signs that your guy is cheating on you

[vermich]

@jonduh saka ko na sasabihin yan. My sister still lives with me pero I up to now hindi pa alam ni hubby nya may naka install na app tracker sa phone nya. Mas tipid kaysa maghire ng private investigator 20k for 2 days?! Apps na lang.

Nakikita pa namin yung messages ni girl sa hubby nya na hiwalayan na yung sister ko tutal ginagamit lang naman daw yung pagbubuntis nya para mag stay sya sa marriage pero si guy gusto na magstop. Grabe kakapalan ng ibang girls na mahilig kumabit sa may sabit na! Desperada na ang peg!

[malhiz]

hello, i just need an advice.
marriage ako for 6 years , with 1 son 5.. nahuli ko po yung hubby ko ng nambabae and i confronted him inamin naman nya..., pinalayas ko na sya but still bumalik pa din sya sa bahay. ang reason nya di nya daw kaya na hindi kame kasama pero nakikita ko na ang lake ng pinagbago nya.. feeling ko gusto nya lang talaga makasama yung anak namin.. feeling ko wala na talaga syang love for me.. hindi ko po sya maka usap ng maayos, lage galit... gusto ko na makipag hiwalay sa kanya dahil ayoko na magsama kame dahil lang dun sa baby.. pero kahit [textspeak!] pong  gawin ko palayasin at makipag hiwalay sa kanya di sya nakikinig.. feel ko na talaga na ang layo n ng gap namin.. subrang nahirapan na po ako. please help... what should i do.? 

[missybee]

Pag nagkaroon ka ng infection cause by multiple partners.
Pag may mga buhok na ibang kulay or iba ang haba at kapal.

Mga mommies, I check Lagi ang front sit ni hubby sa car. Maglagay ng palatandaan kung paano mo siya pinihit or nakatutok sayo, then kinabukasan check mo kung same padin ba..
Pag napihit yon, that means may sinakay siyang ibang girl.

[Girltalker2]

hello, i just need an advice.
marriage ako for 6 years , with 1 son 5.. nahuli ko po yung hubby ko ng nambabae and i confronted him inamin naman nya..., pinalayas ko na sya but still bumalik pa din sya sa bahay. ang reason nya di nya daw kaya na hindi kame kasama pero nakikita ko na ang lake ng pinagbago nya.. feeling ko gusto nya lang talaga makasama yung anak namin.. feeling ko wala na talaga syang love for me.. hindi ko po sya maka usap ng maayos, lage galit... gusto ko na makipag hiwalay sa kanya dahil ayoko na magsama kame dahil lang dun sa baby.. pero kahit [textspeak!] pong  gawin ko palayasin at makipag hiwalay sa kanya di sya nakikinig.. feel ko na talaga na ang layo n ng gap namin.. subrang nahirapan na po ako. please help... what should i do.? 

Kung decided ka na talaga na ayaw mo na sa asawa mo, puede ka naman umalis with your child.

Laging galit/aburido attitude at di makausap - sign din na may ibang babae, pero hindi 100% true.  Most of the time lang.

[diann28]

Sakin naman yun 3yrs kami mag bf/gf ng asawa ko
 
( ako una ng loko samin noon. Nahuli ako ng kapatid nya. At nag kabalikan. Nag promised ako sakanya at kay god pag nagkabalikan kami eh faithful nako at sya lang talaga wala ng iba... nag kabalikan kami pero naging pasaway si kumag for 3yrs )

- friendster days palang its complicated ang status wala ako picture kahit isa
Sinabi ko married nya at lagyan ng pictures namin at ginawa nya naman. Pero may isa pa pala sya friendster at dun single at ka friendster puro chicks nya.

- sa cp nya pang work eh ako lang at mga close friends family ka work ang naka save at ka text nya. Pero nahuli ko sya may 3310 cp at dun mga ka text mga babae nya

- withdrawal ginagawa nya pag lovemaking kami.
Pero madalas may makikita ako condom sa bag nya or sa kwarto nya.

- pag date kami eh gusto nya sa isang place lang kami naka tambay. Ayaw mag lakad lakad sa mall o sa park. Pag katapos kumain mas gusto umuwi nalang kami sa bahay nila.

- pag nahuli ko may babae ( pa iba iba babae . Wala pa naman sya binalikan ex nya ) hinihiwalayan nga nya. Pero mag hahanap nanaman ng iba biktima.

* tinanong ko sya bakit ganon sya sakin. Ayaw nya naman mag hiwalay kami at ayaw ko din kasi mahal na mahal ko sya. Sagot nya lang .. gusto nya lang daw mag sawa sa buhay binata. At matikman ang lahat ng tukso para pag nag pamilya na kami eh masasabi nya. Na exprienced nya na yan. At alam nya mali. Kaya di nya na gagawin.

