Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 4)

[ladysapphire]

^^ i know how to play and flirt naman. but kasi parang nabibilisan naman ako masyado if like say first date pa lang though yes the attraction is there. i dont know how to act on it. so ang nangyayari umiiwas ako or i reject the flirtation. hehe

[budzwhiz]

When a guy says "baka magselos bf mo" does that always mean may something para sa kanya?

My boyfriend keeps on insisting pinopormahan na daw ako, di ko pa alam. Because the guy said those things. Para sakin wala lang talaga yun and I'm 99% sure wala rin yun sa guy, he's like my kuya na and I'm sure he thinks of me as his friend's younger sister. Haha. And alam ko namang hindi ako ganon ka-manhid para di makaramdam.

[minatay91]

ang hirap ba ng question ko? kahit sa friends niyo lang

[no736]

When a guy says "baka magselos bf mo" does that always mean may something para sa kanya?

My boyfriend keeps on insisting pinopormahan na daw ako, di ko pa alam. Because the guy said those things. Para sakin wala lang talaga yun and I'm 99% sure wala rin yun sa guy, he's like my kuya na and I'm sure he thinks of me as his friend's younger sister. Haha. And alam ko namang hindi ako ganon ka-manhid para di makaramdam.

ma'am palagay ko pinopormahan po kayo nung guy hehe. it's like giving a hint na he has a thing for you, however you're already taken.

kung ako merong friend na girl, and wala naman talaga akong pagtingin sa kanya, hindi ko na kailangan sabihin ng "baka magselos bf mo", dahil WALA akong bagay na gagawin na ikaseselos ng bf nya at hindi ko siguro maiicip na baka magselos si bf sa mga simpleng kwentuhan namen 

[no736]

(assuming you're taken) How often do you lie about being single and why?

on my case, i wouldn't. because i already found the right girl.

other guys might do such because they are not serious with their current relationship and is still looking for something or someone fit for them.

dating is sorta trying out a relationship to see if the couple are fit to marriage. so 'maybe' other guys do it, as they are still on the look for that special someone that they think would fit them for forever.

[minatay91]

ahh.. backpocket relationship pala mr.736? parang "ikaw lang.. muna until I find the right one."

attachment but no commitment

[no736]

ahh.. backpocket relationship pala mr.736? parang "ikaw lang.. muna until I find the right one."

attachment but no commitment

or they just simply wanna mess around.. sad to say this is happening. other guys have their own reasons i wouldn't know.

not my kind of thing though.

[budzwhiz]

Thanks no736, I asked na din sa guy na kakilala ko, and he said the same thing. haha.

Question: Do you wear briefs (not boxers) OR is it okay for you guys to wear briefs lang around your sisters?

[sacred cow]

Question: Do you wear briefs (not boxers) OR is it okay for you guys to wear briefs lang around your sisters?

Nope I don't wear briefs, I don't think it's appropriate to only wear briefs around the house...boxers oo

[no736]

Thanks no736, I asked na din sa guy na kakilala ko, and he said the same thing. haha.

Question: Do you wear briefs (not boxers) OR is it okay for you guys to wear briefs lang around your sisters?

i wear briefs when going to work, then boxers sa bahay.

and like sacred cow said, it is inappropriate to wear only briefs walking around at home with your sisters around  eww

[budzwhiz]

Hahahaha! Thanks sacred cow and no736, couldn't agree with you more. Kahit naman yung kuya ko boxers oo, but briefs, no way. May pagka bonjing din pag ganun e. Well, aside from being inappropriate.

[junepets]

hi guyz..

medyo tahimik dito ah..

hmmmmmm...

here's one:
would you know, from just looking at a girl... that she is good or great in bed?

[lesters_gal]

Dating kayo in 7months.he kept telling you na hindi sha inlove sayo. Pero nung nakikipag hiwalay ka na at gusto mo na tapusin kung anong meron kayo bakit sha umiiyak? Paki explain naman guys.

[ms_teryosa]

question for guys...
if you're dating someone and during few dates eh may nangyari agad sa inyo nung girl, ntuturn off ba agad kayo like you see her as easy to get or some kind of b**** or dumadating din naman sa point na tingin nyo pwede rin naman sila seryosohin?

