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Author Topic: Our helper's creepy callers. Modus kaya? Tama ba na we sent her home?  (Read 1629 times)

mamichula

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Last Sunday we went to my mother's house and we brought our new helper with us. Nung una pinagpipilitan nya na we bring our dog even lying na hindi daw magulo my dog sa car nakasama na daw nya (i was like huh? when?). When we got to my mom's house labas sya nang labas may kinakausap. On our way home narinig namin may kausap sya sa car. We pretended ng husband ko na hindi kame nakikinig sa usapan so tuloy lang sila.

The guy was asking kung saang exactly kame nakatira he was enumerating places around our area. When our helper told him kung saan the guy was like "mayayaman nakatira jan ah?" . Tapos he said something na hindi na namin narinig. Ang reply ng helper namin "ayoko takot ako sa karma".

So we got alarmed. Ano ang pinapagawa sa kanya at ayaw nya makarma? When we got home we called my mom. Apparently my mom's helper said ang helper daw namin palabas labas at may kausap na lalaki. Biglang pumasok ang helper namin asking (my mom's helper)  for our full names na parang pinapatanong nung guy na kausap nya. Tapos bumalik sa loob pinapatanong din nung kausap nya ang address namin complete address etc.

The next day we confronted her and iba iba na ang stories nya. Pinsan daw nya un. etc. eh She talks sa cell gabi gabi, minsan pati madaling araw imposibleng ganun kaobssed ang pinsan nya sa kanya. Later on nagiba na ang kwento nya bayaw naman daw nya, tapos pinsan nya sa province puro lalaki. It got me thinking, puro kamag anak mong lalaki ang tumatawag sayo? Nung gabi na nung nararamdaman nya we were getting suspicious at pauuwiin na sya she said mga friends daw ng pinsan nya tinatawagan sya.

And nadudulas sya because she was rambling. Sabi nya "sabi ko nga sa kanya di sya makakapasok dito sampu sampu ang guards". Later she insisted na ayaw naman ng pinsan nya pumunta dahil wala daw alam sa maynila di daw makakapunta yun.

Bakit kung walang balak na masama ang pinsan or kung sino man ang kausap nya, bakit aware sila na madaming guards? At bakit sila matatakot sa guard kung gusto lang dumalaw? And bakit pinapatanong ng kausap nya ang names namin? Bakit inaalam exactly kung saan kame nakatira?At kung walang alam sa maynila ang kausap nya paano na enumerate ang places around our area? Bakit pinagpipilitan nyang isama ang dog nung walang tao sa house?

NUng napapansin nya na nagdududa na kame parang nagchange ang aura nya. Natakot kame. And lumabas sya nang super tagal naglalaba daw sya sa laundry area (pero never sya naglaba ng ganun katagal). Parang may kinakausap and nirereportan.

We were so creeped out so pinahatid na sya sa driver. Kahit ang driver natakot kasi may nirequest daw na place na dun sya ihatid. Ang ginawa ng driver sa ibang street dumaan he got scared baka daw may mga kasama harangin sila. We're changing our locks and binalik ang alarm sa doors. I was thinking baka nag oover react lang kame. Pero why would she lie about stuff like that? My husband naman said mas maigi nang maingat kesa may nangyare na bago pa namin sya paalisin.

Whatcha girls think?

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Re: Our helper's creepy callers. Modus kaya? Tama ba na we sent her home?
« Reply #1 on: November 28, 2012, 01:00:28 AM »
buti na lang at pinaalis na ninyo ang katulong nyo. sounds very fishy.

ingat na lang kayo dyan.

kaya ako, kapag kumukuha ako ng katulong pinapa-submitt ko talaga sila ng barangay clearance, police clearance at NBI. requirement ko talgaga yun. para malaman nila kung meron man silang balak gawin, alam namin kung saan man sila maaring hanapin.

kailangan maging maingat tayo. mahirap na.

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Re: Our helper's creepy callers. Modus kaya? Tama ba na we sent her home?
« Reply #2 on: November 28, 2012, 02:36:12 AM »
Yeah, tama lang ang ginawa nyo...
marami pa namang mga loko-loko ngayon...
buti naging aware kayo sa ginagawa nya...