- present - 4yrs na kami mag asawa (4 yrs na din ako house wife . At on call work nya kaya 2 - 3 × a week lang work nya kaya madalas asa bahay lang sya. Pero bayad sya everyday ng company nila with or without call )

- bago kami kinasal de activated na lahat ng friendster at facebook nya. 4yrs na din sya nakiki facebook sakin. At sa facebook mobile nya naka log in ang facebook account ko.

- yun cp nya wala password at sakin madalas ipabasa mga text kasi busy nag o-online games. Kalaro bf ng kapatid ko

- 4yrs na hangangg ngayon sweet pa din at lagi main event na gift sakin pag birthday.ko wedding anniv mothers day valentines day eh CAKE ... WALA PALYA NA CAKE . Tuwing christmass lang nag gi-gift ng gadgets.

- pag nag kayayan ng inuman ng mga barkada kapatid sa bahay nya dinadala mga ka inuman. Minsan nag aayaw sya sa inuman o kaya uuwi ng mas maaga sa set ko time.

- tuwing sunday pinapasyal namin nag iisa anak namin sa mall. Visit sa church. Tapos dadalaw kila mother inlaw. Para mag bigay ng allowance or dagdag budget Sa daily needs nila.
So far sa 4yrs kami kasal mabait pa naman si kumag

[bonita111809]

hello, i just need an advice.
marriage ako for 6 years , with 1 son 5.. nahuli ko po yung hubby ko ng nambabae and i confronted him inamin naman nya..., pinalayas ko na sya but still bumalik pa din sya sa bahay. ang reason nya di nya daw kaya na hindi kame kasama pero nakikita ko na ang lake ng pinagbago nya.. feeling ko gusto nya lang talaga makasama yung anak namin.. feeling ko wala na talaga syang love for me.. hindi ko po sya maka usap ng maayos, lage galit... gusto ko na makipag hiwalay sa kanya dahil ayoko na magsama kame dahil lang dun sa baby.. pero kahit [textspeak!] pong  gawin ko palayasin at makipag hiwalay sa kanya di sya nakikinig.. feel ko na talaga na ang layo n ng gap namin.. subrang nahirapan na po ako. please help... what should i do.? 

sis, una kong tanong is tinanong mo na ba sya kung anong rason nya kung bakit sya nagloko? pangalawa, mahal mo pa ba sya?

kasi kung mahal mo pa, makukuha mong magpatawad ng buo sa kasalanang nagawa nya. tanungin mo din ang sarili mo kung ano yung nagawa mo at hindi mo nagawa na nagbigay sa kanya ng rason para mangaliwa sya.

[sugardrop]

^
To add to that, kung kaya nyang mapatawad ng buo yung asawa nya, kaya din ba nya na hindi ungkatin yun everytime they get into a disagreement or a prob comes their way?

[bonita111809]

^
To add to that, kung kaya nyang mapatawad ng buo yung asawa nya, kaya din ba nya na hindi ungkatin yun everytime they get into a disagreement or a prob comes their way?

sis, mahirap yan pero doable naman. ayaw ng lalakeng inuungkat yung mga kasalanan nya. tapos na eh, nangyari na. kung 'nagpatawad' lang si babae para bungangaan at ungkat-ungkatin ang kasalanan nya, wag magtaka si misis kung umulit mangaliwa si mister. wag na lang magpatawad kung ganon. magkakasakitan lang silang dalawa.

[happie]

When your guy doesn't want to let you read his phone, that's a sure sign that he is up to no good.

If he is always defensive, that's another way to know he is hiding something from you.

[ladyglam]

When he doesn't let you borrow your phone kahit na wala ka naman balak i-check yung content.

[Miss.Pancake]

When your guy doesn't want to let you read his phone, that's a sure sign that he is up to no good.

If he is always defensive, that's another way to know he is hiding something from you.

Agree ako dyan. Sometimes he would suddenly change his passcode at laging hindi nya mabitawan yun phone nya as if may inaabangan sya.

[kc44]

hello, i just need an advice.
marriage ako for 6 years , with 1 son 5.. nahuli ko po yung hubby ko ng nambabae and i confronted him inamin naman nya..., pinalayas ko na sya but still bumalik pa din sya sa bahay. ang reason nya di nya daw kaya na hindi kame kasama pero nakikita ko na ang lake ng pinagbago nya.. feeling ko gusto nya lang talaga makasama yung anak namin.. feeling ko wala na talaga syang love for me.. hindi ko po sya maka usap ng maayos, lage galit... gusto ko na makipag hiwalay sa kanya dahil ayoko na magsama kame dahil lang dun sa baby.. pero kahit [textspeak!] pong  gawin ko palayasin at makipag hiwalay sa kanya di sya nakikinig.. feel ko na talaga na ang layo n ng gap namin.. subrang nahirapan na po ako. please help... what should i do.?

