Author Topic: Friends with Benefits (Read 16818 times)

itsmechariz · « **on:** February 05, 2020, 12:05:11 am »

Hi. Anyone here na merong ka FwB? How was it? 😂

Half_Lifer26 · « **Reply #1 on:** February 09, 2020, 08:13:49 pm »

I haven't tried it but I wanna know as well how is it??

How do you start out??

itsmechariz · « **Reply #2 on:** February 09, 2020, 08:39:38 pm »

Idk. Its just started. Haha kababata kami. Haha

sweet_maldita · « **Reply #3 on:** February 09, 2020, 08:47:33 pm »

A common friend..Pero nagkakausap na kami (not about s*x). Naging close, naging kumportable sa isa't isa hanggang sa ayon na napag-usapan na namin yung topic na yun.

T'was my first time. Akala ko magkakailanganan na after nun. Akala ko hindi na kami maguusap after nun but I was wrong. Okay pa rin kami ngayon. HIndi naman namin pinaguusapan yung ginawa namin pero nagpaparamdam sya na gusto nya uli.

itsmechariz · « **Reply #4 on:** February 10, 2020, 01:25:32 am »

In my case, nauulit pa rin namin til now. Haha

sweet_maldita · « **Reply #5 on:** February 10, 2020, 03:45:55 am »

natatawa ako kasi kakasagot ko lang sa thread na to tapos bigla namin napagusapan yung about sa nangyari samin. Medyo awkward lang hehe.. Tinanong nya ako kung alam ko daw naman ba kung ano kelangan nya.. so sabi ko oo from the start alam ko. Pero ayaw daw nya magsalita ng tapos.

itsmechariz · « **Reply #6 on:** February 10, 2020, 09:01:26 am »

Hahaha ako nga once na magpm sya alam ko na yun e. Pag nagpm sya matic magseset na kami ng time at date kung kelan kami hahhaahaha at place pala. We?ve in this fwb set up since 2011 then na stop nun 2013 kasi nagka official bf ako. Then naulit ng 2018 then nastop ulit kasi nagwork ako abroad. Then this 2020 eto na naman. Ewan ko ba hehe di ko talaga alam kung bakit kami attracted when it comes to sex. Pero never naman naging kami. Hahaha

alice_alice · « **Reply #7 on:** February 10, 2020, 10:09:59 am »

meron ako neto kaso nawawalan na ako ng gana kasi naman naiinlove na si koya.

itsmechariz · « **Reply #8 on:** February 10, 2020, 01:05:09 pm »

Bakit in a relationship ka ba while with your fwb? Haha

Half_Lifer26 · « **Reply #9 on:** February 10, 2020, 07:18:18 pm »

Quote from: itsmechariz on February 09, 2020, 08:39:38 pm

Idk. Its just started. Haha kababata kami. Haha

I see.. Hmm.. Siguro mas madali kapag may childhood friend ka.. Haha.. I don't have any childhood friend kaya siguro mahirap humanap ng ka fwb..

Hmm.. So it means nasa abroad ka ngayon pero may ka fwb ka pa din??

sweet_maldita · « **Reply #10 on:** February 10, 2020, 08:17:29 pm »

Quote from: alice_alice on February 10, 2020, 10:09:59 am

meron ako neto kaso nawawalan na ako ng gana kasi naman naiinlove na si koya.

Samin dalawa, mukang ako ang naiinlove sa kanya.

I'm trying to control my feeling. mahirap na baka di pala nya ko willling saluhin kawawa naman ako sa part na yun.

itsmechariz · « **Reply #11 on:** February 10, 2020, 09:48:03 pm »

Pinas ako now for a vacation. Babalik pa rin abroad. Pahinga lang konte. Hehe

itsmechariz · « **Reply #12 on:** February 10, 2020, 09:50:17 pm »

Quote from: sweet_maldita on February 10, 2020, 08:17:29 pm

Samin dalawa, mukang ako ang naiinlove sa kanya. I'm trying to control my feeling. mahirap na baka di pala nya ko willling saluhin kawawa naman ako sa part na yun.

Yes that part ang pinaka mahirap sa fwb. No emotional attachment jan. Kumbaga tibayan ng loob. Hahaha

sweet_maldita · « **Reply #13 on:** February 10, 2020, 11:35:50 pm »

Quote from: itsmechariz on February 10, 2020, 09:50:17 pm

Yes that part ang pinaka mahirap sa fwb. No emotional attachment jan. Kumbaga tibayan ng loob. Hahaha

Mukang ayaw nya na magkaron ng jowa kasi sakit lang daw sa ulo at nag-eenjoy sya pagiging single.

bad.det · « **Reply #14 on:** February 10, 2020, 11:47:26 pm »

Dyan din kami nag start ng partner ko now. Bestfriend ko siya sa work. Nagbreak kami sa kanya kanyang mga gf/bf naging fwb then nabuntis ako $:-\$
He chose to stay, ako in love na ako. Pero I don't think siya din. LOL

sweet_maldita · « **Reply #15 on:** February 11, 2020, 12:07:36 am »

Good thing for you sis, atleast pinanagutan ka at naging kayo. Sana kami din..hahaha

ultraman · « **Reply #16 on:** February 11, 2020, 06:51:26 am »

guy here...kami dati... turns out ako inlove with her.... nagkaroon sya ng new bf... 1st month pa lang nila we still do it. not sure if I'm relegated to fwb...

