26 pm
thank you @lakwatsa... marami nga nagsasabi na I need to rest.  in denial kasi siguro ako kaya iniisip ko kaya ko na magwork after holy week...but yes, i will take my maternity leave.. para sa akin din naman iyon..

salamat uli..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ms_babhie_anne28 on August 05, 2014, 11:23:13 am
I just had my d&c last July 21. He is supposedly our first baby. Sobrang saya ni bf that time. My LMP was March 8. My first ultrasound was perfect. Teary-eyed pa bf ko when he heared the heartbeat. Then we got so busy mag-asikaso sa wedding namin. I had no symptoms at all-- no pain, no bleeding/spotting. So I thought everything's well with our baby. 1 week after our wedding, we went to my OB for my 2nd prenatal check-up. She tried to listen for my baby's heartbeat using the doppler twice. Magkaibang doppler pa ginamit niya but wala talaga. So nagpa-ultrasound kami right away but unfortunately, wala talagang heartbeat si baby. And he's a baby boy pa naman. I was 14wks then. Sobrang humagulgol ako nun habang inuultrasound. Para akong binuhusan ng malamig na tubig. Ang daming tumatakbo sa isip ko. I'm a doctor. And that time, I kept on saying to the sonologist na baka anjan lang yung heart, kahit na nakikita ko at nagegets ko sa ultrasound na wala talaga. Parang nawala lahat ng mga inaral ko. Ang dami kong tanong... Laging bakit bakit bakit. Sobrang sakit kasi I never imagined in my entire life na mangyayari sakin to. Then fear came in, knowing na mararaspa ako. Since I'm a doctor, too much knowledge can make you praning. Iyak ako ng iyak. Tinitingnan ako ng mga nakapila sa ultrasound at tinitingnan ko sila, tinatanong ko sa sarili ko "bakit nangyari sakin to?" Dati pag may mga patients kami na nakukunan, they would cry, minsan natatanong ko sa sarili ko na "ano kayang nararamdaman nila? bakit sila naiiyak eh di pa naman nila nakikita at nakakasama ang baby?" Now I fully understand how it feels. Pag nanay ka pala, mararamdaman mo. Siguro painful man, pero madami akong natutunan... as a doctor and as a patient. This also made me and my husband become closer and stronger.  Siguro masasabi kong nakapag-move on ako after ko ma-d&c. We waited kasi. Usapan namin ng OB ko na wait namin mag-pass out naturally kasi I really don't want to undergo d&c. So we waited almost 2 weeks before I finally decided magpa-admit. Then naadmit ako and naginduce. But ayaw mag-open talaga ang cervix ko and di ako nagbbleed. Laging spotting lang... After 1 week na stay sa hospital, nagdecide ako magpa-d&c. Ayun... Ngayon, I'm praying and hoping na ma-bless kami and I'm willing to do and give-up anything, mairaos ko lang ng maayos ang next pregnancy ko.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: lakwatsa on August 05, 2014, 12:47:45 pm
^hugs sis. :( what week daw nagstop ang development ni baby?

wala ka bang pregnancy symptoms na naramdaman before tapos yun tipong biglang nawala? minsan daw kasi ganun e. wala kang usual miscarriage symptoms pero yun pregnancy symptoms mo biglang mawawala.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ms_babhie_anne28 on August 05, 2014, 03:42:58 pm
When we learned na wala na si baby, supposedly 17wks and 6 days ako by LMP. Sa ultrasound, he stopped developing at 16wks and 5 days. Medyo naglessen ang pregnancy symptoms ko except sa breast tenderness ko na persistent parin. That time na di ko pa alam na nawalan na sya ng heartbeat, di ko naman inisip na naglessen na pregnancy symptoms ko baka wala na si baby. Nakalabas na din kasi ako almosy sa 1st tri kaya I thought baka dahil dun... haay.

Sana masundan agad. Ang hirap magmove on. Feeling ko makakapag-move on lang ako pag preggy na ulit ako.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: lakwatsa on August 05, 2014, 05:05:28 pm
^awww ang sad naman. pinacheck nyo sis kung ano naging cause ng miscarriage? sabi kasi sa mga nababasa ko kapag first trimester e chromosomal related sya kadalasan pero kapag 2nd trimester daw nangyari, possible may problem daw sa mommy like thyroid issues, infection, etc at yun ang nagtrigger.

don't lose hope sis. rest ka lang muna and pray lagi. mas mabilis ka mabubuntis nyan kasi naraspa ka.  ;)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: monamie02 on August 05, 2014, 05:30:47 pm
hi mga sis, share ko lang ang miscarriage ko..nung May pa ako nagbleeding at nagbabasa basa ng mga thread tungkol sa pregnancy at miscarriage dito pero now ko lang nakita tong thread na ito.

March 23 2014 nang ng PT ako at positive ang result pero nagpacheck up ako april 2 or 4 sa PGH kasi malapit lang sa work ko . 7w3d by LMP. then inischedule ako for some laboratory pero hindi ako sinabihan na magpaultrasound..ang laboratory ko ay april 24 at ang ang result un ay May 2 na babasahin kasabay na din ng 2nd monthly check up.

May 02 2014 2nd check uo ko 8am nasa PGH na ko at natawag ako ng doctor around 12 or 1 pm na sa dami ng pila , okey naman daw ang lahat ng result sa lab, normal lahat. Niresetahan na ko ng mga vitamins at sinabihan na magpaultrasound para malaman kung ilang weeks na talaga ang baby. Pumila pa din ako sa ultrasound ng PGH ng hapon na un kahit sinabihan na ako na baka abutin ng 7pm dahil sa dami na din n nagpapaultrasound. Here comes may turn para sa transvaginal ultrasound mga 6pm na un. Nagtataka ako bakit ang tagal magsalita ng doctora at parang hindi okey yung mukha nya.. tapos nagtawag pa sya ng co-doctors nya sa loob ng room na yun para ipakita yung monitor, mga 4 na doctor na yng tumingin at saka pa lang ako nagtanong kung may problema ba, at yun nga wala daw heartbeat ang baby ko. hindi na daw nagtuloy ang progress ng heart nya at 7weeks . Nashock ako talaga, sapo ko noo ko habang nakahiga pa sa bed at nagiisip bakit nangyari yun.. may mali ba akong nagawa.. sabi ng doc hindi naman daw un sa dahil may nagawa ako.. normal naman daw na minsan hindi talaga nagtutuloy ang progress ng heart marami na rin daw ganoong kaso. Minsan daw sa make-up ng genes (hindi ko na matandaan ang tamang term na sinabi nya). Sabi nya irerefer nya na daw ako sa OB ER para macheck up ako at maresetahan ng gamot o kung kelangan na iraspa . Nung nakaupo na ko at naghihintay nung resulta sumakto pa na bumuhos yung malakas na malakas na ulan di ko tuloy mapaigilan na umiiyak kahit na may nakakakita sakin na mga doctor.. sa isip isip apra ba namang nananadya yung langit sinabayan pa yung iyak ko. Buti nalang yung doktora kinausap muna ako,nakisimpatya sa nararanasan ko nung mga oras na yun.  Hindi ko alam pano ko sasabihin yun sa hubby ko. Nagpasundo ako sa kanya, dun na nya ko pinuntahan sa OBAS ER mga 7 pm at doon ko na din  sinabi sa kanya yung result ng ultra.Nung nasa ER ako ni IE pa ako ng doctor para tignan kung open na cervix ko pero hindi pa daw open. Dun na ko nahimasmasan at tanong na ako ng  tanong  doctor kung anong mangyayari sa akin at sa baby ko.. Sigurado ba talga na tama ang nakikita sa ultrasound?Iraraspa na ba ko?Kelangan na ba talaga o baka pwede pa namang maghintay ng ilang weeks o months kasi baka may himala pa at magkaheartbeat pa ulit.. kaso ang sagot saken eh hindi naman daw maglalabas ang doctor ng ultrasound result kung hindi talga sila sigurado kaya yun sumunod nalang ako. Kinuhanan ako ng dugo for lab ulit para check kung infected na yung dugo ko or hindi. 12mn na lumabas ang result sa dami ng pasyenteng nila. Normal ang result kaya niresetahan na ko ng evening primrose oil at isang pang gamot (nakalimutan ko na name) good for 3 days para magopen daw cervix. pinababalik din ako after 3 days ff up check up pero pag may naramdaman daw na pananakit ng puson o hilab o may pagdudugo o pag nilagnat ng wala pang 3 days balik na ko agad sa kanila.

May 3 2014 nagpasecond opinion pa kami sa healthway at nagpaultrasound ulit pero same result pa din. No heartbeat. May 5 balik ako ulit sa PGH, ni- IE ulit at tanong about sa mga symptoms pero normal lahat.

May 8 ff check ulit at laboratory , normal result pa din sa dugo ko.
 
May 11 dapat ang ff up check ko pero hindi ako ako nakapunta kasi mas pinili namin ng hubby ko na umatend sa church anniversary ng tita at tito nya (christian kasi sila pati si hubby) pinagpray over din nila ako.
May 12 ako nagpunta sa PGH para ff up check up. Akala ko hindi mapapansin na the past day talaga ang original na check up day  at yun medyo pinagalitan ako habang ni-ie ako ng doctor feeling ko tuloy ang sakit sakit that time ng IE. after few minutes sinabihan ako na dahil one week na kong nagtatake ng gamot at close pa din ang cervix ko kelangan ko na magundergo ng D&C pero dahil sa sobra dami nilang pasyente na buntis at mga nanganganak nung araw na un eh kelangan na nila ako irefer sa ibang ospital. binigyan lang nila ako ng referal form at yung records ng check up ko.  tapos the next day May 13 nagpunta na akong mother & child hospital (Jose abad santos hospital na sya ngayon) . nung kinausap ako ng ob at ni-ie close pa din nga daw ang cervix ko , binigyan nya ako ng dalawang option;

OPTION 1 may ilalagay daw sila sa loob ko na maliit na parang kahoy daw na once nailagay sa loob kusang nageexpand at magoopen ang  cervix at iraraspa na ako.

OPTION 2 yung tinetake ko na evening primrose oil imbis na inumin eh ilalagay sa loob ng puerta ko every night (dapat 2 times a day pero dahil nagwowork ako once na lang every night nalang kasi pag nakatayo ka daw may tendency na umagos palabas yung oil, masasayang lang) wait daw ako within the week na ginagawa ko yun dapat magbleeding na daw ako pero kapag wala pa din saka na ako magisip kung gagawin ko na ba talaga yung OPTION 1. Pinili ko kasi yung Option 2 dahil ayoko talaga magparaspa dahil sa mga naririnig kong kwento tungkol sa raspa at ang gastos na din plus sinabi din sa akin ng ob na kapag ni raspa ka hindi naman sure na sa isang procedure lang nila eh matatanggal nila lahat kasi hindi daw nila nakikita yung kinakayud nila kumbaga naghuhula lang daw sila, so kapag nagpaultrasound ako ulit at may nakita pang tira iraraspa daw ulit ako..ang masama lang daw nun yung effect na nagkakascar (plus another gastos ulit)

Then came May 18, pero wait may side story lang muna ko kasi May 17 was my bday and nagpromise si hubby na may date kami ng gabi na yun pero dahil naaya sya ng isang kaopisina na bday din ng anak na pumunta dun sa kanila kasi naghanda daw at saka matagal na syang inaaya nun, yun di kami natuloy at ako iyak ng iyak magdamag pero nagsorry naman sya at sabi nya babawi sya the next day May 18. at ito nga the next day dapat mga 5pm kami aalis. pero mga 4 pm palang may  spotting na ko at parang may pananakit ng puson , yung feeling na magkakaroon ka ng period tapos un na paunti unti dumadami na ang paglabas ng dugo (dahil ata sa stress ko sa kakaiyak nung nakaraang gabi kaya lumabas na din sya). the next day pa ko bumalik sa ospital May 19 yun. Nung una sinabi pa na iraraspa pa din ako, nashock ako , sabi ko tuloy "doc talaga po bang kelangan iraspa kahit na may lumabas na po?Nasapo ko naman po yung isa sa lumabas." Tas chineck nya yung dala ko na nakalagay sa container tapos inadvise nya ako na magpa  ultrasound ulit para makita kung may natira pa at ang result sa ultrasound maliit na maliit na lang na kayang kaya na daw ng gamot na palabasin un. (deep in side na pa Thank you talaga ako kay GOd  kasi nakaraos na ko kahit papano). May nireseta ulit na gamot sakin tatlong klase. mga 1 week din ang bleeding pero patagal ng patagal pakonti ng pakonti sya.two weeks na pahinga ang sinabi sakin pero hindi ko sya nasunod. Mga 9 days palang pumasok na ko agad sa office tinapos ko lang yung pag file ko sa sss (self employed kasi ako)

 Tapos month of June meron na ko agad period pero nung july hindi ako dinatnan at kahapon lang saktong 12noon nakaramdam ako ng konting hilo at feeling na nasusuka. May pakiramdam ako na meron na ulit kaming nabuo pero kinakabahan ako kasi parang masyado pang maaga since nagmiscarriage ako last may lang. ang mga nababasa ko kasi atleast 2 cycle ng menstration bago magpabuntis ulit. pero si hubby nung sinabi ko sa kanya kagabi yung nangyari saakin nung tanghali eh tuwang tuwa sya buntis na daw ako ulit  :) :).. pero ako medyo kinakabahan pa din.. iniisip ko sana wag naman mangyari ulit yung katulad sa 1st pregnancy ko.  iiwas na din ako na matagtag na gawain . noong una kasi 1st month ng pregnancy ko lagi kami nasa byahe. baka may factor din yun kaya nawalan ng heatbeat unang baby ko..

Please bare with the super long post po.  :(  :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: dropdeaad on August 05, 2014, 06:00:28 pm
^congrats sis. Wag kang magworry mas magiging okay yan. Basta ingatan mo lang si baby at alagaan mo sarili mo, ako nga nakunan last dec 07 tapos ngayon 34 weeks pregnant nako. Ilang tumbling nalang makakasama ko na si baby :) at nalaman ko pang preggy ako noon nasa 18 weeks nako, lagi din akong natatadtad sa byahe noon first tri ko dahil sa school works pero sobrang kapit ni baby na hindi talaga ako pinabayaan. Ngayon napakahealthy ng pregnancy ko kahit hndi ko ganoon naalagaan noong una.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: monamie02 on August 05, 2014, 07:27:27 pm
Thank you sis dropdeaad!

Sana nga maging okey na lahat if ever. Dis time alam ko na din ang mga dapat at hindi dapat sa dami ng mga nababasa ko dito sa Femalenetwork (ang laking tulong din ng mga nababasa ko dito) . Mas magiging maingat at maalaga na ko para sa aming dalawa  :) :)  Congrats din sayo malapit na kayo makita ni baby mo ;)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: dropdeaad on August 06, 2014, 12:18:42 am
^oo nakakatulong talaga tong thread eh. Hehe! Ako nga naisip ko kasi nung unang pregnancy ko masyado kong inalagaan kaya feeling ko naMC ako kasi yung ngayon mas tadtad ako sa byahe noon tapos sobrang stress naranasan ko pero thank God malapit lapit nadin ako sa finish line. :) always think positive at monitor mo lagi si baby mabilis lang lumaki si baby.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ms_babhie_anne28 on August 07, 2014, 11:26:44 am
Laking tulong nga nitong GT kasi nalalabas nating mga nararamdaman natin. hehe. Ako medyo ok na. Excited na rin ako maging preggy ulit. Pero ayoko muna isipin masyado kasi baka ma-stress ako. Medyo nakakalungkot lang everytime mag-oopen ako ng FB may makikita akong mga posts from my pregnant friends. Siguro mga 7 kami na kakilala ko na magkakabatch sana na due this December. Tapos ako nakunan... Imagine yung pain na nararamdaman ko pag nagpopost sila about their pregnancy with ultrasound pics pa. But I'm happy for them. Masakit lang talaga tingnan... haay.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: monamie02 on August 07, 2014, 11:38:16 am
sis ms_babhie_anne28 same tayo ng feeling tungkol dun sa mga nakikita natin sa FB na mga naglalagay ng pictures/status tungkol sa pregnancy nila o kaya mga nanganak na..ang dami din kasi sa mga fb friends ko na nagbuntis sunod sunod.. meron pa mga kambal.. nakakainggit pero okey lang magkakaroon din ako soon. hihi :D
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Post by: eleine26 on August 07, 2014, 03:17:57 pm
sis ms_babhie_anne28 and monamie02 ganyan din ako. dati natutuwa ako or deadma lang sa mga posts ng friends ko about pregnancy and baby. ngayon may halo inggit na. tas parang nakikita ko sa paligid eh mga buntis. ano ba to?!hahahaha. pero last week na nagpacheck up tas may nakita ako buntis, hinde ko talaga mapigilan naiyak ako. kasi andun yung thought na sana ganun na din ako eh. hayyy  :'( :'( :'(

nag mc ako last July 25, 7 weeks. honeymoon baby sana namin. kaya sobrang lungkot namin ni hubby. tas yung kabahay ko buntis din, 2 weeks lang pagitan namin. siguro dahil may pagkabitter pa ako sa nangyari. ayoko siya makita. siya nagprogress ang pregnancy sabay sa akin hinde nagtuloy. siguro gaya ng iba, makakamove on lang ako kapag nabuntis ako ulet.

pray lang tayo mga sis. sana healthy at wala na complications next pregnancy naten.  :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: preggygielian on August 07, 2014, 03:37:48 pm
Hi mga sis! Ako nagka-missed miscarriage last year, ang walang kasymptom symptom na may problema na pala. :( Nung 6th week ko nun, yung baby measuring 5 weeks lang so baka late lang ako nagovulate diba...pero nung pagkabalik ko after 10 days, hindi na naggrow yung fetus beyond 6w4d eh dapat 8 weeks na ako nun. Ang meron lang ako, light brown spotting na nababasa ko eh normal lang naman daw kung walang kasamang cramping. nag D&C ako within that week, hindi pa siya sobrang sakit sakin nun kasi sabi namin magtry lang kami, pag merong nabuo, edi meron, pag wala, edi wala.

Kaso pagkatapos nung D&C ko, nagtry ulit kami mga Christmas time, wala...by February nadepress na ako kasi may mga kaibigan ako sa FB na buntis..waaaah! kaya ini-start na ako ng OB ko sa metformin saka clomid kasi may PCOS ako at hindi pala ako nagoovulate kaya di ako mabuntis! kaloka! Ayun, after 4 cycles of clomid, by 2014 Father's day (June 15), pregnant na! :)

Ang mga binago ko nun, nagpahilot ako nung April sa probinsya, healthier diet, kick boxing 3-4x a week, saka sex every other day from day 10 - 20 :)

Baby dusts to everyone! I'm 11w4d today and paranoid everyday! haha! :) Excited to meet our rainbow baby on Feb 2015.
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Post by: monamie02 on August 07, 2014, 04:28:53 pm
Congrats sayo sis preggygielian..

ako man din pala dati mapa sa jeep o makasalubong sa daan din puro buntis o di kaya may kargang baby.. para bang nananadya hehe
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Post by: preggygielian on August 08, 2014, 02:10:12 pm
Congrats sayo sis preggygielian..

ako man din pala dati mapa sa jeep o makasalubong sa daan din puro buntis o di kaya may kargang baby.. para bang nananadya hehe

Thank you sis! :) Nako naexperience ko din yan..para bang lahat nalang ng makasalubong buntis or may anak or may stroller hehe
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Post by: ms_babhie_anne28 on August 08, 2014, 04:59:54 pm
Akala ko nag-iisa ako sa ganitong feeling. Yung bang pag nakakakita ako sa FB ng posts at pics ng ultrasound, naninikip dibdib ko. Umiiyak parin ako pag mag-isa ako. Kasi iniisip ko, bakit sila ok bakit ako hindi. Hay.

Hindi pa ako nagmemens kasi last July lang ako na-D&C. May konting konting spotting pa ako. Pero konti lang. I hope masundan agad. Let's all be positive na lang! :)
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Post by: dropdeaad on August 08, 2014, 07:30:31 pm
Ako din noon naiiyak ako pag nakakita ako na buntis na nagpopost sa fb nanghihinayang Ako even my aunt na nag announce na buntis umiyak ako pero laking gulat ko mauuna pa pala ako manganak sa tita ko hehe.

Basta mga sissies tiwala lang magkakaroon kayo malay niyo wala pang isang cycle may baby ule, basta faith lang :)
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Post by: ms_babhie_anne28 on August 09, 2014, 10:20:23 am
Sana magdilang anghel ka @dropdead. :)
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Post by: monamie02 on August 11, 2014, 03:10:45 pm
Update:
Last saturday mga 1pm after work bumili ako ng PT kit  para sa sunday morning gamitin ko.  Pero saturday afternoon around 4pm palang may brownish na something sa undies ko. Akalako ito yung tinatawag nilang spotting isip ko tuloy may miscarriage na anman ba ako? After ko maglinis ng katawan chineckko ulit pero meron pa din at padami n ng padami. Sabi ko kay hubby hindi ko alam kungperiod ko ba to o iba na to. At saka magppt pa din ako early morning para pag positive papacheckup ako agad kasi baka nga may nagyayari nanaman sa baby ko. The next morning nag pt ako at negative ang result tapos tuloy tuloy na ang Mens ko..mukhang sobrang excited ko eh nakalimutan ko na 35days nga pala ang cycle ko kaya ang tagal dumating ng period ko.. Gagawa na alang ulit kami nexttime hihi ..think positive pa din mga sis.. :)
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Post by: junnyjeen on September 13, 2014, 08:40:31 pm
Hi mga sis! I'm new here. This afternoon I was told by my OB that I have a small uterus and the only way I can have a baby is thru IVF and a surrogate mother. Also, she wants me to have 1st degree amenorrhea karyotyping test. Meron po bang may idea how it is done? I feel a bit scared of all the information that I've got from my OB today :(
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Post by: lakwatsa on September 13, 2014, 09:30:06 pm
^sis, try to get a second opinion muna bago maniwala sa sinabi ni first OB. :)
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Post by: junnyjeen on September 14, 2014, 01:42:39 pm
Nag research ako sa internet and mas lalo akong kinabahan na baka may Turner's Syndrome ako. If ito talaga yung mali sa system ko then, wala na kong chance magkaron ng baby :(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: i_v_y on September 16, 2014, 12:24:44 am
i have had 2 miscarriages in the past, one was blighted ovum, then fetal demise.

mga sis, one thing ive learned from my miscarriages is that, there is nothing we can do to prevent a miscarriage. If it is a bound to happen, it will happen. Maraming reasons, maybe the egg that got fertilized was not good and miscarriage is our body's natural way of getting rid of something that is going to be bad.
Unless may diagnosed with APAS or other syndrome that can be treated through therapy.

