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STAY OUT YAYA / MAID
« on: July 22, 2013, 11:03:14 am »
Dear MODS,

I know there is a thread pertaining to Stay-out Yaya / Maids. But, I couldn't find it anymore. Hence, I started a new topic. Kindly delete this or merge this to the existing topic. TIA


Girltalkers,

I would like to know your views re stay-out YAYA or MAID. I need to know the DOs and DONTs of hiring one, how to manage them, etc. This would be my first time to hire one pero I need the views of those GTs with good or bad experience with STAY-OUTs.

Thanks in Advance! God Bless! :)
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Re: STAY OUT YAYA / MAID
« Reply #1 on: July 24, 2013, 09:41:10 pm »
Naka dalawang stay-out maids na ako.

Make sure to lay out your rules upon employement. Kagaya ng oras ng trabaho, anung benefits nya.

Mga na encounter ko na problems:

- uuwi ng maaga, kasi tapos na work kahit na di pa tapos ang working hours.
- abusado sa food or kapag me sobra or anything na feeling nila in excess iuuwi. (since uwian nga)
- if need nyo umalis mahirap kasi wala taong bahay. Unless you have other people with you eh in our case kami lang and the maid.

hirap kasi ako mag NO kaya kasalanan ko din.
« Last Edit: July 26, 2013, 02:24:52 pm by Kady_14 »

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Re: STAY OUT YAYA / MAID
« Reply #2 on: July 25, 2013, 10:00:56 am »
Thanks for replying sis kady_14. ;-)

Iyan nga rin ang kinakatakot ko kasi malapit lang din ang bahay nila sa amin. May tendency sila na "magnakaw" or kumuha ng mga nakakalat na bagay or iuwi nila ang anak ko sa bahay nila.

Yung sa working hours siguro, kailangan ko na sila sa bahay ng 5:30am dahil pumapasok kaming mag-asawa at itong anak ko naman sa eskuwelahan. Problema ko ay yung baka mamaya, magdahilan na hindi raw makakarating or biglaang aabsent, yung mga tipong ganyan.

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Re: STAY OUT YAYA / MAID
« Reply #3 on: July 25, 2013, 10:39:29 am »
I usually get the Stay out ones. kase walang extra room dito for her. Yung current namin is almost 2 years na. nung una, 2k sweldo nya, 5x a week ang pasok pero usually 1pm uwi na sya. then nagbakasyon sya then pagbalik, 6x a week na pasok nya for 3k. ganun pa din set up namin. pag tapos na ang trabaho, uwi na sya. Hindi din ako pihikan pag dating sa time pagpasok. as long as matapos lahat ng dapat tapusin in  a day, ok lang.pero si Manang usually 6 nandito na. sa food, she gets to bring home what's leftover or ilalagay nya sa ref to eat the next day. binibili ko din sya toiletries cause dito nya gusto maligo and maglagba ng clothes niya. which is OK lang din naman since yung hinubad na damit lang naman nya.
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Re: STAY OUT YAYA / MAID
« Reply #4 on: July 25, 2013, 10:48:36 am »
as for my experience with stay-out yaya... super OK, I can say that this is the best sa mga naging yaya namin... pero I cannot recommend it for everyone. Here are the things that I think made it really work for us.

1. our yaya is our neighbor, as in katabing lote lang sya nakatira, kaya di matatraffic, walang dahilan para malate sa umaga at magmadaling umuwi sa gabi.
2. she's married without a child. that means na halos wala syang iniintindi sa buhay nya kungdi ang sarili nya lang din, because the husband is also capable of taking care of himself. walang kahati sa attention nya yung anak ko sa pag aalaga.
3. pag aalaga lang talaga ang ginagawa nya. ako ang all-around na katulong sa bahay, haha! it means I have control sa food namin everday. bago ako pumasok nakahanda na ang breakfast hanggang merienda nila sa hapon/gabi.
4. malapit lang ang work ko sa bahay. pwede akong mag check sa nangyayari anytime of the day.
5. mabait at religious sya. this is a bonus talaga. less headache talaga ako kasi God fearing sya. Kaya supportive ako sa church appointment nya, maaga ko syang pinapauwi.