She's in love with me she said but I leave her alone. I respect her new relationship... She still tries to communicate but I think I'm done. It's hard.

bad.det · « **Reply #17 on:** February 11, 2020, 12:22:25 pm »

Aww parang ang hirap naman niyan. Gusto nyo isa't isa pero nag bf siya? Complicated masyado.

conventionalbutrude · « **Reply #18 on:** February 11, 2020, 04:51:30 pm »

Hi Guy talker here recently late last year i had FWB with my former classmate back in high school. thru social media we have communications recently at first slightly shy type pa sa mga conversations then to make an interesting topic we talk about s*x exp. So may things i found out to her like many experiences she had. to make the story short i invited her to an event (overnight) then that's it..and happened again last December and hopefully this coming next month if my event ulit

NeilRudecat · « **Reply #19 on:** February 14, 2020, 11:04:41 am »

Hi,

Dalawa na lang sila ngayon. Isang single lady na na-meet ko online at nag-start kami in Aug. 2017 at single mom na HS Batchmate ko na nagsimula naman April 2018.

Noong 2018 kasi, apat sila. Nadagdagan ng dalawa na NBSB at walang kahit anong experience (first timers): isang college co-ed beginning May 2018 at isang young employee na una kong na-meet in June 2018. Nagkakilala kami through Facebook. By the end of 2018, nagka-BF na itong dalawa, at kahit gusto pa na makipagkita at ituloy pa namin, umayaw na ako.

Honest and open ako sa kanila na may iba ako. Choice naman nila na ako lang ang ka-partner. Dumating din sa point na nag-open up ang bawat isa sa tatlo sa kanila ng feelings at kagustuhan na maging BF ako. Tinutulungan ko each of them na i-process namin ang feelings na yun. Para kasi sa akin, real love takes time. Baka maging magulo o complicated lang kung papasok sa isang relasyon na hindi pa naman talaga handa. Marami ang nagkakamali na nasa level pa lang ng attraction, infatuation o possession obsession eh ina-assume na real love na.

Hindi namin tinawag na Friends with Benefits. Kay single lady, she called it "Private Time" and lately, "Ride." We would see each other about once a month. These recent months, I just visit her condo unit where she lives alone, at lately, nagpupunta na ako ng 4 am so she can have her early morning "Ride" before each of us go to work. With the single mom, I learned about "CI or Check In." It came to a point na she would ask for us to meet up to twice na in a week. Ang gastos ko sa check-in, grabe. The college co-ed and I called ours "Secret Life". Magyayaya siya na magkita kami around 1-2 times in a month. The young employee works and lives outside of Metro Manila, so once every 1-2 months lang ako nakakapunta sa lugar nila.

Kapag tinatanong ako kung ano ang tawag sa amin, I would say we are "Dating" and that makes us more than friends and nearly in a relationship.

We enjoy having sex to the fullest. I never wore a condom at minsan nire-request pa na sa loob ako mag-release. Walang nabubuntis dahil kabisado ko ang fertile and non-fertile days ng bawat isa sa kanila. May record ako ng menstruation periods nila at intercourse days namin. Kaya ko naman kahit quick computation.

HIndi nagbabago ang respect ko sa kanila. For me, it's an extended learning experience of getting to know women and the beauty of the gender.

Sila ang nagyayaya. Ako, naiisip ko lagi na parang hindi respectful ang mag-lure o mang-seduce ng babae o ako na lalaki ang magayaya mag-sex (sexual soliciation).

Usually nagsisimula sa kwentuhan na nauuwi sa usapang sex. With three of them, sex chat muna.

Before these four, may mga one-night-stands lang. Umayaw na pagkatapos ng isang pagkikita.

Mas marami ang hindi natutuloy. Ina-advice ko kasi lagi na sana huwag muna subukan ang sex habang hindi pa married at sana sa asawa lang. I love women in a general sense. Ayoko nang may napapariwara, na may nabubuntis o nahahawa ng HIV/AIDS Virus, iba pang STD ...at nasisira ang buhay. I am continuing to undertand the intense sexual urge and do my best to help in comprehending it.

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