I am currently pregnant now, at last saturday nakita ko ang heartbeat nia, 6wks 1 day sia nung sat. Then pag uwi nung gabi, meron akong faint spotting until today. No cramping. Ayoko maging nega kasi masstress lang ako which will not help. I read naman that many early pregnancies, nagsspotting naman at it turned out okay naman. So for now, relax lang muna.
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Post by: ms_babhie_anne28 on September 16, 2014, 11:00:17 am
UPDATE:

I underwent REPEAT D&C last September 2 kasi may retained products of conception parin ako na hindi nakuha ng unang doctor na nag-D&C sakin.

Here's the story. Diba nagmiscarriage ako then nag-D&C last July 21. After that, nagspotting ako for a few days then after 5 days post D&C nagbleed ako. Malakas with severe cramping. Went back to may doctor and she just gave me Methergin. I asked her if need magpa-ultrasound sabi niya no need. After that unti unti nabawasan yung bleeding but the spotting never stopped. Actually medyo nagtataka na ako. I know there's something wrong but she just keeps on saying na it's normal daw. Eh syempre I have to trust her kasi she was the one who did the procedure and she's my OB. But 5 weeks after the D&C lumakas na naman yung bleeding. At first I thought it was my menstruation, but nagdoubt ako kasi super lakas. Then I insisted na magpa-ultrasound. There may nakita na mass inside my uterus. The sonologist came with an ultrasound report as "Retained Products of conception vs Gestational Trophoblastic Tumor vs Other uterine pathology". When my OB saw the UTZ report, sabi niya she will refer me to an OB/Gyne Oncologist daw kasi I have a tumor. Parang di niya matanggap na possible na may naiwan nga. I was crying sobra yung iyak ko kasi I don't know why is this happening. Sabi pa nya if it's a tumor daw magchemo kami. So the following day I had may Serum Beta-HCG checked. If it's unusually high, it could be a tumor. My HCG was 9.31 (normal is less than 2). So since mataas ang HCG ko, she was thinking talaga na it might be a tumor. But I'm really not convinced. I even asked her if raraspahin nya ako. But parang wala sa plans nya. So, through God's guidance I decided to seek another OB. My 2nd OB immediately did a D&C to me (since I had a very high risk for infection na since the retained products had been there for more than a month already), this time the D&C was ultrasound guided. And then she gave me lots of antibiotics. Ang dami niyang nakuhang retained! Shocked sya ngayon lang daw sya nakaexperience ng ganun. It could have cost me my life and fertility! Biopsy result came after a week and indeed it was a product of conception.

I was very disappointed with mu previous doctor. It was very emotionally draining. Imagine, you lost your baby, then you think nakasurvive ka with your D&C and then sasabihan ka na baka magchemo ka for ilang months kasi may tumor ka. Buti na lang I'm also a doctor kaya I really know there is something not right about my body and about her impression. What if hindi ako doctor? Ano na kaya nangyari sakin? That was negligence on her part but i just don't want to make a big deal out of it coz she's a colleague. Sorry haba ng post.
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Post by: ms_babhie_anne28 on September 16, 2014, 11:05:06 am
By the way, my HCG was high but wasn't high enough to consider a tumor. Usually kung tumor, thousands and taas. Mine was just 9.31 and ot could have been due to kakaraspa ko lang 5 weeks prior. And maybe because may naiwan pa kaya di bumaba. Ewan ko ba bakit di niya matanggap na posibleng may naiwan. Eh kung nagtiwala lang ako sa kanya eh di bala nagchechemo. More harm pa gagawin niya. Haay. I learned a lot from my experience. As a doctor and as a patient.
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Post by: lakwatsa on September 16, 2014, 12:42:37 pm
^ay grabe naman yan sis! pwedeng idemanda ng malpractice yang OB na yan. pano na nga lang kung wala talagang idea at sunod lang sa chemo na suggestion di ba? grabeng damage - emotionally and financially ang dinulot nya tsk tsk.
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Post by: ms_babhie_anne28 on September 16, 2014, 01:02:59 pm
Yes sis. Ang laki ng nagastos namin. Doble yung gastos para na rin akong nanganak. Ang akin lang, buti may idea ako coz I'm a doctor too. What if wala akong idea... Baka kung ano na nangyari sakin ayoko isipin. Haay.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: Ms. Right on November 22, 2014, 02:15:50 am
Nawala at around 8 weeks (based on my LMP). By the time na nagtvs, wala na talagang nakita and i was bleeding profusely for 3 days before that. Wala akong time magpacheck up nun kasi hell week sa school. Hay. I had my d&c last nov. 10 at a lying in clinic. After nun, pinaubos lang yung methergine na good for 2 days and mydoxyl. Wala nang bleeding ngayon pero may brown discharge na konti. Maliban sa financial issues, ang sakit rin sa loob. Naging pabaya kasi ako eh.
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Post by: airwaterfire on January 15, 2015, 12:20:58 am
LMP - october 19
Confirmed Pregnant- Nov 19
Blood test for SSS- Nov 22
First Prenatal since Saturday para walang absent- Nov 22
First TVS- Dec 16, normal including heartbeat except sa subchorionic hemo na almost 2cm
2nd Prenatal- Dec 20- di pa narinig sa dopler ang hb kaya ang tvs result ang base namin
Last week of dec(dec 28) biglang naramdaman kong nawala ang nausea at vomiting ko. Sobra kasi ang pagsusuka ko kaya bakasyon ako that time almost 2 weeks para makapagpahinga. Yon lang kasi solution para di mailabas foods, higa after eating

Dec 30- I had premonition, sa mga naniniwala lang. Parang bangungot. Kinapa ko agad ang tummy ko kasi sa dream ko parang totoo nga nanganak na ako at patay daw. I prayed. Di kasi ako nakatulog that night dahil sobrang lakas ng hangin plus ulan dahil sa bagyo. Kaya akala ko dahil sa sobrang pagod lang yong masamang panaginip.

Until bumalik kami ng city at back to work na wala na talaga symptoms ko. Di narin sore ang breasts lalo na pag nag dede ang daughter ko(i did not stop bfd'ng kasi nga normal at wala ako contraction).

I never realized na yung parang nigas ng puson at medyo cramp sa balakang parang symptom na siya. Akala ko kasi dahil lang sa stress ako dahil nagalit etc. Di ko rin inakala na kaya bigla nawala morning sickness ko dahil wala na pala. Kanina lang lahat nag sink.

After ng tvs, tinanong ko pa ang sono kung pwede pa ba ibalik ang heartbeat at bakit nawala. Sabi ni sono ang ob ko na daw mag explain. Dapat 12weeks 3 days na ngayon pero 8weeks 2 days lang ang fetus based sa crl niya. Good thing di ako nagpackage delivery. Mahirapan sana ako dahil sa ob ko anytime pwede ko siya kontakin.

Parang mahirap parin tanggapin pero inisip ko nalang na may dahilan kaya nawala. At pinaparamdam na pala ako noong time na nawala na si baby. Now, waiting ako within 4 weeks na ma expel naturally ang fetus at placenta then labtests and tvs ulit tsaka mag work up kami bakit ako nakunan. Pinapainom narin si husband ng folic.

Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: preggygielian on January 15, 2015, 12:19:03 pm
@airwaterfire: *tight hugs* sis! So sorry for your loss. :( Sis bakit daw ang tagal bago i-expel? Yung akin kasi nun, Monday nalaman ko na wala na, binigyan na ako ng pang expel then nung di naexpel by the next day, nagpa-admit na ako sa hospital (afternoon ng Tuesday) then Wednesday, binigyan ulit ako pampa-expel and still nothing kaya Thursday night nag D&C na ako. I'm just thinking na torture yun (for me ha!) na andyan pa (pero wala na)...that time, I want it out para makapagstart na ako magrecover then magtry na ulit.

Hugs sis!!! Mahirap pero kaya mo yan, surround yourself with people who love you. :) Recover then try again. Ang mantra ko nun: I am not infertile, we can try again. Took a while plus 4 cycles of clomid pero nangyare siya. I hope you'll recover soon and be able to conceive this year para may baby na this year or early next year! :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: airwaterfire on January 15, 2015, 03:51:44 pm
^
Sabi ng OB di muna kami mag gamot dahil pag ganitong case na di sinasadya lalabas daw ng kusa. Within 4 weeks ng nalaman namin. Matagal na ang 4 weeks. Ganoon din sabi ng kapatid ko na nurse/midwife at ng head midwife niya kusa daw lalabas ang fetus. O nga, prolonging the agony pero ayaw ko namang magpa admit kasi may 4 year old din ako.

Thank you.
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Post by: arragalang on January 16, 2015, 07:06:10 pm
Hi mommies,

sorry for all of your lost. I would just like to be knowledgeable pagdating sa mga ganitong bagay kasi ayoko ri naman maparanoid and of course para ready.

I'm just 14 weeks pregnant and at this time may possibility pa ba na ma mc ako? The last time I visited my OB she tried to hear the baby's heartbeat through a doppler and she told me not to be disappointed pag wala akong narinig pero at leats dapat meron kahit mahina kasi mapayat daw ako. And yes, super thin ako and even now parang hindi ako preggy although napapansin ko naman na tight ang puson ko.

The last time naman I had my ultrasound is nung 9 weeks palang ako and they doctor said okay naman. Pero eto pa rin ako mejo paranoid kasi how will I know if okay si baby ko or hindi.
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Post by: preggygielian on January 17, 2015, 12:17:18 am
^hi sis, hehe nakakaloka maging buntis noh? Praning na praning ako dati...ngayon konti nalang :-) hanggat di pa ako nakafeel ng movements ni baby daily...lagi ako worried or paranoid.

Kung hindi ka talaga mapakali...pacheck ka sa OB Sono. Kahit magastos, ako nun papacheck talaga kesa maging stressed ako. Pero madalas...you just have to believe na okay si baby. There's always the risk of having a miscarriage pero as the pregnancy progresses, less and less ang chances. Congratulations tapos ka na sa 1st trimester! :-) sana maramdaman mo na si baby soon para less na ang pagkaworried mo.
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Post by: arragalang on January 17, 2015, 10:07:47 am
^ Hi sis! end of January ang next check-up ko, hopefully marining at mafeel ko na si baby kasi 4 months na ko by that time.

Grabe ang ilis pala lumipas ng oras pag preggy. Hindi ko manlang naramdaman yung last 3 months. Haha!
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Post by: airwaterfire on January 17, 2015, 12:19:41 pm
Lumabas na ang fetus kagabi. Nag labor din ako then feeling ko naiihi na ako so punta ng cr. Ayon pagdating ng cr may lumabas na need ng kunting ere. Yun na, ang sac.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: arragalang on January 18, 2015, 11:39:09 am
^ :(

Nandun na rin po ba si baby sa sac? Ilang weeks na po sana ang baby nyo?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: airwaterfire on January 19, 2015, 10:25:21 am
dapat 12 weeks siya Jan 11-17.
pero nawala siya 10-12 weeks.

nasa loob ng sac ang fetus. masyado kasi maliit almost 2cm lang.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: chantale10 on January 23, 2015, 08:22:45 am
8 weeks based from TVS at nawala na ang heartbeat ng baby ko. konti lang spotting ko kahapon akala ko napagod kaya dumirecho na ako sa hospital pina ultrasound ko ako at wala ng heartbeat ang baby ko at di na nagprogress ang growth nya.

di pa ako dinudugo kasi nagstop ang spotting ko agad kahapon binigyan lang muna ako ng gamot pangpa open daw yung ng cervix, then pagmadami ng blood eh pumunta na daw ako sa hospital at dun pa lang i d&c.

may ganun ba nangyari sa inyo? pinadugo muna bago i d&c?

nakakalungkot first pregnancy ko nakakatrauma naman.
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Post by: airwaterfire on January 24, 2015, 11:01:57 am
^OO. Kasi close pa ang cervix mo. Ako hindi na ako na pa d & c. Monday spot, nag absent ako sa work tuesday akala ko okey lang inum ng duvadilan at utrogestan pero di nawala. Wednesday punta nako sa ultrasound, ayon wala na heartbeat. Nakakalungkot. Until now.

Since less than 10 weeks ang size ng fetus, normal delivery sa bahay lang.
 
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: chantale10 on January 24, 2015, 05:33:34 pm
^^sis mali yung na type ko 11 weeks ako sa lmp pero sa first tvs ko dapat nasa 8 weeks na ako pero ang baby ko hanggang 6weeks and 4 days lang ang nilaki niya.

mga sis kelan ba ako dapat bumalik sa hospital kasi nagbleeding na ako ngayon pero wala pa ring buo meron pero maliliit pa, sumakit puson ko at balakang na parang magkakaroon na ako pero nawala rin yun agad. hintayin ko ba na dumami yung bleeding ko?

nakakalungkot talaga mga sis.
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Post by: preggygielian on January 24, 2015, 11:51:57 pm
@chantale10: I'm sorry for your loss sis. Ako nun binigyan ng cytotec na to be taken at 3 diff times that day na nalaman na wala heartbeat pero the next day di naman ako dinugo so pumunta na ako sa hospital padin kahit di ako dinugo nun. Sa hospital they gave me more cytotec eh hindi naman ako nagrerespond -- di ako dinudugo so tinuloy nila D&C that same week. Then I went back to my OB to check kung nakuha lahat and kung okay na. Okay naman so nagrecover ako then we tried to concieve again.
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Post by: chantale10 on January 25, 2015, 08:34:43 am
^^kagabi nagpunta na ako hospital kasi sumakit ang puson ko ng mga 4pm tapos yun naglabas na ako ng 2 buong dugo ba yun ang sakit kaya ginawa ko ng may maramdaman ako na may gustong bumagsak inire ko pa para lumabas na.

sabi ng doctor complete abortion na daw mukhang wala ng natira, binigyan ako reseta methergin at babalik ako bukas sa hospital for ultrasound at check up sa ob ulit. sana ok na at wala ng natira para di na ako i d&c mas lalo nakakatrauma eh.

mga sis meron ba dito na naglabas na ng buo buo at di na niraspa? mag papaultrasound pa rin ako kasi sabi ng doctor yun at to be sure na wala talagang natira.

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Post by: airwaterfire on January 26, 2015, 12:02:59 pm
^ hindi na ako niraspa. nakapag ultrasound ako noong Thursday para ma check if lumabas na ba lahat.
Though meron pang natira minimal nalang, lalabas din. Mag pa ultrasound pa rin ako 3rd week next month para makapag pagawa ng fit to work certificate.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: chantale10 on January 26, 2015, 01:48:15 pm
hi sis airwaterfire - hindi na rin ako ni raspa kanina lang ako nag pa ultrasound at sabi ng sono wala ng natira pero naguluhan ako sa mga doctor. opd lang kasi ako sa mcm so resident doctor dun tumitingin pinatigil na ako ipainom ng methergin pero sabi ng doctor na tumingin sa akin sa delivery room kanina nagusap kami after ng tvs ko ituloy ko pa ng 1 week. naguguluhan na ako.

okay lang ba mga sis na inumin ko pa rin yung methergin till saturday? may binigay ba sayong antibiotic sis? sa akin wala na nagworry naman ako baka infect naman ako. nagpa blood test ka rin ba para malaman baka infected ang dugo mo? sorry mga sis naguguluhan talaga ako di ko rin alam gagawin ko till now tuliro pa rin sa mga pangyayari.

balak ko rin mag iba ng ob na baka kay dr.valerie guinto pumunta next week just to be sure kung malinis na ba at wala talagang natira.

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Post by: preggygielian on January 26, 2015, 05:22:21 pm
Sis chantale10, I think you need to either call your OB again or have a check up with another OB. Sa mga ganyan, never ever leave a doctor's office na hindi ka clear sa mga gagawin mo at iinumin mong gamot. :) I was also given antibiotics nun pag daw nagdugo ako (eh hindi naman ako nagdugo, so pinainom sakin ang antibiotics after ng D&C ko).
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Post by: airwaterfire on January 26, 2015, 07:30:32 pm
Wala akong antibiotic pero nag pa CBC at Urinalysis ako. Meron pa nga minimal retained products of conception sa akin tsaka .17cm ang lining ng endometrium ko pero sabi ni Doc okey lang yun. No need ng methergin etc tsaka pakunti kunti nalang discharge ko at mostly brown color. Kampante naman ako kasi wala naman akong nararamdamang kakaiba.

Pa check ka ng o.b sis chantale.

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Post by: chantale10 on January 27, 2015, 10:01:31 am
thank you mga sis, baka sa bukas or saturday punta na ako sa ibang ob para makasigurado ako. tinatanong ko naman mga ob dun sa opd parang wala naman ibang advise eh tinanong ko pa kung magpa cbc rin ako para makasigurado pero wala naman sinabi. nakakaloka hindi na ako ulit magpapa ospital sa manila medical hirap kausap ng mga doctor.

lilipat na ako sa iba bukas hindi ako mapalagay mahirap naman baka mapabayaan ako. malaking ospital sila at private pero pangit sila magserbisyo. umiinom pa rin ako ng methergin pero ang bleeding ko di naman madami, kagabi sumakit ang puson at balakang ko pero sa tvs ko malinis na. hay nakakaloka mag isip.
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Post by: chantale10 on February 05, 2015, 07:53:33 am
cleared na ako kahapon by my ob, malinis na ang matres ko ulit, sabi niya pwede na magtry after 1 or 2 cycle. pero ayoko pa sana hindi pa ako ready at sobrang nakakatrauma.

mga sis pwede na ba ako mag pills 2 weeks pa lang after makunan ako.
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Post by: krisslim on February 08, 2015, 11:52:34 am
Yes! But first of all I'm so sorry we have to go through this. *hugs*
Share ko na ren. This is a planned pregnancy btw kaya sure ako sa LMP ko. Nag try kame last November, then by December medyo makirot na boobs ko so nag preggy test nako and positive, yey!
12/17 nag pa TVS nako and yes indeed its positive so no problem naman, healthy naman daw pero no heartbeat pa kase 5 weeks and 2 days pa lang daw. Balik daw kame pag nag 7 weeks na para sa heart beat. But the night of 12/23 mga around 11 pm nag bleeding ako ng bright red and may malaking clot na kasama so derecho kame sa ER ng MMC then the usual questions etc. Resident Doctor did an IE and told me to have a TVS para sure. 12/24 na yun ng madaling araw and there meron ng heartbeat si baby 86 beats per minute. Sabi ng Sono ok lang daw kase kakaform lang ng heart nya kaya mahina pa. The healthy heart rate daw is 150 beats a minute.  Pero baka next day daw lalakas na daw yun.   Bed rest na lang daw and nag reseta ng progesterone vaginally.
So super happy kame. So we announced na kase Christmas na yun. Kase sabi ko di pa namin iaannounce pregnancy ko hanggat wala pang heartbeat.
Since Dec 25 onwards may mga konting spotting pero tuloy ko pa rin yung meds ko plus prenatal vits. Then January 5 balik kame for another TVS, ayun wala na syang heartbeat, my baby died at 6 weeks and 3 days. Sobrang iyak ako pati hubby ko kase di ko akalain na ganon mangyayari. Sabi ko dapat nag TVS ulit ako kahit holiday etc dapat nag ingat pako ng husto. Pero sabi ng OB ko baka daw bad combination ng chromosome kaya di na natuloy. Subchorionic hemorrhage ang findings sakin btw and ang masakit walang explanation. Even OB sa ibang hospital wala ren sila masagot. And my OB advised me to wait it out and have my body to expel the baby naturally. Ayaw nya ng D&C kase marami daw side effects like pre mature labor sa next pregnacy kase daw closed pa cervix ko. Uterine rupture, scarring, temporary infertility etc. So we opted for natural na ren kase gusto ko mabuntis ulit within this year. Wala naman binigay na meds. January 5 balik ako sa OB ko kase no bleeding and pain. So OB did an IE open na raw cervix ko so antay antay na lang still no meds para mas mabilis sana. Paguwe ko nag bleeding ako ng bright red na tuloy tuloy pero small clots lang. OB told me na dapat daw sin laki ng lemon yung antayin ko pero none. Nawala den sya pero bumalik the following day pero mahina na hangang sa nawala. 2nd week nag research nako and raspberry leaf tea daw nakaka soften ng cervix and yogis moon cycle tea, yung ingredients ng moon cycle tea are don quai root, raspberry leaf,  juniper berry, parsley, cinnamon. So those ingredients are known to speed up the process daw according sa mga mommies na nag MC sa babycenter forum. Meron sa healthy option.
But im on my 5th week na pero so far brown spotting pa lang and cramps and a little contractions. Naiinip nako kase ang tagal ng natural. But ayoko talaga ng D&C so sabi ni OB give pa daw nya ko ng 2 more weeks kase wala naman ako sign ng infections. Safe naman daw but the waiting is really nakakaiyak na. :(  oh i also took prime rose oil orally 3 x 1000mg then nag vaginally nako 2 x 1000mg after 3 days. Bali 1 week nakong puro tea sana umepekto na. Last IE ko medyo malaki na daw yung opening ng cervix ko. So sana sana talaga the soonest matapos na. :(
Sa eldest ko simula nung 7 weeks na nalaman ko na buntis ako walang problema as in no morning sickness, no annoying nausea, yung labor ko 5 hours lang kaya nagtataka ako bakit nagkaganito. Hay! Sa mga nag natural MC ilang weeks ang inantay nyo bago lumabas si baby Angel nyo? Sorry napahaba! Thanks for reading and baby dust to all!
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Post by: airwaterfire on February 08, 2015, 05:59:22 pm
^ 4 days lang simula ng first day ng spotting lumabas siya. kasinlaki ng itlog na ang sac at medyo malaki na placenta.
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Post by: chantale10 on February 09, 2015, 09:55:49 am
^^sis sa akin jan 22 ko nalaman wala ng hb ang baby ko by tvs 9 weeks na ako dapat pero di na nag grow c baby 6weeks 4 days lang cya, tpos nung 22 din ng gabi dinugo ako tapos may meds binigay sa akin pang pa hinog daw un ng cervix eh kaya 24 ng gabi nag labor na ako may lumabas na blood clot. naglalakad lakad din ako kasi sa mga buntis diba para mag open ang cervix ganun ginagawa kaya yun din ginawa ko. mga 2 weeks din bago nagstop ang spotting ko.
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Post by: krisslim on February 09, 2015, 10:50:15 am
^hi sis thanks sa reply! Ano yung nitake mo na pampahinog ng cervix?
Ang hirap mag move on hanggat di natatapos. :( btw mag take ka na lang ng pills sa 1st day ng actual mens mo, mas effective kase ang pills pag 1st day ng mens ang umpisa. Sabi yan ng OB ko. :)

Buti ka pa sis airwaterfire 4 days lang inantay mo. Ako 5 weeks na today pero still spotting pa rin and mild cramps. :(
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Post by: preggygielian on February 09, 2015, 12:00:09 pm
mga sis, have you considered d&c? I am so sorry you have to go through this...ako kasi nun talaga I wanted it out para makamove on...makarecover na at makapagtry na ulit. Within the week of knowing nakapag D&C na ako and then checked by my OB kung nakuha na lahat. D&C is done so frequently...does the waiting for it to naturally come out outweigh the side effects (if there is any) sa D&C? Pwede na kami magtry agad after 1 or 2 cycles...pero nakapag conceive on the 7th cycle with the help of Clomid (May PCOS din kasi ako so di ako naglalabas ng egg most of the months).

