Author Topic: to all married...if given a chance would you choose to become single again???  (Read 66354 times)

deluxeshopper

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^same thoughts

kaythrielle

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Nope...happy and content being married to my husband...

No what ifs or couldve beens because i met different guys naman before and i know i made the right choice.
our marriage is not perfect, it has its ups and downs but i still wouldnt trade it for being single. id rather go through life with him, our family, together.

stormy_princess

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i never dreamed of being married. I always wanted to be a single mom..
But i think i was meant to be being married. haha.
If  we want to forgive and recover from hurts and wounds, we must not talk loosely about the problem or the person who caused it...If you want to get better, you cannot be bitter.” -Joyce Mayer

crzysxycl

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^Made me realize I want to be a single mom too. Like NOW na! Haha!

qweasdzxc

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Nope, I love being married to the love of my life - exciting at chill lang talaga kami. Siguro kasi nagawa ko na din lahat ng gusto kong gawin nung dalaga pa ako. I lived independently right after I graduated and was given the freedom to explore life. I was single for almost 4 years when my husband and I became a couple last 2018. We already knew we'd end up together, parang tropa ko lang din kasi husband ko. ;D

crzysxycl

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At nagkatotoo na pala yung last post ko..

qweasdzxc

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^ Sorry to hear that, sis.

crzysxycl

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^Thank you sis.

I guess I made the right choice. Even if I am preggy right now, I still chose to leave him, para may peace of mind ako. Dami rin kasing red flags na naoverlook ko and pati mental health ko naapektuhan na.

qweasdzxc

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^ Sana di maka apekto sa pregnancy mo ang nangyari, sis. Stay strong for you and your baby.

crzysxycl

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^Thank you sis! <3

Sabi nga dun sa quote na nabasa ko "Know your worth. You must find the courage to leave the table if respect is no longer being served."

Walang babaeng deserving sa taong kagaya ng ex ko. :)

Ingat lagi mga sis!

simang

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^agree with the quote!

Hope you're doing well sis, and have a safe and happy pregnancy!
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AlexaAlly

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To be honest, yes for a day. My husband was my first love, but I would like to know how is to "cuddle" with another man. Don't tell anyone :D

crzysxycl

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Thank you so much sis! <3

Simonebebu

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Re: to all married...if given a chance would you choose to become single again???
« Reply #333 on: September 22, 2020, 12:29:43 am »
If wala lang masasaktang ibang tao... Def Yes

KayeLafang

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Re: to all married...if given a chance would you choose to become single again???
« Reply #334 on: September 26, 2020, 11:59:40 pm »
I still yearn to get back that sense of independence and that state na you don't have to worry when you leave home as wala na man maghahanap sayo (the kids). And that state of heart na you won't care what your hubby will do kasi you don't have a family to protect; where you can cry for all you want without little eyes wondering bakit namumugto ang mga mata mo; where you don't have to see him every day and be reminded why you're hurting and how he couldn't care less; where you don't fake a smile just to maintain a facade para di kayo ma chismis.

On the other hand, I definitely am very grateful to have my kids. I'll work on just going with the flow sa marriage na to. No expectations lang.

izzybaby

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Re: to all married...if given a chance would you choose to become single again???
« Reply #335 on: November 06, 2020, 07:44:50 pm »
^Thank you sis! <3

Sabi nga dun sa quote na nabasa ko "Know your worth. You must find the courage to leave the table if respect is no longer being served."

Walang babaeng deserving sa taong kagaya ng ex ko. :)

Ingat lagi mga sis!


nice quote...

to answer the topic.. yes! thinking about it a lot.
not really a newbie but i need a new life to move on

empress

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If wala lang masasaktang ibang tao... Def Yes

Same! at kung wala ding property na involved. Gusto kong maging single ulit.

crzysxycl

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Ang bilis ng panahon, 1 year na agad ang nakalipas. Happy independence day to me!  ;D

Sarap ng may peace of mind. While being a single parent is not easy, it sure comes with a lot of fulfillment.

Kung dati madalas ko marinig yung "Hindi mo kayang wala ako!", bukod sa mga sigaw at mura.. Hahaha! Ang masasabi ko lang, nagpapacheck up nga ko nung buntis ako ng mag-isa eh, lahat ng gastos akin din. Baka ako dapat ang magsabi nyan. LOL.

Ang sarap nung walang asikasuhin at tamaaad na asawa. Yung ang definition ng asawa sa kanya eh katulong, secretary. Yung ultimo online banking, mag deposito or open ng account sa bank hindi nya alam gawin at pati resume nya ako ang gumagawa. Gusto lahat easy lang, ayaw mahirapan. Kung dati iniiyakan ko yan, ngayon natatawa nalang ako. Nakakatawa na naging t@nga ako sa taong ganon ang ugali, kasi ang inuna ko yung pangarap kong magkaron ng buong pamilya ang anak ko.

God knows how long I prayed for this moment. And I am just glad na finally ibinigay na Nya, He saved me from hell!
 
Maybe I'm really meant to be single. :)

LollaMaden

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I would try to be honest. I miss being single

 

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