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Husband has low sex drive
« on: April 16, 2017, 11:41:09 pm »
Any wife here who experience this? I know usually mga husbands ang mahilig sa sex and mga wives ang madalas tumanggi, pero does anyone here experience sa hubby nila na hindi gaano mhilig sa lovemaking?

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #1 on: April 17, 2017, 04:09:04 am »
^hi sis! How long have you been married na to your husband? Sobrang routinary ba yung sex nyo like same position, same days ginagawa etc?
just know you can :)

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #2 on: April 17, 2017, 06:51:07 am »
10 years married. We tried lots of sex positions, we tried porn, and okay naman for both of us. Problem is, sobrang madalang ang sex... as in he can go on for 2 months straight na walang sex. He's always busy sa work, and watching his fave tv shows. Whenever i initiate our lovemaking, sometimes i get insulted and humiliated pa na para ba kong sex addict na walang ibang nasa isip kundi sex. I feel alone, i feel stupid, i feel unpretty....  :'(

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #3 on: April 17, 2017, 07:26:54 am »
10 years married. We tried lots of sex positions, we tried porn, and okay naman for both of us. Problem is, sobrang madalang ang sex... as in he can go on for 2 months straight na walang sex. He's always busy sa work, and watching his fave tv shows. Whenever i initiate our lovemaking, sometimes i get insulted and humiliated pa na para ba kong sex addict na walang ibang nasa isip kundi sex. I feel alone, i feel stupid, i feel unpretty....  :'(

meron din palang ganito. i thought nag iisa ako  :'(

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #4 on: April 17, 2017, 07:45:12 am »
For 10 years?
Now ka lang nag complain or dati mo nang hinaing ito?

Do u have kids? Nag usap na ba kayo?

Para sakin 3 reasons lang
- gay
- ibang babae
- medical issue

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #5 on: April 17, 2017, 08:46:47 pm »
May mga lalaki na mababa talaga ang libido. Ako nga dati akala ko pag foreigner puro sex ang alam hindi pala hehe. What I mean is nakakadaming rounds hindi pala. Anyway depende rin sa tagal nyo kung may spice pa ba ang sex life nyo alam mo un routine na lang walang bago eksena in short boring na. Try mo ibang moves un alam no maexcite ang asawa mo.

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #6 on: April 17, 2017, 08:47:59 pm »
May mga lalaki na mababa talaga ang libido. Ako nga dati akala ko pag foreigner puro sex ang alam hindi pala hehe. What I mean is nakakadaming rounds hindi pala. Anyway depende rin sa tagal nyo kung may spice pa ba ang sex life nyo alam mo un routine na lang walang bago eksena in short boring na. Try mo ibang moves un alam no maexcite ang asawa mo.

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #7 on: April 17, 2017, 10:03:05 pm »
We had this situation before. Kinausap ko si husband seriously to the extent that I am willing to fulfill his fantasy so long na magkaroon ng normalcy ang sex life namin. He responded point blank MMF. After careful consideration, I gave in and we did it once. Now our sex life is back but this time more than normal as if we're on a honeymoon everyday. Glad the solution worked for both of us.

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #8 on: May 01, 2017, 07:16:55 pm »
I have to second na if your husband has low sex drive or if he is not initiating that he probably has another woman if hindi siya ganyan dati
Vulgarity begins when imagination succumbs to the explicit.

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #9 on: May 07, 2017, 02:22:53 pm »
i feel you sis. 🙁
come back to the roller coaster ride..

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #10 on: September 04, 2017, 02:18:38 pm »
Same here.. nung hindi pa kami nag sasama wild masyado but when I got pregnant and we live together na paran ako nalang yung naghahanap.

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #11 on: September 06, 2017, 04:08:01 pm »
My husband has a low sex drive, but it's because of a mixture of things.

We used to be able to go at it almost everyday, but during those times he was still a regular gym-goer. We've been pretty sedentary these last 2-3 years, and notice mo talaga na his stamina and strength has decreased. Ngayon parang chronic na ang fatigue niya, and lagi siyang inaantok kahit 8 hours or more pa ang tulog niya the night before. He's also anaemic, and supplements only help a bit. Kahit nga pag lalabas kami at mamamasyal madali na siyang mapagod at sumakit ang katawan. Lastly, his varicocele has been getting worse lately. Before mga once a few weeks lang siya makaramdam ng pain, ngayon once to a couple of times a week na. Ayaw naman niya ipacheck kasi sabi niya baka pag gustong operahan ng doctor eh lalo kaming hindi magkaanak. Whenever we had sex it's usually rough, and minsan talaga halfway through bigla siya napapatigil kasi sobrang sakit daw. Minsan talaga kahit gusto niya rin di namin magawa kasi we know na may sasakit talaga sa kanya.

So yun, kaya this Friday we will start working out na uli to get our health and bodies back in shape, and hopefully, our sex lives back to what it once was  :) Sabi niya kasi pansin niya pag nagsestretching siya medyo nalelessen daw yung pain, so baka lahat nga ito e related sa pag-eexercise.

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #12 on: September 07, 2017, 02:57:20 am »
Yung hubby ko din low sex drive compared to when we are still not mArried. nung kinasal kami akala ko mas madalas ang sex pero iba sa expectations ko hehe not sure if tinamad bigla or nakampante pero nag iba talaga. Bihira na yung performance level like before. Btw this was before he cheated. When he cheated i guess naging low to nothing na yung sex drive nya towards me.

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #13 on: September 07, 2017, 07:50:23 am »
wife ko super low din ang sex drive
nung di pa kami married madalas kami mag sex as in. siya pa nag initiate
ngayon, nada  :'(

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #14 on: November 29, 2017, 04:47:00 pm »
kausapin mo asawa mo at para maliwanagan ka at ng mabawasan mga hinala mo sa kanya

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #15 on: March 14, 2018, 01:34:01 am »
Hi sis! What's point blank MMF? Sorry ha clueless talaga ko

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #16 on: March 14, 2018, 05:47:32 pm »
Male Male Female?

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #17 on: July 24, 2020, 12:04:37 am »
I had a great start to a marriage when we were doing it all the time. It was the best time of my life and It is really sad that it had stopped. We haven't done anything in months and I really wanted it, but he had no interests. I went and bought some pills on ed-oesterreichische.at and put it in his drink. After one hour we were doing it again and it worked like a charm. Now we are doing it regularly and it is all thanks to those pills. He had no idea and I am not telling.
« Last Edit: July 28, 2020, 07:37:33 pm by curlyrainbow »

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #18 on: August 19, 2020, 07:10:07 am »

My husband sometimes has problems with this. Though everything was great before

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Re: Husband has low sex drive
« Reply #19 on: October 11, 2020, 11:14:20 am »
Agree kay sis Faina, I think related din sa health issues yung low sex drive ni hubby, well plus work stress din. But since we got married he has relatively low sex drive kesa saken, I want it everyday or at least every other day. But he wanted it once a week lang.

Is there something wrong with me if I wanted it everyday or every other day?

 

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