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Dec 23, 2008 by Dr. Majoe Juan Badiola

small_p_syndrome.jpgThere is such a thing as a “small penis syndrome,” or the anxiety caused by thinking that one’s penis is too small, even if it’s not necessarily so. A lot of men suffer from this condition, even if 85% of women claim they are satisfied with the size and proportion of their partner’s penis.

It is normal for a man to worry about the size of his member. But instead of worrying too much about the size, why not worry about the performance? As the saying goes, “It’s not the size of the wave, but the motion of the ocean.” Some useful information to consider:

The average erect penis is about 5.5” to 6.2” long and 4.7” to 5.1” in circumference at midshaft. A truly diminutive dangler is less than 2.75 inches when erect. Read first; imagine later. Are you getting a mental image? Usually, the tinkler’s size boosts the male ego. But does size really matter? Maybe for some. But really, if the pinky finger can deliver multiple orgasms, it defeats the premise.

About 45% of men wish to have a bigger penis, thus some resort to extender system and penis stretcher. Some wrap it with a small towel to create the illusion of being big. These devices do not offer real benefit, unless there is a deformity.

If this problem is really affecting the guy’s self-esteem and productivity, then he should seek expert advice. But for most cases, this imaginary problem can be alleviated by taking it seriously and having sincere conversations with the partner. This might become an obsession if dismissed without resolution; thus, there should be conscious effort to resolve this.

Now, is a big penis really important? Some guys are anxious about this, but it is a fact that the bigger the penis, more blood is needed to make it erect. Thus, if the organ is too big, it will be difficult to make it rock solid. Moreover, a large member sometimes causes sex to become painful for a woman.

The relatively normal sized male member requires less blood volume, thus it is harder. So which would you prefer: large but soft or small but hard?

Be it a monster penis or micropenis, a man shouldn’t despair. A woman's satisfaction does not absolutely depend on his size. It is actually the orchestration of performance, use of fingers and tongue, position variety, and how much love there is that makes a difference. And here’s another trick: the man could lick and stroke the clit more or the woman could assume a position that shortens the vaginal canal.

But really, a huge penis is just a bonus. It does not solely define a man’s being.

Photo by lucianotb from everystockphoto.com

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