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Once there was a 7.5 earthquake that hit the city. But more surprisingly, another tremor hit the emergency room of the city hospital when two naked people (but draped) was admitted. In missionary position, the penis was jammed inside the vagina. It cannot be removed at will, and to spice things up, they were married to different people. Apparently, they were doing the nasty when earthquake began. They panicked and boom! John Smith was trapped inside the cave.

Whether the story is true or not, that condition exists and it is called vaginismus. A state wherein there is an intense spasm of the muscles surrounding the introitus, leading it be tightly shut. Scary huh…and yes it locks by itself.

You might want to think back if it has happened to you before. Was there an instance that your partner had several attempts introducing the penis but cannot penetrate? Reason: the vagina is on reflex closure. It closes when it is in pain. It closes when it is not ready to accept visitors. NO VISITORS PLEASE OR ELSE YOU WILL BE HELD CAPTIVE. Dyspareunia or coital pain may lead to vaginismus. In a milder form, it temporarily closes to evade the introduction of a foreign body. But if it happens repeatedly, in vicious circularity, it may lead to vaginismus.

So, in order to avoid this condition, be honest to yourself and to you partner. If you don’t feel like doing it, don’t leave your vagina open to take all the hit! Loving somebody too much does not mean blind adherence You have the right to say “NO”. Most women believe that it is their obligation to satisfy their partner even if it’s against their will. Believe me, everytime you unwillingly submit, a grain of hatred develops and eventually it’ll affect your relationship, your sanity------and your vagina, yes your precious vagina. It might close or might get depressed.

Life’s purpose is happiness. Have a happy vagina, everyone!

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