Author Topic: When he's "flirting" with others (Read 1125 times)

erin1992 · « **on:** November 16, 2012, 01:32:56 pm »

Anong gagawin nyo kapag parang nakikipag-flirt si BF sa ibang girl/s?
Tipong madalas may "miss na kita" and other medyo pa-sweet stuff.
Sabi naman nya wala lang daw yun, he's just being friendly. Sakin naman, naiisip ko "Sakin nga hindi ka ganyan, sabi iba ganyan ka $:-\$ " Well.

Kayo mga sis, how do you deal with it?

jamien · « **Reply #1 on:** November 16, 2012, 03:19:37 pm »

ako when i get jealous sinasapak ko si BF eh. haha pero in your case wag naman siguro. bantay bantayan mo na lang din si BF mo hulihin mo sa texts pero kung magalit siya pagpinakialaman mo, alam mo na na may something.

amethyst028 · « **Reply #2 on:** November 17, 2012, 10:04:41 am »

Quote from: erin1992 on November 16, 2012, 01:32:56 pm

Anong gagawin nyo kapag parang nakikipag-flirt si BF sa ibang girl/s?
Tipong madalas may "miss na kita" and other medyo pa-sweet stuff.
Sabi naman nya wala lang daw yun, he's just being friendly. Sakin naman, naiisip ko "Sakin nga hindi ka ganyan, sabi iba ganyan ka $:-\$ " Well.

Kayo mga sis, how do you deal with it?

sa relationship you have to know when to draw the line between flirting or just being friendly. in your bf's case he shouldn't be saying sweet nothings to other girls. clearly he doesn't have respect for you and your relationship.

ganito gawin mo, mag i miss you ka sa ibang guy or say sweet stuff basta yung mga ginagawa niya gawin mo kahit mag imbento ka lang ng guy. give him a dose of his medicine tignan natin kung hindi tumino iyan in no time. pag inaway ka niya sabihin mo you are just being friendly gaya niya.

Kady_14 · « **Reply #3 on:** November 17, 2012, 10:12:00 am »

If he's flirting with other girls, we'll baka nghahanap pa ng iba pa. hahaha.

Iwan na yan. lol

erin1992 · « **Reply #4 on:** November 17, 2012, 11:07:30 am »

Quote from: amethyst028 on November 17, 2012, 10:04:41 am

ganito gawin mo, mag i miss you ka sa ibang guy or say sweet stuff basta yung mga ginagawa niya gawin mo kahit mag imbento ka lang ng guy. give him a dose of his medicine tignan natin kung hindi tumino iyan in no time. pag inaway ka niya sabihin mo you are just being friendly gaya niya.

ok sanang gawin yan sis, kaso preggy ako (37weeks now), parang ampanget naman tignan,eh mamya ma-issue pa ko na may iba.
sya kasi hindi selosong tao, magselos man, tipong galit agad. nakakainis. ayoko naman ng away. $:-\$

Quote from: Kady_14 on November 17, 2012, 10:12:00 am

If he's flirting with other girls, we'll baka nghahanap pa ng iba pa. hahaha.
Iwan na yan. lol

sana nga hindi eh, haaay
iwan agad agad? hehe..

Clair de Lune · « **Reply #5 on:** November 17, 2012, 03:45:14 pm »

^tinatanong pa ba yan? haha she's right! iwan agad..hahaha

i don't know with you, but for me, a bf saying he's missing another girl? flirting? no way. di ko gusto ang ganyang stress.

ppperez · « **Reply #6 on:** November 17, 2012, 03:50:18 pm »

There is no such thing as 'wala lang' na flirting.

Girltalker2 · « **Reply #7 on:** November 18, 2012, 09:48:03 am »

Quote from: Kady_14 on November 17, 2012, 10:12:00 am

If he's flirting with other girls, we'll baka nghahanap pa ng iba pa. hahaha.

Iwan na yan. lol

agree. he is not worth your time. buti bf palang. mga lalaking ganyan prone to infidelity. kung magkatuluyan man kayo, hirap kaya na may lifetime kang binabantayan, para kang may pasan na kalbaryo habang buhay. drop him.

Kady_14 · « **Reply #8 on:** November 18, 2012, 07:30:25 pm »

Hahaha... yan kasi ang mentalidad ko sis. Know your worth, don't settle for less than what you deserve. Hindi ako sexy, maganda, head turner type. Pero alam ko how much I'm worth. You can ask my husband, alam nya na hindi na sya makakakilala ng kagaya ko.

Don't stress yourself, preggy ka pa naman pala. Are you sure he's flirting tlaga? Baka naman na-iimagine mo lang or baka dala ng pregnancy hormones. Kung pasaway talaga, iwan mo. Hindi porket buntis ka na eh mgtitiis ka na lang sa ganyan. Malay mo makakilala ka pa ng someone better and would value you.

GL!

erin1992 · « **Reply #9 on:** November 18, 2012, 10:13:11 pm »

Quote from: Kady_14 on November 18, 2012, 07:30:25 pm

Hahaha... yan kasi ang metalidad ko sis. Know your worth, don't settle for less than what you deserve. Hindi ako sexy, maganda, head turner type. Pero alam ko how much I'm worth. You can ask my husband, alam nya na hindi na sya makakakilala ng kagaya ko.