Saan nyo sya nakuha at gaano na sya katagal sa inyo sis??

kaya dapat todo ingat tayo kasi iba na ang panahon, mahirap magtiwala ng basta-basta...


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Re: Our helper's creepy callers. Modus kaya? Tama ba na we sent her home?
« Reply #3 on: November 28, 2012, 05:11:51 PM »
@annie un nga eh sana pala tg pinakuha ko ng nbi clearance and police clearance. Pina medical ko lang sya nawala na sa isip ko hanapan ng nbi.Next time talaga maghahanap na ako ng ganun para makuha ko din ang details.

@vianyx
Sa kakilala lang namin. Pero ang sabi kasi di pa sya ganun katagal aa Manila so malay ba nmin kung saan talaga sya galing. Mag one month p lang sana sya. He said nga sana d na muna pinalaki ng asawa ko at dinaan muna sa usapan. Pero ilang araw na kasi masama ang kutob ng husband ko. Parang something's not right daw talaga ilang araw na nya sinasabi na wala syang tiwala kasi nga nagsisinungaling and paiba iba ang kwento. Tapos parang super talagang kinacareer nya na makuha ang tiwala namin. Minsan obvs na binobola kame akala ata t**** kame. Onga maigi n din pinaalis may baby pa man din kame baka mamaya ang balak pala kunin un anak ko mahirap na.

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Re: Our helper's creepy callers. Modus kaya? Tama ba na we sent her home?
« Reply #4 on: November 28, 2012, 05:23:24 PM »
mas mabuti ng maingat sis
for [textspeak!] paranoia yan :) madami ng masasamang tao ngayon
ako nga recently kasi umalis na [textspeak!] helper namin so we had to look for a new one
hala super bilin ako sa mommy ko about sa particulars ng helper kelan lahat ng clearance merong isubmit haha
eh wala ako sa pilipinas (SG based) ako kasi yung tamang-hinala haha so sabi ko kay mommy dapat meron siyang mga records nung bagong helper mahirap na din kasi mommy ko lang and a 12 year old niece ang nasa house so most of the time yung helper lang ang nasa house working pa kasi ang mommy
so kelangan namin is yung mapagkakatiwalaan talaga
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Re: Our helper's creepy callers. Modus kaya? Tama ba na we sent her home?
« Reply #5 on: November 28, 2012, 05:36:21 PM »
Tapos na yun, stop figuring out kung modus ba o hinde. Let it serve nalang as a lesson to not get a helper na kahina hinala.

Tama lang yun na pinauwi nyo sya, mabuti nang sigurado kesa ipahamak mo ang sarili mo at ang mga kasama mo sa bahay.

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Re: Our helper's creepy callers. Modus kaya? Tama ba na we sent her home?
« Reply #6 on: November 28, 2012, 07:10:40 PM »
You did right.  Very unusual.  Scary.   They were actually already casing your home/you. Masuerte kayo may katangahan yung maid - maingay mag gather ng info.

Scary scenario -- pag na pasukan kayo and you are inside -- susko, as we read in the Diarios - rape, murder, etc.

Alert your security office that your previous maid was giving a lot of info to her callers.   
Do not be complaisant. 

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Re: Our helper's creepy callers. Modus kaya? Tama ba na we sent her home?
« Reply #7 on: November 28, 2012, 09:54:14 PM »
yung mga helpers dapat bawal tumanggap ng visitors nila at puntahan ng friends/relatives sa place of work. kung day off nila magkita sila sa labas, public place like mall. pero hindi sa house ng amo.

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Re: Our helper's creepy callers. Modus kaya? Tama ba na we sent her home?
« Reply #8 on: November 29, 2012, 12:25:35 AM »
Tapos na yun, stop figuring out kung modus ba o hinde. Let it serve nalang as a lesson to not get a helper na kahina hinala.

Tama lang yun na pinauwi nyo sya, mabuti nang sigurado kesa ipahamak mo ang sarili mo at ang mga kasama mo sa bahay.

