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Ronaldmitchell

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My husband thinks he is perfect.considering divorce.
« on: November 29, 2022, 04:44:42 pm »
My husband really thinks he?s perfect because he cooks and cleans. And I guess that?s hard to find? The problem is that he is never there for me emotionally. I?m struggling with my mental health so sometimes something as little as me washing my face is a huge accomplishment for me. He had the nerve to say I should be focusing on cleaning first. Also he makes me feel guilty about complaining about the kids. So I ask him to stop telling me about his job because it not fair he has me to vent to yet I can?t complain.


Edgeschub

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Re: My husband thinks he is perfect.considering divorce.
« Reply #1 on: November 30, 2022, 12:59:04 pm »
The Four Horsemen are four communication habits that increase the likelihood of divorce, according to research by psychologist and renowned marriage researcher John Gottman, Ph. D. Those four behaviors are criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling, and contempt. MyAccountAccess Mobile App

bestowgay

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Re: My husband thinks he is perfect.considering divorce.
« Reply #2 on: February 24, 2023, 02:55:32 pm »
According to the findings of psychologist and eminent marriage researcher John Gottman, Ph. D., there are four communication behaviors known as "the four horsemen" that enhance the probability of divorce. Criticism, defending, stonewalling, and disdain are the four behaviors. happy wheels game

JennieHay

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Re: My husband thinks he is perfect.considering divorce.
« Reply #3 on: March 17, 2023, 11:06:11 pm »
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this difficult situation with your husband. It's important to communicate your emotional needs to your partner and it seems like your husband isn't doing his part in supporting you. It's unfair for him to prioritize cleaning over your mental health needs. Both partners in a relationship need to support each other emotionally.

If you're feeling like this issue can't be resolved, it might be worth considering seeking the assistance of a therapist or counselor. Another option that could be worth exploring is using an online divorce service like https://onlinedivorcecalifornia.com/. Although it may seem daunting to consider divorce, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and mental health. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who supports and uplifts you emotionally.

 

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