on wife who cheat...

[Lady.Doloroso]

Though this is a very old post already, ang sagot ko for wife who cheats, 2 words to describe them.1)."SELFISH". No reason or justification is acceptable, if hindi ka na masaya sa asawa mo, if hindi niya nasasatisfy gusto mo, then why cheat? Leave you husband and find the person who will makes you happy, kung meron. Matapang lang ang mga wife na nagcheat kasi hindi alam. Wala naman kasi na may kabit na proud sa ginagawa niya eh kaya nga tinatago. Kaya I don't buy the drama na may pagkukulang kasi si husband kaya nagcheat ako, ganto kasi siya, bakit ikaw perfect ka para magcheat ka. Ayaw mo lang sisihin sarili mo kaya husband mo tinuturo mo.

2)MALANDI/MAKATI. Alam mo ng may-asawa ka lalapit lapit ka pa sa ibang lalake. Kasi ano nalulungkot ka? At lalake talaga ang makakasagot. Gusto mo lang ng attention na akala mo naman eh sincere talaga ang gusto ng lalakeng yun. Wala naman lalakeng tumanggi, palay na ang lumapit, tutukain na lang niya hindi pa papalag. Ang nakakatawa pa, pag sinabihan mong malandi, eh masasaktan. Eh kahit saan mo naman tingnan anggulo kalandian naman talaga yung pumatol ka sa iba na kasama mo pa ang asawa mo.

Wala problema sa akin kung mafall ka sa iba, nangyayari talaga yan. Pero wag mo na isisi sa mga asawa niyo. Sisihin niyo mga sarili niyo dahil matatanda na kayo, ginusto niyo yang magloko. At kapag nasabihan kayo na malandi kayo aba eh tanggapin niyo dahil kalandian talaga yun. May asawa ka, magkasama pa kayo eh nakikipagrelasyon ka pa sa ibang lalake. haha

May friend ako, sa kagustuhan na ijustify ang action niya, kesyo naniniwala siya sa equality eklavu kaya dapat daw pareho umiwas, hindi lang daw babae ang iiwas sa affair. Jusko, binalik ko sa kanya talaga, sa kabitan talagang may equality issue? Siguro nga nakaka t*nga at nakakabulag ang bawal na pag-ibig. Kahit anong talino eh nagiging brainless. haha

[Girltalker2]

Sakin naman, wife or hubby, basta Cheater, it?s the same. Walang pagkakaiba.

Pareho silang selfish at malandi.

[FayeP]

truth sis Girltalker2, wala yan sa gender, nasa kati yan hehhee...kaya nga pinapayo ko sa mga nagbabalak or nakikipaglandian pa lang sa socmed or sa text or sa tawagan, nakow itigil mo yan kako, kung nangangati ka, sa asawa mo ipakamot...wag sa iba...

[Lady.Doloroso]

I totally agree na wala siya sa gender. But the subject is "on wife who cheat".

[anonymom]

Few months ago, I posted a thread about being trapped in an abusive marriage. My husband abused me physically, mentally, emotionally, and sexually. He never had an affair though, his eyes were always just on me. I could go on all these negative stuff about him but I know it will never justify what I did. I cheated on him, with his best friend.

It all began when I started venting out all my marital problems to him, we've known him for such a long time so I'm already comfortable around him, even my kids are. From friendly text messages to late-night phone calls, he started being more present around me and my kids. He'd often accompany me when bringing my daughters to their after-school activities, even in their school programs, he's mostly present than my husband. He was always there for me and the kids. My husband knew all of these but he just shrugged off the idea of his best friend and I being romantically involved. He even said one time that I am already too "losyang" for this guy. From there, we became more intimate. No more kids involved. I'd sneak out, make excuses whenever I wanted to be with him because I already fell in love with him. Until last month, I got pregnant. At first I was convinced that this is my husband's kid but it turned out to be his (we found out via paternity test). I've decided to keep the truth from my husband but my conscience is haunting me, he may never be the best husband but I know that I owe him the truth. If I do, I'm lucky if he'd just put me in jail, but based on my husband's capability, he's gonna kill me for sure.

On the other hand, this guy, he wants to be with me and our kid. He asked me to leave my husband and my kids for us to be able to start a new life together. Away from all the things I went through. But I don't really know what to do right now. My kids are the only reason why I'm staying with my husband, but I don't want to give them up for my personal satisfaction.

[KrabbyPatty!]

^ Please tell the truth sa husband mo ASAP. You owe him that since you are still married to him. It would also be more ridiculous of you if you let him think that the baby you are carrying is his. Gather strength na panindigan yung nagawa mo at ng new guy mo. Magpasama ka sa kanya when you tell the truth para may magpoprotekta sayo kahit papano. Good luck, girl.

[Acetylcholine]

To sis Anonymom nabasa ko before post mo alam ko tapos na at buntis ka pero sabi mo di ba sobrang bantay ka ni hubby kaya kahit friends mo hindi ka makashare ng problem mo and kailangan kasama sya how come nakaka sneak ka with his bestfriend? And may nabuo pa! Much better na umpisa pa lang sinabi mo na kay hubby na gusto mo makipaghiwalay sa post mo kasi before parang hirap na hirap makawala but then oh well... sorry nagulat lang ako.

[nylaner]

Few months ago, I posted a thread about being trapped in an abusive marriage. My husband abused me physically, mentally, emotionally, and sexually. He never had an affair though, his eyes were always just on me. I could go on all these negative stuff about him but I know it will never justify what I did. I cheated on him, with his best friend.

It all began when I started venting out all my marital problems to him, we've known him for such a long time so I'm already comfortable around him, even my kids are. From friendly text messages to late-night phone calls, he started being more present around me and my kids. He'd often accompany me when bringing my daughters to their after-school activities, even in their school programs, he's mostly present than my husband. He was always there for me and the kids. My husband knew all of these but he just shrugged off the idea of his best friend and I being romantically involved. He even said one time that I am already too "losyang" for this guy. From there, we became more intimate. No more kids involved. I'd sneak out, make excuses whenever I wanted to be with him because I already fell in love with him. Until last month, I got pregnant. At first I was convinced that this is my husband's kid but it turned out to be his (we found out via paternity test). I've decided to keep the truth from my husband but my conscience is haunting me, he may never be the best husband but I know that I owe him the truth. If I do, I'm lucky if he'd just put me in jail, but based on my husband's capability, he's gonna kill me for sure.

On the other hand, this guy, he wants to be with me and our kid. He asked me to leave my husband and my kids for us to be able to start a new life together. Away from all the things I went through. But I don't really know what to do right now. My kids are the only reason why I'm staying with my husband, but I don't want to give them up for my personal satisfaction.

Hi. I experience the same thing but not with a bestfriend but with my officemate.

I got pregnant and I tthought this is my hubby's child. He soon found out about the affair that was already finished. I was the one who kept the distance from officemate. fortunately my husband fogave me and treat the child as his own.

[undecided]

Hi. I experience the same thing but not with a bestfriend but with my officemate.

I got pregnant and I tthought this is my hubby's child. He soon found out about the affair that was already finished. I was the one who kept the distance from officemate. fortunately my husband fogave me and treat the child as his own.

Almost the same situation, but my husband kicked me out of his house and ayaw na niya ako kausapin or makita na.    He kept my son.

[nylaner]

Almost the same situation, but my husband kicked me out of his house and ayaw na niya ako kausapin or makita na.    He kept my son.

oh.. well my husband told me that he loves my son more than he loves me now.

so mas minahal na nya ang bata. Just pray sis. so what happened with your officemate? is he married?