Uhm actually no. Hindi pa tapos. She's been calling my mother the whole day today begging to let her work kahit sa house nalang ng mom ko. Kahit maglaba nalang daw sya because she needs the money badly. Wala na daw syang ibang mapasukan. She's a biyuda and working for her kids (in fair na check namin and nameet her kids). Mali daw ang duda sa kanya sana daw mapagusapan pa. Being a biyuda herself pansin ko naawa awa na my mom sa kanya. Pero I talked to my mother na wag na lang kahit [textspeak!] pang awa nya. Mahirap na mas mabuti nang maingat.


mas mabuti ng maingat sis
for [textspeak!] paranoia yan :) madami ng masasamang tao ngayon
ako nga recently kasi umalis na [textspeak!] helper namin so we had to look for a new one
hala super bilin ako sa mommy ko about sa particulars ng helper kelan lahat ng clearance merong isubmit haha
eh wala ako sa pilipinas (SG based) ako kasi yung tamang-hinala haha so sabi ko kay mommy dapat meron siyang mga records nung bagong helper mahirap na din kasi mommy ko lang and a 12 year old niece ang nasa house so most of the time yung helper lang ang nasa house working pa kasi ang mommy
so kelangan namin is yung mapagkakatiwalaan talaga

Yeah it's very important nga lalo na sa case mo na you're abroad and maiiwan sa kanya madalas your child. Kunan nyo din agad ng picture :) In fair I was able to do that hehe I took a picture of the helper a few days ago sabi ko ilalagay ko sa FB or something pero i was nadududa na talaga nun. We are going to print the pic tomorrow and leaving it sa guard house para di na sya talaga makapasok if ever.

You did right.  Very unusual.  Scary.   They were actually already casing your home/you. Masuerte kayo may katangahan yung maid - maingay mag gather ng info.

Scary scenario -- pag na pasukan kayo and you are inside -- susko, as we read in the Diarios - rape, murder, etc.

Alert your security office that your previous maid was giving a lot of info to her callers.   
Do not be complaisant.

That's what my mother said din. Hindi daw matalino the helper kasi nag lilie sya nalilimutan nya ata na iba [textspeak!] kwento nya nung una. Eh matandain ako eh. My husband hates it nga kasi mga kinukwento sakin years ago naaalala ko pa every detail. Kaya napapagtagpi ko her kwento and nahuli ko na paiba iba [textspeak!] details.

Oo nga naku un ang scary! :(

Thank you!Oo nga pero We kinda talked to them na. Bukas we'll go back to give them her picture.

yung mga helpers dapat bawal tumanggap ng visitors nila at puntahan ng friends/relatives sa place of work. kung day off nila magkita sila sa labas, public place like mall. pero hindi sa house ng amo.

I agree! Ganun nga nga [textspeak!] isa sa mga rules next time.




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Re: Our helper's creepy callers. Modus kaya? Tama ba na we sent her home?
« Reply #9 on: November 29, 2012, 12:50:36 AM »
sis that's super creepy. you know i think she insisted to bring the dog so that the dog will learn of the smell of this man friend niya, to get the dog familiarize so that it wont bark kapag pumunta yung lalaki sa bahay niyo.

and weird talaga na pinapatanong complete names niyo and yung address.

kami nga ha, yung aming laundry woman, sinusundo pa namin sa bahay niya so that she wont know where we live (i guess that sounded weird) tsaka any meetups ng helpers with whoever should not be in our house. talagang no-no yun sa mom ko. we'd rather drive the helper sa jollibee or wherever than to let yung kakilala niya sa bahay namin.

and di kumukuha si mommy ng helper na may kamag-anak na nakatira/namamasukan din sa village namin. natatakot siya na baka may anong mangyari.

naku sis kinilabutan ako up to now sa kwento  mo.  :-\

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Re: Our helper's creepy callers. Modus kaya? Tama ba na we sent her home?
« Reply #10 on: November 29, 2012, 02:06:30 PM »
@iwannabeashpermodel
Yun na bga siguro ang balak nya sa aso ko :(

Oo diba? Nakakatakot :( nung day na paalisin na namin sya and nakakatunog na sya nag ina aura nya. Parang galit and ang sama makatingin sobrang badtrip sya kc nararamdaman nya na may alam na kame.at ang tagal nya sa laundry room 5 hours ata di naman sya dati ganun. Baka nga may nirereportan.

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Re: Our helper's creepy callers. Modus kaya? Tama ba na we sent her home?
« Reply #11 on: November 29, 2012, 04:09:19 PM »
and talagang mga pinag-iisipan nila yung moves. yung sa may dog part, medyo talagang pinag-isipan yun ha.
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