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Author Topic: Maalat na kaibigan  (Read 1434 times)

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Maalat na kaibigan
« on: November 26, 2012, 05:54:39 PM »
I need your opinion sis, meron kase kami barkada ni hubby na medyo takaw disgrasya.... Pag kasama sya ng husband ko masyadong maswerte ang hatid.., yung first kasama sya ng husband ko  nawala motor namin,  :( pag park lang sa mall wala pang 5 minutes nawala na...2nd time umangkas lang sya sa motor namin bumagsak na agad yung motor at nasira center stand at yung 3rd time kahapon lang sumemplang ulit sila, me konting sugat husband ko, minor damage sa motor ko pero malalim yung gasgas na need for repaint talaga..at yung friend namin tosino inabot sa balat.( ito yung friend naming maalat)

Parang everytime kasama sya ng husband ganun ang nangyayari kase.., mabait naman sya na kaibigan, gusto ko sana umiwas na kami sa kanila kase hinde ko gusto nangyayari. , naniniwala b kayo sis meron mga taong sadyang maalat at nakakahawa, o nagdadala ng hinde maganda.,.?
Ayokong mahawa kami sa kanila., natatakot ako para sa family namin., sobrang nagaalala ako pag kasama sya ng hubby ko, ang hilig nya kase iback ride itong friend namin na ito  na walang sasakyan man lang.

Close kase kami sa kanila yung wifey ng friend namin na maalat eh close sakin.., every weekend nagtatambayan kwentuhan konting inuman,
Mahalata kaya nila biglaang pagiwas namin?kung kayo na sa place ko what will you do.?
Mas importante kase kapakanan ng family ko over friends.

Base na rin kase sa kwento ng wifey ni friend na maalat kinukwento sakin na medyo takaw disgrasya, simpleng katangahan nadidisgrasya....like nagluluto lang , sira pala hawakan ngkawali nabuhusan ng mantika, nagbisikleta lang nawalan na ng preno, bababa na lang ng motor mula sa pagkaka backride nauna ulo bumagsak kesa sa paa  mga ganun  ......

Am i overly reacting?

« Last Edit: November 26, 2012, 05:58:17 PM by crazycoolchic19 »
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Re: Maalat na kaibigan
« Reply #1 on: November 27, 2012, 05:54:53 PM »
may mga ganyan talaga i think...mga unlucky. di kaya negative thinker masyado yung friend mo? nagmamanifest kasi yang mga kamalasan na yan e. di ba may mga iba maswerte talaga? mag basa-basa ka sa net tapos kung di mo mafigure out how to help him, e wag na kayo masyado magsasama dun sa friend na yun. ang bad ko ata...pero ayoko magsasama sa taong malas.

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Re: Maalat na kaibigan
« Reply #2 on: November 28, 2012, 06:57:23 AM »
May ganun pala at yun pala ang tawag dun, well siguro dapat 'tong si friend na maalat mag doble ingat - rhymes. lol

For his safety and yung mga kasama na din nya. Maybe it's better for your husband to talk to him or you talk to the wife and let her have a heart to heart talk with her husband.

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Re: Maalat na kaibigan
« Reply #3 on: November 29, 2012, 10:57:13 PM »
We do not believe na may maalat nor malas na tao -- careless or tamad, Oo, kaya hopia.

Pero we believe that there are combinations/pairings  of people na hindi suerte.  A brother & sister of mine, hindi namin pinag sasama sa 1 car/ride/flight.  Sigurado, may disgrasya or long flight delay/even cancellation.   

If I were you, I will talk to the wife & say, looks like malapit sa danger yung 2 hubbies pag riding together -- so iwas kayo, no riding together na.  If concerned sya sa hubby nya, she will agree with you.  Hirap naman na kabakaba ka na eh ignore mo pa.  Ang pagsisisi ay nasa huli.   

If ikasama ng loob at magtampo ... Well, your choice. But, better safe than sorry, IMO. 
« Last Edit: November 29, 2012, 11:02:05 PM by aquacharly »

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Re: Maalat na kaibigan
« Reply #4 on: December 02, 2012, 02:54:20 AM »
i totally agree with sis aqua..

maiintindihan naman iyong ng wife niya kaysa mag sisi sa bandang huli diba? magkaibigan parin naman kayo pero wag nalang mag back ride or travel together just to be sure diba?

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Re: Maalat na kaibigan
« Reply #5 on: December 02, 2012, 10:13:04 AM »
Negative thoughts can bring negative results.
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Re: Maalat na kaibigan
« Reply #6 on: December 02, 2012, 10:33:16 AM »
Thanks mga sisses sa reply, ganun na nga gagawin ko and sana lang maintindihan nila yun dahil para sa safety na rin ng mga hubbys namin yun.
Last wed.,Pumunta sila dito sa bahay mag asawa hinde na kase ako dumadaan sa bahay nila, or kung sumagot ako ng text sa kanila is parang wala lang, walang sigla reply ko sa kanila, , but as of now ayoko muna makipag communicate, di ko maiwasan yung feeling na naiinis ako at nagagalit, ayokong manisi hinde lang naman kase isang beses para palagpasin mga ganun, siguro dapat medyo lumayo muna kami sa kanila. And naniniwala ako sa sinabi ni sis aquacharly na may mga combinations/ pairings na hinde swerte.
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Re: Maalat na kaibigan
« Reply #7 on: January 25, 2013, 10:15:38 AM »
may ganito pala talagang pangyayari....

of course magtataka ang friend ninyo bakit all of a sudden nagkaganun..ano bang background ng friend mo??? baka may touch sha on the dark side.

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Re: Maalat na kaibigan
« Reply #8 on: February 13, 2013, 05:00:15 PM »
ako naman kanina lang nairita ako dun sa batchmate ko nung h.s kasi may upcoming reunion kami this March,inaya ko siya total classmates kami nung 3rd year..feelingera ako so alam ako ako pinaringgan niya na Plastik raw.kasi may status post ako tapos nag co-comment yung isa namin ka-batch na napag usapan namin na kinakainisan niya..

feeling ko talaga na-bwiset siya kasi kausap ko yung girl..ano naman magagawa ko,pare-pareho kaming magkaka batch..kailanagn ba kaaway niya is kaaway ko rin..di kasi siya marunong maki-blend sa tao.kahit naman ako di ko close yung classmate ko na yon,naka relate kasi sa stat ko kaya nag comment.ano magagawa ko dedmahin ko?di naman ako yung tipo na porque di ko ka-close dedmahin ko lang.syempre kailangan matuto ka rin makipag plastikan minsan sa mga tao dahil part of growing up yon.palibhasa kasi naka "mukmok" lagi sa bahay ng nanay niya.akala naman niya makakakita pa siya ng taong hindi marunong mang plastik.kahit saan meron yan.kailanagn mo rin  minsan yon.hay naku kaloka..

 

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