I am unsure kung ang cause ng cervical erosion ko nung Dec 13-Apr14 ay yung D&C. Pero ayun...please ask your OB kung talaga bang waiting is the only way...
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Post by: chantale10 on February 09, 2015, 12:47:52 pm
sis krisslim - try mo tanungin ang ob mo kung pwede ka mag meds para mapabilis ang labas ni baby mo. sa akin nga nag pa second opinion pa ako sa ibang ob para makasigurado ako na wala ng natira sa loob mahirap na baka magkaroon pa ng infection.

mga sis after ng miscarriage gaano katagal bumaba ang hcg level nyo? ako 17 days na pero yung pt ko may napakanipis na faint positive pa rin.
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Post by: airwaterfire on February 09, 2015, 04:06:32 pm
^^ may mga side effects ang d & c lalo na kung di naman kailangan per explanation ng o.b at tsaka sa mga nababasa ko. isa na doon ang temporary infertility, scarring ng uterus. mama ko more than 4 times din nakunan naturally. as in lumalabas lang ng kusa ang ang dead fetus. nakita ko pa nga before.

seguro kaya mabilis dahil feeling ko namatay na ang baby ko between last week of december(around dec 28 until Jan 9). dec 28 kasi nagsimula na bigla nawala ang pregnancy sickness ko. then by january 9 natagtag ako masyado sa jeep kasi nasa dulo ako, wala pasahero, lubak ang kalsada at sobra bilis ng takbo. ayon, kaya by monday spotting na at may lumabas na tissue-like na blood na pino at may amoy.
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Post by: krisslim on February 09, 2015, 05:55:47 pm
Prim rose oil lang binigay sakin (pinilit ko pa sya nun) tapos tuloy ko lang yung tea na iniinom ko. Hoping na sana this week lumabas na sya.

Wala akong alam sa natural before, akala ko nga di pako papauwien nung Jan 5, kase baka raspahin ako pero yun nga nag explain si OB ko na antayin na lang. And weekly kame magkikita to monitor yung signs of infections and thank God wala naman kahit 5 weeks na. Paguwe ko todo research ako about D&C and possible side effects nya. Sabi nga ni OB ko meron nga daw sya pasyente missed abortion 3 months ng wala yung baby nya and di ren kase sya regular na nagpapacheck up. Pero ok naman yung girl. So kampante ako na magiging ok den naman ako.
Saka gusto ko ren kase makita yung baby ko at mabigyan ng proper burial kahit maliit lang sya. Pag D&C kase di ko sya pwede iuwe. :(
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Post by: chantale10 on February 09, 2015, 06:20:44 pm
yun lang din binigay sa akin eh 3x a day tapos suppository. 3 days lang nag bleeding na ako at labas na [textspeak!] blood clot ko,nung gabi din na yun sabi ng doctor sa delivery room complete abortion na daw nangyari eh.

mahirap talaga, nilibing din cya ng partner ko. nagpapagaling na lang talaga ako di pa rin ako sobrang nagpapagod kasi baka mabinat. basta sis monitor mo lang sarili mo pag may iba ka pakiramdam punta ka na agad sa ob mo.
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Post by: krisslim on February 09, 2015, 06:31:07 pm
Thanks sis! *hugs* and sorry for your loss.
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Post by: airwaterfire on February 11, 2015, 08:17:18 am
2 weeks after lumabas ng fetus, negative hCG na ako.
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Post by: chantale10 on February 11, 2015, 04:25:04 pm
^ hayy sa akin sis 18 days na parang meron pa rin konti nakakapraning wala pa rin naman kaming contact ng partner ko. parang 3 days na rin medyo masakit na breasts ko so baka tama nga rin si ob na malapit na ako magkaroon ng period ulit.
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Post by: airwaterfire on February 11, 2015, 05:04:47 pm
baka nag lactate ka?
Naglactate kasi ako.
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Post by: chantale10 on February 11, 2015, 05:59:57 pm
hindi naman sis 3 days ago last sumakit ang dibdib ko eh.
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Post by: cesza02 on February 11, 2015, 09:13:53 pm
Hi mga sis.. my question ako, so this what happend, super depress ako this past weeks, and on feb.5 uminom ako ng shampoo, i know di q dpat gnwa but i did, nothing happened skn that night, kinaumagahn im bleeding, pang28th day na, so i assume it was my period, that day umalis ako, then paguwi q i went to cr then i saw my napkin, it has a pinkish and white tissue, 1st time q mkkita ng gnun usually blood clot kc pag i have my period, and smskt puson q ng sobra on my 1st day lang, but this time mild lang ang pain but on off ang pain for 3 days, i hope its just really my period. Tia, and about sa pag inom q, ive learned my lesson kya sana ang question q nlng sna ang sgutin, bat kya my pinkish white tissue na lumabas skn,
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Post by: airwaterfire on February 11, 2015, 09:31:41 pm
buuin mo ang words mo para maintindihan.
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Post by: abbmg on February 11, 2015, 10:41:38 pm
cezsa02- are you asking kung nakunan ka? di mo pa naman confirmed na pregnant ka di ba? on top of that di k b nagwoworry sa health mo dahil uminom ka ng shampoo?
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Post by: cesza02 on February 11, 2015, 10:48:10 pm
Ive read kasi online na mostly nakukunan ang babae without her knowing na pregnant pala siya, parang period lang daw kasi ang early m/c
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Post by: krisslim on February 12, 2015, 11:22:37 am
Sis kahit early MC expect to have a light spotting to heavy bleeding. It will take a few days or weeks to pass everything. We're not here to judge you pero sis before you do some drastic moves better to think about your health first. :)
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Post by: krisslim on February 12, 2015, 11:40:47 am
Sorry TMI tong ishare ko pero baka makatulong sa iba na naghahanap ng sagot like me. I bled like crazy last night! I went to the mall, nag jeep ako at natatakot ako mag drive kase may contractions ako na nararamdaman since morning till night. Lakad lakad sa MOA. Around 7PM nagpasundo nako sa hubby ko, contractions are getting stronger. Paguwe pinatulog ko muna yung anak ko pero i can still feel the contractions coming di ko lang naorasan. Heating pad on my tummy and back. Nakatulog nako ng ganun. Then around 3AM i felt a sudden gush, takbo ako sa cr. super soaked yung overnight napkin ko. I prepare everything naglatag ako ng 2 bedpad sa may sahig ng banyo. Prepared this things specimen container with saline water, strainer, paper towel, & wet tissue. Pagupo ko sa toilet para akong nagwiwie ng dugo sa sobrang dami, happened 3 x yata na ganun. Then lipat ako sa bed pad para sana masapo ko yung lalabas. Got 4 huge clots around the size of a golf ball. Then heavy bleeding. Pag may contractions, tinatry ko magpush. I think i still haven't pass the sac. :(
Till now na 11AM na wala parin so try ko mag treadmill maya maya para magcontract ulit ako. But still bleeding pero light na.

Passing clots is not painful pero yung contractions ang masakit. Did i feel dizzy the whole time na nagbleed ako? Nope, pero nakakapagod. Girls wag nyo titigil prenatal vits nyo kahit na nalaman nyo na nakunan kayo para di kayo mahilo. Sorry TMI. Prayers for all of us!
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Post by: airwaterfire on February 12, 2015, 12:31:41 pm
yes, continue ko parin kaya noong follow up cbc ko normal na ang result tsaka di ako nahilo.

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Post by: chantale10 on February 12, 2015, 02:23:17 pm
sis krisslim di naman ako nahilo after passing ko ilabas [textspeak!] clot, pero nung binigyan ako antibiotics dun ako nahilo parang nadroggy yata ako sa taas ng dosage everyday.

twice ako pina-ultrasound after ko makunan eh tapos sa isang ob ko balik after one month.

hindi pala talaga madaling magbuntis, nakakatakot din pala pagdadaanan natin. ngayon ko lang nalaman kung ano yung mga hirap na pinagdaanan ng mommies natin before.
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Post by: krisslim on February 12, 2015, 05:54:31 pm
Sinabi mo pa sis. Mahirap mag labor full term pero may iuuwe ka namang baby pero pag nakunan ka mas mahirap na wala ka pang baby. Hirap maging mommy!

May nabasa ako somewhere na sa sobrang dami ng dugo na lumabas sa kanila as in nag papassed out sila.

Until now wala ng kasunod na progress yung miscarrying stage ko. Pero cramping galore naman. Sorry may live update, hehe!!
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Post by: chantale10 on February 12, 2015, 06:23:07 pm
ok lang yan sis mas okay nga yan baka nakakatulong sa iba. ang hirap din mag isip ng mag isip ah.

mga sis alam nyo ba kung pwede mabuntis kung may contact kayo ng partner mo 2 days before ka ma miscarriage? naku baka buntis na naman ako. wala naman kasi kaming contact till now after ko makunan eh.
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Post by: krisslim on February 12, 2015, 07:42:38 pm
^sis natanong ko yan sa OB ko. Sabi nya hindi ka daw mabubuntis ulit while buntis ka or miscarrying. So don't worry. Pag nag normal na cycle mo pwede ka na mabuntis pero wait ka muna ng 2-3 normal cycle.

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Post by: chantale10 on February 12, 2015, 08:40:41 pm
salamat sis ah, nakalimutan ko yun itanong sa ob ko. buti natanong mo sa ob mo yun sis. hay oo nga kasi di pa ako ulit ready mapreggy eh. makita ba through ultrasound kung magka period ka na ulit sabi ng ob ko within 2 weeks so next week expect ko [textspeak!] period ko.
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Post by: krisslim on February 12, 2015, 09:09:31 pm
Welcome sis! Nabanggit kase sakin ni OB na sex daw can cause contractions so mas mapapabilis ang miscarrying. So natanong ko na ren yan. Hanggat daw may baby/sac sa loob di ka daw mabubuntis but pwede ka mabuntis pag may natirang tissue sa loob. Kaya dapat talaga malinis na malinis.
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Post by: chantale10 on February 12, 2015, 09:23:16 pm
after ko naman makunan di pa kami nagcontact eh, as per last visit ko sa ob ko nung feb.4 malinis na rin wala na natirang mass/tissue. ano un pede ako mabuntis kung may natira pa sa loob?
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Post by: airwaterfire on February 12, 2015, 09:35:32 pm
ay o nga pala, nang lumabas ang sac na kasing laki ng fist ng 4 year old daughter ko, nahilo talaga ako. pero nagawa ko pa kumuha ng camera para mag picture sana pero di kinaya.
as in humiga ako at iniwan sa cr ang diaper at fetus
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Post by: krisslim on February 13, 2015, 12:04:15 am
Sis @airwaterfire hugs. Ako naman walang balak mag picture pero i will keep yung mga ultrasound pictures. Nakakalungkot lang kase.


Sis @chantale10 yes sabi ni OB na pag may natirang tissues or something na related sa product of conception (hate that word) pwede ka daw mabuntis pero magkakproblem like infection or di mgtutuloy yung pregnancy. So delikado. Pero yun nga kung may sac/baby pa sa loob tapos ng do kayo (miscarrying or not) malabo kang mabuntis.  Teka hanapin ko den yung link na nabasa ko ren about dyan.
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Post by: chantale10 on February 13, 2015, 07:59:41 am
krisslim salamat, naku sobra na akong stress. since december hanggang ngayon di na nawalan iniisip.
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Post by: airwaterfire on February 13, 2015, 09:27:25 am
^^
gusto ko may pictures as remembrance tsaka para ipakita sa o.b ko.
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Post by: chantale10 on February 16, 2015, 02:38:49 pm
mga sis kelan bumalik ang period nyo? ilang weeks ba bago magkaroon ulit?
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Post by: preggygielian on February 16, 2015, 03:25:41 pm
I had my D&C Oct 24 2013, first period after was Nov 14 (3 weeks after). I hope you're doing better sis!
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Post by: chantale10 on February 16, 2015, 05:51:00 pm
thanks sis... usually 28 to 32 days ang cycle ko, siguro pagwala pa din after 32 days mag papa tingin na lang ulit ako.
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Post by: lakwatsa on February 17, 2015, 03:17:29 pm
mga sis kelan bumalik ang period nyo? ilang weeks ba bago magkaroon ulit?

after 1 month sis.
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Post by: chantale10 on February 18, 2015, 05:21:45 pm
^^thanks sa lahat, nagkaperiod na rin ako kahapon.

sana maging okay at maging maayos na ang next pregnancy natin lahat. god bless.
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Post by: airwaterfire on February 19, 2015, 07:27:53 pm
bumalik na rin kahapon dugo ko. back to normal na.
matagal pa kami magkita ni husband so wala din. next year na ulit target ko.
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Post by: chantale10 on February 20, 2015, 01:07:39 pm
^ good for you sis, halos sabay din yata tayo nakunan.

kami naman by next year na rin balak kaya ingat muna kami ngayon. hindi madali mga pinagdaanan natin kaya pahinga muna.
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Post by: kim28 on February 20, 2015, 02:50:15 pm
na d & c ako last week may pinapainom lang sa akin for 7 days na ciproted 2x a day.  until now may konti pang blood na tipong pahabol na mens.  btw, hindi ako uminom ng mefenamic acid kasi kaya ko naman yung kirot .

after ilang days sobrang sakit ng ulo ko as in.  na experience nyo din ba yun ang next check up ko is on monday.  kunin ko na din result ng laboratory.

wala naman pala nafeel during raspa kasi papatulugin ka.  paggising ko nasa recovery room na ako.  ang pain lang talaga na nararamdaman ko sa ngayon yung emotional.  ang sakit sakit na alam mo nawala yung baby mo.  nagsimba ako kasi ash wednesday so magisa lang ako dahil gusto ko din mag pray. natural maraming family at babies ako nakita di ko mapigilan umiyak.  unang baby sana namin to.




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Post by: preggygielian on February 20, 2015, 05:55:50 pm
^ hugs sis! Hirap makunan :-( nung nabuntis ako sabi namin try try lang kaya akala ko di super sakit nung nakunan. Pero after ng d&c tapos actively trying after...everytime may bagong buntis sa fb...or makakita ka ng babies with their parents...madalas napapaiyak ako nun. ang hirap maging happy for friends na nabuntis tapos ikaw nakunan at nagttry pero wala padin. Prepare yourself din for these. I hope mga sis di naman kayo mahirapan mabuntis ulit. I just gave birth yesterday at napakasakit ng labour process ko pero seeing him looking at me during skin to skin (within 10mins of delivery), worth it ang sakit at luha at lalo na ang pag-aantay.
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Post by: chantale10 on February 20, 2015, 10:08:03 pm
^congrats sis!

ganyan din naramdaman ko, iniiyakan ko pa rin ang baby ko hanggang ngayon. naramdaman siguro nya na hindi pa ako handa nung dumating siya pero mahal na mahal ko ang baby ko.

kami ng partner ko nag decide na wag na muna ngayon taon. marami pa kami pinagdadaanan ngayon. gusto ko rin makasal na kami.
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Post by: airwaterfire on February 21, 2015, 03:07:51 pm
@preggy, congratulations..

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isipin nalang natin if nabubuhay ang baby natin, kawawa din sila. may dahilan kaya nawala.
if nakunan, ibig sabihin kaya pa nating magbuntis ulit.

last tuesday, napa bless ko na rin ang fetus(nilagay ko sa bote with formalin) sa kaibigan kong Pari after ng misa niya sa Cathedral kasama ang ang eldest ko na 4y.o.

sabi nga nila, pag may nawala may dadating na panibagong blessings. di nga lang baby kasi wala naman husband ko pero masaya rin ako.
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Post by: kim28 on February 23, 2015, 01:41:53 am
@airwaterfire

nakikita kita sa kabilang thread yung 3rd qtr babies. 

yun na lang din iniisip ko na malaki posibility na magkababy kami ulit kasi nakabuo na kami.  Hindi nga lang time pa at may dahilan nga siguro.

kaya waiting kami mag 2 cycle ng mens and take ng vitamins para sa next na magiging baby namin.
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Post by: airwaterfire on February 23, 2015, 10:49:01 pm
share lang,

pinsan ni husband almost 10years married(that time, 2008) nabuntis then nakunan. tsaka pa nalaman na may something sa uterus niya, nag chemo meds si cousin.
then pag 2009 ayon nabuntis ulit, magkasunod sila ng daughter ko. tapos last 2013 yata nanganak ng kambal.

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Post by: kim28 on February 24, 2015, 12:21:00 am
nakavisit na ako sa ob ko and ok naman daw result ng lab. mag take na daw agad ng folic acid and rogin e (hubby).

after 6 months need magpa papsmear if hindi na preggy.  pero claim ko na na mabubuntis kaagad ako :) kayo ba after d & c ilang weeks bago nag bd? until now may blood pa rin konting konti na lang.

after ng 2 cycle pwede na ulit mabuntis para sure na nakarecover na physically. 
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Post by: preggygielian on February 24, 2015, 12:48:27 am
^good luck sis! Sana mabilis kang mabuntis! :-)

Ako after d&c ko nag BD kami mga 6 weeks after kaso dinugo ako. tapos madalas na ako dinudugo pag nagBD...yun pala may cervical erosion ako...sus ang tagal pa bago nalaman yun (April pa eh nagBD kami Nov! Pag sinasabi ko sa ate ko sabi niya baka daw masyado rough haha sabi ko nye!).

Basta sis observe palagi pag may nagdudugo or may masakit...at ipacheck agad :-) good luck ulit!!!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bitam13 on February 24, 2015, 12:58:12 pm
hello mga sis. I'm pregnant.. PCOS ako and under treatment ako ng metformin kaya ako nabuntis 6 months under medication.. pinatigil ako ng ob ko ng metformin after malaman namen na 5 weeks na ako.. ngayon nagulat ako at 6 weeks, nagbleed ako prang period  na light bleeding.. 10 days na sometimes with clots. miscarriage na ba to? may nakanas na ba nito?

Galing ako kay ob.. observe daw namen kung magstop [textspeak!] bleeding.. closed daw ang cervix ko which is a good thing.. pero [textspeak!] bleeding with clots un ang delikado..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: preggygielian on February 24, 2015, 01:08:49 pm
^sis galing ka sa OB mo..inultrasound ka ba to check kung may heartbeat pa si baby?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bitam13 on February 24, 2015, 01:26:55 pm
papunta palang this friday sa next appointment ko ng TVU. itong 10days na bleeding as in no pain no cramping sometimes may sharp pain sa stomach but thats all no pain na.. sabi ni ob wait daw ako na mawala ang blood.. pero 10 days na may super light lang na bleeding.. sometimes brown, minsan bright red, minsan halos black na..

Ang sakit sakit pala sa pakiramdam. parang nakalutang ako sa hangin.. umiiyak ako gabi gabi kasi hindi ko alam ano mangyayare.. pray [textspeak!] ako ng pray.. 1st baby ko to if ever.. napakatagal nman na bleeding nito.... hindi na ako umaasa pero sa puso ko meron pa ding hope :(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: airwaterfire on February 24, 2015, 07:27:47 pm
^bakit friday pa ang TVU?

dapat kasi pag ganyang matagal na ang bleeding/spotting mo, ultrasound ka agad.
ano bang klaseng o.b yan 10 days na?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: kim28 on February 24, 2015, 08:40:05 pm
oo kahit anong bleeding mapapatak lang yan o bahid takbo kaagad sa ob for check up. mahirap yun paghihintayin ka pa sis.

anything na kakaiba punta kagad sa ob
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bitam13 on February 25, 2015, 02:32:23 pm
Update mga sis....

ito na nga nakunan nako... first 7 days mga sis light bleeding lang... tapos nung mula 8-10 days na grabe mga sis dinugo na ako heavy clotting...hindi ako nagpunta agad sa ob kasi lola ko at mommy ko monthly may period noon kahit pregnant kaya kahit papano naghope ako... and then nung ika 10 days na nga ayon na sinugod nako hospital hindi na ako makatayo, masakit, hindi ko maipaliwanag ang pain... pero nung nasa car na ako parang may malaki na lumabas sakin size of a big lemon at ayun na nga ang 6 weeks na baby ko...... nung nakalabas na, wala na sakit... as in no pain... no bleeding.... no dizziness na...