Don't stress yourself, preggy ka pa naman pala. Are you sure he's flirting tlaga? Baka naman na-iimagine mo lang or baka dala ng pregnancy hormones. Kung pasaway talaga, iwan mo. Hindi porket buntis ka na eh mgtitiis ka na lang sa ganyan. Malay mo makakilala ka pa ng someone better and would value you.

GL!

thank you sis! sa ngayon tinitimbang ko pa yung sitwasyon. minsan kasi naiisip ko baka nga dahil lang din sa pagbubuntis ko, pero ewan kasi. well...

hedonista · « **Reply #10 on:** November 20, 2012, 08:51:59 pm »

Hi sis i feel for you. I experienced the same when i was preggy di lang yan punypuntahan pa nya yung girl sa office. Imagine how crazy i got. But madaming tutulong sayo dito sa GT. u can get a lot of advice nasayo kung sini susundin mo. I learned here na you need to show him that the best life is with you.

May i know if youre married?

erin1992 · « **Reply #11 on:** November 21, 2012, 01:33:33 pm »

sa lahat ng mga nag-reply, THANK YOU MGA SIS!

@sis hedonista, well, sila naman... nagkikita sila minsan, pinapaalam din naman ni bf kapag ganun. we're not married yet, tapos hindi pa din kami nagsasama

(mahabang istorya kung bakit ganun) ayun po.

tomatostellar · « **Reply #12 on:** November 21, 2012, 02:23:39 pm »

try mo ligawan si bf

para di na maghanap sa iba..

snix · « **Reply #13 on:** November 21, 2012, 03:27:04 pm »

tama sila iwan mo na yan pag ganyan lol.. my bf he knows he cannot find another me.. ako lang ang makakatanggap sa kanya ng buong buo at sa kanya mismo galing yan..

sinabi ko nga sakanya na kung gusto niya makipaglandian sa iba bahala siya, hindi ako magdadalawang isip na iwan siya at lalong hindi ako natatakot mabuhay magisa..

we girls deserve better than that, preggers ka pa naman..

beach · « **Reply #14 on:** November 23, 2012, 12:28:04 am »

For me, let him go sis... better now than later, when you've invested so much of your time sa kanya. I learned sa previous relationship ko... it's no good hanging on to someone na hindi talaga okay... he will never change and you shouldn't just settle.

It's not important na wala lang sa kanya yun... he should desist since he knows it bothers you kasi he loves you. And if he is like that now na bf/gf pa lang kayo... what more when married na kayo? If he loves you, he should not only respect you as a person, but also respect your wishes.

ReservoirDogs · « **Reply #15 on:** November 23, 2012, 08:40:45 am »

Why is he flirting with other girls when his focus should be on you? You're about to give birth; hindi sya dapat nakikipaglandian sa iba. I just saw your past posts, and mukhang habitual cheater yung bf mo.

Naku sis, you're giving him the license to cheat on you. As what others have mentioned, know your worth.

h_mische · « **Reply #16 on:** November 25, 2012, 12:21:28 pm »

Quote from: ReservoirDogs on November 23, 2012, 08:40:45 am

Why is he flirting with other girls when his focus should be on you? You're about to give birth; hindi sya dapat nakikipaglandian sa iba. I just saw your past posts, and mukhang habitual cheater yung bf mo.

Naku sis, you're giving him the license to cheat on you. As what others have mentioned, know your worth.

naku kung ulit ulit naman pala eh iba na yan. akala ko isolated case. pero i understand kung hindi mo maiwan, may baby kasi kayo at iniisip mo kapakanan ni baby.

PERO kung hindi naman sya kawalan sa buhay mo at puro pagfiflirt sa iba ang ginagawa, dispatsahin na yan. tsk.

erin1992 · « **Reply #17 on:** November 26, 2012, 03:44:40 pm »

thank you sa replies mga sis! maraming salamat [textspeak!].

haaay, di ko na alam pano magrerespond. $:-\$
bukod sa magkaka-baby na kami eh mahal ko talaga sya, ayun ho.
pero syempre alam ko din naman kapag sobra na.

immy · « **Reply #18 on:** November 29, 2012, 01:13:15 pm »

Sis, if I were you, I will text the girl. I'll tell her to stop texting my boyfriend. Then bibigyan ko ng ultimatum si bf. Na kung maglalandi sya or lolokohin ako, lalayas ako at hindi nya makikita ang anak nya! Well, that's just me kasi ganun personality ko.

ayami · « **Reply #19 on:** November 29, 2012, 06:53:28 pm »

ui parehas tayo, ganyan din asawa ko nung buntis ako sa panganay namin AND mag bf-gf nga kami. Dala rin ng hormones ang todo selos ko at syempre nawalan ako ng confidence sa looks and body ko dahil preggers nga ako. Pero true, nakikipagflirt nga sya. Di nga lang texts, kundi pa-party party pa sa condo nila with matching inuman and di ako pinapansin for months. Tiniis ko lang rin kasi diba magiging mag-asawa na kami non (ikinasal kami nung 7 mos. ako). Ngayon ok naman na kami. Bonggang pag-aaway, sakitan, at pangongonsensya nga lang sa unang taon ng marriage namin. Actually, kung ako tatanungin, di ko talaga siya pakakasalan agad-agad. Pinilit lang ako e, alam mo na, typical naman sa Pinoy yung ganon.

Pero nasayo naman yan at sa sitwasyon mo, syempre. Yung prof ko sa college, matagal bago nya pinakasalan yung jowa nya kasi, naniguro muna sila kung sila nga talaga.

Good luck and have a safe pregnancy sis

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