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December 12, 2010

Wife attacks her husband's alleged mistress + What would you do in her place?

A YouTube video shows a cat fight that broke out in a Manila mall. Watch the clip and let us know what you think about it!
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What would you do if you were out at the mall one day and found yourself face to face with the woman you believed to be your husband's mistress? Well, we know what at least one lady would do!

In the YouTube video below, a woman in orange was captured on video as she attacked an alleged mistress (in black and white), chasing her through the mall then grabbing her hair and throwing her to the floor, hurling accusations all the while. She resisted the intervention of mall security guards and the allegedly philandering husband, but eventually allowed herself to be drawn away (though not before landing a last kick to the other woman's face).

Adding to the drama was the running commentary from another woman not shown in the video, who is heard lambasting the alleged mistress and heckling the crowd that gathers around the two women.

According to this Spot.PH report, the fight first started when the wife saw her husband and the alleged mistress in an elevator.

Still, it is uncertain whether the lady in orange was the wife herself or one of her friends. ThisIsMyUserName619, the YouTube user who uploaded the video, posted this comment: "the first scene is The WIFE saw the MISTRESS with her HUSBAND and they actually FOUGHT in the elevator but then the WIFE got the upper hand when the girl with the orange shirt (probably her friend) helped her and then she beat the hell out of that girl."

Watch the video below, and vote in our poll to let us know how you would react, given the same situation!

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Poll Question:
What would you do if you were the wife in this video?
  1. The exact same thing. The harlot deserves to be hair-handled and kicked in the face!
  2. Confront her verbally but not physically. I want to shame her, but still retain some of my dignity.
  3. Confront my husband then and there, not the mistress. After all, it's he who chose to have an affair. It's his fault more than hers.
  4. Ignore them, then wait until my husband gets home and have it out with him. This is not a conversation we should be having in public--especially since it's probably going to get nasty.
  5. Calmly walk away from them and out of my marriage forever. Infidelity is a deal breaker, and I've made that clear to my husband more than once.
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  • jia Dec 12 2010 @ 08:44am Report Abuse
    the mistress deserves it! buti nga sa kanya. sana lahat ng kabit matakot na!
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  • joyoleg Dec 12 2010 @ 09:19am Report Abuse
    bagay sa kanya...she is idiot and b*tch...i can't blame the wife there are some men not contented to there husband/wife...having an affair to other partner is immoral...
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  • Team Mistress Dec 12 2010 @ 11:32am Report Abuse
    Kaya naman pinagpalit yung wife eh balahura at palengkera naman pala!
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  • Omg Dec 12 2010 @ 11:57am Report Abuse
    She should pull the husband's hair instead! Why get mad at the mistress, she could be anyone! It's the husband who decided to risk destroying the marriage by deciding to cheat!
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  • angel Dec 12 2010 @ 01:21pm Report Abuse
    the wife may have the right to do that, but it doesn't mean that it is the right thing to do even under the circumstances. how you react to a situation determines your character as a person. i am not offering an excuse to the mistress nor the philandering husband, but sometimes letting go of someone is the only way to keep them.
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  • Rachel Dec 12 2010 @ 01:33pm Report Abuse
    that mistress really deserves what she got from the wife.she should learn her lessons brutally.
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  • Rolaine Dec 12 2010 @ 01:40pm Report Abuse
    she deserve it in the first place..pumapatol kasi sa may asawa...but in the other hand if ako ung babae..siguro ung asawa ko ung bubugbugin ko..pareho sila nung kerida nya..it's so sad kasi dito sa pinas..walang laban ang babae pagnangangaliwa ung mga lalaki,our law in adultery paglalaki ang gumawa is full of shit!geez!
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  • Bubblin Dec 12 2010 @ 02:12pm Report Abuse
    I will leave the husband,Ora mismo.no need to hear his explanation
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  • force ready Dec 12 2010 @ 02:56pm Report Abuse
    this whole thing has turned into a circus. a fan page was created for Cheska (the alleged mistress) and photos of the couple's kid is seen there.

