signs that your guy is cheating on you

[FOURever]

Suddenly nagiging sweet at too mabait.

Mga plano, naka-cancel kasi may work or may school project.

Mahigpit sayo. At daming bintang.

5 years na kami. I guess he cheated kasi nature na niya talaga yun :p worse, kung di niya ako maantay well, it's never my loss

[hermione28]

^^follow your gut feeling sis.... I have nothing against religious people but I despise the ones who KEEPS mentioning God to justify their actions or the situations  coz most of the time, those people ang may mga ginagawang masama, hiding something or guilty of their actions.

Yes sis I know people who do that. but di naman kame ganun, yung parang "i swear to God, etc" ganun lang at hindi parate only in times na super away as in maghihiwalay na pero not always. Kaya samen mahalaga yun, once mention napapahinto kame kasi totoo talaga. As I've said sis kilala ko naman sya, hindi naman sya ganun as far as I know, hindi nya gagamitin si God in vain. Sensya na masyado na ko OT

Gulong gulo lang talaga ko what to believe, which is true.

[FOURever]

^to see is to believe sis. Kami, more than 5 years na kami pero nung unang nangyari samin yan, inulit niya, worse pa ginawa nya. Mahirap pag trust ang nasisira. Mahirap ibalik.. Pero not everyone has the same fate. If you think mag woworkout pa kayo, then go and accept him again. I tried that. I took the risk. But nasayang lang yung 5 years namin.. Buti bata pa rin ako ngayong naghiwalay na kami.. Though nawala half or most ng teenage life ko.. At least nakakapag enjoy na ako ulit without him na aasikasuhin ko pa

[hermione28]

^yun nga sis, wala kasi skong mahuli ngayon kung may iba nga. yung last time nagtext lang tapos nung sinabi kong ako yung girlfriend those 2 girls stopped texting and calling him na. at sa 4 years amen wala pa namang nangaaway saken or something.

sabi ko nga pag may nahuli talaga ko willing ako to let go anytime. ang hindi ko lang magawa is to let go habang wala naman akong mahuli. yung lie reason na ba yun to break up with him?

[jamien]

pag-ayaw pakita ng phone

[FOURever]

^^sis, una sa lahat kung naiisip mo na yan, alam mo na siguro yung sagot. Di ka matahimik kumbaga pero nasa iyo pa rin yan.. Iba iba kasi tayo ng experiences and iba iba naman mga tao.. Yung iba, pag nahuli, nagbabago. Yung iba, hindi dahil matigas pa rin mga mukha. Hehe! Follow your instinct, sis. Ikaw lang nakakakilala sa kanya.. Yung lies, depende yan. Pero kung fidelity kaso kakambal nung lie na ginawa, mahirap sabihin na lie lang..

Back to topic:
Kapag hot n cold sweet tapos biglang cold. Di mapaliwanag ang pagiging moody.

[michipoo]

womans instinct.. i remember before nung ngcheat sakin ang ex ko, hindi ako mapakali.. i have dreams na he's cheating on me everynight. that time wala pa ako idea na may iba pala siya.. kinukuwento ko pa sakanya noon tungkol sa panaginip ko na yun at sabi niya lang "panaginip lang yun blah blah blah".. later on i found out na he is really cheating on me pala..

[FOURever]

^same here. :p hay, mga lalaki talaga (not all, though)

[bubbles_sandy]

sudden changes sa mga habits or activities niya

[michipoo]

^ ay nako sis ngyari sakin yan, sympre bf denied it, nag investigate ako and i asked a lot of questions later on i found out its true, other woman nya yung girl.. ano ba nararamdaman mo babae nga nya yung girl? sometimes or most of the time kasi paniwalaan din ang womans instinct

[bubbles_sandy]

agree, sometimes you really have to trust
your instinct.

[snowflakes]

sudden change-
kung dati sweet biglang hinde na
kung di naman sweet biglang naging sweet
cellphone thing is true - lagi off pag ikaw kasama or laging dala kahit sa cr, pag di mo naman kasama no reply sayo.
no sex at all
lagi galit sayo kahit simpleng bagay lang
lagi may reason to avoid conversations

[buchi]

sa experience ko, nadiscover ko pag magkasama kami, laging late.. tapos parang pagod lage.
may laging tumatawag sa kanya na di niya sasagutin.
magcr lang.. mas matagal pa sa iyo un pala dun sila nag uusap. hahaha
mahaba ang patience niya kahit tampo ka ng tampo.. kassi naman pala may ginagawang kalokohan.
laging "tulog" kala mo naman pagod kasi call center nagtatrabaho.. yun pala may kasamang iba. dalawa silang tulog.

[alexii]

Hindi naman nagkakamali ng kutob ang mga girls e or ito na lang, madalas tama ang kutob ng mga girls. Lalo na pag may nagbabago sa isang guy!

Signs?
-Nanglalamig sayo
-AYAW ipakita o ipahawak ang cp sayo
-Laging busy sa ibang bagay (dati hindi naman)
-Naka-cancel ang mga lakad niyo
-Minsan na lang kayo magkita (dati siya pa ang nagsasabi magkita kayo)

[xtense_15]

sali ako.. tee hee!

pero sakin woman's instinct doesn't work. tapos hindi pa ako yung selosa type, so i really cannot tell.

my long time bf didn't "cheat" technically, inamin nya sakin na he wanted to be with someone else that time, pero i didn't see any distinct changes. haha manhid kung manhid. though nagkaron ng time na, for one whole week, 3x lang sya magtext, tapos sinasabi nya O.T. sya sa work uuwi ng 2 or 3am. normal kasi yun sa kanya pero i never thought na nung time na yun eh nakikipag date pala sya sa iba. tas naging mainitin ang ulo nya. yun lang, then nagbreak na kami. pero hindi parin ako makapaniwala kasi i didn't see the signs talaga

[ravena]

womans instinct.. i remember before nung ngcheat sakin ang ex ko, hindi ako mapakali.. i have dreams na he's cheating on me everynight. that time wala pa ako idea na may iba pala siya.. kinukuwento ko pa sakanya noon tungkol sa panaginip ko na yun at sabi niya lang "panaginip lang yun blah blah blah".. later on i found out na he is really cheating on me pala..

hi sis, tama naman ang guts or a woman's instinct. same tayo i dreamt of him cheating on me at totoo naman they are still together and magkasama sila noong christmas and new year.

[iamshiela]

Hala mga sis!! Napapanaginipan ko din si bf may other girl. Sign na kaya iyon?

[anon]

bilib ako sa thread na ito as its bang-on correct, based on my experience. galeng talaga ng woman's instinct and intelligence!

not sure about dreaming about cheating though, as it might be instinct or fear...

[Katcatz]

Sudden change! Kung dati ikaw yung lagi niya pinag aalahan tapos biglang baliktad ikaw na lage nag aalala at naghahanap sa kanya.. Iba na yun. Biglang conscious sa katawan, nag gym na bigla date hindi naman kahit malake pa chan!

[purple.strawberry]

Mahina siguro instinct ko sa ganyan, o siguro I trusted my first boyfriend too much na kahit nakakakita na ko ng signs e iniignore ko. Trust should be the foundation of your relationship, pero I learned na sometimes kelangan mo rin magdoubt for your own sake.

I think iba-iba din magtago ang guys when it comes to cheating. Meron yung iba na kapag alam nilang magaling manghuli yung GF e they up their game. Pero yung changes, yes, definitely. Magiging too caring or malambing, tapos later on, manlalamig, madaling mairita kahit sa simpleng bagay lang, etc.