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April 08, 2011

How did you find out your guy was cheating on you?

Did you go sleuthing or was it through a friend's tip? Let us know!

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Finding the right guy to have a relationship with takes a lot self-searching. Relationships, even with Mr. Right, have a tendency to lay your fears and insecurities out into the open. But what happens when the relationship that you worked hard to nurture, and the guy you thought was so perfect turns out to be anything but?

Last month, we asked you if you've ever been cheated on. A good number of you (25.82 percent) said you'd actually caught your guy at it, with some of you (50.99 percent) acting upon a hunch that was eventually proven right. But now, what we want to know how you found out that your guy was unfaithful. Was it from a trail of receipts from places you never went to? Mysterious phone calls during odd times of the day? A tip-off from a friend of yours? Or did you just flat out catch him and see the whole thing with your own eyes?

FN wants to know:

How did you find out that your guy was cheating on you?

Leave a comment to let us know.

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monj16 Apr 08 2011 @ 08:48am Report Abuse

i found out through his cellphone, careless of him, he forgot to erase messages! though i knew for a fact that the affair was only through text because the entire time i was with him since i was 7months preggy! Still the fact that he committed really hurt and until now he knows that I am struggling to trust him again.
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Jemma Apr 08 2011 @ 01:16pm Report Abuse

He forgot to log out of Facebook! I saw EVERYTHING. What an a-hole!
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lilac_bells Apr 08 2011 @ 01:29pm Report Abuse

I was already suspecting that he was cheating on me so when he was asleep i secretly opened his cellphone and saw all the proofs there.I atook the number of his other gf and tried texting her myself pretending to be a friend so i will know exactly what there status was.So i told my ex bf about everything i know but he still denied it.Too bad i am not that st*p*d to believe him so i ended everything between us.
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frances Apr 08 2011 @ 02:01pm Report Abuse

Purely hunch at first and confirmed by some evidence! I was in Phils that time and he was here in Bahrain, I felt something wrong inside that I couldn't explain, and then I noticed some changes in his behavior, for almost 5mos I was feeling that way, and then when he came for vacation to Phils that's when all the evidence came, from the purchase receipt of the memory card he bought, letter I found in his wallet, text messages on his mobile, late night calls registered on his mobile, I was able to talk to the mistress family and the stories I hv learned from those people I was able to talk with he made up against me to justify his affair, he admitted and then chosen the girl over, I was really too fool, I was not contented yet cuz I knew I ddnt deserve it, so I followed him over here in Bahrain, left our daughter to my mom, left my job for 7yrs, thinking he would change cuz I'm already here and hoping for a miracle, but sadly, it had only proven me more how wrongly I was to have married him... he's cohabitating with the other lady (which has been going on for almost 3yrs now) and I am thinking of filing a complain at the embassy before I leave...

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jomanette Apr 08 2011 @ 04:42pm Report Abuse

My friend's mom, who is his neighbor, told me he is getting married! I know I am not the girl he is marrying because we don't even talk about it. He never knew I have a friend around their neighborhood.
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Marquita Apr 09 2011 @ 01:05pm Report Abuse

cellphone. check while he was in the bathroom

1st- di pa kami, he had someone who he exchanged i love yous and i miss yous long distance rel. i think. he ended that.

2nd- he flirted with some girl from his past sa text pero one time thing lang.

i hate him until now. but were still together.

last na talaga pag may nalaman pa ako.

so ending the relationship.
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Helen Apr 10 2011 @ 12:10am Report Abuse

Caught him snuggling with the waitress in the bar near our house! I know he often hangs out there and I never minded until one day I saw his car parked outside the bar so I decided to surprise him and voila! caught in the act. nakpakasakit Kuya Eddie! girls if you have a hunch, better investigate! women's intuition yan!
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Sue Apr 14 2011 @ 07:52am Report Abuse

Texting silly idiot didn't delete them.

Group Purchase Online
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jena Apr 15 2011 @ 10:50pm Report Abuse

I've noticed all the changes at first from the way he dressed up, uses perfume like a teenager, sexy briefs all new & white, staying in the bathroom too long, became more conscious about his body,his mind is somewhere else & always absent-minded, all the signs are very noticeable, we women are very sensitive and always trust your instinct..investigate..investigate & investigate, you will be surprise about the other side of your man!
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sheewee Apr 17 2011 @ 09:34pm Report Abuse

His other woman's friend msg me in FB. She told me everything about the affair of my bf and the other woman. It happened one week before siya mag abroad. So it was so confusing if I should break up with him or stay with the relationship. Their affair lasted for 4 months if I'm not mistaken. 4 years na kami ng bf ko. But before it happen nafi-feel ko na meron na siyang iba. Iba talaga ang instinct ng babae.
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momimadz Apr 18 2011 @ 11:52pm Report Abuse

we're living together for 7 years and had son. its just now that I found out that he had an affair for 2 months.its very excruciating to think that everyday is a test for him, and torture on my part because i know he still do it and we have a son.
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hearty Apr 22 2011 @ 02:46pm Report Abuse

Well,I found out through a friend of mine who told me that he gave that person a rose and a chocolate. Sadly, the three of us are in the same office and when I confronted him he made a lousy excuse. Now,even if I have moved on..It still hurts!
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LMB May 01 2011 @ 08:43am Report Abuse

I saw his dating schedule on his lap top...there were diferent names of women...eeeewww!

AND HE BROUGHT 2 MISTRESSES TO OUR HOUSE! EXAJ!

We always had issues regarding his fidelity! Its so sad! I got tired! OUr marriage ended!
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abraham May 07 2011 @ 01:37pm Report Abuse

last tues i found out that my husband has been cheating on me for the past 3 years. he has 2 child with that girl.now that i had found it out what will i do i'm confused. we are married for 11 years with 3 wounderful children.he does not have a permanent work. but i love him.how will i get over this situation. should i let go of him or stick it out because of my children, i don't want to have a broken family.what will i do?will i just forget the fact that he did or what i'm confused and hurting.please help me
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Fonda May 12 2011 @ 08:13pm Report Abuse

cellphone still.. although he always manages to delete all the sent items but he forgot one and poof! everything was revealed and because of that I am like struggling forever to put the broken pcs back together. things will never be the same again.
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Uhlee May 31 2011 @ 08:25am Report Abuse

1st it was just a hunch..a feeling that something is off.. then i decided to check his cellphone while he's asleep.. i was shaking the whole time, up until now i can feel the same way i felt while i was reading his messages... not just one girl but many.. still we are together.. coping and trying to put the pieces back.. but as you said.. it will never be the same.. I know i'm st*p*d to stay.. even after our long arguments.. i don't know, i am still confused.. but i still love him that's why we're still together.
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