    Let's remember that there will always be two sides of the coin however, nothing will justify adultery. I just thought, it could be possible that the alleged mistress did not know that the guy was married.
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  • jaye Dec 12 2010 @ 05:22pm Report Abuse
    dapat ngang iwan ng lalaki yung asawa nya. sa asawa nmn nya, dapat ung lalaki yung sinaktan nya. kung alam nung kabit na may asawa ung lalaki, g*g* sya.

    if im the wife, ako bubugbog sa lalaki. badly beaten.
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  • preetyyy Dec 12 2010 @ 05:37pm Report Abuse
    Its not the mistress Fault! its her husband fault, in the first place? why her husband was cheating on her, wala naman siguro fault yung mistress dun. eh kung mahal nya yung guy and accepted nya na may asawa, nasa guy pa rin and risk and decision of destroying their marriage...
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  • secretlover23 Dec 12 2010 @ 07:01pm Report Abuse
    judging from this video.. yung babae nung lalaki halatang halata na umiwas sya sa mrs. so alam nya from the start na sya ay isang kabit.. deserving lang sya sa mga nangyari. âô¥
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  • Hannie Swayne Dec 12 2010 @ 10:16pm Report Abuse
    We can't blame the wife for what she have done to the mistress but she shouldn't do that in front of the public. Hindi lang nakakahiya yung mistress pero siya din. She should have confront his husband who is the really culprit on this thing.
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  • lovelyme Dec 12 2010 @ 11:00pm Report Abuse
    I couldn't imagine myself doing that if I were the wife.. Confront the husband no, pwede ulit siyang mangabit kung gusto niya...
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  • jp_jameop Dec 13 2010 @ 07:00am Report Abuse
    sabi nga nila, asa babae yan. Kahit na magflirt pa ng magflirt ang lalaki, kung ayaw ng babae, walng mangayayri! Ginusto din ng kabit noh! Buti nga sa kanya!!!

    Dapat tlaga sa mga kabit eh binibitay!

    At sa lalaki, isama na rin sa pagbitay...
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  • peng Dec 13 2010 @ 07:56am Report Abuse
    tama lang sa kanya yun! wala na ba syang ibang lalaking makita kaya pumatol sya sa may asawa? i pity her but she deserves it!
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  • lulu Dec 13 2010 @ 08:20am Report Abuse
    I pity the wife, the alleged mistress and the husband, for sure all of them are hurting in one or another...
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  • annabel Dec 13 2010 @ 08:36am Report Abuse
    I can't blame the wife for reacting the way she did especially if the husband was blatantly displaying his kabit in public. Yes, it may be socially disgraceful but I'm sure there are some wives out there secretly rallying for her because it is something they wish they could do too, you know, to grab the kabit's hair with all her might and kicking her shocked face. And as much as I want to pity the kabit, well, she has to face the consequences of her actions, a kabit is a kabit and besides why devalue herself by hanging on to a man who is already married.I just wish the cheating husband got a kick in the groin too.
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  • purpleish Dec 13 2010 @ 09:47am Report Abuse
    bagay lang yan sa mga kabit! bwuhahahaha...TRUTH HURTS =) kung ako yan hindi sabunot gagawin ko sasapakin kuna lang mukha niya para mag tanda, tapos total naman naka-video ihaharap ko yung mukha niya sa video para kita ng madlang tao...
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  • Cleo Dec 13 2010 @ 10:33am Report Abuse
    What I dont get is the security guards kept the wife to let the Cheating husband and mistress walk away. That is unfair they should have kept the husband and the wife together. As for the mistress, what would she feel is she naman was cheated on too? After seeing this, we should allow divorce, para the guy will have to pay sustento and if he does not- he goes to jail.
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  • michelledm Dec 13 2010 @ 12:38pm Report Abuse
    i dont believe the mistress deserves what she got, its the husbands fault. He is the chaeter and she deserve to be punished by the wife and not the mistress.

