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Author Topic: sawa na ba talaga si BF sa single life?  (Read 682 times)

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sawa na ba talaga si BF sa single life?
« on: October 12, 2012, 10:40:29 PM »
Here's the sitch:

- BF and I have been together for more than two years now.
- Last year, namatay sa sakit ang mommy ng BF, na super close sa kanya. Dati nga akala ko mama's boy siya pero nakita ko kung paano alagaan ni BF ang mommy niya, kaya naintindihan ko kung bakit ganoon na lang ka-close ang mag-ina.
- I'm her very first girlfriend (note: NBSB siya for 21 years). Ngayon, everyone around him, from his brothers, his sister, his relatives and friends urge him na mang-chicks. So much na last summer, humingi siya ng 'hall pass.' Bilang may tiwala naman ako sa kanya, pinagbigyan ko naman pero hanggang two months lang.
- Two days ago, na-mention niya sa akin na parang sawa na raw siya sa buhay binata, na parang gusto na niyang magpakasal, and so on. Ako naman, parang hindi ako naniniwala kasi (a) bata pa siya at 23, (b) hindi pa siya stable (full-time student siya sa law school), (c) may mga habits pa rin siya na hindi pa rin niya kayang mag-part. Pero ang primary reason ko ay dahil alam kong naniniwala pa rin siya (sa sinasabi ng mga nakapaligid sa kanya) na malulubos lang niya ang single life niya kapag nakapag-chicks siya.

To sum it up, the way I understand it, parang he wants to do more with his single life (that is, mang-chicks), otherwise, he is mulling his thoughts towards getting married? Medyo naba-bother ako sa ganitong sitwasyon, so help naman mga sis! TIA!

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Re: sawa na ba talaga si BF sa single life?
« Reply #1 on: October 21, 2012, 12:55:15 AM »
^ALam mo ba sis ang reason kung bakit gusto na nya magpakasal? You believe na hindi pa sya ready magpakasal dahil di pa sya sawa sa single life or sa pangchi-chicks as you have termed it.
Pero more than him, i think sis, problem mo rin yan kasi hindi ka pa rin ready magpakasal kasi mga law students pa lang kayo. at tama naman kayo.
Pero question,paano kung gusto na talaga nya magpakasal ready man sya or hindi dahil sa ibang rason na known to him. maybe,sobra syang nangulila sa mom nya and he wants a family that will fill up his life????
What will you do kung talagang gusto na nya pero ikaw hindi pa? Makikipag break ka ba?

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Re: sawa na ba talaga si BF sa single life?
« Reply #2 on: October 21, 2012, 12:13:19 PM »
^sis hindi kasi niya nababanggit yung mismong dahilan, basta nung time na yun sabi niya, 'parang gusto ko nang magpakasal pero hindi pa puwede...' ako naman alam ko yung reason kung bakit niya nasabing hindi pwede (yun ngang bata pa siya, hindi pa siya financially stable, etc.)

actually talagang na-confuse ako nung sinabi nya yung mga statement na yun. kasi alam kong may iba pa siyang plano, first of which is to become a lawyer nga. at sinabi rin niya noon na gusto niyang maging financially stable bago siya mag-asawa. tapos wala pa siyang sinabing reason kung bakit gusto na niyang magpakasal.

or siguro talagang confused ako dahil nga hindi pa ako ready magpakasal. alam ni BF yun. pero hindi ko maiwasang maisip na baka confused lang si BF kaya niya nasabi yun. hindi kaya?

 

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