Share tips on how to be a better bf/gf

[sacred cow]

guys, share naman kayo dito ng mga tips nyo on how to be a better partner to your boyfriend/girlfriend. mas maganda siguro kung yung guys magsasabi ng gusto nila sa girl kapag gf nila and girls magsasabi ng gusto nila sa guy kapag bf nila.

I'll start...

a) don't be too praning when your guy goes out with his friends, allow him to still have his own social life. the more you worry na mambabae siya, the more yan mambababae

b) huwag nagger, hindi ka niya nanay.

[zeroone]

My 2 cents is that no relationship is perfect, so don't bother exerting too much effort. Which makes it great because with every fight or break up, each will grow more. this goes out to both bro's and sis. and the more fights and trials you both get in to, the stronger both of you will become.

1. know what your partner loves and hate. if you're in a disagreement, compromise. someone has to back down. guys are expected to make crucial and most important decisions so in this case, i think it's fair to ask that girls must be somehow submissive.

2. never let a fight last for a couple a days. at the most, give each other 3 days "alone time". make it longer and you risk losing each other. why, because somehow, someone will try to find the attention and comfort caused by this fight which could lead to someone cheating, lying and more fights. both are vulnerable in this cases.

that's all i can think of right now. LOL.

[eleine26]

*respect each other privacy. hinde ka detective para lahat ng kilos ng partner mo dapat alam mo. nakakasal ito para sa partner mo. and eventually,mapapagod ka din.

*wag masyado passive and predictable. boring masyado para sa mga guys yung ganun.

*and same with zeroone, give each other space,lalo pag may argument. minsan kasi you can think clearly kapag wala kayo muna sa tabi ng isa't isa.

*dapat may element of suprise pa rin kahit na matagal na kayo.

 

[aquacharly]

Be your Authentic Self; preferably, most  of the time your Self, not self.
Be kind, always.
Give each other space: physically, emotionally, mentally.
Be God-centered, both of you.
Always have a sense of humour.
Don't sweat the small stuff.

Susko, ang dami.  I am sure no one does all the above all the time;  as I am sure, nobody is incapable of doing all the above.
Best effort na lang, hahaha -- C'est la vie.   

[khaleesiCersei]

*do not let him be the center of your universe. Dapat may sarili kang buhay apart from your life together as a couple. Go out and have fun with your friends and let him go out with his. Set your own goals apart from your goals as a couple. Hindi masama iprioritize ang sariling needs from time to time.

*tiwala lang. Matanda na sya alam na nya tama sa mali. Just make him understand na trust is a big responsibilty at malaki ang consequence nun pag nabali yun. Also When you tell him you trust him, walk the talk hindi yun papayagan mo nga lumabas with friends pero ibobombard mo sya ng text at tawag every hour hehe. For me kasi pag nagpaalam, 3 lang tanong ko. Saan? Sino kasama? Watym uuwi? Tapos ok na. Wala ng text2x or tawag. Pero pag hindi umuwi on time eh dun na ako nagagalit. Dun na papasok yun consequence.

*respect. Lalo na pag nag away kayo dapat kahit may LQ hindi nawawala ang respect. Do not resort into name calling,cussing and violence when you fight. Jan nagsisimula ang kawalan ng gana to work things out.. Also, when you feel that he disrespects you as a person, as a partner and as a woman eh dapat respect yourself enough to walk away from someone who does not value you and your relationship.

*eto talaga lesson learned ko haha! when you want something, ask or demand for it. Men are not mind readers hehe. At hindi din sila masyado magaling sa mind games nating mga girls. You cannot always expect that they know what you want. Hindi rin lahat ng guys eh ma-effort at romantic kaya kesa matuyo laway mo kakapahaging sa kanya or kesa mamuti ang mata mo kakahintay na mag effort sya eh sabihin mo na lang ng derecho kung ano gusto mo. Less LQ pa haha

*confidence. Dapat mataas ang self-esteem mo. No one can make you feel inferior or insecure without your consent. When you know your worth at kung alam mong wala ng mahahanap pa si bf na katulad mong magmahal eh wala ka dapat pagselosan and when he knows that he found a gem in you he will never give you a reason to doubt him naman.

[mermaidserenade]

Base on our relationship, naimprove yun nung naaccept ko yung fact na di lang ako dapat ang laman ng mundo niya. Na di pwedeng ako na lang palagi. Yung naaccept ko na kailangan niya din ng time para sa sarili niya. Na di ko siya dapat sinasakal. Ayun. Nung nagawa ko yung naging better kami.

[Girltalker2]

guys, share naman kayo dito ng mga tips nyo on how to be a better partner to your boyfriend/girlfriend. mas maganda siguro kung yung guys magsasabi ng gusto nila sa girl kapag gf nila and girls magsasabi ng gusto nila sa guy kapag bf nila.

I'll start...

a) don't be too praning when your guy goes out with his friends, allow him to still have his own social life. the more you worry na mambabae siya, the more yan mambababae

b) huwag nagger, hindi ka niya nanay.

What I like about my BF...

He has his way of knowing what I like/don't like na minsan ako mismo di ko alam.  I think this is key - sa mga nanliligaw, magBF or mag asawa, it is important to know what SHE wants.  Ganun din nga sa mga girls, importante to know what he appreciates the most and yung hindi.

He is always engaged in our conversations, no distractions (mobile phone, malayo ang isip, etc). 

He has a sense of humor.  Everything lights up when I am with him (di ko alam if it is just our mood, or dahil inlab lang ako)

Hinding hindi sya nawawala ever.  Unlike my ex before (ni hindi ko alam kung nasang lupalop or kung na massacre na or what).   

He is not selfish and always thinks of his GF before him.

He is honest and truthful.

He makes sure I never feel insecure about his love for me.

[simang]

be the person your partner fell in love with, everyday.

[maukris]

Respect each other - privacy, opinions, culture, values.
Never take each other for granted - make him feel loved and appreciated.
Love him as you love yourself - isipin mo muna if your actions will make him happy or disappointed
Allow each other to grow - support his hobbies, his passion
Lastly... God should be the center of your relationship (sounds like a cliche but it is really important) - pray and go to church together.