[ijj2k]

May question po ako ...

May anak kami ni guy, 2 years na kami pero hindi pa kasal ...
I met his family already and naging close ko naman halos lahat ... pinsan, tita, tito, lola, mommy, kapatid nya ...

Pero lately bakit si guy parang bigla nalang parang dedma, parang cold sa akin, kahit sa anak namin parang ok lang siya na hindi nya nakakamusta (magkahiwalay kami bahay), bihira kami magusap ... ni hindi makaalala mangamusta man lang kung buhay pa kami ng anak nya although nagsusustento naman at hindi naman mahirap hingan ng panggatas ng anak niya ...

Nagdududa na ako kung anong nangyayari, gusto ko siya kausapin pero where should I start? I tried talking to him before pero parang distant siya at parang umiiwas sa kung ano maitanong ko. Hindi ako war freak guys, hindi rin naman ako palengkera, kaso I just need to know how to ask the right questions sana sa case namin na ito. Yung tipong kahit derecho kong itanong kung ayaw niya na ba sa relasyon namin or napapagod siya .. OR WORSE baka may iba na siya

Nasi-stress na po kasi ako sa kanya ... ayoko naman na pangunahan siya and conclude na meron na ngang iba. Alam ko rin na madami siyang isipin at dami siya problema, pero sino bang wala??? Hindi naman ata right reason un or enough reason na basta ka nalang manlalamig tapos iiwan mong nakabitin sa ere yung tao ...

Pls pls help, especially sa mga guys. bakit may ibang lalaki na ganito? ... hindi ko alam gagawin ko e. Need all your advice po. TIA!

[Naughty^GuRu]

would you know, from just looking at a girl... that she is good or great in bed?

In reality, wala namang good or bad na girl in bed. as long as the girl is willing to try things then Good siya, if not, then she's Boring.

To answer your question, No! wala sa looks yun, minsan the most innocent looking girl ang mas Hot, Wild, and good in Bed. I met this UA&P chick before, innocent face and classy kumilos, pero pag dating sa bed she's very dirty, she's cursing and talking dirty in tagalog

Dating kayo in 7months.he kept telling you na hindi sha inlove sayo. Pero nung nakikipag hiwalay ka na at gusto mo na tapusin kung anong meron kayo bakit sha umiiyak? Paki explain naman guys.

7 months is no joke, baka nanghihinayang din siya sa time and emotions na nainvest niyo sa isa't isa. I can't tell if inlove siya sayo or not, pero kung sinasabi niyang NO, totoo man or hindi then tama lang to end it. 7 months kayong dating then hindi pa siya inlove sayo or dinedeny niya na inlove siya sayo. para lang kayong naglolokohan or parang niloloko ka lang niya. wait, are you sure na Dating nga kayo and not just a casual hangout buddy? 7 months of dating without commitment, hindi mo pa sinasagot or hindi pa siya nagtatanong? baka naman hindi talaga siya nanliligaw, hence, hindi siya inlove sayo

question for guys...
if you're dating someone and during few dates eh may nangyari agad sa inyo nung girl, ntuturn off ba agad kayo like you see her as easy to get or some kind of b**** or dumadating din naman sa point na tingin nyo pwede rin naman sila seryosohin?

case to case basis I think. pero my take on this personally: yeah i'll find the girl cheap and might not pursue her na as a GF. kung nakukuha ko naman ng free yung sex without commitment then bakit pa kita i-gigirlfriend? unless the guy is really into you. and hindi mo masisisi yung guy kung mag isip or magtanong siya kung nagawa mo na yun before sa iba mong ka-date

May question po ako ...

May anak kami ni guy, 2 years na kami pero hindi pa kasal ...
I met his family already and naging close ko naman halos lahat ... pinsan, tita, tito, lola, mommy, kapatid nya ...

Pero lately bakit si guy parang bigla nalang parang dedma, parang cold sa akin, kahit sa anak namin parang ok lang siya na hindi nya nakakamusta (magkahiwalay kami bahay), bihira kami magusap ... ni hindi makaalala mangamusta man lang kung buhay pa kami ng anak nya although nagsusustento naman at hindi naman mahirap hingan ng panggatas ng anak niya ...