    after all, she's kinda balahura and no wonder kung bakit siya kinakaliwa.lol
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  • mameng Dec 13 2010 @ 10:39pm Report Abuse
    magaling! magaling! kulang pa yong ginawa ng wife. kung ako cya huhubaran ko pa in full view of the public ang b*tch na yan. ang kapal din ng mukha ano at nakuha pang mag malling na kasama ang equally walanghiyang husband.On the other hand, baka hindi naman alam ng ng nabugbog na girl na may committed na pala si lalaki. dapat si lalaki e binogbog din (o kaya e pinabugbog). Mga imoral!
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  • rob Dec 14 2010 @ 03:09am Report Abuse
    in fairness to the other woman,alam ba niya kung me asawa yung guy.paano kung pakilala ay binata siya. at base dito sa video malalaman mo kung anong klaseng ugali meron yung tunay na asawa at yung other woman.di mo masisisi yung lalake pero di ko sinasabi na tama.
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  • adaengkantada Dec 14 2010 @ 08:17am Report Abuse
    yeah, the mistress is also at fault here. but more so the husband! if anyone deserves to be humiliated or punished, it is him! We can never know the entire story behind a mistress' tale, maybe she was also duped by the husband that he's single, I've heard stories like this from my friends. Or she knows the truth but still stayed in the relationship. Whatever the case maybe, i think it is unfair to the wife and the husband who was a legal and moral obligation to be faithful to her must keep his end of the bargain. If he cannot keep his hands to himself, better fess up and get out of a marriage he cannot keep!
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  • yunna Dec 14 2010 @ 08:54pm Report Abuse
    wala namang mangyayaring ganitong skandalo kung marunong lang rumespeto sa relasyon.pinairal din nila yung pagiging makasarili.
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  • cha Dec 15 2010 @ 07:48am Report Abuse
    buti nga sa kanila. lalo na sa mga pesteng kabit. but nakakahiya din eh. the culprit here is the husband. walang kabit pag di pinatulan. panget naman yung guy...
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  • angel Dec 15 2010 @ 12:56pm Report Abuse
    we can't judge the wife we don't even know the story behind the cheating.they may have had children and the wife may suffered so much that made her resort to do such inhumane thing not only for the mistress but also to her.her esteem may have gone zero she needs a lot of comfort.
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  • Charriol Dec 16 2010 @ 05:29am Report Abuse
    sa totoo lang, di pinagaaksayahan ng energy and time ang lalaking walang kwenta! why waste your time on them? magsama sila! ano? feeling super gwapo si lalaki at pinag-aawayan sya? pwede ba! I won't give a damn!
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  • cocoysmom Dec 16 2010 @ 02:43pm Report Abuse
    after watching the video...i think the eye opener for the wife is that her husband walked away with the mistress, not her. :(
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  • momimadz Dec 16 2010 @ 04:46pm Report Abuse
    'napuno na siguro ang salop" ng asawa kaya gnun n lng siya kung magalit..sa gnung pagka-violente, feeling ko malalim na tlga yung sakit na nararamdaman ninya..

