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When people talk about foreplay, they often regard this as the act before the main event-prelude to intercourse. The part where in couples sweet talk, kiss, caress, and peck to prepare their body psychologically and physiologically. Women need foreplay since they need prolonged stimulation to reach arousal. Actually many women enjoy foreplay more than the actual intercourse. Foreplay will help you lubricate properly so that you will be ready for sex.

Aside from the fact that you’re starting to get wet, foreplay is the best time for you to THINK!!!

While your partner is caressing you, touching you all over the place, do not give in yet! Take time to process and think. It would only take a minute or two. “Am I doing the right thing?” “Is it safe?” “Am I fertile?” “Is this out of love?” “Is it the alcohol?” “Is this a kiss and make-up sex or just a revenge sex?” It can also be a time for you to plan your tricks in love-making, “Will I allow cunnilingus (the act of using the mouth lips and tongue to stimulate female genitals)?” Fellatio? (oral sex done in men) Now you might say, aren’t we supposed to relax and let go so that love will be consummated? Yes it‘s true but before you reach that stage, YOU REALLY HAVE TO THINK!

Remember, 10 minutes of sex may change your life forever. I’ve heard a lot of tales from different people from different walks of life. Patients, young mothers, lesbian mothers, single blessed, and there is a common phrase in their stories: “IF ONLY.”  Patients say, If only I used protection, I could have not contracted this disease. Life is easier if only I have finished college first before getting pregnant. They allowed it to happen. They let their lower nature subjugate their higher nature without realizing the incipient aftermath. And it can happen to you too.

Think of it this way, imagine yourself driving, you are in the frontline and the light is red.  You are waiting for the green. That moment of waiting is very crucial; it buys you time to think whether you are zooming forward, turning right, left or just park. Foreplay is similar to this. Are you going to ride hard? Or take it slow?

‘10 minutes of sex may change your life forever’

So before you loose control and submit, THINK FIRST!  Before you reach the point of no return, THINK FIRST! And if ever you decided to stop, don’t do it drastically-don’t push him away. Do it gently and explain to your partner the reason why you cannot. His genuine love will prevail, and he will understand.