Nagdududa na ako kung anong nangyayari, gusto ko siya kausapin pero where should I start? I tried talking to him before pero parang distant siya at parang umiiwas sa kung ano maitanong ko. Hindi ako war freak guys, hindi rin naman ako palengkera, kaso I just need to know how to ask the right questions sana sa case namin na ito. Yung tipong kahit derecho kong itanong kung ayaw niya na ba sa relasyon namin or napapagod siya .. OR WORSE baka may iba na siya

Nasi-stress na po kasi ako sa kanya ... ayoko naman na pangunahan siya and conclude na meron na ngang iba. Alam ko rin na madami siyang isipin at dami siya problema, pero sino bang wala??? Hindi naman ata right reason un or enough reason na basta ka nalang manlalamig tapos iiwan mong nakabitin sa ere yung tao ...

Pls pls help, especially sa mga guys. bakit may ibang lalaki na ganito? ... hindi ko alam gagawin ko e. Need all your advice po. TIA!

gano na katagal yung 'lately' na hindi niya pagpaparamdan? baka he is going through something. since in a relationship naman kayo, pwede mo naman siya kumustahin and ask what's going on with him. ask him if he is going through something and offer him help. we guys have a tendency kasi na solohin ang problema. don't over think and conclude na may something fishy siyang ginagawa. for now, the best thing you can do is kausapin mo siya. pag sinabi niyang he is well and wala namang problem, saka mo siya tanungin kung anong plano niya or plano niyo, tell him how you feel. be honest

[sacred cow]

question for guys...
if you're dating someone and during few dates eh may nangyari agad sa inyo nung girl, ntuturn off ba agad kayo like you see her as easy to get or some kind of b**** or dumadating din naman sa point na tingin nyo pwede rin naman sila seryosohin?

nope, I don't see her as easy to get or whatever. it just tells me she's interested and that I'm not wasting my time being with her kesa naman sa pa hard to get at ayaw mag put out

[lesters_gal]

Bro naughty guru yes we're dating.  Sabi niya he really really likes me pero yun nga hindi daw sha inlove, never daw sha nainlove sa kahit na kaninong babae. I don't know if it's true. I asked him kung ano kami, ang sagot niya lagi sa akin is he's happy with me, and contented but yun nga hindi daw sha inlove. At he wants to stay single because hindi daw niya alam kung kaya niya maibigay yung responsibility. Sinabi ko rin sa kanya na mahal ko sha, pero we can't go on that way forever, mahirap ang walang title sa isang relasyon. Is it possible ba sa mga guys in 35 years of your life never kayo na inlove?oh well baka hindi lang ako talaga ako yung girl for him

[Naughty^GuRu]

@lesters_gal: impossible na never pa siya nainlove, baka nafeel na niya yun before or nafefeel na niya sayo yun ngayon pero hindi lang niya alam na love na pala yun. baka hindi lang niya alam kung ano ang definition of being inlove. yes, mahirap yung situation niyo right now kasi technically hindi naman kayo in a relationship. may agreement ba kayo na exclusive lang kayo for each other? playing safe si guy, ang tagal niyo nang dating and openly sinasabi mo sa kanya na you love him pero siya wala lang. to be honest, baka ang tingin sayo ni guy eh meantime girl ka lang. maybe he is waiting for his 'ideal girl'. hindi ko sinasabi na leave him and end yung set up niyo ah, kasi i might be wrong. pero ang advice ko lang, huwag mo paikutin yung mundo mo sa kanya. huwag kang umasa para hindi madisappoint kung in the end i-drop ka niya

[lesters_gal]

Wala kami agreement na exclusive dating kami. We said our goodbyes na yesterday, super iyak siya, but he didn't ask me to stay.... So i guess hindi talaga ako kawalan sa kanya.. hindi ko na kasi kaya. I did everything for him pero wala parin, nakakapagod, hindi mo alam where you stand.  Last night he kept texting me na magkita daw kami uli next week for the last time para ibigay yung gift niya sa akin for christmas pero hindi na ako nagreply.  P.S. madali lang ba sa isang guy na umiyak? I don't know if his tears are geniune or crocodile tears lang.