    actually bihira lang ang gnyan katapang na asawa sa atin kasi ang mga babae halos martir lahat..me included:)
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  • nella Dec 17 2010 @ 09:10pm Report Abuse
    as many of you already said, we do not know what the relationship of the two (husband and wife) is like. i do not want to side with the husband, nor with the kabit nor with the wife, but if a man seeks for something which is apparently missing in their relationship sa isang mistress, then siguro may kakulangan din ang wife. relationships are hard, lalo na kung marriage. so why enter one, kung hindi ka naman sure and ready?
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  • Lady Croft Dec 18 2010 @ 04:04am Report Abuse
    sa dulo ng video, sinamahan ng asawa ýung kabit?! hindi ba mas masakit ýun?
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  • FayeP Dec 18 2010 @ 06:39pm Report Abuse
    I think I'd do the same thing, I mean, if ever I would see my husband with the number 2 then all hell will break lose! I'd punch both of them in their faces! grrrr!!!!!
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  • anne Dec 20 2010 @ 03:58pm Report Abuse
    i can't believe some of the comments here actually defending the mistress.. its like tolerating adultery.. hindi reason na may kakulangan ung wife or the marriage is not okay. if the husband doesn't want his wife anymore, he should be MAN enough to tell that to his wife instead of finding console in another woman. makipaghiwalay muna sya bago humanap ng iba. have some RESPECT naman!
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  • ANGKABITDAPATBINABARIL Dec 20 2010 @ 07:36pm Report Abuse
    Kulang pa yun. Buburahin ko mukha ng kabit at puputulin ko ang kaligayahan ng salawahang asawa para makulong man ako, gustuhin nya nang magpakamatay WAHAHAHAHA
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  • rima Dec 25 2010 @ 03:34pm Report Abuse
    ...the question is alam ba ng mistress na mistress siya?..
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  • soh Dec 28 2010 @ 11:12pm Report Abuse
    goodness,....lintik nga ang mga kabit but i'll never do that in public....wa' poise eh....next tym ladies,f u caught ur husband with his kabit,...sapakin mo agad,wag sabunutan kc pang8...jejejejejejje...or better yet w8 for your husband and tok to him and make him choose..pag pinili c kabit, tyempuhan mo s walang taong lugar at gulpihin mo.
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  • yahu Dec 31 2010 @ 12:32am Report Abuse
    my gosh..kawawa ung girl.. pero db mas kawawa ung wife..aray nga tlga un!! nothing to do with babaeros!! give that relationship a break.. FOREVER!!! haay!! that kind of people are no deserve for much time..the othergirl or that husband..niether!! grrrrrrR!!!
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  • Tine Marie Jan 01 2011 @ 11:29am Report Abuse
    Sometimes people just get too angry na minsan hindi nila maiwasan mag-eskandalo lalo na kung ganyan but i would always prefer to just take a good picture of them and wait for the husband, boyfriend to go home and ask him about it--show the pictures also. I did this to my husband and what he did was namutla siya.. Though galit talaga ako dun sa girl ang point ko bakit pumapatol ang lalaki... kung mahal ka niya talaga hindi niya gagawin.Ngayon okay na kami lahat yun girl nasa netherlands na n
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  • gec Jan 12 2011 @ 03:16pm Report Abuse
    tama lang sa kabit un.. she deserves it! malandi kasi..
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  • Ameur Love Fine Aguilar Jan 15 2011 @ 07:17pm Report Abuse
    Infidelity is intolerable.. Although i think that the way of avenging it was too brutal, i could probably say, "life is what you make it; bear it and wear the crown". The wife wouldn't do such deeds or if it's not her, wouldn't turn into friends to ask for some help is she is not in deep pain. The husband and the mistress deserved every pain and shameful thing that had happened to them.
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  • miamorechelo Jan 15 2011 @ 08:02pm Report Abuse
    haha! the best thing to do, is tlagang iconfront yung husbdand nya, but then, i think its a normal reaction na maging ganun ang real wife, kasi if nandun ka na situation na yun, i think mahirap na icontrol yung emotions mo. kawawa yung "mistress", i just dont know if alam ba nung other girl na may asawa na yung guy, pero parang alam nya,kasi hindi man lang siya lumaban. tsk :)
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  • bebeng Jan 27 2011 @ 08:58pm Report Abuse
    buti nga yun lng npala nya if sakin un babalatan ko xa ng buhay...hehehe joke lng...di ako baba sa paa nya e di s knya nya mgsama cla,i don't deserve to to be treated like that if he wants to be with her mistress then go...i always believe in karma...
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  • sheena Feb 14 2011 @ 10:13pm Report Abuse
    she absolutely deserve tht lalo n kung alm ny n may asawa n tlg yun guy.s gnyn case you cant control your emotion lalo n mahuli mo personally.khit n s tingin mo n di mo dpt tlg gwin in public.pero hindi mo n rin yun maiisip p kung gnyn ang sitwasyon.kc nmn yun kabit desperada n ata.marmi nmn lalake bkit s may asawa p.
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  • Shannon Feb 25 2011 @ 10:55pm Report Abuse
    Ide Do exactly the same... right after i hit my ex partner in the p*n*s with a sledge hammer. that slut needs to find out what kinhd of man shes dating aswell as me. and if she new all along i was with him first ide do more than slap her about a bit ide rape her with a baseball bat to teach that slut a lesson of being a home recker. peopke say its always the boys fault what if that hoe just threw herself at him for being a skank ! i know he shundt betrey me but c.mon what a shlaggggg
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  • liya May 23 2011 @ 02:39am Report Abuse
    falling out of love is very real but the husband should have left her wife first instead of two-timing her. mahirap naman talaga mag stay sa marriage na wala nang pagmamahal.
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  • wife Feb 22 2012 @ 11:04pm Report Abuse
    dipende s kabit kase may mga mkakati tlaga g n khit alam n na may asawa pumapatol p at ang mas matinde kinkaibigan p ang legal n asawa pero ung wlang alm d nman deserve m bugbog kc biktima rin sya
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