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Sex and menstruation

Jul 8, 2008 by Dr. Majoe Juan Badiola

sex_mens.jpgMaking love is a very pleasurable experience. Sometimes women really want sex but are very shy to initiate. Sometimes they just feel obligated to give in. Sometimes, they are tired, not in the mood, or in pain. Or they may have their period.

Many couples tend not to have sex during menstruation. The reason? It’s gross, uncomfortable, and messy, and most guys cannot handle it. Many may disagree with my mental reservation, but I would still say “why not?” It is a personal choice.

Did you know that making love during menstruation is extremely pleasurable for women, especially if orgasm is reached? It has a different kick. It is more intoxicating. At this time, the female libido heightens. The vagina is well lubricated, thus the introduction of the penis is effortless. The vagina and the clitoris are very sensitive at this time, that one good stroke will make your eyeballs roll.

In some cultures in fact, menstruation is perceived as a spiritually powerful condition. However, there were also taboos about sex and menstruation. In ancient times, menstruating women were considered unclean, and intercourse during menstruation was absolutely forbidden.

Making love during menstruation is extremely pleasurable for women

One issue to consider now is, is it safe? Menstrual fluid itself is not harmful. While blood can carry infections, if the woman does not have any blood-borne infection, then it is not dangerous. Sex during menstruation is not for everyone, however. Still I think that if you are mutually monogamous and enjoy sex a lot, there is no reason to delay or avoid menstruation.

Orgasms by nature are tension relievers, which is why they may relieve period pains. Women in general tend to store stress and fat around the hip area, yet orgasm can release the stress in the reproductive area: it helps loosen it up so that blood can begin to flow. By achieving an orgasm, there will be less struggle and pain during your menstruation, as driven by the uterine contractions.

You may still argue, “But it is messy!” Yeah, it is messy, but it is still only blood. Do it inside the bathroom with running water, or in bed with a draw sheet on top of your Calvin Klein sheets. Consider it an adventure. Believe me when I tell you that if you “love him so much,” giving in would be less difficult. In this kind of situation, trust matters. And trust is the minimum requirement of love.

Women do not resort to sex during their mens, not because they are solely uncomfortable, but because they think their man would think less of them since blood does not exactly smell like D&G or Gucci. Women think that if it is messy, it is not sexy. But women are actually at their sexiest when they have menstruation. The female body releases a certain scent that makes her extremely sexy and irresistible particularly at this time.

Making love during wet days is not totally irresponsible. Again it is a personal choice. For me, it poses a deeper meaning. It means that making love defies physical entities, thus the act itself becomes soulful. Try this: when you are touching or being touched, CLOSE YOUR EYES, feel the warmth—consummate love, feel every gesture, every kiss, every touch until you reach the zenith. Now, is there a significant difference? Just tidy up after, OK?

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  • ladylucille

    I did this several times na. And this is true, it's more pleasurable. I don't believe na mandidiri bf mo pag period mo, if he loves you and wants to make love with you hindi na nila papansinin yun. Pag di ka talaga love nung guy at sex lang gusto nya, for sure mandidiri yun!!

    July 8, 2008 at 12:33 pm
  • fedup75

    A BIG NO WAY.....IT'S REALLY MESSY AND MARAMING ARAW PARA MKIPAG SEX, NOT DURING MENS PERIOD...EWWWW...I DON'T LIKE THE IDEA...NO OFFENSE SA MGA MAY GUSTO...PEACE TO ALL

    July 8, 2008 at 3:41 pm

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