Orgasm, orgasm, orgasm. You will hear this word in the coffee shop, office, classroom, everywhere. It’s ubiquitous! Girls will smile, giggle, others will have the urgency to pee just by imagining it. But during silence, only a handful of females really experienced ORGASM. You will be surprised that most women will say their sexual lives are satisfactory, but when asked extensively, it will ber revealed that they have never actually obtained full sexual satisfaction. Honestly, just between you and me... Have you experienced orgasm? Were you able to wet the sheets more than 60 ml.?
If the answer is no, no worries, there is hope. Granted that there’s no sexual dysfunction, reasons may be: You have too much inhibitions, emotional immaturity, inexperience, fear of being pregnant, and absence of genuine love.
For orgasm to take place, the psychological preparation is crucial. No matter how romantic the ambience is if your psyche is unprepared, you will not reach the finish line. Are you ready to disrobe and expose your body’s imperfections? Are you ready to exchange body fluids? Are you ready to face the consequences of having sex like infanticipating? If not, then you have to condition yourself that you are doing this, that you will give every piece of you. Loosen up and be ready to experience bliss.
But what if you already did the cartwheel and somersault and still anorgasmic? Then you have to be honest with your partner, “DON’T FAKE IT”. Pretending will just make you grumpy after and will be the beginning of your relationship’s end. Don’t blame the penis, and don’t blame the vagina. Maybe your partner lack techniques. Remember, it’s not the size of the wave but the motion of the ocean. Learn how to explore, masturbate, know your orgasmic zone and lead you partner.
It is easier to cum if you are deeply in love with your partner. For the reason that if there is love, there is trust, and your souls are on eternal embrace. For a lot of women, sexual satisfaction is tied up with an affectionate relationship rather than physical attraction.
During making love, I usually pray and say I love you over and over again while doing skillfully my maneuvers. I’m praying that my partner trusts me and may feel how much love there is to consume.
Just a word of caution, orgasm can precipitate suppressed fears. But once fears are released, it is very addictive. You have to reach orgasm, because not having it may develop subliminal distaste. Having it at least three times a week will make you look and feel six years younger.
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