Hot and cold. He’s sweet one moment, and acts like he couldn’t care less the next. He holds your hand tight one night, then fails to communicate the next morning. He can’t seem to stop texting you last week, then goes a full week with barely a hello.
In spite of his inconsistency and unresponsiveness to your subtle encouragement, you are sure he likes you, too. So how do you make him fall completely—or at least get him to admit that he already has?
This month’s issue of Cosmopolitan Philippines features real-life stories from Filipino women who have been able to nudge their men the right way: that is, in their direction. In “How I Got Him To Step Up His Game,” one reader shared how she was able to make her current boyfriend fall for him by giving him a good chase. Another divulged how “a little bravery on my part and that little extra push” brought her male friend (whom she has fallen for) to confess that he has liked her for a long time, too.
These girls’ stories and several others cited in the article tell you it’s possible to get the man you want. To help you in doing so, here are a few tips shared by Cosmo from Leil Lowndes, author of “How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You”:
Make a great first impression. And that involves wearing the right clothes, according to research.
Boost his ego. Lightly tell him how great he is without sounding like you’re obsessed with him.
Don’t expect too much. You’re only gearing yourself up for disappointment if you do. Be more open to differences.
Don’t put him on the spot. Saying “I want to talk about what is going on...” will only put him off. Instead, engage in witty banter, and keep things light.
Just be yourself and enjoy the ride. Don’t get all worked up plotting how to make him fall for you. As you’ve noticed in all these tips, the key is to take things lightly. If you enjoy each other’s company, soon he’ll never want to let you go.
Were you successful in making the man you like fall for you, too? Share with us how you did it!
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