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Author Topic: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?  (Read 41018 times)

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Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« on: March 08, 2013, 11:10:44 AM »
Paano ba natin mahuhuli si Mister na may kabit?bukod sa facebook,cellphone,pag halungkat pati wallet?walang bisyo,maaga lagi umuwi.at bago rin siya mag accept ng friend request from a girl na di niya rin kilala,,ipaaalam pa sayo.

kaso pag nasa labas na sila hindi na natin sila ma control.ako naman never pa naloko ng hubby ko,pero di natin masasabi.may tiwala naman ako sa kanya pero what if mangyari diba?

Isang bagay na kinaka takot ko yung di ko kasi alam kung nagpunta OR nagpupunta ba si hubby sa Spa Parlor with e.s.
nag research ako sa google at nagkalat pala yan.bakit ba meron nyan!niloloko ko nga ang asawa ko,sabi ko tawag ako ng mag ho-home service massage,gusto ba niya?Oo raw,sabi ko kaso bata pa yon masseuse,aba ang sagot ano raw itsura..sabi ko sa kanya bubusan ko acido yung kanya pag nalaman kong nagpaa s.p.a.k.o.l.siya!! Yun ang tawag nila dun ng dati niyang officemate..

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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #1 on: March 08, 2013, 02:41:46 PM »
edi sis mag aral ka pano yung lingam. ako sis talagang nag research pano mag masahe, and part talaga ng bonding/duties ko yung pag massage (not lingam) kay hubs. yung lingam minsan lang pag special occassions. hehe.


about pano mahuli, womans instinct daw, di ko pa kasi na experience. pero naman, kahit, may evidence ka, mahirap umamin yang mga boys.
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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #2 on: March 08, 2013, 02:56:11 PM »
sis not sure din kung pano kasi never pa ginawa ni hubby yun, pero sa opinion ko pag siguro di ka na niyaya ni mister na mag-do kayo hehe baka nga may bago sa panlasa nya.

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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #3 on: March 08, 2013, 03:16:41 PM »
Pag nagbago sya ng behavior nya syo, yung parang anjan syapero parang lumilipad isip nya. Hinde na sya malambig kung dating malambing, pedeng naging irritable at mainitin ang ulo , pero watch out parin kase yung lalaki may ginagawang kalokohan nagiging mas extra sweet para nga naman di sila mabuko, super caring super seloso. :D

Wala ng sex time

Amuyin mo sya mabuti pagkauwi nya from office baka amoy sabon ng motel, or amoy perfume ng babae, at kung maaamoy mo yung ano nya amuyin mo rin hahaha


Ayaw pahawakan cellphone, may lock ang fone, naka silent ang ringing tone, at hinde mo alam ang mga password ng mga online activities nya, email, fb, ym . Etc.


Laging ubos ang allowance

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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #4 on: March 08, 2013, 03:23:58 PM »
Marunong rin naman ako mag masahe,mula lola ko hanggang mga tita ko,isa ko sa mga apo na taga masahe nila hehe.kaasar lang kasi may isang promotor nagka idea tuloy si hubby na may ganyan pala.feeling ko,hinala ko nagfa-fantasize itong si hubby.kasi pag nagpapa massage sa gabi,tatanongin pa ko kung saan daw ako nakatira..ang sagot ko naman eh abnormal ba kako siya?di ko naman siya pinagsasabhan pa,pero binigyan ko na siya ng warning kung sakali gawin niya..kino konsensya ko na nga lang siya na masama yun :) sabi ko magkaka AIDS siya saka bad karma kapalit nyan ;D

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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #5 on: March 08, 2013, 10:00:08 PM »
kung ikaw ang asawa na nasa pilipinas.... paano mo malalaman o mahuhuli ang asawa mo kung may kabit siya sa abroad?

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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #6 on: March 09, 2013, 04:36:12 PM »
Sa kin kasi sa instinct ko nahuli ang hubby ko eh...tapos sa cp nya at fb di nya nabura u usapan nila nung girl

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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #7 on: March 10, 2013, 02:54:11 AM »
Minsan kusang lalapit sa iyo yung mga evidence or kusang lalapit sa iyo yung mga concerned na tao.

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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #8 on: March 10, 2013, 07:55:11 AM »
Mahirap mahuli kung napakagaling ng mister magtago.  :o

Pwede rin kasi mangyari yung opposite - as in sweet siya talaga sa iyo at romantic than the usual - para lang masatisfy ang guilt feeling nya ng pagkakaroon ng kabit.

Pwedeng may kabit siya nang di nya kailangang mag-OT. Lalo na yung mga may field work o kaya yung tipong may mga free time sa office nila na pwede pa silang umalis.

Kung mabisto man, sa mga kaibigan ang susi. Pero syempre kung kailangang komprontahin ang mister, may hard evidence dapat at huwag basta papaniwala sa tsismis.
« Last Edit: March 10, 2013, 08:00:25 AM by freelancer_babe »
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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #9 on: March 10, 2013, 10:11:22 AM »

Paano ba natin mahuhuli si Mister na may kabit?

kaso pag nasa labas na sila hindi na natin sila ma control.

Isang bagay na kinaka takot ko

Do not worry until the day to worry arrives.
Hwag maghanap ng mamaw.

Why worry  about things you cannot control --  ma stress out ka lang.

Pag meron ka dapat worry over. -- maniwala ka, any 1 or all these will happen:

1.  He tells you  himself;

2.  You will find out yourself, kahit hindi ka naghahanap ng evidence;  and/or

3. 
Minsan kusang lalapit sa iyo yung mga evidence or kusang lalapit sa iyo yung mga concerned na tao.

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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #10 on: March 11, 2013, 08:47:18 AM »
kung ikaw ang asawa na nasa pilipinas.... paano mo malalaman o mahuhuli ang asawa mo kung may kabit siya sa abroad?

hindi mo mahuhuli unless may spy ka doon.