PCOS kasi ako mga sis... nag doubt talaga ako nung una na itigil ang medication ko which is metformin kasi alam ko yun ang nag papababa ng risk ng miscarriage sa mga pcos na pregnant.. metformin cured my overweight na katawan, heavy acne, abnormal hair growth & irregular mens under 6 months lang nabuntis na ako sa metformin....

Ang sakit sakit mga sis ng puso ko parang sasabog sa lungkot...  :'( :-[ :'(

Gusto ko magpalit ng obgyne, pls sino may marerecommend na nag specialize sa case ng PCOS?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: preggygielian on February 25, 2015, 04:25:51 pm
^sis, *tight hugs*! ako din nun buntis na at nakalimutan ko tanong sa doctor ko kung istop ko ba ang metformin, DHEA saka may 2 pa ako na gamot eh. Nainom ko siya ng 1 week tapos saka ko lang naalala na tumawag sa OB ko and ask kung isstop ko na ba yun kasi buntis na ako. Di naman ako nakunan.

May PCOS din ako sis and Clomid helped me get pregnant the second time around. Nag metformin din ako to help pero mababa lang dosage ko. Napansin ko sa Pinas ang taas nila magprescribe ng metformin! OB ko sa pinas wanted me to take Humamet na 850g 2x a day tapos OB ko dito sa hk 500g lang bigay sakin 1x a day. Yan din mahirap pag madami OB haha...pero yung OB ko dito he stood firm na hindi ko daw kelangan ng mas mataas na dosage kasi maliit lang akong babae (5 flat).

Nung nabuntis ako ng 2013 pero di ko pa alam na buntis ako ah...nag humamet ako...grabeeee worst feeling ever! Dun ko naranasan ang parang diarrhea na ang sakit sakit tapos papawisan ka ng malamig! naka 1.5days lang ako na gamot nun at tinigil ko na kasi ang sama talaga ng tyan ko. When we got back sa HK nun nadelay ako at off sa LMP ko ang size. Pero nung pinabalik ako na supposedly 8weeks na, di na naggrow masyado...age niya 6weeks lang ata nun and nagbleed out na.

I don't think metformin caused our miscarriages...i think it was because of chromosomal abnormalities. Miscarriages ending so soon is never our fault (unless magpaka drunk at addict sa deugs even after knowing you're pregnant diba). Always remember that sis. That's what my OBs told me. Hate na hate ko ang saying na "it's not meant to be" or "Hindi pa talaga time" or "God has better plans for you" or "In God's time"...hay! Sarap nila sapakin lahat nun nung sinasabi nila sakin yan. Pero ang masasabi ko sayo sis, you were able to get pregnant...kaya kayang kaya na makabuo ulit :-) dun ka maniwala and take care of yourself and prepare for that next pregnancy. Nagbago ako konti ng lifestyle hehe at mas nag exercise ako at kumain ng healthier food. After 7 months of trying pagtapos nung miscarriage na yun, 4 cycles of Clomid...nabuntis ako at ngayon may 7 day old baby boy :-)

You could try my OB sa Pinas, Dra. Minnou Tapia sa San Juan De Dios. Naghahandle siya talaga ng mga PCOS patients...including her daughter. :-) OB Sonologist siya :-)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bitam13 on February 25, 2015, 04:47:41 pm
Wow congrats sis may baby kana.. Nakakainggit hehe soon ako sna din.. Sis ganto kasi nangyari, pinatigil ako ng ob ng 5 weeks sa pag inom ng metformin Namiscarried sya ng 6 weeks... Kaya alam ko na baka metformin andame ko nabasa lalo na sa US na mga forum halos 45% ang decrease sa risk ng miscarriage pag nagmetformin.. Next pregnancy ko talaga mag take ako metformin like yung isang sis dito dia17 ang username.. Nagtetake din ng metformin sa pregnancy nya..

Ayoko na sis maranasan yung dati, napakasakit.. Sobra.. Congrats on your baby..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: kim28 on February 25, 2015, 05:47:23 pm
@bitam13

Sis alam namin na walang kaming masabi para mabawasan ang nararamdaman mo. Napagdaanan din namin yan at alam namin na napakasakit.  Ako para talagang gumuho ang mundo ko kahit sabihin na ilang weeks lang si bebe sa tummy ko.  Yung pangarap natin na magkaroon ng buong pamilya alam natin na ito na yung kukumpleto sa atin - ang maging magulang.

Ako ang lagi ko na lang iniisip ngayon - nakabuo na kami malaki na chance na magka baby ulit kami, hindi ng lang para sa amin kaya maaga syang kinuha, may anghel na kami ngayon na gagabay at tutulong mag pray para sa next baby namin, may iba pang plano pa ang Dyos. 

Tinatanong ko din si God bakit ako? bakit ang baby pa namin? ang tagal na namin naghintay bakit binigay tapos kukunin din agad? - Kung tutuusin marami tayong nakikita na mga bata na hindi naalagaan ng mga magulang nila pero tayo na gustong gusto nahihirapan pa.

Faith and prayers yun lang nakakakapagpagaan ng nararamdaman ko ngayon.  Iyak mo lang ng iiyak inabot yata ako ng 1 week na laging umiiyak.  Ngayon medyo naluluha pa din ako kapag may nagtatanong sa akin. 

Darating din ang para sa atin.  Waiting kami sa rainbow baby namin <3 sana malapit na :)

Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sweet_cherry on February 26, 2015, 08:30:13 pm
lost our identical twins din at around 8 weeks. first pregnancy after being married (and ttc) ng 1 year and 4 months. sis, bitam13 ilang dosage at ilang beses sa isang araw yung metformin?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bitam13 on February 27, 2015, 06:15:52 pm
Magkaiba both ang say ng ob ko.. Yung isa sabe ituloy ko met yung isa naman ayaw ituloy ko metformin.... 1,500mg a day ako 3 times... Alam ko ramdam ko nawala ang baby ko dahil mahilig ako sa sugar and carbs which is masamang masama sa may pcos... Babalik ako sa isang ob ko na nagsabi na metformin dapat sa first trimester.... Ang gagawin ko 1500mg while trying to conceive... 1000mg sa first trimester and sa second trimester 500mg ng metformin... Mga sis generic nagpabuntis sakin nun sa the generics pharmacy... Babalik talaga ako sa dati kong ob at hindi sa mga ob na hindi masyado sanay sa pcos...

Correct ko lang 5months pala ako nabuntis sa 1500mg na metformin... Advise talaga sakin 2000mg para mga 2 months mabuntis na ko pero hindi kaya ng tyan ko.... Pero ill resume sa 1500mg.... Iwasan ko na sugar and carbs promise...
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: lonelymom on March 22, 2015, 12:09:21 am
Hello all newbie here! mga sissy ng misscariage po ako last jan. 09 tas na DnC jan.14. And we try to get pregnant right away after ng first regla ko Nung feb.13 tas ng pt ako march 17 I use digital pregnancy test and the result was not pregnant, and just this morning pt ako ulit gamit ko yung tag $1 lang na pt and ng two line po sya yung isang line faint lang. I can't tell if I'm pregnant or not, try ko ulit mag pt next week siguro..

Just want to asked if myron ba ditong ng try agad after DnC na mabuntis agad? I just want to hear an inspiring stories..I'm excited to have another baby in the same time I'm scared. Pls enlighten me.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: maldita29 on March 22, 2015, 08:00:31 am
After 2 years of marriage, the husband and I finally tried to have baby this year. First try namin last January, nakabuo agad. Unfortunately, I had some brown spotting a week ago due to SCH. TVU saw the baby with a heartbeat. I was given duphaston and vitamins at pinagbedrest din ako ni OB.

After a week, I had my check up and TVU can no longer detect a heartbeat. Since OB's TVU is just the handy one, she asked us to go to the hospital nearby, where she is also an affiliate, and get an ultrasound for a higher resolution view. We did and found out that we have twins! But no heartbeat was detected. Missed abortion according to the OB. Immediately, I was admitted for d&c   that afternoon and was able to go home the next day at noon.

Masakit ba ang d&c? Yes! Sobrang sakit. Naramdaman ko nung una na hinahalukay ang matres ko dahil di ako tinablan ng anesthesia! I was crying at feeling ko nagwawala na ko sa OR. Pero betadine application pa lang daw yon!  They gave me another shot daw of pampatulog and anesthesia. The next thing I know was they told me na tapos na and lilinisin na lang ako.

I am still very thankful to my OB, Dra. Nucum for taking care of us. Pati sa finances, she helped us in minimizing the expenses. Kahit di pa naman naprocess ang Philhealth because weekend, naideduct na agad sa final bill.

Will go back next week for follow up check up.

Is it sad? It was heartbreaking. But I am lifting everything to God. He has better plans. I chose to look at the positive side of things. Maybe my twins were saved from much painful complications. At least now, they are my angels. I will forever be thankful that I was given the chance to have twins even for a very short time.

Let's keep our faith. He knows what's best for us.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: kim28 on March 23, 2015, 07:46:40 pm
mga sis almost 6 weeks bago ako magka AF.  kayo ba kailan kayo bumalik mag ttc after d and c?
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Post by: lonelymom on March 24, 2015, 07:22:10 am
Kim28, sis ng try kami right away, I'm 3weeks pregnant now, excited ako pero andon yung takot... Tas ngayon kinakabahan ako sakit ng likod ko sana normal lang to, di pa ako nakapag pa check up.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: kim28 on March 25, 2015, 05:27:39 am
^ congrats sis

ilang months after d and c ka nabuntis ulit? nakakatakot talaga maulit pero prayer lang sis bilis ng answer sa iyo ni God meron ka na kaagad rainbow baby :)

This april mag try na kami nag take na ako ng vitamins and folic si hubby din pinapainom ko na 😂 Suki na naman ako ng watson sa pt for sure.  magpapahilot din ako this weekend
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Post by: lonelymom on March 25, 2015, 02:43:56 pm
@kim28
One month sis after Nung first cycle ko nabuo agad, sana nga sis Ito na yung rainbow baby ko..

Goodluck Sayo sis sana makabuo din kayo agad :) hahaha sinabi mo pa ako din suki ng pharmacy kakabili ng pt..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: lonelymom on April 09, 2015, 11:41:48 am
Geez I think I'm having another miscarriage. I've been bleeding since yesterday.. I called my OB right away and went to his office today, seems like his not worry at all! All he did is checking my uterus if is it normal, then do my lab test but I won't know till tomorrow what's the result they same as my ultrasound I won't know till 24-48 hours!  mga doctor dito sa US parang walang pakialam. Naiirita ako di man lang masabi sakin if ok o Hindi pag aantayin pa talaga ako.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: airwaterfire on April 09, 2015, 02:51:28 pm
^
based sa nabasa ko and explain din ng o.b ko, di advise na mag pregnant agad after ng miscarriage lalo pag nag d & c kasi prone siya ma miscarriage ulit dahil di pa completely naghilom ang uterus natin.

3 months pinakamaaga or after 6 months nga.

diba pag normal pregancy advise ito to wait atleast 2 years?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: kim28 on April 10, 2015, 08:52:53 am
sa ibang ob ok lang mag try agad. Iba iba yata ang opinion ng mga OB pero depende pa rin yun sa iyo kung ready ka na emotionally.  Other moms nagbuntis agad after d and c and ok naman sila at yung baby basta dobleng ingat lang.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: daisy_duck on April 12, 2015, 10:41:43 am
I had a miscarriage Jan 15, 2014. I was 11 weeks pregnant then and nagbleed ako. During u/s, walang nadetect na heartbeat. D na ako naD & C since kusang "naabort" si baby number 2. I was given pampalambot nang cervix and nacomplete abortion siya. The whole family was heartbroken as super excited kami sa baby. I got pregnant again though and since CS yung panganay ko, I opted to have CS again and gave birth Jan 15, 2015, same exact day that we lost baby number 2.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: daisy_duck on April 13, 2015, 05:11:12 am
^I feel you sis! It is heartbreaking to lose a baby, how much more twice pang nangyari.  :( I do not have any answers to your questions sis but im sending lots of love and prayers that you'll be ok.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: airwaterfire on April 13, 2015, 07:57:39 pm
 @ dadah

huwag ka mag worry too much. may time pa. bata ka pa. iba nga almost 40 nabuntis parin after malaglagan.

ako rin di nag grow. ang tanong ko hanggang ngayon bakit di nagtuloy na sa first ultrasound normal ang heartbeat at porma niya. after 3weeks+ nag spotting na ako. kakaiba naramdaman ko noon nag spot na dahil iba ang amoy ng dugo, mabaho siya. amoy matagal na dugo.

mama ko pala ilang beses din nakunan. after ako, meron nalaglag, then my sister, then miscarriage, then my other sister, laglag na naman, then our youngest. last nalaglagan was april 1996. di ko talaga makalimutan yon.

naisip ko isa sa factor was sobrang pagod at stressed ni mama dahil mahirap lang buhay namin. :(

seguro need talaga pahinga.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: dadah8586 on April 13, 2015, 10:00:54 pm
Thank you sis daisy.
Additionally to my post diba nakunan ako last year april 2014 then nung July papsmear ako diyan sa pinas, the result is normal naman. So akala ko next pregnancy ko magiging ok na pero hindi pala   . :(

Ask ko lang mga sis may naka experience na ba sa inyo ng mc tapos sabi ng ob the baby did not grow pero after that nabuntis parin and gave birth? sorry im super depressed lang kasi.    :(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: reashel on April 18, 2015, 03:40:38 pm
Does anyone here experience cervical cerclage? I am on my 18 weeks na at ang cervix ko ay 2.8mm ba yun. Ang sabi since may history na miscarriage eh dapat mag pa ganito. Any idea po about this at kung magkano cost pati na rin kung ma share niyo experience nyo. Salamat
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: icedtallcoffee on April 20, 2015, 11:49:59 pm
Experienced blighted ovum and had a dnc procedure a few years ago. I'm pregnant again 7 weeks and super slow heartbeat.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: arragalang on April 21, 2015, 09:19:42 am
@reashel: my tita had that done sakanya during her pregnancy since bumubuka na yung cervix nya during first trimester. I dont know which hospital but they paid around 70k for the procedure. She was sadated and didnt felt anything during the procedure. She's more than 8 months pregnant now and the doctor will remove the cerclage soon, that's additional 15k cost. No anesthesia or sedation because of the baby and it might be painful daw. The cerclage had to be done inorder to keep the baby for them kasi the cervix cannot hold the baby well.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: fionaapple on May 08, 2015, 02:35:12 pm
yep, on my 2nd month of pregnancy way back 2005. Doc suspects that there is gene anomaly that's why the baby lost its hold despite the great care I was doing. Doc says it was nature's way of pruning possible malformed babies.

As for you sis, just try to conceive again. The perfect baby will soon come.

Ganito ang nangyari sa akin. Last week lang ako nakunan.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: kim28 on May 12, 2015, 04:42:46 pm
^ will pray for you sis and ang baby mo

Magiging ok din yan result mo sa Saturday sis.  GV sis nakakaapekto din kaso kay baby kapag stress ka.  Alagaan mo sarili mo eat healthy and kung ano advise sa iyo ni OB sundin mo lahat.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: Myrc on May 12, 2015, 05:16:51 pm
Thank you sis. I really hope. Evrything will turn out fine and I proceed with a healthy pregnancy.
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Post by: Myrc on May 14, 2015, 09:58:13 am
Hi sis. San ka natake ng test for APAS and how much?
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Post by: simpleemie on May 25, 2015, 04:03:38 pm
I didnt know magpopost ako dito. Just today nalaman ko wala na sya. Last week sa tvs ko may hemorrhage so duphaston and bedrest. That time 144 pa heartbeat nya. After a week of duphaston tvs again. Wala na daw heartbeat. I cant believe it, I followed naman obs advice. Ganun pala yung feeling, sobrang hirap tanggapin. I ask for a 2nd opinion, different hospital. Wala na talaga. Bat kaya ganun? May chance pa ba? Di naman ako nag missed ng vitamins at duphaston. Wala naman akong ginawa to harm the baby. May chance pa ba na mali [textspeak!] tvs.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: icedtallcoffee on May 28, 2015, 04:40:25 am
Most of the time, it's really not your/ our fault. Ganun lang talaga. Kahit tama lahat nang gawin natin, the baby will stop developing if may chromosomal problems.  Parang software program, if may kulang na code, the system will not continue processing.

You can ask your doctor to prescribe you another ultrasound the succeeding week and the next week pa to be sure, and for peace of mind na din. That's what I did.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: lakwatsa on June 01, 2015, 08:59:43 am
Hi mga sis pa join. I'm supposed to be 7 weeks but in tvs 5 weeks 6 days. Based from 3rd tvs yan ah kas last sat [textspeak!] ob is Dra. quevedo misdiagnosed and said baby did not develop from our first tvs which is a week before lang may heartbeat sya 122bpm. Tpos after a week she told us the baby Stopped developing no heartbeat. Binigyan pa nga ako ng pang admit for raspa. And yet we did not believe her. We were so crushed. Right away we went to Asian for 2nd opinion tvs. Nakita heartbeat. Maliit pa daw kasi kaya 117 bpm.  Today i went to a new ob. Dr sales-diaz of Asian. Nakita ko lang rin sa forum. Recommend ng mga sis. So i told her my history. She gave me lots medications pang sigurista. Then we will go back on Sat for another tvs. Nakakastress emotionally and mentally na you dont know if the baby will proceed. Kasi may signs ako ng m/c like spotting. But i have uti kaya naka ceforuxime din ako. It could be it. Or it could be  something else. Im sharing my experience just to release what i feel. But I am not okay. Please help me pray.

hello sis, kamusta ka na? I guess di rin ako swerte kay Dra Quevedo. She was my OB last year and nung nagmiscarry ako at 7wks, she was out of town so reliever OB yun nag d&c sa kin. Last time I visited her was to ask for a clearance/medical certificate. May charge na 500 e handwritten lang naman yun. Kaloka! At saka isa pa, when she performed ultrasound di nya nakita yun isang cyst ko pero nun nakunan ako (1wk lang ang pagitan) at inultrasound ng ibang doc, nakita nun doc. Imposible naman tumubo lang yun cyst na yun at 3cm na agad sya in 1 week di ba? So I changed OB na after that kasi wala na akong tiwala.

Anyway, after 1 cycle, I got pregnant again and early this year, we welcomed a healthy baby :)

No feedback ako sa new OB mo but yun husband nya yun madalas naguultrasound sa kin dun dati. Ok yun si doc madetail sya mag ultrasound at hindi nagmamadali. Kung accredited nga lang sya ng HMO ko baka sa kanya ako lumipat e hehe.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: simpleemie on June 01, 2015, 04:37:36 pm
hi sis. what do you mean sa 1 cycle? You got pregnant after 1 cycle ng mens ganun ba? Na d&c din ako. Gusto ko pa magkababy, yung panganay ko grade school na. Natatakot ako na baka mangyari ulit o baka may problema naman sa health. Nagpa alaga ka ba sa ob after mo ma d&c?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: lakwatsa on June 02, 2015, 08:43:48 am
^yes sis after 1 mens. mabilis nga talaga mapreggy kasi malinis yun uterus e.

hindi na sis. actually a few months before wedding yun "paalaga" ko dun sa unang OB ko. pero it's just a routine check tapos folic acid lang everyday. honeymoon baby dapat yun kaso ayun nga nagmiscarry ako. after that ni-continue ko lang yun folic acid ulit and after 1 cycle, we tried again tapos ayun preggy agad. :)
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Post by: simpleemie on June 02, 2015, 09:15:10 am
nag change ka ba ng ob or same lang nung na d&c ka?
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Post by: lakwatsa on June 02, 2015, 01:46:43 pm
^as I mentioned sis, nagchange ako ng OB :)
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Post by: simpleemie on June 02, 2015, 03:24:14 pm
ay sorry sis medyo fresh pa kase yung pagka d & c ko kaya di ko na aabsorb ibang info. Im still confuse pa if I still want to get pregnant again.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: lakwatsa on June 02, 2015, 04:45:29 pm
^go lang ng go sis. if para sa inyo talaga then by all means matutuloy yan hehe. take care of yourself muna at iwasan mastress at mga nega vibes. happy thoughts lang lagi. :)
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Post by: fionaapple on June 02, 2015, 05:07:16 pm
kaka D&C ko lang nung april 28, 2015. I just had my period today. 1st cycle. bumalik na rin ako sa work after only a month of maternity leave.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: prettyyou1234 on June 22, 2015, 06:36:40 am
Yes and its happening right now. Walang bleeding pero may brown discharge..lagi din may mild cramps. First tvu at 6wks 4days ok ang measurement ng sac, sumakto sa date pero walang fetal pole, kaya pinabalik ulit kami after two weeks para maruled out if viable or nonviable...sa kasamaang palad hindi nag developed ang gestational sac ko at wala din fetal pole na nakita kaya agad agad sinabi na missed miscarriage daw ako..nablanko talaga ako,wala akong naitanong sa nurse kung pano nangyari ang ganun, umiyak lang ako ng umiyak, basta ang naalala ko chromosomal abnormality daw..and may 2 fibroids na nakita,minsan cause din daw yun ng pagstop ng pagdevelop. Sobrang sakit hanggang ngayon naiiyak pa din ako.. so yun binigyan ako ng 3 option una,wait and see tapos 2nd medical management 3rd ay d&c ( btw, im currently living in the uk,cytotec is given as an option sa mga may mmc) so yun nag wait and see muna ako ng almost 3 wks, walang nangyari laging brown discharge, ayoko naman ng d&c baka magka scar lalo na akong di nagka anak..so after 3wks of waiting nagpamedical management nalang ako para maka move on and makapagplan na ulit kami ng bf ko. So nung monday nagpa insert ako ng gamot para magcontract ang uterus ko,then wed night lumabas yung sac,sobrang sakit sa puson. Mahirap tanggapin pero siguro may ibang plan si God, im hoping sa susunod na mabuntis ako ok na pero andito pa din sa dibdib ko yung takot na baka mangyari ulit sa akin yun.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: icedtallcoffee on June 22, 2015, 12:56:36 pm
After almost a month of medical management. Finally got a D&C procedure last week.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: prettyyou1234 on June 22, 2015, 04:11:07 pm
One month? As in one month ka nagbleeding sa medical management?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: icedtallcoffee on June 24, 2015, 09:40:17 am
Mine was a case of embryonic demise.