Kailangan mong ihanda ang sarili mo for any scenario, especially kung maghihiwalay kayo. You are not to blame, and yet he seems to act as if it's your fault. If he feels any remorse at all, he would do anything to earn back your trust and make you happy again -- but if he's only showing anger, then that doesn't look like a man who wants to fix the marriage right? Before you confront him, ask yourself and picture yourself living a life without him. Surround yourself with people who appreciate you as a person and RESPECT you. Do you still respect yourself, or are you wallowing in self-pity? Because if you don't begin to love yourself, expect to be bullied and cowed; expect to be continually be unhappy within your relationship. When you realise that your own husband continues to disrespect you even after everything has been revealed, then its really time for you to take charge of your life and get out of the marriage. Kung hindi nya kaya, sorry na lang sha dahil you gave him the chance to make up for everything, and he was too slow to realise what he had done was HURT you KNOWINGLY and WILLINGLY. Your child will be better off with a role model who's principles are strong and can stick to her guns when it comes to what's right or wrong. When he grows up and you tell him your reasons, he can decide for himself whether your separation was for the best. If you let him grow up seeing how his father treats you (meaning, no love, no caring), he WILL think that is how its supposed to be, and therefore will do the same thing to a future partner. But right now, please regain your self-respect -- consult with a counsellor and a lawyer for options. You do not have to be tied to this man. Count the number of years you have left on this earth and decide whether they will be better spent living a life being loved by someone who truly respects you, or spent living a lie with someone who doesn't just because of a piece of paper that declares you "married". Note, in so many levels, he has already broken those vows, therefore, your marriage is technically invalid. You just need to take the steps to make it legally so, if you want. But if you want to stick together, then be more than just a little firm with your conditions, and you have the right to be vigilant. Earning trust takes years. Your husband should realise that. Kung magagalit sha, then tell him if he's not willing to earn back her trust in this marriage, then it is over. What kind of marriage would you have kung wala na yan diba?

[khaleesiCersei]

May something off or pagbabago sa kanya, be it his treatment of you or sa everyday routine nya. Nagbago ng password sa email or fb at naglolock na ng fone. Deleted halos lahat ng messages sa fone. Higit sa lahat cleared ang logs hehe

[bubbles_sandy]

i guess you can add if he is extra sweet sa iyo lalo na if hindi sya ganun dati. will always shower you with gifts lalo na wala occassion and hindi nya gawain yun, maybe a sign that he is guilty.

that uneasy feeling na you think something is wrong, pero wala kang proof. and yung dreams talaga, you keep on dreaming na may third party. it happened to me, tpos bigla ako nagising and then i checked his fb, ayun dati nyang crush ng message sa kanya pero walang previous conversation sa fb. yun pala sa viber sila nglalandian. i replied to the girl using his fb to stop flirting and wag maging bastos kac babae din sya. buti naman natauhan ang girl.

[killbill]

Instincts. Mine were super accurate! Maliban dun kusa na lang nilantad ng tadhana sa harap ko.

[Girltalker2]

*madalas hindi macontact or di masagot telepono

Or may time hindi nagpaparamdam or nawawala.

This, I think is the #1 sign.

[jenny.babe]

Dati full blast ang communication. Ngayon wala na. Nakakatawa talaga mga lalake, ang bilis nila hulaan. Tapos nakakainis huling huli na nga nagmamaangmaangan pa. Sarap hatawin ng kawali sa face.

[purplegravity]

Yes, instinct works but sometimes its hard to tell. May mga guy na never nagbabago yung treatment sa gf or wife nila so its hard.  You can check their fbs, pag pinipigilan ko tumingin lalo na sa mga messages. It could be a sign.

[purplegravity]

If the relationship is worth fighting for, yes, another chance can be given.  You'll know and feel naman if he is sincere and if he really loves you.  Just make it clear to him the consequence if it will happen again.  For me, its a good na din na nangyari sa amin yan during bf/gf stage pa lang kami. Im sure mas mahirap pag kasal na kayo at may anak.
And true, ang mga guys hanggat kayang makalusot, gagawin talaga. Kaso, may instinct talaga ang mga girls. At magaling din kaming detectives.
Kaya mga guys, mag isip mabuti pag may plano kayong gumawa ng kalokohan, baka mawala sa inyo yung ginto na nasa inyo na at mauwi kayo sa tanso.

[psyche29]

1. extremes. super cold or super lambing. parang pendulum ang ugali
2. inconsistent
3. super defensive. wala pa ko sinasabi may dahilan na agad.
4. SUDDEN change sa habit
5. biglang napupunta sa kweba and hindi macontact ng ilang oras. (walang signal sa bulsa my gulay.)