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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #11 on: March 11, 2013, 08:55:00 AM »
Paano ba natin mahuhuli si Mister na may kabit?

One school of thought is yung sinabi ni sis aquacharly, dadating at dadating ang ebidensya.  For me, it came as a dream.

But does not hurt to always be cautious, pero huwag naman over. Kasi mamaya sya ang pumatay sa relationship nyo sa sobrang suspicious mo.

Sakin naman kasi na experience ko na iyan, it was all very traumatic. Hindi ko nga kasi ine expect. Then when the time came, hindi ko alam ang gagawin ko. Kaya I am just sharing what I should have done.

Pag nahuli mo na, never ever ever ever confront him unprepared.  Pero dahil sa bugso ng emotions, this is very hard to do.  When I say prepared -
1. prepared ka dapat na - if i-deny nya, may proof ka na hindi sya makakahindi. 
2. prepared ka rin to walk out anytime kasi kung umamin sya at sinabi nya na mahal nya ang kabit nya - ano ang gagawin mo?
3. prepared ka rin dapat to make the marriage work and forgive him - kung umamin at nagrepent.


Because of what happened to me and what I am also seeing now, I just cannot trust men. And for me, kahit ano pa sabihin ng wife na mahal na mahal sya ng guy, one way or another, I always believe na 99% of the guys have been unfaithful somehow - this is in the Philippine context ha.  So kung hindi pa nangyayari sa marriage nyo, huwag mo hayaang mangyari and try to do everything to avoid it.  The problem in the society kasi is there - LDRs, willing mistresses or single/married women willing to have extra marital affairs without commitment, men feeding their friend's ego by encouraging them and telling stories na they have gotten away with it, and simply there are the people who just stand there and watch and cheer.  Not to mention how our government and the famous people (government officials and actors/actresses) show such bad examples. The laws they pass simply condone such behaviors.




« Last Edit: March 12, 2013, 09:29:04 AM by Girltalker2 »

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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #12 on: March 11, 2013, 11:06:30 PM »
sabi nga nang asawa ko, dalawa lang naman daw ang rules nang lalaki pag may kalukadidang:

1. wag kang magpapahuli
2. pag nahuli, wag kang aamin.


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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #13 on: March 12, 2013, 06:21:03 AM »
true. kaya ako inunahan ko ang asawa ko.

this was the last thing on my mind. just like our other sis. hindi ko akalin na mangyayari ito sa akin. instincts din ang unang gumana sa akin. alam kong may problem but hindi koma pin point kung ano. nag iba din sya ng ugali. small things na akala mo wala lang. tapos yun na nga. ang ebidensya ang lumapit sa akin.


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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #14 on: March 12, 2013, 09:30:45 AM »

Pag once nahuli mo na, lagi mong imo-monitor. Hindi ba kayo napapagod kaka monitor? 

kasi naalala ko before ako eh napagod. I gave up. Kaya ngayon wala nakong iniintindi, mas tahimik ang buhay ko. Is there some way to be watching pero hindi naman nakaka stress?

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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #15 on: March 12, 2013, 11:53:42 AM »
Pag nagbago sya ng behavior nya syo, yung parang anjan syapero parang lumilipad isip nya. Hinde na sya malambig kung dating malambing, pedeng naging irritable at mainitin ang ulo , pero watch out parin kase yung lalaki may ginagawang kalokohan nagiging mas extra sweet para nga naman di sila mabuko, super caring super seloso. :D

Wala ng sex time



natawa naman ako dito I'm a guy nga pala minsan nangyayari sakin to pero wala ako mistress ah hehe

we've been for 12 years ng wife ko 10 years as bf/gf and 2 years husband and wife. kaya payo ko mga girls hanap kayo ng guy na tulad ko hindi mahilig sa babae, lalaki lang .  ;) ;) ;)

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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #16 on: March 12, 2013, 12:40:36 PM »
we've been for 12 years ng wife ko 10 years as bf/gf and 2 years husband and wife. kaya payo ko mga girls hanap kayo ng guy na tulad ko hindi mahilig sa babae, lalaki lang .  ;) ;) ;)

You don't mean this ano? Lalaki - as in lalakeng lover? Man-to-man action?  :P
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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #17 on: March 12, 2013, 01:02:33 PM »
You don't mean this ano? Lalaki - as in lalakeng lover? Man-to-man action?  :P

 ;D ;D Im just kidding Maam.

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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #18 on: March 12, 2013, 01:51:45 PM »
natawa naman ako dito I'm a guy nga pala minsan nangyayari sakin to pero wala ako mistress ah hehe

we've been for 12 years ng wife ko 10 years as bf/gf and 2 years husband and wife. kaya payo ko mga girls hanap kayo ng guy na tulad ko hindi mahilig sa babae, lalaki lang .  ;) ;) ;)

based on true to life experience yan, and some of my friends experiences din kase..
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Re: Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?
« Reply #19 on: March 12, 2013, 03:23:20 PM »

What I don't understand is bakit walang effort from the guy na ayusin ang marriage?

Kung feeling nya may problema sya sa wife nya, bakit sya kelangan humanap ng iba?  hindi ba dapat kausapin nya ang wife nya nang maayos nila iyan kesa maghanap sya ng ibang outlet?

Secondly, kung nakahanap na sya ng ibang outlet, bakit enjoy na enjoy sya makipagpatintero with the wife?  Hindi rin fun yung lagi kang binabantayan na parang bata at walang freedom. Why not just tell your wife outright may nahanap ka nang iba so that everyone can move on?  Why resort to lying, cheating, patago tago. Parang mga engot.


 

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