Sa sweldo naman, I give her 4,000 plus SSS, Philhealth and soon yung Pag-ibig kasi inaayos pa namin yung membership nya. I think that's just fair for the services na binibigay nya.

Para sa akin mas ok yung ganitong set-up. Mas may privacy kami, mas may control ako sa bahay at less ang iniintindi ko.

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« Reply #5 on: July 25, 2013, 11:07:01 am »
Thanks for the reply. Etong nag-a-apply sa akin ngayon ay 19 years old lang. Mahirap pang pagkatiwalaan. I asked her to fill-up a biodata. Ipapalista ko rin sa barangay. Dapat talaga maliwanag sa umpisa kung ano ang gagawin nya. Itatago na rin ang mga nakakalat na gamit para hindi matempt na kumuha ng sa bahay. Praying this set-up would be okay. Problema ko lang, malayo work ko sa bahay eh. Si hubby rin, Medyo kabado lang ako.
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Re: STAY OUT YAYA / MAID
« Reply #6 on: July 26, 2013, 02:26:54 pm »
Baka me relatives ka na pwede mong pakihan na samahan muna siya hanggat bago or mglagay ka ng cctv para masilip silip mo yung anak mo. mahirap kasi may anak palang involved madali lang kasi if taga linis lang or all around maid. Iba kasi kapag anak na ang ipapagkatiwala.

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Re: STAY OUT YAYA / MAID
« Reply #7 on: July 29, 2013, 09:31:03 am »
Yun nga ang isa pang dilemma ko. Wala akong available na relative. Kaya parang ayaw ko na sa stay-out. Baka kasi minsanan ay iuwi nila sa kanila ang anak ko ;-(
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« Reply #8 on: July 29, 2013, 09:45:04 am »
May officemate ako na kumuha ng stayout na hh.1st day pa lang,yung mga anak daw e kumakatok at wala daw makain so mula lunch hanggang meryenda sa hapon,nandun sa kanila.ayun kinabukasan,di na pinabalik.

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Re: STAY OUT YAYA / MAID
« Reply #9 on: July 29, 2013, 01:11:26 pm »
Yan nga sis ang worry ko. Yan ang bad side ng stay out eh. Buti sana kung malapit lang ang work ko. Baka mag-install ako ng CCTV sa bahay
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« Reply #10 on: August 05, 2013, 09:20:58 pm »
stay out din yaya/all around. dating [textspeak!] ng quarter to 7am. nakaluto,nakahugas na ako at napakain ko na kids and ready to  go toschool. tapos saka palang ako maliligo para pasok naman sa work kasama hubby.
[textspeak!] yaya sama sa school and wait for my bunso. pag uwi laba at linis lang. wala na siang mabigat na gawain dito. trip nya magluto ok lang pag hindi wala kami dadatnan na foods and ako pa magluluto when i come home. Sometimes nakakainis pero i would rather cook food na ayun sa panlasa namin. kasi hindi sia marunong magluto. minsan pag uwi ko nakita ko nakahain for dinner corned beef..eh ang daming maluluto sa ref na ulam. kelangan din sabihin kung ano gagawin kasi the whole afternoon she would watch tv lang. wala na kami sinasabi kasi tyaga nalang para may magbantay sa kids. Pero once in awhile umaabsent din kasi may maliliit pa siang anak. that is a problem. usually ako umaabsent. gusto ko ng stay in sana pero mas ok na din stay out kasi [textspeak!] privacy din.

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Re: STAY OUT YAYA / MAID
« Reply #11 on: August 06, 2013, 09:56:10 am »
Ang isa sa advantages ng Stay-out sa nakikita ko sa mga pinopost ng mga sissies dito ay privacy. Ang isa naman sa disadvantages ay yung tendency na:

- pagnakawan ka, since araw araw labas masok sa bahay at di mo alam mga binibitbit palabas ng bahay
- may gawing masama sa anak mo.
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« Reply #12 on: August 06, 2013, 01:14:19 pm »
Nakakuha na ako ng Stay-in na yaya. Pero kukuha pa rin ako ng Stay-out, yung laba linis lang ang gagawin. Medyo pinakakatiwalaan ko na itong Stay-in yaya ko sa ngayon. ;-)

