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Going out with a new guy is exhilarating! Every date affords new opportunities to find out more to love about each other. But the are-we-or-aren’t-we phase can be frustrating, too. Since the two of you haven’t gone out long enough to establish exclusivity, you can never be sure if he’s seeing only you…or fooling around with other girls, too.

This month’s issue of Cosmopolitan Philippines helps you find out if your new man isn’t ready to go the exclusive route yet. Here are three signs Romeo might be still be playing the field:

• He always stays at your place. If a guy doesn’t bring you to his personal space, and instead opts to spend time in yours, there might be something he’s trying to hide, like remnants from a past relationship or worse, a present one.
• His kissing style changes. When you kiss a guy, you unconsciously match your kissing rhythm with his. If you notice that his kisses feel a little different from what you’ve grown accustomed to, that’s a red flag. He’s probably been out kissing someone else just recently.
• He waits forever to call. A guy who is into you will make sure he asks you out quite regularly and in advance—before anyone else beats him to it. If he asks you out at the last minute, you’re probably not number one on his list of priorities.
  

Keep these telltale signs in mind when you start going out with a new guy. Don’t say you haven’t been warned.

Sources: Patrick Wanis, Ph.D., author of the audio book Get the Man You Want; Jay Carter, Psy.D., author of Nasty Men