1st week - I asked my doctor if I can wait one week for the miscarriage to occur naturally. No bleeding.

2nd week - I used cytotec na. No effect. No bleeding.

3rd week - I miscarried na. Passed out the sac and most of the blood. I went for a transvaginal ultrasound and my endometrium was still thick. Incomplete abortion sya. So my doctor prescribed methergin to avoid going through a D&C procedure. Didn't bleed a lot. Spotting lang.

4th week - Went for an ultrasound and there's still a lot of blood left. So methergin ulit in my 4th week to induce uterine contractions. The blood still didn't come out. Spotting lang ulit.

Before the 5th week ended, nagpa-D&C na ako.


The past month was the longest, saddest, physically and emotionally painful month in my life. Sometimes iniisip ko, sana nagpa-D&C na lang ako sa simula pa lang. But I'm kind of happy with the decisions I made. Yung haba ng process made the acceptance easier, I think.


Nasabi din nang OB ko na. After all the meds she gave to force the tissue to come out and hindi gumana, it means it's really not my fault and that I should not blame myself.


In my first miscarriage D&C na agad. Di ako nakapag-process ng emotions.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: Iyanabata on June 29, 2015, 01:41:04 pm
Hi mga sisters! I'm posting this for my friend.  She is 5weeks pregnant and miscarriage sa work nya last Saturday.  Sa duty nya sya nagbleed and sinugod sa hospital.  And now she is asking advice from us her friends if the company will shoulder her hospitalization since it was happened during her 8hrs duty sa work. Anyone know kung dapat sagutin ng company yun? I don't know kasi eh, pareho kami pregnant right now kaya sa akin nag ask eh hindi ko naman alam dahil complicated yung sa kanya..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: airwaterfire on June 29, 2015, 07:34:17 pm
^
Ang tanong niyan, may nagawa ba ang company niya kaya siya nagbleed dun? Or paano ba yan e-rephrase, nadulas sa office etc.

Kasi sakin, nasa office din ako ng nag spotting, tinapos ko pa 10.5hr duty tsaka ako nag leave next day. Maternity leave lang na avail ko, delayed pa ang advance ng sss.

 
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: icedtallcoffee on June 30, 2015, 08:58:04 am
Hi mga sisters! I'm posting this for my friend.  She is 5weeks pregnant and miscarriage sa work nya last Saturday.  Sa duty nya sya nagbleed and sinugod sa hospital.  And now she is asking advice from us her friends if the company will shoulder her hospitalization since it was happened during her 8hrs duty sa work. Anyone know kung dapat sagutin ng company yun? I don't know kasi eh, pareho kami pregnant right now kaya sa akin nag ask eh hindi ko naman alam dahil complicated yung sa kanya..
No sis. Hindi i-sho-shoulder. Unless siguro may advise from the doctor na bed rest tapos pinilit syang pumasok and hindi pinayagan mag-leave.


Wala din sa law natin.



Most miscarriages just happen, kahit wala ka masyadong ginagawa, if hindi viable yung pregnancy.


In my case, kahit a few weeks nang wala heartbeat yung 6-week old baby sa loob, kahit nag-general cleaning na ako ng buong bahay, nag-P90x, weightlifting, etc, hindi pa din sya bumaba naturally.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: simpleemie on June 30, 2015, 02:55:55 pm
Sabi rin sakin ni OB to. I ask kase baka dahil di ko sineryoso ang bedrest though limited pa rin kilos ko. Mine is embryonic demise din.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bk on July 07, 2015, 03:45:56 pm
i had d&c (raspa) 2 days ago. sooo sad talaga. first baby sana namin to. nung nag ultrasound ako 6wks 5days yung baby nun sabi ng sonologist medyo mabagal heartbeat at maliit gestational sac. so i got really worried. as in naiyak ako nun. tapos my ob advised me to take utrogestan which i did kahit hate na hate ko siya kasi vaginal. ang effort kaya mag insert ng gamot sa vagina. tapos bumalik ako for check up after 2 wks. at that time 9wks preggy na ko. pag ultrasound sa kin una sa tyan lang muna... tapos sabi ng ob "hindi ko gusto nakikita ko". tapos try nya naman transviganal ultrasound. ayun na... sabi nya wala na heartbeat ang baby. nashock talaga ako! tapos sabi nya 7 wks pa lang nagstop na growth ng baby so 2 wks na sya patay sa loob ko. ayun pina admit na ko sa ospital para sa raspa. sadness overload talaga.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: airwaterfire on July 07, 2015, 06:00:24 pm
raspa talaga ang sayo sis?

kasi noon sa kin, mag 12weeks na ako noong nalaman ko na wala na heartbeat. pero aog sa fetus was 8weeks 2days lang. nag spotting na ako non at mild cramping. pero we waited na kusa ako mag labor at lalabas ang sac pati placenta. within 4 weeks sabi ni doc. pero 2 days after ultra sound lumabas at sa bahay lang ako. messaged ko lang si ob sa fb.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bk on July 07, 2015, 09:37:38 pm
raspa talaga ang sayo sis?

kasi noon sa kin, mag 12weeks na ako noong nalaman ko na wala na heartbeat. pero aog sa fetus was 8weeks 2days lang. nag spotting na ako non at mild cramping. pero we waited na kusa ako mag labor at lalabas ang sac pati placenta. within 4 weeks sabi ni doc. pero 2 days after ultra sound lumabas at sa bahay lang ako. messaged ko lang si ob sa fb.

Yes sis, raspa yung sa kin kasi 7 weeks pa lang yun baby at wala akong nafeel na kakaiba. as in feeling ko normal lang naman lahat walang masakit o bleeding. kaya nga nagulat ako nung nag ultrasound at sinabing patay na baby ko e.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: belliecute on July 08, 2015, 12:02:36 am
out of 5 pregnancies, i had 3 miscarriages..

1st pregnancy - no heartbeat
2nd pregnancy - baby girl
3rd pregnancy - basta dinugo na lang ako at 8 weeks
4th pregnancy - baby girl
5th pregnancy - no heartbeat ulit

sa dami ng trauma ayoko na ulit mabuntis, kahit na gusto ko sana 3 kids.
my OB found out na malapot daw dugo ko and hindi makadaloy ng maayos ang oxygen sa baby, thus resulting to miscarriage.

gamit na gamit yung SSS sa 3 pregnancies ko.

my prayers sa mga mommies who had miscarriage.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: simpleemie on July 08, 2015, 07:48:56 am
nakakaiyak talaga tong thread na to.
kaya natin to mga sis.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: airwaterfire on July 08, 2015, 11:37:06 am
magpapatest sana ako ng kaolin test at bleeding and clotting time test para malaman dahilan ng miscarriage ko. kaya lang sabi ko kay o.b tsaka nalang. natatakot ako kasi kuhaan ka ng dugo at may kamahalan ang kaolin test-5k plus.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: contala on July 24, 2015, 05:59:02 pm
May LMP is June 19 dahil nararamdaman ko masakit breast ko tapos ang takaw takaw ko mayat maya gutom ako and nag gain din ako ng weight so I waited until July 22,madaling araw palang NagPT na ako and it was positive so kinaumagahan i went to OB para mabigyan ako ng vitamins

Sadly kinahaponan nag spotting ako,kay bumalik ako sa OB ko kinaumagahan,chineck niya yung cervix ko closed and sabi niya possible ako for threatened miscarriage ky pinagbed rest niya ako at pinagtake ng duphaston

And until this morning may spotting padin at naramdaman ko nung naligo ako may lumabas so i checked on bilog siya na puti na may clot sa gilid,sinabi ko sa OB ko she had checked on it and nirequest niya ako to have Transvaginal Ultrasound baka daw gestational sac na yun na walang laman or H mole.

Bukas palang ako pupunta para magpaultrasound,Sobrang lungkot ng pakiramdam ko but worried ako sa H-Mole.Please pray for me,Sana its not a serious problem.Gusto ko pa magkababy and it's just hard on my part kasi kakaalis lang ni hubby june 28.Ang saya niya nung nalaman niyang nag positive ako pero ngayon hindi pa niya alam ang nangyayari sakin.

Pasensiya na napahaba.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bk on July 26, 2015, 02:29:08 am
May LMP is June 19 dahil nararamdaman ko masakit breast ko tapos ang takaw takaw ko mayat maya gutom ako and nag gain din ako ng weight so I waited until July 22,madaling araw palang NagPT na ako and it was positive so kinaumagahan i went to OB para mabigyan ako ng vitamins

Sadly kinahaponan nag spotting ako,kay bumalik ako sa OB ko kinaumagahan,chineck niya yung cervix ko closed and sabi niya possible ako for threatened miscarriage ky pinagbed rest niya ako at pinagtake ng duphaston

And until this morning may spotting padin at naramdaman ko nung naligo ako may lumabas so i checked on bilog siya na puti na may clot sa gilid,sinabi ko sa OB ko she had checked on it and nirequest niya ako to have Transvaginal Ultrasound baka daw gestational sac na yun na walang laman or H mole.

Bukas palang ako pupunta para magpaultrasound,Sobrang lungkot ng pakiramdam ko but worried ako sa H-Mole.Please pray for me,Sana its not a serious problem.Gusto ko pa magkababy and it's just hard on my part kasi kakaalis lang ni hubby june 28.Ang saya niya nung nalaman niyang nag positive ako pero ngayon hindi pa niya alam ang nangyayari sakin.

Pasensiya na napahaba.


Awww! Kinda scary yun sa yo kasi may blood. I hope normal spotting lang yun sa yo and not that serious. Yun sa kin wala naman blood nor any pain pero nung pag ultrasound wala na heartbeat baby ko. Early this July lang ako niraspa. Im still on maternity leave. God bless sa yo sis.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: simpleemie on July 26, 2015, 12:08:23 pm
no heartbeat din case ko sis no spotting
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: mhed0404 on July 29, 2015, 09:00:09 am
same here, no heartbeat, im on my 15 wks when we found out, nag spotting ako so i went to my ob. when she was checking the heartbeat thru doppler she cant find it so she decided to do an ultrasound, that's where we found out that there's no blood passing on the heart that's why there's no heartbeat.

Di ako ni raspa. I waited for my body to expel the baby because that's what my OB wants. I waited for a week before i had contractions then went on a labor. I was able to expel everything so no need for d&c.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: airwaterfire on July 29, 2015, 12:25:01 pm
^
noong nag miscarriage din ako last January(10-11weeks) normal din at sa bahay lang. dun ko pa na feel ang parang napopo during manganganak. sabi ko nga kay o.b na ganoon pala ang feeling pag malapit na lumabas ang baby. hindi ko kasi naramdaman yan sa first baby ko.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: simpleemie on July 29, 2015, 12:25:04 pm
I had d&c kase ni spotting wala ako. I still cry pag naaalala ko. I didnt know na pagdadaanan ko to, physically kase feeling ko ang lakas ko. My 1st pregnancy walang kahirap hirap, as in smooth lahat.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: baby_peanut on July 31, 2015, 10:38:25 am
Nung first pregnancy ko (year 2013) when OB confirmed na positive ako, after few weeks nagbleed ako. I think 8 weeks ako nun. Nadepress ako everytime naaalala ko yun kasi super excited kaming lahat. I didn't undergo D&C, pinainom lang ako ng pampadugo kasi maaga pa naman daw para ma d&c.

Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: contala on August 02, 2015, 04:39:10 pm
Hello mga sissies,nakunan nga ako,nung nagpaultrasound ako no gestational sac seen,sabi ng OB yun na nga yung lumabas sakin.blighted ovum daw yung case ko.hindi na niya ako niraspa kasi daw manipis na one week daw ako magbleed parang menstruation,8 days from now nung nakunan ako and tama nga sabi ng OB ko one week,ngayon wala na lumalabas sakin,though nandun padin yung "what if's".accepted na namin na hindi pa right time,But were not losing hope I know everything happens for a reason.kinilabutan nga ako when i heard the news that mariel and robin are having twins after the miscarriage.It such a sad experience but God has something instore for us.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: simpleemie on August 03, 2015, 02:10:15 pm
about  mariel, talaga? thats good.
naiyak na naman ako napadaan na naman ako sa thread na to.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: rosyposy04 on August 03, 2015, 09:32:43 pm
Hello. Matagal na akong lurker dito sa GT pero hindi ko naisip na dito ako sa thread na to magpopost. Nad&c ako last january 6, first baby sana namin, 6wks4days. Kahit 6months na nakakalipas nalulungkot pa din ako. Parang may butas na talaga na naiwan. Hindi ako masyado nagsasabi sa ibang friends ko kasi baka hindi naman nila maintindihan or baka maisip nila oa ako dahil nasasad pa din ako. Well alam ko maiintindihan nyo ako. Ngayon medyo nagtatry na ulit kami ni hubby pero di kami masyado nageexpect, nakakastress kasi. Pray na lang kami na sana ibigay na Nya. Baby dust sa ating lahat! :-)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: SarSi_Em on August 04, 2015, 12:34:07 am
yes 2x. first baby ko, 4mos old na. bumagsak ang placenta.
nagka depression ako after nun, di ako kumakain, d ako lumalabas ng bahay, hintay ko un day na dapat
birthdate nya. 
tapos na buntis uli ako, pero nahirapan din ako, bed rest ako for 6 mos para wag lang malaglag. pero nagka issue pa rin ako muntik na sya ipa abort ni OB dahil bumabagsak naman un placenta tapos in pain ako, pero ayun, kinausap ko lang sya na maging mabait, nakinig naman, now 19 yo na sya  ;D

tapos un 2nd miscarriage ko, 6weeks pa lang sya, di ko lam na buntis na pala ako. d nako uli nabuntis.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: contala on August 06, 2015, 01:45:23 pm
Baka triplets pa nga daw ang baby ni mariel...Don't lose hope mga sis...well,totoo naman na its one of the hardest situation a mother could experience ang makunan ka.Its true na nasasad ka kapag nakakarinig ka ng nakukunan,pero you dont really have an idea kung anung klaseng pain nararamdaman niya,not until maexperienced mo,iba pa nga sasabihin sayo okay lang yan pwede kapa naman magbuntis pero di nila alam na kahit ganon na pwede ka padin magbuntis eh it is still a lost that you can never replaced,after 12 days of my miscarriage,nanaginip ako kagabi nanganak daw ako and its a boy,nakita ko how angelic his face,sabi ko siguro siya na sana yun.mahirap man physically emotionally eh I know makakayanan lahat natin to through our Lord Jesus Christ.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: bk on August 06, 2015, 05:11:39 pm
^oonga, nakakainggit si mariel. Gusto ko pag nabuntis ulit ako twins din o kahit triplets. Lahi namin twins so may chance naman talaga. Naisip ko din para pambawi dun sa baby ko na na miscarriage. Haha!

 Btw, naalala ko nung time na dinala na ko sa preparation room for my d&c, ang una namin madadaanan is yun nursery. Basta dun sa area na yun yung sterilized area na nila, magkakatabi dun yung nursery, delivery room, etc. Imagine how sad it is to see newborn baby when you just lost yours? Hayyy, sadness overload. Tapos nung piniprep na ko naririnig ko pa may umiiyak na baby. Im not sure kung bagong anak yun sa delivery room o yung nasa nursery na yung umiiyak. Sobrang kaiinggit lang.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: simpleemie on August 06, 2015, 05:32:50 pm
Nung d&c ko katapat ng room ko ay nursery.. kamusta naman yun, sumilip ako nung viweing time.. umiyak lang ako ng wagas
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: kim28 on August 07, 2015, 09:21:54 am
^ naku sis ganyan din ako sa recovery room sa chinese gen rinig na rinig ko mga iyak nf baby na bagong panganak.  nakakalungkot talaga
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: icedtallcoffee on August 13, 2015, 03:17:44 am
not sure if ganun sa lahat ng hospital, yung recovery room ng mmc, sama-sama lahat ng na D&C, na-CS, and normal delivery. So, I'm there -- separated with just curtains with other moms holding their babies. E nagising ako agad from the sedative. I wanted to get out of there asap!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: prettygretchen on August 16, 2015, 02:34:50 pm
Hi sissies,

Delayed na ko mga 45days hindi ko naman inaasahan buntis ako eh natapilok ako kanina. As in double sprain una balakang ko, before ako uminom ng any pain reliever nag pa bili ako sa husband ko PT very very faint ang lines na dalawa.

Then I rest kasi sobrang sakit ng ankle ko pag gising ko nag CR ako may vaginal bleeding na ko mild lang naman so nag pabili ako ng PT again nag negative naman na. Ngayon i feel cramps sa puson ko.

Tanong ko lang pag miscarriage ba ng ganito ay need raspa o hayaan duguin? Kailangan ko pa ba nag pa check up or hintayin ko nlng duguin ako ng bongga.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: annamarie88 on August 16, 2015, 02:40:09 pm
^so sorry to hear that, sis. Alam mo there are OBs talaga automatic raspa gusto pag nakunan. May mga magsasabi pa na kesyo baka mainfect ka, magkafever ekek. Pero there are better OBs (better for me kasi ayoko iraspa, i want natural) na sabihin syo to wait it out kasi kusa talaga yan lalabas kahit na matagal pa. Hindi ka naman maiinfect because sarado yan. Depends syo sis if you want magpa d&c or hintayin mo.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: contala on August 16, 2015, 04:24:17 pm
Hi sis prettygretchen,depende kasi yan kung ilang weeks na,sakin 5 weeks,pinaultrasound ako ng OB ko,then sabi niya sakin hindi na daw ako kailangang iraspa kasi manipis na daw,kusang lalabas na daw lahat kasi maliit pa naman pero kung fetus na siya ang alam ko irerequired ka talaga iraspa,ako din ayaw ko maraspa mabuti nlng ganon nangyari,imagine the emotional pain tapos you really need to undergo those procedure,ang hirap talaga ng kalagayan ng babae.but to be sure in your case sis pacheck up ka nlng sa OB.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: premiemommy on August 16, 2015, 08:36:58 pm
sobrang hirap mawalan ng anak.. 👼🏻👶🏼
ako po 8mos naipaanak kopa sa normal delivery .. pero 2days iniwan din nya ko.. 😭😭
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: airwaterfire on August 17, 2015, 12:22:21 pm
^so sorry to hear that, sis. Alam mo there are OBs talaga automatic raspa gusto pag nakunan. May mga magsasabi pa na kesyo baka mainfect ka, magkafever ekek. Pero there are better OBs (better for me kasi ayoko iraspa, i want natural) na sabihin syo to wait it out kasi kusa talaga yan lalabas kahit na matagal pa. Hindi ka naman maiinfect because sarado yan. Depends syo sis if you want magpa d&c or hintayin mo.

True. Some OBs gusto ng raspa or suggest agad ng raspa kasi mas malaki makikita nila(like normal birth rate ng pf)-ito ay para sa less than 3 months pa lang ha. Sabi nga ng OB ko kusa siyang lalabas kasi gagawa ng paraan ang ating katawan para ma expel ang fetus kasi naging foreign body na siya sa katawan natin dahil patay na siya. In a span of 4 weeks. Tapos ultrasound na if manipis na ang lining ng uterus.

Although may mga cases din need ng raspa after normal delivery dahil hindi nakalabas lahat(sobrang nakadikit ang placenta-resulta ng pampakapit na iniinom at sobrang kapal pa ng lining). Kaya nga if mag spotting, mas maganda ultrasound na muna tsaka inom ng gamot.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: prettygretchen on August 18, 2015, 06:51:46 pm
Okay naman ako hindi ako nag pa check up pero so far hindi naman ako nilalagnat sa ngayon hehe
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: icedtallcoffee on August 19, 2015, 12:18:58 am
^^ sakin ganun. I opted to wait. Tapos medical management. Di talaga lumabas lahat. In the end naraspa pa din ako, tapos necrotic tissue na (sorry TMI).
Title: m/c at 6wd4
Post by: wahmjunkie2 on September 02, 2015, 06:25:46 am
This is a long post about my recent mc so my apologies.

It was supposed to be our first. Here in the US, most obs prefer to see you on your 8th week for your first prenatal appt. The scheduler assumed I was on regular cycle and set me up 2 weeks earlier. Partly my fault because I didn't tell her that I know approximately what day I conceived.

On the first appt, the fetus measured 6w1d. We heard the heartbeat and saw it the first time via vaginal ultrasound. The OB wanted to see me again on my 8th week, we went on what was supposed to be my 9th week. She used an abdominal u/s first, then switched to the vaginal. Found out there was no heartbeat and it only measured 6w4d.

I was immediately sent to radiology for viability test and confirmed I miscarried. Ob called the next day advising me of steps to take. I decided the night before that I wanted a D&C since I was not experiencing any pain and spotting at all,

D&C was done a week after (8/28/15), 4 weeks of no indication that I was going to naturally pass. The procedure was quick, 10-20 mins perhaps. I was under local anesthesia, 2 shots in the cervix. An hour before that, I took 1 antibiotics and 2 Norco, then 1 ativan while OB was preparing her instruments.

I thought a had a high tolerance for pain but I was wrong. I let out 2 cusses while OB was vacuuming the tissues out. When it was done, I stayed in the room for another 10 mins to rest, now with hubby inside then got dressed, walked out. Everything happened in a span of 30 minutes or less.

That night, I cried my heart out. Hubby never let go of me all night. He wanted this more even before we were not yet married. Minsan napapaisip ka rin bakit yun iba unplanned pero they go on to have healthy pregnancies. Ikaw na gustong-gusto, ikaw un mawwalan.