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« Reply #13 on: August 06, 2013, 04:34:59 pm »
I have a yaya for my kid and we used to have a maid din. but now, we only have the yaya full time. and maid namin stay out.

ok naman sa amin kasi we really just need help with the laundry, plancha and cleaning of the house. the rest of the stuff, we just have to pick up after ourselves. for me, less stress kasi pet peeve ko ang maid na hindi naka-focus, yung lagging nagtetext at nakikita ko na nakahiga higa lang when there's work that should be done. tendency yan ng mga naging maid naming before it gets boring sometimes sa house and they think since andyan lang sila, pwede na yung mamaya na yung trabaho o pag feel na nila. meanwhile ako, gusto ko sa umaga, work mode na lahat.
we pay our maid, 400 a day. her meals are covered while she is at home. she commutes pa going home, one ride lang naman so she stays at the latest, until 5. pag natapos na sya for the day, umaalis na sya. so far naman, ok sya. sana lang wag sya male-late sa pagpasok at magpapabaya sa trabaho. she's been with us for a month pa lang.
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« Reply #14 on: August 07, 2013, 10:10:04 am »
Sis, ang stay-out maid mo ba, everyday siya nagrereport? So parang 400 everyday? or during weekend lang? TIA!
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« Reply #15 on: August 14, 2013, 09:54:07 am »
^ she comes in 3x a week. minsan 4x pag medyo marami kami gusto ipagawa na medyo extra. marami pa rin kasi kami na stuff na hindi regularly pinapagawa sa kanya like cleaning my brother's room and work area (he's hardly home kaya we leave his stuff untouched, unless ibilin nya sa amin na ipalinis sa maid). yung garden din, hindi regularly pinapalinis. pag mabigat ang laundry, kelangan din ng extra day of work. otherwise, 3x lang talaga.

there was a time, bigla umalis yung yaya ko na walang paalam so I had to be absent for 2 days to take care of my baby. nakahanap ako ng stay out na yaya. she comes in at 7am before I leave work and leaves at 6pm paguwi ko. we paid her 400 a day. 1 week lang sya kasi may dumating na ako na yaya agad. so far naman, I've been lucky sa mga stay out help ko. wala problema. referred by really trusted people din kaya sigurado na maayos yung nakuha ko.
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« Reply #16 on: August 14, 2013, 06:32:26 pm »
Hirap humanap ng maid na OK.

Sa ngayon meron ako stay out. On call P300/day

Nung weekend ko pa lang siya na try. Sat Linis ng bahay P300. (8am-5pm)

Sunday - Laba P300 (7am-4pm) + I asked her to cook adobo kasi duamting na yung nag hhome service massage sa akin. :P

Yun lang, no extra other chores.

I still need a stay-in maid kasi hindi ko maiwan ang mga furkids ko wala mgpapakain.

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« Reply #17 on: August 15, 2013, 04:00:14 pm »
Ang hirap talaga kumuha ng yaya, itong stay-in ko, nalaman-laman ko, pinapapunta ang bf sa bahay. I asked my kapit-bahay kung pinapapasok, hindi naman daw. Naabutan ko sila minsan, yung lalaki nasa labas, sa kalsada lang sila nag-uusap. Haist!
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« Reply #18 on: August 21, 2013, 03:30:30 pm »
I'm interested in getting a stay out maid in South area. San kaya makakahanap? Majority of her work lang is cleaning, ironing the clothes once a week and paminsang luto. Mas matipid ba ang stay out maid than a stay in maid? ang sakin lang kasi kapag stay out maid is atleast hindi ko na kelangan makisama sa kanya na hanggang gabi or everyday saka di ko siya kelangan pakainin everyday.
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« Reply #19 on: August 22, 2013, 10:21:32 am »
Matipid kapag stay-out kasi kung anong araw lang ang ipinasok niya, yun lang ang babayaran mo. ;-) Di mo na siya papakainin maliban sa lunch at meryenda. Tipid ka rin sa mga toiletries nila at pagbababad sa bahay para lang manuod ng tv at makicharge ng cell phone.
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