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miss resilient

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How to deal with failure?
« on: November 10, 2012, 04:11:46 PM »
Ilang beses na itong pangyayari na ito na naulit lang nangyayari sa akin...every time na susubukin ko yun, kadalasan nag eend up lang ako into failure.

Minsan siguro, kailangan ko nang mag say goodbye na sa bagay na iyon kasi hindi lang talaga nagiging maganda ang idinudulot sa akin. I realized na totoo pala ang sinasabi nila na ... hindi lahat ng bagay na gusto mo..ay makabubuti sa yo.. :(

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Re: How to deal with failure?
« Reply #1 on: November 21, 2012, 04:30:19 PM »
^ Sis.. Ganun talaga ang buhay. You don't get what you want all the time. It's not always rainbows. There are also rainy days. Pero isipin mo na lang, everything changes. There is no such thing as forever, may it be success or failure.

Marami pang darating.. pagsubok lang yan :)

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Re: How to deal with failure?
« Reply #2 on: December 24, 2012, 01:15:03 PM »
If you fail at what is not morally right - count your blessings.
If you fail at reaching your dream/s --  try & try again.
Keep in mind that:  History repeats itself until The Lesson is learned. 

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Re: How to deal with failure?
« Reply #3 on: December 24, 2012, 01:43:14 PM »
sis, it's not the failure that counts, kungdi yung pag ahon mo sa sarili mo after nung failure.

in HIS time sis, God knows what's best for us.
A heaRt tRuLy in-L0vE neVer L0ses h0pe but aLways belieVes in the pr0mise of L0ve, no maTTer h0w L0ng the time and h0w faR the disTance

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Re: How to deal with failure?
« Reply #4 on: December 24, 2012, 03:02:05 PM »
Baka you're doing the same thing over and over again kahit alam mong you'll fail. Try a different strategy, process or whatever that applies to you.

(Er, I sounded like Einstein. Si Einstein ba yun? Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different result.)

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Re: How to deal with failure?
« Reply #5 on: January 01, 2013, 10:32:44 PM »
I've been through big failures in life din. I wanna share some insights that helped got me through.

First, as my fave quote says, enjoy the fun of failure! I cannot elaborate, basta so what if you failed at something, you'll get stronger, aahon ka rin from this failure. It will pass too, so don't worry so much.

Next, i learned from bo sanchez, sabi niya, being in a dark place is a blessing in disguise. Para siyang gold digging. Sa dark place, maraming gold, you just can't see it kasi madilim, you just have to keep digging. So being in a dark place, means maraming opportunities, you just have to keep trying.

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Re: How to deal with failure?
« Reply #6 on: January 01, 2013, 10:50:08 PM »
Failure is inevitable and sis just think of some successful people. Most of them have their own share of failure and look where they are now. Sabi nga ni Bo, pain can either make or break you. You just need to make a wise choice. So get up and be back on track! Good luck sis :)
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Re: How to deal with failure?
« Reply #7 on: January 01, 2013, 10:59:54 PM »
See failures as lessons in life.

miss resilient

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Re: How to deal with failure?
« Reply #8 on: January 04, 2013, 07:48:10 AM »
thanks for all the words of wisdom!

right now, i am re evaluating my self. bakit nga ba nagkakaganun?

in reality, nakukuha ko naman ang mga bagay na gusto ko (thru God's grace) pero bakit pag andun na ako...nakupo..i often end up in mess!

ito yung sinasabi ko na may mga bagay kang gusto pero di naman makabubuti for you. may nakukuha naman ako na di ko ganung gusto pero yun ang nagtutuloy tuloy....

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Re: How to deal with failure?
« Reply #9 on: January 04, 2013, 06:39:34 PM »
if you think you failed, get up and do something. or focus on other things that will do you good.
happy girls are the prettiest girls! ♥♥♥

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Re: How to deal with failure?
« Reply #10 on: January 21, 2013, 06:22:47 AM »
It's a normal thing. Talk to your friends. It will help.

miss resilient

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Re: How to deal with failure?
« Reply #11 on: January 25, 2013, 10:05:49 AM »
focus on other things that will do you good.

tama!

@shooting star..normal thing ba yun? nakakatuwa namang isipin di ako nag iisa.. :)

 

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