I still am in the grieving period. I guess we'll try after 2 or 3 mos. I am 32, hubby's 35, there's not much time left. We're waiting for the pathology report. This time, magpapaalaga na ko sa OB for sure.


Tips:
If you really want to get pregnant, I highly recommend to have tests done on you and your partner first to make sure everything is ready for the baby. HAd I known, I would have gone to an OB first. Mas mahirap kasi na saka mo lang malalaman na may health concerns ka pala kapag buntis na and there's a need to resolve it, or else...

Buy ovulation test kits. We used Clearblue, very accurate. We did the deed once and tested positive,

Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: wahmjunkie2 on September 02, 2015, 08:21:02 am
Cont,

For women who have negative RH or blood types such as B-, A-, and so on, check if you have developed an antibody. Ask for an antibody screen test. This is one of the reasons why miscarriages happen. Please read more about Rhesus factor and pregnancy.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: simpleemie on September 10, 2015, 05:44:44 pm
agree. yung iba unplanned, and i know someone uminom ng gamot para malaglag pero ayun mag 1 year old na yung bata at normal. Pero tayo na planned, with vitamins at check up nami miscarriage pa.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: icedtallcoffee on October 03, 2015, 05:28:20 am
^ I can relate to this, too. As soon as I found out I was pregnant, I quit coffee agad. Cold turkey! I bought folic acid even before I went to the OB. I felt like I did everything "right" (my best, at the very least). It's even more annoying when I hear comments like "stressed ka kasi" or whatever else that when you read between the lines, it's as if ikaw yung may kasalanan why the miscarriage happened. I tried not to feel bitter when I saw a pregnant woman smoking. I mean, WTGDF!!!

Pero ganun talaga. :(
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Post by: fionaapple on October 03, 2015, 09:14:12 am
not sure if ganun sa lahat ng hospital, yung recovery room ng mmc, sama-sama lahat ng na D&C, na-CS, and normal delivery. So, I'm there -- separated with just curtains with other moms holding their babies. E nagising ako agad from the sedative. I wanted to get out of there asap!

^ganito din experience ko nung D&C ko. Yung room ko semi private.3 kami sa isang room. Separated by accordion doors. Yung dalawang kasama ko mga nanganak na mommies. Andun pa relatives nung isa, isang barangay sila ang ingay ingAy pa. They were very excited about the mommy who is still giving birth at the delivery room. They were talking and joking around very loudly and saying things like: sino kaya kamukha? Ang cute cute siguro niya?

Behind my accordion doors, I cried. Especially when they started gushing when they newborn was brought inside the room.

Sana hindi ganun ang policies sa hospitals. Hindi nila alam gaano kasakit makunan.

The visiting relatives were so noisy we had to ask the nurse to ask them to tone down their voices.
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Post by: bk on October 06, 2015, 02:06:50 am
I have something to share...I'm pregnant again! Yehey! If you'll backtrack my posts, nagpost ako dito nun July about my miscarriage. Tapos ngayon preggy na ulit. So sa mga sis na nawalan ng baby, wag mag-alala dahil pwede pa naman makagawa ulit. Siempre merong grieving process pa rin pero there's always sunshine after the rain. :)

I just have this fear na baka maulit yung nangyari (knock on wood). Super traumatic. Based on my calculation, 3 wks preggy pa lang ako. Naka 2 positive PTs na ko at til now wala pa period ko plus I can feel my boobs na medyo ouchie na just like when I was pregnant in May. I'm really praying and hoping na maging ok na pregnancy ko this time.
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Post by: fionaapple on October 06, 2015, 08:25:36 am
I have something to share...I'm pregnant again! Yehey! If you'll backtrack my posts, nagpost ako dito nun July about my miscarriage. Tapos ngayon preggy na ulit. So sa mga sis na nawalan ng baby, wag mag-alala dahil pwede pa naman makagawa ulit. Siempre merong grieving process pa rin pero there's always sunshine after the rain. :)

I just have this fear na baka maulit yung nangyari (knock on wood). Super traumatic. Based on my calculation, 3 wks preggy pa lang ako. Naka 2 positive PTs na ko at til now wala pa period ko plus I can feel my boobs na medyo ouchie na just like when I was pregnant in May. I'm really praying and hoping na maging ok na pregnancy ko this time.

same situation sis, D&C last April 28. tapos ngayon almost 10 weeks pregnant na ako.
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Post by: simpleemie on October 08, 2015, 10:10:03 am
happy sa mga na bless ulit.. doble ingat mga sis. i hope ako din sa tamang panahon God knows naman when Im ready na.
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Post by: emmylou on October 15, 2015, 07:17:43 pm
I experienced miscarriage at 17 weeks of AOG last Nov 12, 2007. I was brought to the hospital because my bag of waters broke. Pinaglabor pa nila ako ng 7 hours. Masakit kasi lumabas siya ng buhay. Nakita ko pa na kumakaway siya. Siguro he was saying goodbye to mama. Sakit noon. He is now an angel baby for 8 years by November. I miss him terribly. Thank God I was given a rainbow baby after 3 years.
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Post by: krissy_629 on October 16, 2015, 04:15:41 pm
^im so sorry to hear that sis. *hugs*
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Post by: peypi18 on October 20, 2015, 06:40:24 pm
Im currenty 7 weeks pregnant, i had my spotting last sunday oct. 18 and until now im bleeding, malakas na kasi sya so hindi na spotting parang mens na mahina. Yesterday galing ako sa OB ko ginawa nya na 3x ang duphaston ko at complete bed rest. When i was 5 weeks nag pa transV ako normal naman at may heartbeat. I dont know whats happening talaga nakaka depress ayaw ko maging negative pero im starting to face the fact na i might have miscarriage soon. Sayang kasi yung daughter ko 6 yrs old na perfect na masundan sana. Sana malagpasan ko to mga sis nakaka depressed everytime mag wee wee ka mapula yung urine.
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Post by: unomhalen on October 20, 2015, 10:53:34 pm
sino same ko na blighted ovum.? nagbleed na kasi ako like meron akong period,and meron naring mga buong dugo na lumabas sakin,pero maliit palang ng kunti hindi ssya sobrang laki,,,do i have na magparaspa para matanggal yung SAC? or meron natural way para mailabas sya?
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Post by: icedtallcoffee on October 22, 2015, 03:45:33 am
^ Ilang months na based sa size? Yung sa akin kasi, after ko mag-bleed heavily, the doctor asked me to get an ultrasound to check if may natira pa. She prescribed me with meds at maglinis ng buong bahay and other heavy activities, pero di pa din lumabas lahat. Na-D&C pa din ako after.
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Post by: Miss Granger on October 30, 2015, 04:43:19 pm
Upon reading ng mga post nakakaiyak naman. I'm sure un mga guradian angels niyo na din ang mga baby niyo. :(

I'm 5 weeks on the way, and a first preggy as well. Hoping and praying for a safe, healthy and happy pregnancy!
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Post by: fionaapple on November 13, 2015, 07:46:39 am
Cont,

For women who have negative RH or blood types such as B-, A-, and so on, check if you have developed an antibody. Ask for an antibody screen test. This is one of the reasons why miscarriages happen. Please read more about Rhesus factor and pregnancy.

during my first pregnancy which was terminated due to blighted ovum last april 28, 2015, i did not have my blood checked because i told my doctor I am a blood donor and both my parents have O+ bloof type and Rh factor. after my miscarriage, i did not change my OB. but for my second pregnancy now, i decided to have myself checked again so we can all be assured that i am indeed an O+. i told him i want to have my Rh checked to be sure it is + because of the possible complications/ repercussions.

according to my OB, it is quite rare for pinoys to have a negative Rhesus factor. Negative Rh factor usually occurs in Caucasians/Westerners
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Post by: peypi18 on November 16, 2015, 10:09:39 pm
Im on my 12 weeks this week, had my ultrasound earlier and findings was intrauterine embryonic demise. The fetus is already dead in the uterus. Nakaka sad kasi i did my best complete bed rest, meds everything my OB asked me to do but still my baby left me. Unplanned ang pregnancy ko this time but then along the way nag prepare ka emotionally, mentally at physically then you'll found out na wala na pala. Nakaka trauma pala i was crying the whole day until now..
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Post by: deiz on November 16, 2015, 10:10:57 pm
Just this August, malapit na 3 months. Unang baby sana namin ni Hubby. Ito try kami ulit, jhoping na makabuo. Baby dust to everyone.
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Post by: simpleemie on November 16, 2015, 11:03:07 pm
same  tayo. pray lang sis.
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Post by: jhegallo on November 21, 2015, 10:59:02 pm
2 weeks post partum.. I had stillbirth :( Fresh pa yung lungkot at sakit. Emotional pa rin lalo pag nakikita ko mga clothes saka mga gamit ng baby boy ko.. First baby ko. First apo rin ng parents ko.. Kapag nakakakita ako videos ng babies sa facebook naiiyak ako. Lalo pag nakikita ko husband ko na malungkot, mas nasasaktan ako. :'( nakita ko gano sya kaexcited nun para sa first baby boy namin. Lagi nya kinakausap si baby nun sa tummy ko saka tuwang tuwa sya kapag gumagalaw. Haaay naiiyak tuloy ako.. :'(
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Post by: simpleemie on November 26, 2015, 12:15:32 pm
I hope youre coping kahit papano. Release mo yan sis.
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Post by: peypi18 on December 04, 2015, 08:03:00 pm
Just got out from the hospital yesterday, after two weeks of waiting na lumabas ng kusa kasi wala na heartbeat my OB decided to do D&C na. Mahirap kasi sa recovery room mga katabi mo mga nanganak at lalapitan ng attending physician at sabihin congratulations. I had to close my eyes para kunyari tulog ako kasi masakit eh nandun pa rin yung bitterness at pang hihinayang.
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Post by: simpleemie on December 08, 2015, 04:19:00 pm
This month dapat may 2nd baby nako. Nakakasad pa din.
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Post by: Which is Witch? on January 04, 2016, 10:13:01 am
I had a miscarriage about a year ago. Blighted ovum daw at 8wks.
Sa mga nababasa ko dito, maswerte pa palang never nagkaheartbeat bago mawala.
Kasi mas masakit kung malaki na tapos mawawala pa. Lumipat ako ng OB, yung new ob ko was very proactive. She had me tested for APAS agad kahit 1 miscarriage palang. (Usually yung mga nagtetest for APAS, eh yung may recurrent miscarriage na and hirap magconceive) And then ayun, APAS positive nga ako. After 6mos ng miscarriage ko, nagstart na ko ng treatment for APAS (LIT, aspirn, etc). NagTTC narin kami nun.

Then after 5mos of TTC, i got pregnant again. Started injecting heparin/ innohep everyday since nalaman ko na preggy ako. I'm still on my 1st trimester, so far healthy naman. . Pero super scared. napakapraning ko, everytime na magCR ako, i'll check kung may spotting. Thankfully wala naman. every week is a milestone for me.Hindi maalis yung takot sakin.  sa ngayon, I entrust everything to God, I trust that He will not let us experience yung miscarriage again.

Sticky babydust to all! Praying for all of us!
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Post by: simpleemie on January 04, 2016, 12:42:24 pm
ano yung APAS
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Post by: fionaapple on January 04, 2016, 01:43:19 pm
every week is a milestone for me.Hindi maalis yung takot sakin.

^pareho tayo. every week is indeed a milestone. na d &C rin ako last may 2015. after 2 months, pregnant ulit. maraming nagulat. excited kami ng husband ko for our rainbow baby. so far, healthy naman siya per ultrasound result.
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Post by: Which is Witch? on January 05, 2016, 06:45:39 am
sis simpleemie, antiphospholipid antibody syndrome, malaki yung risk ng blood clot, kaya everyday injection sa tummy ng blood thinner to prevent it

sis fionaapple, ang galing diba! dumating agad ang rainbow baby! :) kelan due date mo sis? goodluck sa ating pregnancy sis!:)
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Post by: fionaapple on January 05, 2016, 09:35:30 am
^yup. marami talagang nagulat. ang bilis kasi. very happy kami kasi siyempre, di naman kami nahirapan mag try ulit.

due date: may 12, 2016. naadjust nung nagpa ultrasound kami nung 20th week. nasa 22 weeks and 5 days na ako. near 23rd week na!  excited ako sa pagdating ng next prenatal checkup scheduled on jan. 16, 2016. kasi gustong gusto ko kapag naririnig ko thru doppler yung heartbeat ng baby ko.:) na re-reassure ako na, she is growing healthily.
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Post by: Which is Witch? on January 07, 2016, 08:01:20 am
^wow! konti na lang sis!! go go go! Ako din excited every ultrasound, kasi nga diba, di ko pa mafeel yung movement nya kasi maliit palang sakin, kaya assurance talaga pagmakikita mo at maririnig mo. :) take care lagi sis!

Para sa mga sis na naexperience ng miscarriage, God has a better plan at dadating din yun in time! Just wait for that time :) God bless us all!!!! :)
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Post by: realshaddy on January 08, 2016, 08:27:07 am
I had miscarriage at 23 weeks. Sobrand sakit. First baby sana, 9 years namin hinintay. I had pprom, due to incompetent cervix. Nag cerclage ako, stayed sa perinatal dept ng hospital for almost a month. I did evrything naman. Sobrang sakit talaga. Parang diko kaya.
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Post by: rachy on January 13, 2016, 08:10:58 am
Ako, im trying to be strong. I had two miscarriages both in year 2013(5 weeks and 7 weeks) and 1 stillbirth last oct. 2015(baby boy at 29 weeks and 5 days.Wala pa kami baby. Im still crying everynight. My husband and i are praying to have a  brighter future this 2016. We just think that our only option is to go on with our lives and we should be happy. I wish good health for all of us!
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Post by: Which is Witch? on January 13, 2016, 08:58:19 am
sis realshaddy and sis racy, sorry for your losses. :(

sis rachy, ano daw cause ng miscarriage?ano sabi ng doctor mo sis?
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Post by: realshaddy on January 13, 2016, 03:18:02 pm
Its been a week, pero yng sakit ganun pa din. Naalala ko pa ang baby ko. More than 6 months na din sya e. Baby na talaga. Kumpleto na din lahat ng parts nya. Sobrang nagtatanong ako kung bakit. Sobrang sakit
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Post by: coco_cola on January 15, 2016, 08:00:45 am
Sis realshaddy, sorry for your loss. Praying for your recovery.

Ano daw reason behind ng incompetency cervix?
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Post by: barbillie on January 15, 2016, 09:18:29 am
What do you call when you got a positive in PT but still had your period few days after? Chemical pregnancy? I think I had one last year. :(
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Post by: realshaddy on January 15, 2016, 07:01:11 pm
@coco_cola

Actually wala naman reason sa incompetemt cervix e, baka daw previous operation, wala naman ako previous operation, or baka daw im born with it. Malas lang. Ganon. Sabi ko nga sobrang rare lang yung case ng incompetent cervix, sakin pa napunta. Hirap na nga ako magbuntis, incompetent cervix pa.

Im soo lost, i feel soo empty. Parang walang katapusan na kalungkutan
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Post by: ayee10_cha on February 05, 2016, 10:37:04 pm
tom saturday 1 week ng wala baby ko (6weeks) hindi na siya nag grow and sobrang bumaba na yung sac ko kaya nag bleeding ako. ang sakit sakit pa din. i still cry everynight. lalo na yesterday dapat kasi 8 weeks na si baby and dun namin maririnig ang heartbeat niya if ever. sa ngayon i still don't know how to recover. 3years namin siyang pinagdasal, 6 weeks lang namin siyang nakasama.
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Post by: yelcher on February 09, 2016, 11:51:03 am
@ayee10_cha, Our situation is the same. I'm supposed to be on my 7th week, but yesterday we found out that the baby stopped growing at 5 weeks. Walang laman ang gestational sac. Since Saturday, I was bleeding and cramping and it was confirmed yesterday na wala na nga. Still in bed now, just waiting to expel everything out. Did you go through a D&C? I hope we get pregnant again. Kami din, almost 3 years na ttc and this is first pregnancy. :(
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Post by: MagicJ on February 22, 2016, 08:47:11 pm
Just want to share my misscarriage experience. Last year, December 2015 my fiancée and I knew that I am 2 months pregnant. I'm really happy and it's been the most wonderful feeling I ever had. Pregnancy confirmed a healthy baby with heartbeat but after 2 hours I got bleeding. OB advised me to have a bedrest. Got bleeding on January 1 and I was so worried so I did visit another OB (since my OB is on Holiday). Via TVS baby found no heartbeat and did not developed anymore (two weeks before our wedding). That day is full of heartache for me, recovery was very very painful emotionally and physically. Up until now it feels like there's an empty space left in my heart. I always find myself crying at night.

I'm not sure if another pregnancy will relieve all the pain. I'm so afraid that I'm not strong enough to go through the same pain again. :(
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Post by: sablmx29 on April 04, 2016, 03:44:16 pm
Hi mga sis. I had a natural miscarriage last March 20. 2 weeks na magmula nung araw na yon. Hindi na ako nagpa D&C kasi mukhang okay naman daw yung bleeding ko. So far wala na akong bleeding ngayon pero under observation pa din ako since my bhcg is still at 230 and yung pregnancy test ko ay positive pa din. Sa mga nagnatural miscarriage, ask ko lang kung ilang days or weeks bago nagnormalize yung bhcg nyo and nagnegative yung preganancy test?
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Post by: airwaterfire on April 08, 2016, 03:34:59 pm
^
natural miscarriage din ako. mga after 2 weeks yata negative pt na.
nagpa tvs kana ba ulit? kailangan kasi yan para makita if makapal or manipis parin ang lining ng matris mo.
 
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Post by: futuremom on April 27, 2016, 09:07:56 am
sobrang hirap mawalan ng anak.. 👼🏻👶🏼
ako po 8mos naipaanak kopa sa normal delivery .. pero 2days iniwan din nya ko.. 😭😭

Premiemommy, my experience is almost the same as yours. Can i have your contact number? Can i call you? Don't know how to send pm here.

To all fellow angel moms here, i salute you for your strength and courage. The pain is real, and to tell you the truth sometimes i think i'm already losing my mind. Sometimes i'm positively ok while sometimes i'm too down extremely exhausted after breaking down in tears. Sometimes i feel relief sharing my story to people who ask about my situation while sometimes i just keep myself in isolation. I don't know why my feelings just keep on changing especially when i see babies, sometimes i like looking at them, other times it just makes me more miserable.

My husband is starting to worry already. Right now, my husband is the only one i talk to. I keep avoiding other people, even my family and friends. Im afraid i might hear hurtful words that will not help me at all. Thinking that they havent been on my situation to ever understand what i feel.

I just keep on praying to God for strength. And i pray also for all moms of angel babies, may we be able to survive this stage in our lives. And may God bless us with rainbow angels in His perfect time.

Ps. If there's anyone here i can talk to, pls send me a message. thanks in advance
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Post by: k_heart on April 27, 2016, 11:22:48 am
^Big hugs for you sis futuremom! Will include you in my prayers! dOn't lose hope and continue
Praying!🙏🙏🙏
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Post by: longing on May 13, 2016, 07:46:22 am
I had blighted ovum and nagpa-d&c din last 2007. Got pregnant 2 months after, my daughter is turning 8 y/o this year. This 3rd pregnancy is somehow unexpected because I just got off the pill to cure PCOS. We're about to do ovulation induction then we found out that I was pregnant. Last week the baby only has 61bpm heartbeat, my OB said it is really a 50/50 chance. Found out a couple of days ago that there's no more cardiac activity hence, had my d&c yesterday. I'm still here at the hospital and waiting for my OB to give clearance so I can go home na.

