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How do you keep your man-friend sexually happy when you’re oceans apart from each other?
 
This is among the many challenges that a long distance relationship (LDR) faces. But just as how it is with keeping the LDR romance work, this can be done through a little creativity, imagination, and eagerness from both parties to make it happen.
 
We gathered seven tips to get you started. We’re sure you can discover more ways to keep your man-friend sexually happy once you get the ball rolling.
 
1. Instant messenger. Find a common time to go online. Then you can talk “dirty” in real-time. Once you’re online, the possibilities are endless. “It certainly works. Or at least, they help me in some way. It’s better than nothing at all,” says LA-based John, 25.

2. Use your webcam. This way, you could still see each other’s naughty smiles, hungry looks, and teasing way of biting the lips. You are, of course, free to show “more” than these. Just make sure you lock your room (and not allow anyone else to view your webcam). “I’d really rather have more, of course. But this is all we’ve got. It’s all I can do with someone all the way back home in Manila,” says Richard, 24, who’s now based in New York.

3. Phone sex. It still works. Just hearing you moan and purr over the phone can already arouse your man. Try to simulate the act over the phone to make your moaning and purring more convincing. Tell each other as graphically as possible what you want to do, what exactly you are feeling, and if you’re already close to that (albeit imaginary) sexual paradise.

4. Send sexy photos of each other through email or MMS. Men love visuals. Nothing else can make your man’s day than receiving in his email or mobile phone the sexiest photo of you in the middle of the day—wherever he is on the globe.

5. Email him your sexual fantasies. While they say men rarely enjoy reading, I’m sure that will change when he receives an email from you with a really detailed account of what the two of you would be doing if you were left alone together. No limit to the number of words (and type of words) you can use. Also try visiting www.hoochymail.com (the replacement for Rob Frankel’s www.pillowmail.com) a site where you can instantly compose and email each other erotic fantasies customized with your own dirty details.

6. Text dirty. No time to chat or email a detailed account of your sexual fantasies? Try sending him a text message in the middle of the day (or his day, if he’s in a different time zone). Make it as sweet, sexy, and snappy as possible. It’s guaranteed to bring a naughty smile to his face (at the very least). And you can be sure he’ll be thinking of you, no matter what he’s doing.

7. Plan a rendezvous. Now that you’ve built up all these erotic fantasies online or through phone, nothing can be more exciting than setting a date for a much-awaited rendezvous. Plan it well to make sure all those fantasies DO NOT remain fantasies for long.