I was really sad and crying my heart out last night while I was alone sa hospital but we believe God has greater plans for us why this has happened.
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Post by: yannuh on May 13, 2016, 09:48:14 am
^so sorry to hear your loss sis. hugsss!:* kaya mo yan sis, alam nating may plano si Papa God na mas better sa nangyari kaya let's just trust him.
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Post by: premiemommy on May 14, 2016, 04:11:13 am
Premiemommy, my experience is almost the same as yours. Can i have your contact number? Can i call you? Don't know how to send pm here.
Ps. If there's anyone here i can talk to, pls send me a message. thanks in advance

Hi sis so sorry for your loss. ngayon ko Lang nabasa,nag pm ako sayo sis sana mabasa mo,
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Post by: catzz_28 on May 28, 2016, 11:20:47 pm
Hi to all! I recently had a miscarriage with our first baby, last May 25 lang. Akala ko yun na yung wedding gift ni God kasi we got married lang this last March 5. Supposed to be 8 weeks na si baby pero 6 weeks 4 days lang sya sa ultrasound last May 20, he had oligohydramnios, kaunti yung amniotic fluid nya kaya di malaki yung gestational sac kaya di sya lumaki because nadehydrate ako kasi nag LBM ako cause of Anmum, his heartrate that time is 153 bpm. Sobrang happy namin that time kasi may heartbeat na si baby, akala namin magiging ok si baby kasi sabi ni doc malaki ang chance na magsurvive kasi kapit na kapit na di baby, inom lang daw ako ng madaming tubig, which I did after we got home. Come Saturday, May 21 at 6pm may nakita akong brown spot sa toilet bowl noong nagpee ako, sobrang takot ko kasi baka yun na yung effect nga oligohydramnios na I'll lose our baby.😢  Search ako sa net sabi normal daw, pero tuloy tuloy na yung small amount of blood, alam ko di na spotting to, I'm a nurse din kasi kaya sobra na kong natakot, I lost my hope, tawag na ko kay doc, sabi nya bed rest and take duvadilan every four hours. By monday na ultrasound ako, andoon pa si baby pero mahina na ang heartbeat, that time nag breakdown na ko, ang sakit sakit na mamamatay si baby sa loob ng katawan ko. We waited baka sakaling magkamilagro. Come wednesday, 3 am palang gising na ko di na ko makatulog pagkakita ko sa undies ko sobrang dami ng blood, ang bilis na ng tibok ng puso ko, ito na yung sign, we already lost him, nagpa ultrasound kami at 9am andoon pa si baby pero wala na talagang heartbeat. Pakiramdam ko noon sinalo ko na lahat ng kamalasan, feeling ko sobrang nagiisa ako, na kasalanan ko lahat. Haaaaay sobrang devastated kami ni hubby that time, he even cried so much na naghyperventilate na sya. Nag natural miscarriage ako, at 6pm lumabas na yung placenta, then after an hour may lumabas ulit na malaking tissue, I think yung sac yun. 2 days kaming iyak ng iyak, sabi ko ubusin na natin yung iyak natin para makapag move on na tayo. Today is my birthday, i try to be positive na may better plan si God kaya ganon ang nangyari saamin, na ayaw nya din na mahirapan kami kasi hindi normal ang laki ni baby. I'm just praying na sana makabuo ulit kami at sana sa susunod ipahiram na ni Lord ng sobrang matagal na panahon.
Sorry sobrang haba na ng kwento ko.
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Post by: airwaterfire on May 31, 2016, 10:58:21 am
^
Did you keep the placenta and the sac?
Mine, I kept in a bottle with formalin. Hindi ko binutas ang sac kasi nasa loob ang fetus.
Normal miscarriage din ako 10 weeks(aog) pero lumabas siya, 12weeks na sana dapat.
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Post by: premiemommy on May 31, 2016, 10:28:12 pm
Sorry for your loss sis, wag ka mawalan ng pag Asa and tiwala ka Lang Kay God. There's always a perfect time for you and your husband,Just keep on praying . Bute nga mabilis ka nabuntis sis, ako 2years bago ako biniyayaan ni GOD sa panganay ko pero kinuha din sya saken last year 2days pag katapos ko sya ipanganak . Sobra ako natakot na baka mahabang panahon na naman hintayin namen bago kame bigyan pero nag tiwala Lang ako sa kanya I prayed hard.and now I'm 5months pregnant. 😊
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Post by: francinebaby on June 02, 2016, 05:57:18 pm
Hi po new lang po ako dito... Sis realshaddy ask ko lang.. Khit nagpa cerclage ka na hindi pa rin nagsuccess pregnancy mo? Sana mabasa mo to... Tia
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Post by: catzz_28 on June 02, 2016, 10:31:03 pm
Sis airwaterfire, ibinalot ko sa tissue then I seal it with scotch tape tapos ibinalot ko sa white cloth with white lace then ibinaon namin sa garden tinaniman namin ng flowers para makikita namin na may life after mawala si baby. Gusto ko sana ilagay sa bottle kaso ayaw ni husband natatakot daw sya.

Sis premiemommy, I didn't lose my faith with God, pray pa rin ako ng pray na sana nasa heaven si baby kasama nya at sana bigyan pa kami ng mga anak na ipapahiram na ng matagal, hoping by July mag conceive ulit ako, ok naman daw uterus and ovaries ko sabi ni doc mabilis daw ako mabubuntis, haay sana totoo, congrats sis on your pregnancy! Have a healthy, and happy pregnancy!😊
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Post by: airwaterfire on June 03, 2016, 08:32:41 pm
Don't worry sis, meron yan. Darating yan sa tamang panahon.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: premiemommy on June 07, 2016, 03:12:44 am
Thank you sis, tiwala Lang☺️🙏🏻.at wag mo I stress-in sarili mo maka conceive, ako kase parang my month ako na iniisip ko dapat mabuntis na ako. Siguro dahil na din sa nangyare, 8months din kame nag try sis nun napapansin ko wala nangyare, inenjoy ko nalang love making namen ni hubby, at sabe ko Kay GOD sya na bahala Kung bibigyan man kame, yun time pa ng Jan.ng wala na sa isip ko mabuntis ayun dun pa ako nka conceived.

Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: introvertpig on July 02, 2016, 12:34:36 am
Hi! Just want to ask. Is it possible to have miscarriage on the first month of pregnancy? Because I think I had one, last April. Thanks!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: airwaterfire on July 02, 2016, 02:36:57 pm
^
Possible. Lalo na kung irregular dugo mo.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: introvertpig on July 03, 2016, 12:01:02 am
@AIRWATERFIRE, like paano po na irregular na dugo?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: MalditaNgaAko on August 28, 2016, 04:31:37 am
May bago na po bang thread para dito? If meron po, pa advise na lang ako. TIA

Anyway, I recently had MC last Thursday lang. First baby sana. As per my LMP, 5 weeks na sya.

Aug 17 - i tested positive on pt.
Aug 20 - sobrang sakit ng left side ng puson ko. Pero nawala din after 20mins. No blood. Nag abdominal ultrasound ako, walang nakitang sac. Sabi ni OB prolly 3-4 weeks pa lang ang baby. Mag tvu daw kami after a week.
Aug 24 - nagspotting ako ng brownish, minimal lang.

Aug 25 - fresh blood na sya. No pain. That same day, nagpa TVU na ako. Weird kasi wala si ob na makita na sac o kahit ano sa tummy ko. Pero merong parang mass daw. Baka daw ectopic pero usually sobrang sakit daw pag ganun. Then, nagtuloy na yung heavy bleeding.
Aug 26 - Sobrang sakit na ng tummy at likod ko. Then may lumabas na tissue na parang liver at kasing laki ng golf ball. After nun nawala na yung sakit.

Im not sure if nailabas ko na lahat since wala namang nakitang sac sa tummy ko. Nung nag IE si ob wala na daw syang makapa na loob ng tummy ko pero she advised me to take methergin. Two tablets pa lang nainom ko, iba na effect saken -- sobrang hilo, daze, muscle pain, sobrang init kahit nasa ac ako, palpitations. Di ba dapat contractions at parang labor pains ang mafefeel ko? Pero wala naman.

Please advise naman po mga sis. Di pa nga nagsink in saken na wala na ang baby ko, super clueless din ako sa nangyayari.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: airwaterfire on August 28, 2016, 09:55:31 pm
pag irregular kasi, may chance hindi mo alam na yong delays mo na ilang araw buntis kana pala, tapos andun ang partner mo, tapos bigla dinugo ka na parang normal lang.

unless naka monitor ka sa lmp at araw na may nangyari sa inyo ng partner mo at nag count ka tapos nag p.t.

kung wala namang p.t at feeling mo lang na miscarriage yun, baka delay ka lang. pwede ka pa check sa ob at pa tvs.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: MalditaNgaAko on August 28, 2016, 10:36:41 pm
I forgot to mention sis na nagpa bhcg ako nung day na lumabas yung tissue. 180 mIU/ml pa. Kaya niresetahan ako ng methergin. Baka daw kasi may naiwan pa sa loob ko. Sa wednesday, another bhcg test para matignan kung normal na hcg ko.

Kaya lang sis, di na ako dinudugo kahit 2 days na akong nagtake nung methergin. Wala ring cramps, pain or contractions..
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: airwaterfire on August 29, 2016, 02:55:17 pm
^
baka nakalabas na lahat.

sa akin kasi  almost 3 months yong fetus ng nalaglag, normal delivery sa bahay lang.
text ko lang si ob at pinakita sa fb messenger ang lumabas na sac at placenta. after natigil ang bleeding at cramping, nagpa tvs ako para ma check if numipis ba lining ng uterus ko. kung makapal pa sana painumin na ako ng methergin. buti nalang nipis na siya at hinintay ko nalang ang menstruation ko. noong nag menstruate(after 1 month) na marami lumabas, may tissues pa.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: introvertpig on August 31, 2016, 03:46:56 pm
Sis @MalditaNgaAko, I think same tayo ng experience. Kasi March may nangyari samin nung ex ko, tapos 3days after may spotting na ko na brownish. Nung mga first week ng April nafefeel ko na mejo may kakaiba na sa katawan ko, especially sa breast part. Pero dinedma ko lang. Until nung mga mag-last week na kakaiba na yung pain na nararamdaman ko especially sa lower back ko. Tapos nagbleed na ko ng super lakas non, and may mga tissues na lumabas. Pero hindi super malalaki, pero buo sya. Di ko alam that time if miscarriage talaga sya pero nafeel ko kasi na hindi normal yungbleeding. Alam kong kakaiba sya, kasi kakaiba din feeling ko. Until nagpacheck up ako sa OB, nirequest nya ko for TVU, wala namang nakita na sac that time. Pero ang sabi lang makapal ang lining ng matres ko. Siguro ectopic din yung baby since nasa lahi din namin yung ganung case.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: jowvxyz on September 13, 2016, 09:06:00 am
I had 5 miscarriages before, including triplets. I thought hindi na ako magkaka-baby because dami nang complications but now I have 4 wonderful kids. God is really good talaga. Never lose hope, He has better plans.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: Lynfinn220 on November 26, 2016, 03:16:10 am
@sis introvertpig and sis MalditaNgaAko same situation, aka ko regular mens pero after few days ng mens nag brown spotting then bright red bleeding. after several beta HCG ,CBC, urinalysis and UTZ miscarriage. first baby sana after waiting for more than 4 years.
Title: consecutive neonatal losses
Post by: nanaygel on May 06, 2017, 11:40:31 am
hello. bago lang po ako dito. I was wondering if may nakaexperience po dito kagaya ng sa akin.
I had my first born via emergency cs in 2010. he was a health baby boy, aog was 41 weeks. he is now a spirited 6 year old boy now.
in 2012, I had my second born via cs. aog was 39 weeks, but we soon lost him bec of pneumonia and neonatal sepsis.
march this year, I gave birth to a baby girl via cs. aog was 38 weeks and 2 days. a day after, we lost her bec of pulmonary hypertension, sepsis and congenital heart defect
 I lost two consecutive babies and I dont even know the reason.
meron po kaya sa inyo nakaexperience ng ganito. nakaroon pa po ba kayo ng healthy baby after ng consecutive losses? may marerecommend po ba kayo na doctor na mag aalaga sa akin during my pregnancy? I dont want to stop trying, I still want another baby.
thanks in advance.
Title: Re: consecutive neonatal losses
Post by: iwannabeasupermodel on May 06, 2017, 01:21:13 pm
sis important din how many days after birth sila namatay. di ba naeexplain sayo ng doctor bakit namamatay yung mga babies? it's your right to ask for explanations and the doctor owes it to you. if baby is healthy. marami kasing reason bakit na-cs ang isang mommy, bakit ka ba daw na emergency cs?

2nd baby, bakit nagkapneumonia? nagkain ba niya yung dumi niya? marami babies nagkakapneumonia for different reasons. it's not uncommon.

3rd baby ang medyo nagkakaiba, may congenital heart disease, nagkaroon ng pulmonary hypertension because of the CHD. what kind of CHD? may butas ba daw sa puso?

How old are you now sis? how old are you with your other pregnancies? do you have DM, hypertension, asthma, allergy? do you have regular prenatal check up? with ultrasound? where did you give birth, i'm assuming sa ospital kasi na-cs ka but is it public or private hospital?
Title: Re: consecutive neonatal losses
Post by: hushush on May 06, 2017, 03:11:04 pm
I agree with sis MD iwannabesupermodel..dapat tanungin mo yung ob na nagpaanak sayo at yun pedia na sumalo sa baby mo..i have similar experience with my 1st born..til now pag naaalala ko yung nangyari na di nila sinabi sakin ang true reason bakit napneumonia yun bata.naconfine for more than 1wk ang anak ko dahil nilalagnat na ako at nagchichill ayaw pa ako ics ng ob..then nun mabalitaan ko nagkapneumonia sabi nya sakin na dahil daw may uti ako..syempre first baby kaya ignorante ako.nalaman ko lang na nakakain ng meconia yun bata nun 2nd baby ko same hospital at same CS din ako..lahat ng nurse dun kilala pa rin ako at alam nila lahat na naconfine yun baby dahil nakakain ng pupu..tapos kami hindi namin alam!panay ask ako sa ob nuon pero kung ano ano lang din ang sinabi sakin..angsama talaga ng loob ko..til now pag naaalala ko yun sumasama luob ko..pede ko sya kasuhan kung tutuusin nun time na yun ..muntik na pala mamatay ang anak ko dahil sa kaartehan nya..ayaw nya ako i-cs kasi pinipilit nya ako mag-nsd! May karma din sya kaya yung anak nya na-dengue later on..
Title: Re: consecutive neonatal losses
Post by: iwannabeasupermodel on May 06, 2017, 04:33:03 pm
tama si sis hushhush. dont be afraid to ask and make sure na you understand ano ba talaga nangyari. for what happened to the babies, mas okay na tanungin ang pedia. and siguro dahil din doctor ako, i'm not happy with "dahil sa pneumonia" or sa nagcardiac arrest pag may nagkwekwento ng sakit, ask bakit nagkapneumonia. alamin mo yung underlying cause. nasa death cert yang mga yan sis though sometimes di na nilalagay. go to the very root of the problem.

so i guess for the last baby you had, ask anong klase ng congenital heart disease yan. kahit ba medical term, take note and just read up about it sa internet. at least it's fully explained. maraming congenital heart disease, meron dahil sa mga di nag-sarang butas sa puso, meron din yung dahil sa di tama ang connection ng mga vessels. and ano cause ng sepsis niya. mga ganun. then ask bakit siya nagkaroon, is it because of a maternal factor para maprevent mo sa further pregnancies mo.

kahit ba pay or charity, private or public hospital yan. it's just a little inconvenience for them compared to a life loss on your end.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ohmyghie on May 12, 2017, 03:47:33 am
meron ba dito nakaexperience na ng nanganak na malaki ang tiyan ni baby dahil sa tubig?
1st baby namin ni misis ko kaya ingat na ingat sya sa lahat ng kinakain at ginagawa nya but
7mos ng makita sa ultrasound na malaki ang tiyan ng baby namin ni misis ko ..
Apr.24,2017 checkup nya, pero nakita na nakabuka na [textspeak!] cervix nya kaya in-admit sya sa hospital para turukan ng pampakapit at pigilan lumabas si baby  kasi kulang pa sya ng 3weeks. pero habang lumilipas ang oras lalo syang bumababa kaya nagpasya na ang mga doktor na ilabas na si baby dahil parang gusto na nya lumabas..force labor ginawa sa kanya kasi nga di naman nya nararamdamang sumasakit [textspeak!] tiyan nya.. Apr.25,2017 8:15am lumabas ang baby boy namin na si Armin Raigne, gaya ng nakita sa ultrasound malaki ang tiyan nya na parang puputok at hirap sya huminga, di pa alam anong dahilan kaya need daw i-ultrasound si baby..syempre dahil gusto namin maging ok sya, pumayag naman kami. but sa kasamaang palad 11:10pm bumigay na si baby namin :( ..ang sabi ng mga nasa nursery lumalabas daw sa bibig nya [textspeak!] tubig na naging dahilan kaya nahirapan sya huminga. di daw nila ma-pump [textspeak!] tiyan kasi baka mag burst out lalo..sobrang akong nalungkot ng araw na un, karga ko sya papuntang punerarya para ipa-embalsamo, iyak ako ng iyak. dun na nalaman na tubig nga ang laman ng tiyan ni baby namin halos 1liter daw..Inisip ko na kung tubig lang [textspeak!] lumalabas dba parang lungad lang pag lumabas tagilid mo lang konti para makahinga ng maayos?parang gusto ko sisihin mga tao sa nursery kung bakit di nila na-monitor si baby ko alam naman nila na complicated [textspeak!] lagay nya. pero ayoko na manisi ng tao, lagi ko nalang na iniisip na hindi na sya mahihirapan pa huminga at kasama na sya ni God ngaun. I just want to know if may nakaexperience na ba ng ganito na malaki ang tiyan ni baby ng dahil sa tubig, gusto kong malaman ang reason para if ever na magbuntis ulit si misis ko maiwasan na namin ang pangyayaring to.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: laniegege on May 29, 2017, 02:07:14 pm
may 2 babies na ko unexpected na nagbuntis ako last november...
november 17 - nag positive pt
november 18 - pacheck up na ko kaso wala accredited na doc for free na ultrasound under health card
november 20 may pain na sa balakang ignore ko baka kako pagod lang
november 21 pa ultrasound ako before ultrasound wiwi ako may buo buo na dugo d ko alam na si baby un kala ko bawas lang. di na nakita sa ultrasound. i went to my ob bukas na cervix ko.
nov 22 balik kay ob kc masakit naglagay na tablet para ibaba un inunan natural way na [textspeak!]
nov 24 naginaw na ko ob decided na to have d&c

until now nadepress pa din ako iba pala pag nakunan ka. we are trying again pero di pa nasundan. hay pagod na ko mag pt hahaha
Title: Miscarriage
Post by: nelefeandrew@gmail.com on June 06, 2017, 07:01:01 am
Hello everyone..newbie here! Just wondering Sa mga nabuntis na..anyone here na Naka experience magpahilot tapos nabuntis pero nakunan Lang? Nagpahilot po ba kayo ulit?  Thanks in advance Sa sasagot 😀
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: shukranhabibi1219 on August 19, 2017, 04:29:13 pm
9 years ttc here then got pregnant last june 23, but aug 3 my baby's heartbeat stopped. i decided to miscarriage thru medicine. i started to bleed last tuesday lang. hopefully i will pass out everything so no need na for d&c. still in the process of coping up. there are good days and there arw better days. hopefully i will get pregnant agad and it will be full term na this time. may we all have healthy pregnancy next time sissies. lets stay positive!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: aidaduhaylon on September 13, 2017, 11:51:46 pm
hi all,

sana po may magreply sa inyo kailangan ko po talaga ng tulong, medyo mahaba po

june 21 1st day ng period ko, natapos ng mga june 25

july 5, fertile ako saktong 15th day from my last day of LMP, 1st time ko makipagsiping at 32 pero di kami nakapagpenetrate, though my sperm spill si bf sa vagina ko while trying 3x namen triny overnyt, twice din sya nagcum while trying, and yung fingers nia may sperm din kapag hinahawakan nia ko, wala kaming protection, 35 na din kasi sya, ok lang sa min magkaanak, pareho kaming virgins, so di talaga kmi makapagpenetrate, nsasaktan kasi ko, so gang door lang sya ng opening ko di nmen mapasok.

july 9 puntang ob kasi im discharging, sabi nia bugbog lang pwerta ko mukang pinilit mapenetrate daw ng partner ko, pero di nga daw napenetrate, maliit lang din lasceration, pag gumaling daw yun buo uli yung hymen. pwede daw ako mabuntis sabi ni doc kahit outer sex lang kami, kasi twice nagcum si bf sa gate ng entry ko, and he's trying to insert his finger na nahawakan nia din with his sperm

july 21 one month na pero di pa ko nagkakaron, bale 20 days din since nagtry ako makipagsex yun na ang 1st and last kasi

july 24  i started having pregnancy symptoms, pagkahilo, laging mainit ang body nasal, sumasakit ang boobs, may mga twinges sa tummy, laging naiinitan kahit naka aircon, sumasakit sakit likod, consistent sya everyday.

july 29 Nagpt ako pero negative

august 12 tantya ko six weeks na ko preggy pero negative sa pa dn 2nd PT at negative din sa serum blood test pagpunta ko OB I took serum blood test but negative

within that whole week, may mga times that I discharge

august 19 two brown spots on my undies

august 20 dinugo ako pero walang amoy at parang fresh blood lang amoy, di ko alam kung mens ba sya, kasi negative naman ako sa mga tests, super cramps, malakas sya at buo buo, itim itim nung una, naging reddish eventually nung mga next days

august 23 unti unti na nawawala mga prenancy symptoms ko. though hilo pa din ako palagi.

august 24 parang may mga clots or ewan ko d ako sure

august 27 natapos mens ko or baka mc.  nagkaron ako ng mga pahabol na brown mens at mabaho sya sobra

august 28 super cramps pa din ako

september 2 super cramps pa din ako, radiating na yung pain hanggang hita ko at umiiyak na ko sa pain, lower right pelvic pain din sharp, at may nakalinger na heavy pain sa singit na parang ngalay, at may sharp twinges din sa pusod

that night nag pa ER na ko sa MCU, salbahe mga nsa ER pinagtatawanan nila ko dahil negative ako sa infection, negative pa din daw ako sa PT from blood test na di naman nkakapagtaka dahil more than a week na yung mens ko natapos

I was about to have a pelvic exam that night pero ang sakit di natuloy, so di nasilip pelvic ko

september 4 nagpatransrectal ultrasound ako, walang nakitang gestational sac, at normal din daw size ng uterus at manipis lang din daw yung lining, pinainom lang akong antibiotics for discharge

that whole week sa antibiotics, minimal na lang yung pain, parang may sumusundot na lang na sharp pain sa pusod, at sa right lower pelvic area

september 11 tapos na yung 7 day antibiotic, super cramps, lingering na naman yung pain sa lower right pelvic,na parang may ipit at sharp pain, at gumuguhit na naman sa hita, madaling araw ng sep 12 hanggang right leg na yung pain

september 13 na mejo masakit pa din parang may gustong lumabas sa pipay ko parang may gravity pull na pain, masakit din yung pwet ko maliban sa hita, radiating pain sya, though nwala na yung tusok sa pusod, parang more on muscle pain na sya ngayon sa pipay na parang gravity pull, sa hita parang muscle pain, tapos masakit din pwetan ko.

Nakunan ba ko kahit never ako nagpositive sa blood test? Takot ako magpa Pelvic exam nakita ko sa youtube, di ko kakayanin yun, as a matter of fact kahit fingers ni bf di nia daw magpa 1/4 nung 1st and last time namen magtry nung jul 5, di nasunduan yun eh kasi natrauma na ko

San pong doctor pwede magpacheckup? Yung di ako pagtatawanan or di maartehan sa kin, sa MCU sinungitan ako ng doctor. Pwede po yung pelvic exam with anaesthesia? Kasi 1st time ko makakita ng speculum sa MCU ang laki, di ko kaya yun, and when they tried di natuloy kasi parang pinupunit talaga nila ko, pinakiusap ng ate ko wag na ituloy

September 14 na I'm still in excruciating pain sa lower right pelvic, taas lang face ng pipay, tapos lingering yung pain, radiating pa sa thighs :(

Please parefer naman po sa mabait na OB

Sana po may sumagot
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: lakwatsa on September 15, 2017, 10:58:56 am
^if hindi ka positive sa PT at saka sa blood test, then you are not pregnant and di ka nakunan. Nabanggit mo negative ka din for infection so that is good. Inultrasound ka na rin naman and wala nakitang abnormalities so that is good, too.

But I suggest, magpa urinalysis ka. Kasi baka you have UTI. Common yun sa mga first time e kasi naiiba flora and fauna.  :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: Emzkyle88 on February 11, 2018, 10:31:30 am
Hi newbie here,
I have Miscarriage last Sunday Feb 04,2018 my baby in my tummy is 14weeks and 5days na and its a baby boy. But before it happen, di ko alam na buntis pla ako since November pa kasi wlang morning sickness or any signs. Ang naalala ko lang i lost my appetite. May mga foods akong ayaw kong kainin and i loose weight. Nov. 1st week i have mens but only 1day..irreg ang mens ko so di ako nag isip that i was preggy. Dec 1st week nagpa check up ako sa Clinic coz i think it was gastric kc sumsakit tyan ko so may niresetang gamot for it. No mens for Dec.... Pagka January 2nd week la parin akong mens and my nakapa ako something sa puson ko na parang  bilog so cnav ko sa hubby ko buy me PT and voila! Its positive. After a week pa bago ako nakapunta OB, sa sonogram nakita na yes i have a baby in my tummy and already 12weeks 5days. My hubby was crying coz its his 1st baby. Maingat naman ako then suddenly last week ng Jan. May something brown discharge sakin i go to check up and get a sample baka may infections. Nakita pa namin baby ko na super active. Monday start ng brown discharge and sunday morning may lumabas na blood then next is contraction na. Ni rush ako sa hospital and when the Ob check she said my gusto na daw lumabas, i dont know if anung reaksyon ko kc i feel takot, shock, naiiyak. Then when she done the TVS half of fetus daw is lalabas na tlaga.  [textspeak!] na kaming nagawa.. After 2hrs maybe lumabas ang baby and no hearbeat. On the next day, niraspa ako. Sobrang sakit ng feelings ko, pati hubby ko iyak ng iyak. Until now, it was 1week already but [textspeak!] sakit dito pa. Sabi ng hubby ko we must have to moved on, magpalakas ako and we try again kc kahit daw iiyak kami ng isang taon dina maibabalik c baby. Sabi pla ng OB sakin, saturday plang [textspeak!] na c baby ang reason naubusan or nawalan na ng tubig maybe diko. Lang namalayan na nag leak na [textspeak!] water kc that time may ubo din ako. Be strong lang sa mga katulad kong nagka M/C maybe its not the right time pa para satin.. Hoping and praying ako na this year mabuntis agad ako.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: AmbersMom on April 03, 2018, 12:22:49 pm
^ So sorry for your loss. I can say na I feel you. I had miscarriage 4 years ago with my 2nd pregnancy. We waited for that baby for 7 years. At 6 weeks yung usual na TVS they found out na wala heartbeat yung baby. Kaya pala all of a sudden yun cravings, yung pagod nawala. I didnt had raspa tho, hinayaan lang sya lumabas but ilang beses ako nag pa TVS to make sure na wala na naiwan kasi buo sya lumabas. We tried getting pregnany after a year.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: Teptep0717 on July 12, 2018, 08:49:09 pm
Hi po. I am 3 months pregnant (2nd pregnancy). My first TVU was noong 7 weeks ako. Normal naman. 136 heartbeat per minute. May nakaranas po ba sa inyo na araw-araw masakit ang puson at white discharge pero amoy dugo? Thanks po
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ragt28 on July 16, 2018, 09:51:45 pm
I recently has a MC too  :(

Based on my period tracker, June 27 dapat meron na ako, I was not expecting na preggy ako since medyo stressed na the past few weeks and may PMS ako na nararamdaman, eh same lang din pala sya sa pregnancy symptoms so medyo keber lang ako. 6days na kong delayed, nag-fade na yung PMS pero wala pa din ako mens and medyo nafifeel ko na gassy ako at bloated pero di pa din sumasagi sa isip ko magPT. Napansin lang ako kasi iba daw aura ko, so the next morning nagPT ako.

July 4 (morning) positive faint line then hapon ulit, faint postive pdn.
July 5, (morning) nagtry ako ng medyo pricey na PT, faint positive pdn pero mas mabilis lumabas [textspeak!] 2nd line and mas clearer.
July 6, (afternoon), i tried again kasi doubtful pdn ako sa reslt, still, faint positive pdin [textspeak!] resulta.

July 7, I went to my OB, ang computation nya, I'm 5weeks and 6days na dapat, OB was congratulating me already but she advised na magpaTVS ako. During the TVS, no gestational sac was seen pero thickened endometrium na. Nagpa Beta HCG din ako and the result was only 66. OB said baka may miscalculation lang daw AOG, hindi din ectopickasi mababa naman yung HCG levels ko. She advised na balik ako ng July 14 for another TVS and to check if my development.

July 10, lunch time, nagkaroon ako ng minor cramps that lasted for only a few seconds, di ko naman ininda but nung nagCR ako pagwipe ko may super light pink ako nanotice. 2nd CR, same pdn then mas noticeable na. Our nurse advised me to take a halfday and punta na daw ako sa OB kasi may cramps akong naramdaman. Di sumasagot OB ko and mas malayo kung ppuntahan ko sya so I went to another OB, sbe nya, normal lang naman dw yun sa early pregancy, she gave me Duphaston to take 3x a day for 2weeks then balik daw ako for TVS to check the development. So medyo narelieve naman ako na baka nga pagod lang ako. But paguwi ko sa bahay, bigla akong may naramdaman na tumulo, dugo na pala :( after that ambilis na ng mga pangyayari, the next day I went to my original OB, TVS agen but this time ang diagnosis is PUL and numipis [textspeak!] endometrium. I was advised na magbed rest for 1-2weeks and balik ng July 21. Pero di kami mapakali, bu Thurs nagPT ako, negative na :( kinaumagahan, I was advised na magpa Beta HCG agen and balik kay OB. Result was 4 nalang and kinonfirm na ni OB nanagka pre-implantation miscarriage na ako.No need for raspa since numipis naman na. Sobrang sad lang, 1 week lang akong nasa cloud9 tas biglang may nagpop ng bubble tas natapos na sya ng ganun lang.

Sana wala ng mommies na makaranas ng MS, sobrang nakakapraning isipin kung bakit at san ka nagkamali. Haysss,
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: misbelled on July 19, 2018, 02:05:24 pm
Same situation. Very early miscarriage ata yung sa akin at 6 weeks. 3 days lang din kaming super happy tapos bad cramps, spotting then bleeding one day. Kusang lumabas yung tissue na sa tingin ko embryo in a sac. I went to an OB and had a TVS which showed I was not pregnant. No need for DNC kasi clear yung uterus. Hindi siguro talaga kumapit.
1 year married and trying hard to conceive for 6months. Dapat siguro mas aware ako pag trying to conceive. PT after 10 days para alam kaagad. Merong kayang gamot to thicken the endometrium lining? Feeling ko lang yun yung naging concern sa akin.
On the lighter side, at least alam namin na possible kaming maging preggy. Nothing majorly physically wrong with either of us sana.     
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ragt28 on July 19, 2018, 03:26:59 pm
^sis misbelled, ganyan din. Pinasabik lang ng positive PT tas nawala din. Naresetahan ka ba ng folic acid? Sbe saken ni OB, ituloy tuloy ko lang daw yun everyday since trying to conceive naman na kami, para daw atlis maready na [textspeak!] babahayan ni baby when it's time. Same feels kasi atlis alam na namin na possible tlaga kami mgkababy. Tamang timing lang talaga.

On the lighter side, feel namin dumating si baby para ituloy na namin [textspeak!] wedding. Been delaying kasi yun, next yr na sana pero since dumating si baby na baka aun [textspeak!] purpose nya, itutuloy na nmin. Masakit man isipin, pero tama [textspeak!] sbe nila na dadating [textspeak!] tamang time para dun. :)
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: misbelled on July 21, 2018, 06:11:50 pm
Hi, Sis ragt28, nag Folart ako for 1 year na. Baka stress lang talaga. True, it's all timing. How  long bago kayo nag try uli at nabuntis after the miscarriage?

Hindi ko ginawang big deal sa ofc yung miscarriage pero nung nakwento ko sa college friend ko, tinanong niya yung name ng baby kung meron. Nagulat ako at sabi ko hindi namin na isip na ipangalan kasi wala pang heartbeat nun. Sabi niya baby pa rin yun. Di naman ako nalungkot pero napaisip ako. Kayo? Pinangalan niyo yung baby?

Yay! Masaya rin mag asikaso ng wedding. Tuloy niyo na yan. I loved planning kahit low-key lang yung wedding namin 1 year ago.

Baby dust!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: Letizia.c on August 13, 2018, 07:10:46 am
Hello,

Sorry to hear that your pregnancy but you are not alone.

I want to share our story because its hard just to keep it and just move on.
We lived here in Canada for a while.
Our 1st pregnancy isnt plan it's just happened and we are surprise to found out that we are pregnant. We went to ER because I have sharp pain on my lower abdomen and I thought my UTI is active again, from there thats how we found out we are pregnant. Because it was late evening when we went to ER so the ultrasound dept isnt available so they requested to comeback the next day and wait for a call. We came back and found out its was ectopic pregnancy and i need to undergo surgery because it was already ruptured.

2nd pregnancy - after few months on the same year 2015 we got pregnant again and this is a plan one. We are so excited and because we have history of ectopic we went to ER to make sure it isnt. So they ruled it out that day and I was 5 weeks then. Here in Canada it takes time to see your OB-GYN, usually you get to see them on your 11 to 14weeks of pregnancy. So I just see my Family doctor and asked to just take vitamins, so I did. I dont have any symptoms so i was happy that oh it will be a easy pregnancy. Then here comes the day when I had my first official ultrasound, I was alone and travel from work to clinic then waited for my turn and excited to hear the heartbeat. The sonigrapher is really quiet. And she said she'll be back and when she get back she ask me to go to a room and a Doctor will speak to me. Then i found out there is not heartbeat. I was really devastated. Call my husband and he said just wait for few weeks for the heartbeat his still being positive but i was crying while waiting on the bus and tells no it was official the baby didnt make it. The next day i have a spotting and then the next next day of early morning i had severe abdominal cramps and i know thats it. I feel so weak and lonely because i felt i am the one to blame for happening this becuase i still working though i am pregnant. My [textspeak!] even said that you should stop working, so who i am to know that working will be a factor to experience miscarriage.

3rd pregnancy - after 2 yrs got pregnant again this time i take sometime off from work. Bedrest and totally cared by my husband and in laws. I have a severe morning sickness that i vomiy 6x a day, nauseous and dizziness and all i did each day is sleep eat a little drink little and sleep again. So our Family dr said it ok to have severe m.sickness it means the baby is doing well. So first and 2nd ultrasound and first prenatal screening are ok. But the second screening we received a phone call that we need to see my OB-GYN and i started to worry. Good thing i have an appt with my FD the next day and ask whats the result of my 2nd screening he said oh they said we have a risk of down syndrome so i was surprise and shock to hear that but he said this is nothing we dont have to worry about because the ratio is to small like 1 out of 20,000. So it calms me a little. Then after 2 days i met OB GYN (not my ob different dr bec my ob isnt available). Waited for 10 mins in a room alone when the dr finally came in and discuss about the 2nd screening but i was totally shocked when she said you have a high risk on neural tube defects the ratio is 1 of 2 so 50%. I didnt expect it  because my FD said nothing to worry. Then the OB said need to undergo some test to make sure and ultrasound. But we have to wait for about 10 days to have the detailed ultrasound.  Then we read about everything we can search on neural tube. Finally the day ( august 7 2018 )came for the detailed ulteasound and excited to see the baby but we are devastated when the dr said i am sorry your baby pass away. I started crying my husband too and we just hug each other. That day we are sad that we cant even think of anything to do. We talked to a genetic counsellor and we cant even think if any questions but we are just emotional and hurt. So we decided to go home and me and my husband just hug each other that we took us to sleep for the whole day. The next day we went to my in laws and inform them what had happened. They said its ok dont loose hope and then my [textspeak!] side comments "kakapanood yan ng drama". I am a sensitive person but that morning i was numb and didnt say anything. I am the one who open up what happened because my husband isnt comfortable. Now we are waiting for our appointment for dilation and evacuation this coming tuesday.

I have lots of question like i dont feel any pain for the past few weeks. I even ask God why is these happening to us were all we want is to have a kid.but i am not angry or mad i just asks why??? I even try to recall all the food i eat like kaldereta with liver spread, egg tart etc.

My husband is really affected on what had happened but i keep trying to be positive and ask him we need to be strong together.

Please include us in your prayers.

Sorry dahil ang haba ng message but i just want to share it.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: princess_karryl on August 16, 2018, 05:19:57 pm
It was supposed to be my 8th week last saturday but our 1st baby still had no heartbeat so sabi ng ob the pregnancy is no longer viable.  :( i could still remember the smile of my hubby when he saw the 1st tvs and sabi nya the baby kept on moving daw but on 2nd tvs there was no movement inside my tummy.

I did not experience any spotting but there was a time na nag.abdominal pain ako like for 5 secs lang that was friday bfore the sked tvs.
 Ob suggested na magpa.raspa but i asked for an alternative so she gave a suppository. Today is my 2nd day na nakamedication pro wala pa ring bleeding or spotting though mejo masakit na iyong puson ko today..

Kailan kaya ako magbleed mga sis? I domt want to undergo raspa kasi for fear na it will damage the uterine wall or iyong area na paglalagyan ni baby and it will take 1 to 2yrs daw bago mag.heal if na.raspa.. praying that lalabas na si baby :(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: megansmomma on August 17, 2018, 01:46:02 am
Yes, yolanda - nov 08-09,2013..too painful & until now wala pa din kasunod na baby :(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ana mimi on October 11, 2018, 03:02:24 am
Actually di ko ma imagine na magpopost ako dito after ng 2 pregnancies ko.

I had miscarriage last December 3, 2017 at kasabay pa siya ng 10th year anniversary namin. I was 6-7 weeks pregnant then. Ang hirap sobra.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: sophiasoon on October 11, 2018, 05:34:53 am
Actually di ko ma imagine na magpopost ako dito after ng 2 pregnancies ko.

I had miscarriage last December 3, 2017 at kasabay pa siya ng 10th year anniversary namin. I was 6-7 weeks pregnant then. Ang hirap sobra.



I'm sorry for ur loss.  :(
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: silveronfire on May 29, 2019, 01:55:31 am
I just had a miscarriage at 9w5d.   :'(
It was really sad because hubby and I have been TTC for 10 years and this was our 1st pregnancy through our 1st IVF. Sadly, baby was not meant to be. We are trying to be positive about it. Especially, since, we want to try again.. I wanted to ask to all other sisses, gaano katagal bago ma-lose yung excess weight from miscarriage? Does it take long? My miscarriage was completed last may 22nd, but I was given medicine pa to get rid of the blood na natira pa sa uterus. I just noticed na I am not yet back to my pre-pregnancy weight. I did not know na may ganito pala na excess weight pa din after a miscarriage. Lots of things we aren't told about having a miscarriage. Anyway, I started going back to my regular exercises this week. Hopefully, I get favorable outcome na.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: kriskringle on June 04, 2019, 09:31:43 am
I had a miscarriage last year around July and I am on my 9th week back then. I had a check up with my OB pa that time and when I got home I felt some pain below my belly like I'm having different pain level of dysmenorrhea. When I went to the toilet to pee, blood starting to come up and having heavy bleeding. I called my OB if its normal and she said that I need to go to the hospital right away and go straight to the delivery room. The OB on-duty in the hospital made some checks and she did an IE, she said that i'm bleeding badly and worst case, the baby might lose.

I was admitted and the following day I had a transV ultrasound to check if the sac is still there, but unfortunately the sonographer told us that the sac was not there anymore. I was devastated but I still have my faith that it happens for a reason.

My OB gave me some medications to dispense all the excess blood naturally. She comforted us and said that the sperm and egg might not have a good quality that is why it didn't develop.

We just keep on praying to Him that for whatever reason he has, He knows what is the best for us.

After 4 mos, I got pregnant and I am now on my 29th week. Thank you God! It is true that the blessings come when you least expect it. And we are continuously praying that this baby in my tummy will be delivered safely.

Prayer is the key for all of this and do not lose hope. We cried and got broken heart, but still He knows how to heal it and your blessings will be showered upon you on his perfect time.

"God way is better than your way. His plan is bigger than your plan. His dream for your life is more rewarding, more fulfilling, better than you've ever dreamed of. Now stay open and let God do it His way".

:) :) :)




Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: ragt28 on June 07, 2019, 02:43:41 pm
hi sis KrisKringle. i can feel you. namiscarriage din ako last July but at 6 weeks lang. Same din sabi ng OB ko, baka hindi daw healthy yung egg and sperm kaya hindi maganda yung kapit. But just like you, we know, everything happens for a reason, we pursue our wedding last October and last February, we found out na we're pregnant. Currently going 22 weeks.

Yes, first few days, weeks and month, sobrang sakit pa din but we chose to look on a brighter side. And now na dumating na si baby, mas masasabe ko na he/she came in God's perfect time, when we least expect it. Ang sabe ko kasi sa prayers ko nun, ibigay na nya ulit samen kapag alam nyang ok na kami at kaya na namin.

Dasal dasal lang talaga. His plans our bigger than our plans.
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: misbelled on June 29, 2019, 02:02:50 pm
Amen to all the advice earlier.
I, too, had a miscarriage. Not once but twice. First at 4 weeks then at 8 weeks. Super sakit sa puso but I think it helped that my husband was there for me and the family and friends too. It also helped that we're older now, 37, so we're levelheaded and less emotional. The praying always helps.
Of course, I'm sad for my babies but at least they're in heaven looking down on us and maybe protecting us too.
About the weight gain, it's normal but easy to lose especially if the pregnancy was new or early. Regular exercise and less carbs to help it along. 
Now that we're pregnant again, we're happy and hope to have a healthy and safe delivery.

God bless!
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: Clarisse09 on July 12, 2020, 08:34:28 am
First pregnancy ko ito
Nag pt ako june 16 3am then positive, pag dating ng 10 am may lumabas sakin laman with dugo so i guess implantation bleeding yun
June 20 nagpunta na ko ob positive 4 weeks and may SCH pinag take ako duphaston 2x a day
June 22 nag bleed ako, halos black na yung color na may buo buo nagpunta kami hospital pero hindi ako inultrasound pero niresetahan ako vaginal suppository and increase duphaston to 3x a day
June 26 balik kay ob wala pa din heartbeat
Pero bleeding and spotting ako June 22 to 26
Advised to take Duvadillan
Then June 26 to July 4 nawala bleeeding ko but July 5 nagtalo kami partner ko sobrang galit at iyak ko non dinugo ulit ako
July 10 bumalik ob sakto 8 weeks then 172 bpm ni baby

Mga ma'am tanong ko lang normal ba yung mga bleeding ko na yun and mataas ba ang possiblity na magka problem pa sa heartbeat ni baby kahit nung 8th week maganda at malakas naman puso nya, kinakabahan kasi ako August pa kami pinapabalik, medyo matagal.
Title: I lost my Baby Girl ngayon [red][b][textspeak!][/b][/red] August 7, 2020
Post by: Angel_Gail on August 08, 2020, 02:39:24 am
Sobrang sakit para sakin kasi kala ko okay lang si baby sa tummy ko august 6, tulog [textspeak!] ako maghapon then pag gising ko ng mga bandang 6pm masakit na puson ko iniisip ko baka normal lang kaya kumain na din agad ako then mga bandang 8pm nagbuhos ako ng katawan kasi matutulog na ko then after that nung nasa may part na ko ng vagina my nakapa ako sa pwerta ko so sinearch ko lang sa google tapos ang nakalagay normal lang daw then i asked my mom also ang sabi nya lagyan ko na [textspeak!] daw muna ng unan yung balakang ko the nakatulog na ko then mga bandan 10pm nagising ako, pag ihi may dugo kaya tumawag ako kela mama right away kaya natakbo pa ko sa hospital then pagdating sa hospital in.I.E ni doc ang sabi sakin panubigan ko na daw pala yung nahawakan ko da pwerta ko tapos naglelabor na ko that time na blanko isip ko pero nung hinahanap na heartbeat ni baby wala na talaga kaya sobrang iyak ako kc 19weeks na c baby eh, sabi ni doc kelangan ko daw ilabas c baby kya dapat daw umire na ko kada hihilab tyan ko

August 7, around 12-1pm nailabas ko c baby ang sabi ni doc may konting pag galaw pa c baby kc buo na nga sya hanggang sa niraspa na ko my konting paggalaw pa din sya kaso sobrang baba daw talaga nag chance na mabuhay sya since 4 1/2 months pa [textspeak!] c baby kaya bukas August 8 ililibing na ang baby ko na hindi ko manlang nahawakan kc nga groge ako

Pero sana bigyan pa ulit ako ng chance ni papa god magka baby uli kc may angel na ko
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: crazykei on March 24, 2021, 07:49:12 am
I'm turning 33 soon, don't have a child yet. I had 2 miscarriages(1 year apart), the 2nd one happened around December 2020. I really thought it was already God's Christmas present for me and my partner but unfortunately I lost it.

Both pregnancies turned out to be early miscarriages and OB can't provide any sort of explanation because all the tests I went through have good results and we can't pinpoint the cause. I wanted so bad to have a baby na but I'm afraid we will just lose it again.

Anyone who had same experience but had a baby after multiple miscarriage?
Title: Re: Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?
Post by: exquisitegem on March 25, 2021, 11:41:03 am
^I haven't experienced yet sis but I want to send you virtual hug. In God' perfect time, I pray that you will be blessed with baby. (Mahigpit na Yakap)